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ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. So he's actually in the Military?

Am a student in lagos state university.

mhizesther:
So after all the promise,u still went back to ur sin.. 90% of guys can't live without this thing

I sed dat same day like 2-3 girls again

MyNewJackeT:
A police man just bought my wife two jeeps, and I'm beginning to wonder if he's dating my wife,I had been sick for sometime and was hospitalized outside the country for three months.

I love my wife so much I met her when she was very young, but now I just realized that maybe she has been cheating on me.

how could she do this to me. this is a disgrace to me considering that I have bought her everything that she has ever asked me for.

I sued the policeman to court and he said the two cars that my wife is driving he bought it for her, and my wife has denied but he has shown proof, I don't know what else this policeman has done,it seems he's trying to blackmail her after making love to her while I was sick and hospitalized.

please what should I do now.

It is two Prado jeeps

Am quoting u to draw ur attention.
Let's not jump into conclusions early. D police man might want to just blackmail her to mak u leave her.
In my advice: if possible try seeing d police man in question face to face. U r a man. N confirm if he really had sex(not love making lik u sed. For Singles its sex, for couples its love making) and wat evidence as he to proof dat. Der u will know n from der u go to ur wife . Sit her down and talk to her. Ask her how she got d jeeps. Ask her so many things disturbing ur mind and confusing ur mind about her infidelity.
Wen done go to d hotels he normally takes her to. N confirm too. because for him to buy her jeeps it shows he is not just doing it, but constantly doing it.
Wen its confirmed dat she's bn cheating in ur absence. See her family and tell dem too. Discuss about ur next actions.
Run for ur life and divorce her. For this it is biblical. D bible frowns against infidelity in marriages and it even sed in infidelity if u wish u can divorce.

Let me share my own story back den.
Naso 1 waka waka girl for my barracks den de disturb me for dat thing. D girl get shape well. She came to visit me as per normal thing. Naso I rush dis girl do am without raincoat.
Let me remind u all dat two days before she came i had a terrible dream dat i was walking on d street and i was dead scared of HIV.
Well afta we do am sha, Naso dis fear set in o.
Now i am not joking here this is where it gets funny but real.
I started having funny funny worries about dat dream & about d fact dat I didn't use a raincoat d last time.
I lost my appetite to eat for over two weeks. I went to my aunt's place where I normally pass d weekend. My Aunt & my cousins saw me and complained about my sudden weight loss.
Naso i say God, dis dream Na true now ni abi Wetin. God abeg if i go do HIV test n na negative. I WILL NEVER HAVE SEX TILL MARRIAGE (for where, big lie).
D day i went to ASO CLINIC i saw people seated too. Say 4. She collected our blood samples and left. Came back after 20 minutes. Gave 3 der results which was negative & left. Naso my BP rise reach sky. I say, God is dis how my NDA dreams will just end like dis?. Ok God I promise i will never talk to any lady , except d lady a church designate for me to marry. God forgive me, am born again from now till d rapture comes.
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D lady came back with our results. Negative!!
U all need to c d speed i used to leave d clinic dat day. I took a taxi home, even gave d driver d change. I got home n ate well.
But I still had to bribe dis girl to go do her test too, because I wasn't sure yet.
NAIRALANDERS would u blive i bribed dis girl to go do her HIV test days after. She came back negative.
NAIRALANDERS i b criminal. She came back we still celebrated d whole thing with sex. I failed in my promises to God dat day. After she left i cald other girls. Dey showed up 1 by 1 n I showed dem d results & still had lots and lots of unprotected sex with dem.
Lets leave it dis way b4 oluwacypris1 go kill me for house.
Make i run.

dfrost:
No need arguing with some people. Russia make people believe what is not. There is a reason why US is a world power.

I hope d man is not judging d capability of Russia as USSR? I Just hope so. Russsia is no more USSR.

dfrost:
ToVictoriaZ no allow DonBobes deceive you .

Abah i b raw civilian o. Born again self wey neva sin since dem born me.

mysticwarrior:
you point is completely based on supposition, no nation on earth has more nuclear reserve than the Russians.

Google and proper research will solve this.

extralargehead:
Before nko?. Even Jesus said it that when the shepherd is struck, the sheep shall scatter.Who wants to die?

Dem no wan die.

My former duty location.
I was happy i served diligently. Even still willing to serve der but I can't

D man is. But wen its a bit complicated u both decide n d man makes d choice n picks d 1 he deems or feels ryt.

daveP:
Even helicopter images on the egyptian hieroglyphics. makes me wonder..

Just saw e now

daveP:
Even helicopter images on the egyptian hieroglyphics. makes me wonder..

Please post me d pix or link let me c to confirm too

Hope y'all know dat d architect of world war ii, HITLER was a corporal in d 16th bavarian regiment has a runner in one of the trenches where he was shot. He was given an award for this act of valor the cross he wears on his neck till he died.

