₦airaland Forum

sanpipita:
But you must admit there are single parents who have done better job than a couple as a unit? some kids with a mother and daddy will also tell you one of them wasnt there for them, theres no definite manual in raising a good home.

TRUE... but then lets look at the rates....

Na god create this one?? see how her lap just join to her waist no nyash at all

hollah123:
so Na cos of ball u dey curse your generation like this.all this iPod youth self Wetin dey worry u.na y dem dey kill u b dis now,u with your Spelling's up there it's obvious u are from there n d last time I checked am entitled to my personal opinion.e just dey do me like make I see u right now I swear down if to say u dey my reach now u will ever regret coming to this world.d guy I quoted responded like a sane individual.now I know say if them dey kill u people dem justify am die.whats my biz with Messi who is getting paid.

E PAIN AM

sanpipita:
My take here is there's nothing dysfunctional abt baby mamas or baby daddies, we are in a age people have different ways to living and you can totally call it dysfunctional atleast if it works for them, as long as these kids are taken care of, I don't see the issue.

most people think taken care is only money... One part of that child is missing ... at least i have heard several about several ladies being victim of men and the excuse they always give is my father was not there for me... and guys saying almost same things.

KanwuliaExtra:
There are some situations that are not in YOUR control. How do you deal with matters you can’t control?

You talk about “personal responsibility”!
Well there! How do YOU talk about personal responsibility for situations that are not YOURS?

Do you have the resources or authority to deal with matters that concern others?

If you set up an NGO, and advertise your concerns, goals and preferred solutions to those CONCERNED. . . . you may have some luck.
Is your audience on NL?

Till then, you are just writing for the sake of writing.

No! I nor join o. Not my gaddem BIZZ!

definitely not ur bizz until you become a victim of one of these children raised this way.... then YOUR GOD will remind when u said its non of ur BIZZ

Sirjamo:
My mum can never constitute herself into a public nuisance, I can't say the same for yours!

Else she would have been bundled back to the village abi ... Little wonder your mom don't dare come out of the house else she would have received a BUNDLING TREATMENT ... "YOU BAMBASTIC ELEMENT"

somehow:
The one he did yesterday and the one the vice has been doing are what? fifa 2018 match commentary? you only want to hear what you want to hear. Until we realize that politics is being used to kill people, it will continue. not like the killings just started, been like this for more than 20 years, just that the media has now made it a religious/ethnic issue instead of what is majorly the cause (politics)

more than 86 dead yet all the president could do is to make comments via TWITTER... sorry for u

Sirjamo:
Her useless red card movement is not working, now she wants to form one woman army. I don't think this woman has any child that can be sensible enough to bundle her to her village.

wow!!! was that how ur mom was bundled ehya poor old woman

hollah123:
don't mind them,they talk as if Na only them get God.so other countries don't have God abi? because Ahmed musa did a game wonder,comedians who call themselves Nigerians are now equating him to Messi.argentina go too beat us

you be fool o.... all this messi asslickers ... even Elijah for bible talk am call on the ur god and i will call on the name of mine he he wey answer get the day make argentina call there own god na...... fool olodo oloriburukun nwerey. because of Ordinary messi... see how Rakitic em friend and team mate use mark bone to bone u wey no dey get even shi shi dey open dat ur mouth wey look like baboon nyash dey talk

Osinowoosibanjo:
A lot of people dont understand what a budget is. They think a budget is for a single man or woman. The barber in questions think is only buharis hw will be cutting. Does he knw how many people living in aso rock?. Let us trade our words softly.

As in FG pays for the haircut of everyone residing in aso rock? pls make me understand

phreakabitoo:
I am not an Anambra man, but I am Igbo and Anambra na Igbo land
Kudos and big ups to Onitsha...

