₦airaland Forum

Eketem:
Every adult male or female is capable of cleaning and earning a living, there is no help in a home, it is both your house how you both run it is your joint responsibility not help

If you have led a team before then you will know that no matter the unity and synergy within a team, responsibilities must be delegated to each team mate that must be held responsible if his/her department fails.... but the love and synergy among them will propel other team mate to cover for him or her... and when these[b] joint but shared responsiblities[/b] are carried out smoothly then the team (HOME) grows.... but then both MUST fall short at some point, there is where help comes. .... just to add this..... one thing that makes love grow in a home is the fact that a wife sees her husband HELPING where she feels she is falling short and the husband sees his wife helping where he is falling short. and I must commend you for being just the third person i am having a discussion with in Nairaland without leading to abuses. GRACIAS

Eketem:
You are an adult what is wrong with cooking and cleaning? Is it not your house? Is it not to the benefit of the family? The wife that returns home everyday and cooks nko? Is she not a human being?

Hope you read very well before attacking me?? ... anyways as for the cooking stuff i can, but not to take turns as if their is a time-table for it.... both parties have their Place of primary assignment... ladies in the home front and guys for the outside world... as a guy when my wife assists me financially i will definitely appreciate it not to make it look as if it is her duty becos thats my PPA... same thing goes around when i help her to carry out home chores it should be appreciated and never be taken for granted.. hope You truly understands this.... GODBLESS YOU

Eketem:
What is wrong with marrying a partner so one can share bills?

Not every man wants a wife that will take and take, some want working wives so they won't die from high blood pressure in this economy, share goals aspirations and grow together.

His only error was not discussing with her before marriage

bros will u cook together, wash together, clean togehter, tend for the kids together..... I dont understand how my fellow guys reason nowadays.... Just imagine that one day you come back home tired and your wife tells you it is your turn to cook today... Yes the woman has to be industrious to[b] HELP[/b] the man... Bro the way you dont have to tell your wife to cook for you that's the way you dont have to be told to dole out the funds... just dont go out of ur budget...
Bro pray for God to bless your hustle and he will bless you AMEN.

elmodee7:
SHUT UP IDIOT. most of the imports by ipob Criminals are substand fake goods, esp fake drugs.onitsha is a hub for fake drugs

at least codeine u took last week came form Onitsha abi?

OkutaNla:
Oodua till I d.i.e. I don't need to convince any Biafrat about that. Left to me this fraudulent contraption would end today. I believe Nigeria is living on borrowed time. I posit that in 5-years Nigeria may cease to exist.

although u insulted biafra no problem.... as long as u support the disintegration of nigeria then we are friends.....bawo ni?

Sourcethe:
Fall from upstairs in Bayelsa, taken to Portharcout for treatment. Nah wah. BUt happened to the multi million naira hospital Akpabio built in Bayelsa.

nna u sef.... akpabio go live akwa ibom go build hospital for bayelsa..

Offpoint:
N400 millions is too small for a bridge, how will a bridge of N400 millions last? Nigeria Government should learn how to pump out money into projects please... we are not running out of oil any soon. N25 billion for such a bridge is not too much.

They should budget at least $500 billion for the 2nd Niger Bridge so that it can last us at least 10 years.

you really cracked my ribs....

Uglymugg:
See who I ALMOST took seriously.

You should know that life is too short to take some matters seriously.... you sound intelligent though may be we can be having good discussions once in a while....GRACIAS

Uglymugg:
See who I ALMOST took seriously.

so sarcasm is not in your diction?? :

Abbeybailey:
You get a lot of guys who don't know a damn thing about America but they will come on Nairaland to exhibit their ignorance. There's a reason Obama won twice overwhelmingly both by popular votes and electoral votes. Plus no scandal in his eight years like the buffoon ruling us in America now.

nna send me visa na mk if follow u come SUFFER for there i like american suffering......

Uglymugg:
Enough for Obama to emerge winner.

ok then they should enjoy their victory....