ToVictoriaZ:
AlvanT and DonBobes, are you guys soldiers?

Guy u no try o
Y u go wake up my military history wey de sleep jèjé
U wicked wahalai gaskia

mysticwarrior:
and that's the same karma that awaits the US for the Hiroshima/Nagasaki atomic bombing, that is why they don't want to hear or see a nuke, but it should be noted that nemesis is inescapable.

Hope u know dat d USA as nuclear weapons dat can destroy d world 22 times over, Russia destroy d world 8 times over. Others I don't know

ToVictoriaZ:
AlvanT and DonBobes, are you guys soldiers?

No am a civilian.

peterphd:
Officer, I was thinking you'd be more ruthless. The woman has to go if I'm to judge by all he wrote.

Don't bring war to ur home. It will destroy all.
Everything about my job i drop at d door before i enta my house

Rozaytee:
@ op please and please divorce dat winch u call a wife before she kills u one day... no wonder a lot of people in Nigeria stay in abusive relationships and marriages cuz dey are afraid of divorce.... while u are busy trying to change her she may even kill u in d process.... marriage is to be enjoyed and not a war zone....

Divorce is not biblical i still reiterate.
Before marriage I thought divorce is a normal thing. But after seeing d consequences behind it, I eschewed it India mike mike

wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of sir mile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW

Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me

Quoting u to draw ur attention.
Don't divorce her o, it unbiblical. Change her derz nothing OMNI-EVERYTHING can't do. Pray!!!
But please don't divorce except u caught her cheating or committed Adultery.
Change her attitude.
Marriage is for better for worse. U should have prayed before marrying her.
Divorce is not my never my advice brother!!
Pray she will change

Well wen i was a soldier in brigade of guards and while in training in depot. We were told dat der is no noon or evening in d military but morning. Dat u don't sleep at all. Even at night wen d full moon is out for all to c self u say morning sir.

But NDA changed all dat!
We were told dat its because our forefathers believed ders no evening nor rest in d military.
Dat we should change dat fact. But for where!!!! We still de greet morning sir for night. Me i dey do am well well self. So long it has nothing to do with loyalty nor discipling.

uncleiykeman:
Its cos they are zombies, terrorist army of the zoo republic.

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Dev have started again with their LIES.
Bastards!

Ejytex:
Kanu jst dey use them for sacrifice

And we will b glad to send dem beyond wholeheartedly.

Stupid people, their eyes are opening up now. Idiots indeed.

kennypedia:
Sire if I may ask how did you cope with medical upon resumption? Is there no risk she is infected?

Coping with medicals in wat sense, I don't get u. Infection is if she doesn't use blanket wen doing it. And if d cadet doesn't use blanket too den he is a gonner or chelSLIP.

BeeBeeOoh:
Something is telling me to stand in front of a soldier and call him a soldier ant

Abeg

Afonjatribeguy:
Uselesss cowardly Zoo Army practicing they operation crocodile cry on innocent people. Ask them to fight Bokoharamms at Sambisa forest they will run away from the Army camp to start snatching of cars . USELESSS ZOO ARMY

Nawao

phemmyutd:
He should all tell us what he did them. Solders can't just pick on your way and start beating you, unless your village people are involved

Thank u

Originakalokalo:
That is not in the Bible.

Pls disregard it.

I know its not
He sed thru revelation n I don't c dat as bn wrong in any way

E b like say i go cut 5 here coz m really interested in dis story.
Mak i carry my sleeping materials Abeg

asuustrike2009:
The original rebellion was initiated by two angels of Lucifer called Belial and Leviathan. The two angels told Lucifer that he should be like God. The question Lucifer why should he work for God? And that he should be running things in the universe instead of taking orders from Yahweh. At first Lucifer declined. He refused to rebel against Yahweh. The lord casted those angels into hell for counseling rebillion,. This made Lucifer upset with God because they were his two closest friends. He told Yahweh that if he punished his friends he rather remain king in hell than to continue to be servant in heaven. Lucifer then left heaven on his own( at that time he wasn't casted yet) and went to hell to be with his friends. However, when he got there he didn't like the place at all. When he got there he realized that he had made a mistake rather than seeking for repentance and mercy he decided to fight Yahweh. Lucifer was able to convince 1/3 of the trillions of angels by appealing to them that Yahweh's government was unjust and dishonest. He told them that he would establish a better and more equitable government. He promised the angels greater positions of authority in the universe. Interesting Yahweh didn't interfer in what he plotted.he allowed them just as he gives moral beings the choice to choose. The battle started and there was war in heaven. The one third of angels fought together with Lucifer, Leviathan and Belial. They lost the battle and were thrown down to the earth.
You may be wondering how I got this? I got it through revelation, rhema

Now I see