IGBO AMAKA

springtech:
The last time i checked, i am still entitled to my opinions. And of course i just exercised my civic right of feeedom of speech.
Be warned. The next time you quote me. I declare Thunder from Amadioha joined with lightening from hell be sent tp destroy everything you ever worked for that makes you happy.
How dare you insult my personality.
Do i know you?
Have i ever crossed your path.
You foolish product of fornication.
It would have been better the sp**rm that produced you was spilled to the ground.
Nonsense.

Evil befall you. Shame and affliction will never depart from your tent.
Peace and shame become your companion.
Mention me again and see what falls on your big rounded empty skull you call head.
Nonsense.

CHINEKE!!!

totit:
Shm
2003

Anyways,ibadan beat enugu, owerri hands down

where for ibadan una go just dey ibadan is a typical slum.

EvilMetahuman:
shut up


Anambra is the only ibo state with meaningful development in South East.

Rest are shitholes.

my brother common owerri is finer than all sw states apart from lagos, na ekiti?, osun?, oyo? ondo? ogun try small sef this lagos is really deceiving this afonjas... once u call yoruba the only place na lagos lagos lagos lagos

Antoeni:
IMMEDIATE REMOTE CAUSE OF THE CRISIS IN PLATEAU STATE

I was able to contact some of those people living in Barikin Ladi to hear the exact genesis of the killings. A residence of that area by name unknown told me that, Three herdsmen where coming back from Bukuru market heading back to Barikin ladi inside a Pickup vehicle, He said Some youth likely to be Berom by tribe blocked the road at Heipang at about 7:00pm and killed three fulani's, they burnt their car and one cattle in the pickup.

That is the Immediate reward cause of the killing that laid to death of over 200 people and Properties worth Millions of Naira.
My Question, How is PMB the cause of what happened there?
Remember,in a State the Governor is the chief Security officer,His First sole Responsibility is to protect the Lives and Properties of his people,
PMB Has nothing to do with killings in their various States,
Governors should take charge

have you ever read the nigerian constitution before about handling the military and para-military institutions i nigeria? dont think so because if u have, then u ll knw that governors are mere money sharers in this country. governor that cant control common CP of police except through bribery...

davillian:
Well said brother, but the ones who comes just for the money, I just smash them for some months and dump them without any hard feelings.
But there is this good girl I've been chasing for like six months but she refuse to into a relationship with me. Its obvious she likes me but still can't figure out why she still doesn't want us to date and she single

all i can see here is KARMA....!!! no hard feeling bro enjoy urself

CeeKay17:
Asking for sex is not wrong, my point is guys act like girls are doing them a favour by giving them sex or going out with them.
And to be honest, if both of us are enjoying the food or the hotel, why can't Naija girls offer to contribute to the bills once in a while?
Why does the man have to pay for every single thing all the time when we're both enjoying each other's company?

my brother ask the girl to take u out dont be surprised she will and wont break a sweat... she wants u to ASK. few girls i have spoken to about this issue always feel the guy might feel emasculated which is always the case. we guys want to always show... that ur g.f one day just jokingly tell her to take u out if she is matured enuf she definitely will and dont see it as a big deal when she takes u out bliv me that outing will be ur best ever..... JUST ASK ASK ASK ASK ASK ASK ASK ASK.... am talking about ur girlfriend nw not just any random chick mk wetin she buy for u no purge u oooo... u understand nw

... there is this notion i got from my parents which: BOTH WERE ALWAYS GRATEFUL TO EACH OTHER FOR ACCEPTING THEMSELVES.. DAD ALWAYS THANKED MOM FOR ACCEPTING HIM AND MOM WAS ALSO GRATEFUL FOR ACCEPTING HER....But this our generation guys think they are doing ladies a favour for being with them and ladies also think same way... my brothers and sisters u know deep down in ur heart that when he/she is not around u fill empty U fill unfufilled... if God come now say he wants to remove all the girls in this world guys go cry blood and the other way? girls go weep. So guys stop all this DOING HER A FAVOUR ATTITUDE and ladies stop this ur DOING HIM A FAVOUR ATTITUDE.