Abbeybailey:
Obviously You know nothing about America's economy. When Obama came in on Jan 20, 2009, America was losing 700.000 jobs monthly due to George W two useless wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. Many blue chips companies were going belly up and Dow Jones came down to 6.000. Obama stemmed it and the economy was one of the best in recent America history which he handed over to Trump. Obama created more than 20 million jobs and he was greatly loved by Americans up till today hence his high approval number.

wow impressive.....

Uglymugg:
Burden of proof is on you buddy boyo. Prove that what your saying is right, lazy Nigerian

buhari should not hear u calling one of his citizen a lazy nigerian

Uglymugg:
Don't give a fxck about the other part of your post. You talk too much "would have, could have" when you don't even know how the future will pan out. So what are you implying by this quote? That only unserious Americans voted? Ahahaha ;Dhow would you even know that?

thats why i asked how many?

Uglymugg:
No mind those guys wey dey lick Trump Nash. I'm even a Trump supporter and I know he talks a lot of trash (that is if you're open minded) it's all politics. It will take more than a world war to crash the US economy. But some mumus will just open mouth shouting "crash crash" like say Americans economy dey as fragile as our own

google is your friend.... browse the number of production companies that left US to china, mexico and india Thanks.

manny4life:
Wonderful... Companies like?

Did you say the economy would have crumbled? How so?

from 2010 APPLE started production in china, dell moved, hp also moved, ford hated china instead went to mexico.... intel would have moved around 2015 but stayed back dont knw why....MAYBE they know trump will win the presidency. It reached its peak when furnitures and house wares in the white house were imported from china.... so when you hear trump shout make america great again... he knows what he's saying..... trump has his own SCOR SCOR... but i prefer him to Obama who only give motivating speech and sound rhetoric..

Uglymugg:
They are only 6% in America how could they win against the remaining 94%?

how many serious americans voted for this...... if obama stayed an extra 2 yrs in the white house USA would have been crumbling down economy wise... companies were living the US due to the porous manner their technologies were revealed to china and india due to poor foreign policies made by obama all in the guise of global peace..

wheeeeeeeewwww...... finally a good news from this govt after a very long time... congrats to them.

thesicilian:
A company that has been telling you there's no money suddenly goes to buy one super expensive mega star from abroad. That seems like a company that doesn't care about your welfare or that of your family. Though I am a big fan of Ronaldo, I support their strike. They should be well compensated.

these workers know say ronaldo purchase go bring money so they want their own share..... juventus shares rose by 17% due to rumors of ronaldo coming...

almajiri101:
High ranking my foot, he got the job through man no man tactics. I was once a corp member and i know the process.

This man is either incompetent or paid to fool himself around. Why would someone say exemptions are not done through application and only meant for above 30yrs?

Redeployment and exemptions are done through application and it has to be on genuine and convincing reasons

read very well.... you must be mobilised first then age factor then comes in to exempt you.... you cant apply for exemption or redeployment prior to exemption

bros u don do well greater heights awaits

Midastorch:
Just the way the PDP refused Amechi entrance into the government house in 2015.....karma, is a bastard.....

before or after election.... thank God whatsApp will soon checkmate spread of fake news hope nairaland follow suit

Lot13:
Fayose and its evil PDP gang does not have Monopoly of stupidity.

Is fire for fire!!

just listen to your self fire for fire in election!! anyway u have ur opinion

Iblad0994:
I think Gowon is the only sane ex Nigerian leader. The rest are just foolish like the Ipigs.

What amazes me is that the propagandists saying Buhari is the one behind the killing haven’t asked themselves this question “ What will he gain? “.

Is he going to be re-elected by killing his subjects, those of which voted en mass for him in the last general election. What exactly will he gain, when he knows insecurity in the country means he’ll lose supporters.

Anybody that goes about saying Buhari is behind these killings need to have their brain checked .

Although, he might have been tackling this in the wrong way , coz if left to me he should have sacked all the security chiefs.

If you have ever led a group before then you will know that there are some set of people u cant do without in that group... MIYETTI ALLAH is one of them... he might not be responsible but the people responsible are one of the untouchables.

