iamdurent:


Thanks dear. I've learnt to accept and love myself.

Homophobic comments dont shake me as much. I live my life how it deems fit to me and care less bout what others talk.

I'm happy for you then

foolinlove:
Much love to you @iamdurent

I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right.

I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison.

You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

how are u? U seems to be avoiding me or is it my imagination?

Anyway how are u?

Blackfire:



how are u? U seems to be avoiding me or is it my imagination?

Anyway how are u?

I replied your pm! I am good. How u doin?

foolinlove:
Much love to you @iamdurent

I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right.

I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison.

You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

Hello dear, I don't mean to be devoid of empathy but homosexuality in my own opinion is not really tantamount to being blue eyed

What if homosexuality is a mental illness? I hope you know that it has not been scientifically proven that homosexuality is not a mental illness. Homosexuality came to where it is now in the America and other parts of the world due to intense pressure from the gay community.

I hope we will not be doing them more harm than good if we totally neglect the fact that they may really be in need of our continuous research into scientific methodology that could alleviate their trauma.

PS: I am not really an homophobe and I have sympathy for lots of people in the world who are still being damaged, stigmatized, and disempowered by the pernicious system like we have here.

Domislaz:


Hello dear, I don't mean to be devoid of empathy but homosexuality in my own opinion is not really tantamount to being blue eyed

What if homosexuality is a mental illness? I hope you know that it has not been scientifically proven that homosexuality is not a mental illness. Homosexuality came to where it is now in the America and other parts of the world due to intense pressure from the gay community.

I hope we will not be doing them more harm than good if we totally neglect the fact that they may really be in need of our continuous research into scientific methodology that could alleviate their trauma.

PS: I am not really an homophobe and I have sympathy for lots of people in the world who are still being damaged, stigmatized, and disempowered by the pernicious system like we have here.

It was once classified as a mental illness, but that was removed because there wasn't sufficient evidence to prove it is a mental illness.

Science works on the basis of proving a hypothesis. If the hypothesis is not proven, it does not mean the hypothesis has failed.

Example: scientists cannot prove definitively there is life in outer space. However, that doesn't mean there is no life in outer space. There have been several positive indications that life does exist in outer space, so people continue their research.

If you claim a hypothesis, you have the onus to prove it. All experiments done that hypothesise homosexuality is a mental illness have failed to prove the hypothesis. There has been no positive indication it *is* a mental illness. So research has stopped in all respected scientific communities.

There has been significant research that predominantly suggests homosexuality is a genetic trait. I can explain that more if you'd like.

I'm sure you already know the definition of mental illness. An illness of the mind that causes an inability to function normally.

Homosexuals function normally, their homosexuality does not inherently affect their human function. What does affect homosexuals is society - and those societal expectations can cause homosexual people to develop mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety.

It's really sad. My heart goes out to anyone suffering because of this. You are normal! Just different. Like everyone else.

masonkz:


loool. Thanks jare.

How are you and your gf?

GF is doing well for herself, I don't know about me

But we're good, great actually

foolinlove:


It was once classified as a mental illness, but that was removed because there wasn't sufficient evidence to prove it is a mental illness.

Science works on the basis of proving a hypothesis. If the hypothesis is not proven, it does not mean the hypothesis has failed.

Example: scientists cannot prove definitively there is life in outer space. However, that doesn't mean there is no life in outer space. There have been several positive indications that life does exist in outer space, so people continue their research.

If you claim a hypothesis, you have the onus to prove it. All experiments done that hypothesise homosexuality is a mental illness have failed to prove the hypothesis. There has been no positive indication it *is* a mental illness. So research has stopped in all respected scientific communities.

There has been significant research that predominantly suggests homosexuality is a genetic trait. I can explain that more if you'd like.

I'm sure you already know the definition of mental illness. An illness of the mind that causes an inability to function normally.

Homosexuals function normally, their homosexuality does not inherently affect their human function. What does affect homosexuals is society - and those societal expectations can cause homosexual people to develop mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety.

It's really sad. My heart goes out to anyone suffering because of this. You are normal! Just different. Like everyone else.

I must say I am impressed. If I were a pervert, I would have jerked-off on this post.

I once knew a lady who had this sort of aura. She frequently indulged in delighting the senses as well as exciting intellectual and emotional admiration.

I just hope that you are not her because she eventually broke my heart.

Perseus:


Ur struggle is real.I can relate.
But then again,'fate' is not the answer.Lest ur gonna be alone for long...(And I'm not tryna compound ur problem here)
Believe me...there's ways.

iamdurent:
ways?
what type of ways?

I cant think of any.

Maybe u cud be of help?

Now,

I'm interested!

Domislaz:


I must say I am impressed. If I were a pervert, I would have jerked-off on this post.

I once knew a lady who had this sort of aura. She frequently indulged in delighting the senses as well as exciting intellectual and emotional admiration.

I just hope that you are not her because she eventually broke my heart.

Why thank you :-) I love to debate. But I also like to support human rights.

I can assure you I am not that lady and that we have never met :-)

masonkz:
Durentt I'm just seeing this thread of yours.

Instagram is enough platform to get all the gay guys you can, trust me


It goes down in the DM...

Can you school me how to go about it. Have been searching for love(gf) for a long time but haven't come across one. Want to give the Instagram a try.

pinkberries:


Can you school me how to go about it. Have been searching for love(gf) for a long time but haven't come across one. Want to give the Instagram a try.