As a guy u dey feel playboy breaking hearts like say u be hammer.... one day u go see girl wey go melt ur heart and u go literally kneel down for he so stop this ur macho attitude. women are naturally designed to be bread eaters if u no want woman to eat ur money then wait till u marry dont expect WIFELY duties from her.

LADIES MEK UNA RESPECT UNA SELF SMALL KWANU... UNA DON SPOIL THE ESSENCE OF THE WOMAN FINISH JUST SMALL REMAIN GOD HELP UNA SHA

CeeKay17:
Is it not both of them that are enjoying the sex? Society has made us believe girls are doing guys a favour by having sex with them, when in reality, girls enjoy sex even more than guys.
That how a gown-ass dude will be begging a girl to go on a date with him, SMH, date that he will still be the one to foot all the bills.

who go enjoy the food and the hotel una go go? both of you!!!!... my point here is who is doing the asking. if the ladies enjoy sex more than guys then we should wait till they ask for it ... but no we wont. we go dey shake as if that third leg go loss if she no give us. bros make i ask u : YOU AND UR G.F WHO FIRST ASK FOR SEX? be truthful

both guys and ladies get their own SCOR-SCOR.... guy never date girl up to one week em don dey ask for SEX... ladies on their own part don dey ask for money... ALL OF US carry something for mind enter relationship when the other party ask for em own share u go dey complain ....
two incidents on same day changed my perspective about relationship... my room mates in final year chukwuma and prince (not their real names).
1.) Prince came back and was bragging about how she dated a girl and dumped her. This girl really loved him and even shared her upkeep money with him. Prince' reason was that this is final year and everybody go soon split so mission accomplished. This girl came to me crying that after everything this is how prince wants to treat her. me sef shame catch me. the one wey pain me pass be say she lost her virginity to him.... Prince no even send her cry sef.

2.) that same day in the night chukwuma came back looking like hungry rat... i asked whats the matter all he could mumble out was AFTER WHAT I DID FOR THIS GIRL. the girl said it is over just like that... sometimes only chukwuma hold cash yet we go dey hungry because of sophia.



Believe me that night my head spin ...... i was like NA LIKE THIS E BE?... the sharpest person wins the day

After all the looting of sani abacha , dem still name stadium after him.... Nigerians we're still in slavery

Deltatoto:
i put it to u that u are an ashawo

you are s product of ashawoism....that's y u can detect one from afar. Intact ur daughters have started the profession already... And I think ur grand daughter will be greater than their mothers

Deltayankeeboi:
okay sir but i think it's utme not ume

then he might not be wrong, coz most matured persons wrote UME not UTME... U might not understand the rigours of going through medical school... But I pray for ur unborn children to be doctors practicing in Nigeria.. Thanks

bankylan:
lol......Over 200 Russians mercenaries were killed recently in Syria by the US force...Russia dares not to respond.
I am sure you will leave for US without farewell to family members.......and I am sure Russia isn't an option for you.

If not for America, you wouldn't have access to internet. What has Russia given the world?

Mention one Russian global company that has impacted the world. After the Korean war of 1953, North Korea aligned with China and partly with Russia, South Korea aligned with US and the west with US having thousands of soldiers in South Korea......This is 2018, South Korea has given the world Samsung, LG, Hyundai, Kia, Daewoo and many more....they live in prosperity and abundance. But North Korea has become a hell on earth........Give it to the Americans.........If you know the story of world war 1 & 2, you will appreciate the roles US has played in maintaining peace in the world. If not for the US, nations like China and Russia would have probably come here to pick to work in farms and factories in their countries.

my brother... Till tomorrow power in the hands of USA is far better than China and Russia... Those people are real conscienceless

kpaofame:

America and Warfare...