GoTV:
The worst president we ever had is Jonathan. The looting under his watch was second to none. God bless Nigeria

let buhari leave office then we will calculate his with that of jonathan....... then we can judge....just look at how high profile corruption cases are swept under the carpet.... for fuel to still remain at N145 while they spend hundreds of billions everyday to subsidize fuel is the biggest corruption in nigeria's history... definitely Jonathan tenure isnt the best but for the first time since 1977 nnpc was created, external auditors were allowed to audit nnpc's account then were brought the shady deals brought to light. recently governors complained about nnpc yet that topic has gone under the carpet.... If buhari can allow external auditors to audit all federal account without influencing the outcome then you will know WHAT YOU DONT SEE IS WAY BIGGER THAN WHAT YOU SEE

sarrki:
Shut up

Middle belt you are referring to is Benue and plateau

Aside that tell me from your calculations where Pmb will not win there

When you guys talk of middle belt you make it sound as if the whole region is about Benue and plateau

kwara

PearlStreet:
Hahahaha
Safest place to live is the SE?

Just last week, an Igbo footballer was telling Mikel Obi to move his parents out of the SE as a matter of urgency for their own safety.

Go and sleep, no one is buying your lies here.

Nigeria as a whole is not SAFE.... but i prefer a place where they kidnap for money than
a place ravaged with boko haram, herdsmen cleansing and where MY SKULL is always a target.

omoiyalayi:
This guy shld watch it o

If they did not vote for buhari & buhari end up winning hmmmmmm

South easterner own go be child's play 4 dem body

He's nt supposed 2 be making noise sef he shld do it codedly campaign against him with d right alternative candidate

That's d way to go

from the bolded.. so the reason for voting buhari is fear of the unknown... and if u think the igbos are worst hit by this govt. sorry for u then...

PearlStreet:
It is very easy to finger an Igbo man's brain cos they are extremely gullible. Commit any kind of crime and when arrested, identify yourself with anything Igbo, they'll fall over themselves to defend you.

Remember how FFK deflowered Bianca and handed over the London used babe to Ojuku? They are eternally grateful to him for that.

Kemi Olunloyo the elderly lunatic was referred to as Ada Biafra by ipob piglets. It was when she exposed the folly of Biafra that they stopped supporting her.

GEJ messed Igbos up big time. He added Azikiwe to his name and adopted the slowpoke as their son. They claimed GEJ had fixed all the roads in the SE and almost finished the Second Niger Bridge. How, the roads they lied that GEJ fixed are causing accidents and killing Igbos, they're crying to Buhari.

These same lunatics were campaigning for the release of Evans when arrested for kidnapping.

In Ozubulu, they nearly killed the entire village. The targeted drug dealer gave them a few thousand naira and they've forgotten their dead parents and are hailing him. Mind you, if you cation them against this madness, they call you afonja, Aboki, saboteur,, etc.

This foolishness in worshiping criminals is what has made the SE what's it's become today.

from your post i can logically deduce that
an average igbo man is the most detribalized person in this country it is even other tribes in this country that is making an igbo man "tribe conscious". I am pretty sure u have even made this statement before Igbos are very disunited. and mind you what have south east become today??
most educated south east at the top.....
Poverty rate south east at the bottom....
rate of infections south east at the bottom....
safest place to live south east at the top... the only thing i know u re referring to is politics which i know even ur uncle that is a politician no send you.... just look at northern nigeria where most presidents have come from u cant compare them with south-east.... check out south-west only LAGOS.... yes we have our problems but never u try to demonize a whole tribe for some issues...

Edge1:
I just keep wondering what all those useless cone heads would have been saying if Adesina was from SE.

cone headed a$$ likers

they would have said same thing they said to okoroawusa.... or mrs. onochie..

Movic1:
This lady is mad. Just because we have crazy government doesn't make Nigerians mad.

sorry no vex ooo but a man that allows a crazy man to rule him is a what??