Sign up on Instagram and refuse to connect your Facebook account to it. Follow lesbian and bisexual ladies on IG, DM the ones you like, comment on pictures, like and keep liking, but do not appear as a stalker. There are just plethora of yummy ladies on IG, it goes down in the DM

Lol

Works for everyone.

Safe.

DeCypherMe:



Now,
I'm interested!

While we both wait for perseus to come and Give tips.
why dont we just chat up.
So? how's life?

iamdurent:
While we both wait for perseus to come and Give tips.

why dont we just chat up.

So? how's life?

Life, life.
It's beautiful, I guess.

There's worries and everything. So like everyone its a mix of the good and not so good.

DeCypherMe:


Life, life.
It's beautiful, I guess.

There's worries and everything. So like everyone its a mix of the good and not so good.

Thats how it ought to be

hope the exams are fine.

iamdurent:
Thats how it ought to be

hope the exams are fine.

Exams oh exams, they've been better than I expected. There's been surprises though, but its been very good for me.


So how about life with you?

GSKing:


Sign up on Instagram and refuse to connect your Facebook account to it. Follow lesbian and bisexual ladies on IG, DM the ones you like, comment on pictures, like and keep liking, but do not appear as a stalker. There are just plethora of yummy ladies on IG, it goes down in the DM

Lol

Works for everyone


Safe.

Lol thanks doll

[quote author=GSKing post=47168111]

Sign up on Instagram and refuse to connect your Facebook account to it. Follow lesbian and bisexual ladies on IG, DM the ones you like, comment on pictures, like and keep liking, but do not appear as a stalker. There are just plethora of yummy ladies on IG, it goes down in the DM

Lol

Works for everyone.

Safe.[/quote)

Double post

GSKing:


Sign up on Instagram and refuse to connect your Facebook account to it. Follow lesbian and bisexual ladies on IG, DM the ones you like, comment on pictures, like and keep liking, but do not appear as a stalker. There are just plethora of yummy ladies on IG, it goes down in the DM

Lol

Works for everyone.

Safe.

babe how do I identify the lesbo and bi's

DeCypherMe:



Exams oh exams, they've been better than I expected. There's been surprises though, but its been very good for me.


So how about life with you?

All good and wonderful.

Just enjoying life while it exists. Lol.

iamdurent:
All good and wonderful.
Just enjoying life while it exists. Lol.

Yeah!
Gotta enjoy it.
So have you come out to anyone in your family?

DeCypherMe:



Yeah!

Gotta enjoy it.

So have you come out to anyone in your family?

No, i haven't.

But i guess my senior bro knows, he has seen my phone history on gay sites tho he hasnt confronted me yet
*sigh

I Dont think i'd tell anyone unless they ask me then KA BOOM i'd tell them.

what bout u?

iamdurent:
No, i haven't.

But i guess my senior bro knows, he has seen my phone history on gay sites tho he hasnt confronted me yet
*sigh

I Dont think i'd tell anyone unless they ask me then KA BOOM i'd tell them.

what bout u?

Not even going to try it.
They'll freak out!

Not that anybody talks about sexuality at home.
Its been over 3 years since I spent a full month at home, whew!

So it will remain my little secret till they figure it out, or stumble upon it.

DeCypherMe:



Not even going to try it.
They'll freak out!

Not that anybody talks about sexuality at home.
Its been over 3 years since I spent a full month at home, whew!

So it will remain my little secret till they figure it out, or stumble upon it.

I think its best to keep it a secret.
Like if you straight and you fvck a lady, you need not tell ur parent.
U dont need tellin dem u gay either

iamdurent:
I think its best to keep it a secret. Like if you straight and you fvck a lady, you need not tell ur parent. U dont need tellin dem u gay either

Sure. Who does that?
Like my bro, my mom be thinking he's a virgin. But he's got countless arse already lol.

DeCypherMe:



Sure.
Who does that?

Like my bro, my mom be thinking he's a virgin.
But he's got countless arse already lol.

So? how did u find out ur sexuality

iamdurent:
Today, I Quit Trying to find love and leave It to Fate to bring my love to me.
The same Fate that made me a gay man, the same fate that made me to be born into nigeria knowing fully well dat my sexual orientation would cause me to be lonely, devastated, isolated and discriminated against.

Don't get me wrong, Am not shy, I can go up to the guy i like and ask him out but excess Homophobia wont let me do that.
Today, I hear a gay guy was killed;
Tomorrow, i hear a gay guy was beaten.

Am afraid of hitting on the "straight" guy,


*sighs*

No gay bar,
No openly gay peeps.
No dating life, Online dating site like grindr isn't my kindoff thing!

Is this how life as a gay man ought to be?


I Leave it all to fate, i believe in fate to bring my significant other to me in the midst of all dis hate.

Okbye.

my brother, just commit suicide die go, your next world you will be created well...

PaulKillerman:
my brother, just commit suicide die go, your next world you will be created well...

Who is this one?

Gerrarahia mehn

pinkberries:

babe how do I identify the lesbo and bi's

really wish I had a bisexual wife like you, would have been organizing a 3some with her on weekly basis... That's one of my Mad fantasies, would you mind that?

PaulKillerman:
my brother, just commit suicide die go, your next world you will be created well...

Same to u, fool

DeCypherMe:



Who is this one?

Gerrarahia mehn

I'm out already, this place is not my thing...

iamdurent:
So? how did u find out ur sexuality

Posted on the diary...

how about you?

PaulKillerman:
I'm out already, this place is not my thing...

Good for you perv, "bleep them like chicken"