They love war, and hence preparing for all possibilities,

Hauwei and ZTE sorry oo... Africa Market is open for you to dump any device...

if u knw how many countries are looking for their downfall then u will understand why they suspect everything.

In as much as I disagree with Amanda about this issue..... I must say that the thousands of years through which men used women as rags is really bouncing back on us... Should I call it KARMA.. Most men really abused their leadership role and this nonsense feminism is the result.

philip0906:
Very myopic thinking. Big brother naija is a show that wasn't forced on anyone. There are dozens and dozens of channels on the cable TV to choose from,same as dozens and dozens of topics,threads and boards to choose from here on nairaland.
How much did Nigeria loose as a result of big brother nigeria? How many people stopped going to work because of big brother? How was Nigeria impacted negatively because of big brother? Did the economy take a hit?
Big brother is and will not be the reason why we are in a mess. Enough of the hypocrisy

I understand your very intelligent write up but at same time know that everybody is not you... Levels of understanding differ. this message is for some set of people that don't even cook food again because of bbn... In my neighbourhood you need to see what bbn has done to these people. At a point I even became irritated.

talk2percy:
Buhari's child Zara Is paying over 12million naira as school fees developing her future and Career.*Jonathan's Children 've been moved to London for studies and residence while Developing their career and living In Affluence.....*Atiku Abubakar's Children are abroad schooling....*Tinubu's Children are abroad schooling and Living in Affluence,they are all developing and investing in their children to Continue to rule Us after they are gone.....You are there as a Jobless graduate wearing APC and PDP Customized Vest and Polo, Chanting"Change" holding Brooms and Carrying Umbrellas chanting "Transformation"Killing yourself, fermenting trouble and Constituting nuisance to the Society because of Peanuts that can't make you a better person...... *Stop being a disgrace to your Discipline, Stop Wearing APC Vest and Carrying PDP Umbrellas Because that is the Wish of Politicians for You...* They Know If you have a good Job, they Can't Use you as a thug / Propagandists . *If Buhari will Not bring all his ten Children to the street for Campaign and Jonathan will not bring his Children and Blood Brothers to the Street for Campaign,then you are a disgrace to your family If you don't Stop masquerading yourself as PDP and APC agents*, because up till now, I have never seen Buhari 's Children and Jonathan's Children On the Street wearing APC Vest and holding Brooms, neither have I seen Jonathan's Children carrying the PDP Umbrella even On social media let alone on the Street.... *To whom brain is given, Sense is expected!* _Just Vote. No violence_. Spread the news!
#Say no to violence
#Our Mumu Don do.
Pls be wise youth.

the blessing wey go follow , God still dey Cook am e Neva don when e don u go knw.... My bro God bless u

smyo:
Is that the payment of 5000 for jobless youth? okorocha will still Rig his son in-law in 2019. I could remember 2015, this IMO people are shouting okorocha we know. well enjoy the offer as it last abeg

he lost the election it was court that put him there.... Ihedioha won..so jux stay calm we are waiting for his son in-law nwosu or nwa-osu I don't care

Doyin2:
This guy is really frustrated.

Meanwhile Buhari was appointed to champion the fight against corruption in Africa.

Corruption fighting back verociously in different forms.

GoodGovernance please ignore this chap.

His likes believe strongly that only those that abuse and insult their leaders are the ones asking for good governance and accountability.

the bottom line is .... What buhari said is it good for our image.. Mehn I'm becoming confused about this buhari

Who is abiola sef.... The man that paid for a ship of bible to be sunk Mtcheeeew by now devil go dey roast em nyash for hell fire......nwerey

Teewhy2:
Nigeria a case of thieves collecting the money and another set of thieves catching the former thieves and keeping the loot to themselves.

Looters looting the looted from the lootee.

after this process the looters send the lootee to court with no evidence.. And thereby the lootee is acquitted.... The looter collects the looted and laughs with the lootee at the back door case close... Another process begins.