No offence intended but you seem to come from a broken home for spewing this thrash.
"the right man will come.... Bla bla bla..... " Are all those who cannot handle her babbage simply the "wrong men"?
Marrying a single mom isn't an issue. The issue is the circumstances that led to her having a baby outta wedlock.
How come the op didn't tell us about circumstances that led to her having a baby out of wedlock?
nasha1: I dont like this place because of teenagers like u.Imagine the sheer ignorance in ur post. women don't choose? u are the deluded one.You mean any nincompoop can walk up to a girl and she will gladly accept his proposal? why then men always claim that girls are always after already made men? why are these women choosing the richer men than the poor ones? how then women reject men and they commit suicide? why then men kill women who want 2 leave them? are they not choosing?
women have as much option as men do, men do the chasing that is why it seems they have more options, women do the choosing because she must find something in u that will make her accept u, it can be ur pocket, ur level of education,ur look and many more.A broke guy can not just walk to buhari daughter and say i want 2 marry u and she will accept,according 2 u she will marry him. smh at this kind of reasoning.
it is just unfortunate we live in this side of the world where many men are educated illiterate and think women are poo.Those men rejecting her are not even up to the standard of a single girl with no baggage, some girls will reject them too.We have so many fools and lazy bums who call themselves men, many live off women but it's always women that are after money.How many married men can categorically say they take care of their home 100% without the wife contribution? Some men dont even know what is like paying school fees.
8. Expect less from others especially women. "Do not assume, rather you anticipate" - General J. Krantz.
9. Focus on loving your family members and get them gifts no matter how little. In all honesty, that debit alert you just got on a transfer to a lady is a loss on your personal finances.
1. Guys I repeat, do not sleep with a girl at her place. Do it in a your place or a hotel. A girl's place could also be her man's territory. I'm also guilty of this.
2. Love with your head not with your heart. Emotional wreckage can bring down a strong man.
3. That honey pot doesn't belong to you alone. It's just your turn.
4. Focus on your career and not a woman. I wasted a chunk of my life trying to win over a girl's heart. Since I became focused, a good number of ladies have been begging me for serious commitment. I'm yet to choose, just nacking for now
5. Set limits and threshold for emotional breakdown. In my field. Know when to let go and walk away. Only strong men do so. it's called "early warning system".
6. Double date. Yes please. I'm dating 3 ladies and other options are on the table.
7. Talk to close friends and allies. Sharing with other matured persons can help a great deal. I reiterate, don't underestimate the power of woman to pull down a supposed man.
Here's a video of a detailed account of the battle of the bulge. This campaign was personally conceived by Hitler himself and the United States forces bore the brunt of this offensive.
Apologies ma'am. I've never met any woman knowledgeable in WW2 history.
Missy89: And who the hell are you to tell me what thread a can go to is that an argument?
Monty's big failure in market garden alone is enough to put him on the list of overrated generals in ww2. Even when he defeated Rommel in El Alamein, he had overwhelming numbers and tanks.
Rommel's initial success got into his head.... I mean the desert fox thingy after he pushed the allies to as far as Egypt with his overwhelming firepower.
Monty carefully studied Rommel's strategy and countered him. Rommel had the respect of everyone cos he was a humane officer....
Missy89: And who the hell are you to tell me what thread a can go to is that an argument?
Monty's big failure in market garden alone is enough to put him on the list of overrated generals in ww2. Even when he defeated Rommel in El Alamein, he had overwhelming numbers and tanks.
From street to corporate offices and open marketplaces, it's not strange to find single and unmarried ladies having sexual affairs with married men....
But why do hell let loose when single guys sleep with married women?
Just yesterday, a married woman bluntly told me she want me to sex her cos her hubby is out of town. I can't paste the screen grab of the whatapp chat due to privacy concerns.
The fuhrer was just obsessed about Staningrad prolly cos of Stalin. Truly the Soviets are fanatical especially displayed in the Battle of Stalingrad. Do you know that during the Battle of Stalingrad, the life expectancy of a Soviet solider was 24 hours?
bigrovar: The general misconception is that Germans lost to the Russian winter. i.e Russian winter played the biggest role in the Germans losing out to Russia. This is not true. Yes the Russia winter played a role but the biggest reason why Germany lost to Russia was due to Hitler's sense of invisibility, isanity and extreme arrogance. Germans went into Russia believing they were in for a swift victory the likes experienced in Western Europe. They considered the Russian to be of a lesser class of people who would surrender in droves under the Blitzkrieg. They expected to to be home by Christmas (a 6 months campaign)
This arrogance made the Germans commit the following tactical error:
Started the campaign without preparing for the Russian winter: The men had no winter clothing, their hardware had no provision for coping with the russian winter.
They completely under estimated the fanatical defends of the mother russia by the Russians who in many instances fought to the last man.. This type of resistance was alien to the Germans who were used to mass surrender once a you outflank and surround an army.. it is suppose to just give up and surrender. The Russians choose not to play to that script and instead fought with the skin of their teeth even when all hope seems lost. Germans often find themselves surrounding and then having to take out the Russians from every inch of land leading to very high attrition from the former.
No room for reserve, Arrogance allowed the Germans to throw in all they had.. because they were assured of victory, they made no room for reserve. Stalin on the other hand used his reserve very well. Unleashing them on the wary Germans time after time at just the perfect moment.
Badly trained and equipped flanks. The Germans rear guard and flanks were often guarded by poorly trained, ill motivated and equipped Hungarian ally. The Russian on many cases especially in the battle for Stalingrad concentrated their fire power on the German Hungarian flanks.. decimating them with their multi rocket launcher before encircling the 6th army (Germany never recovered from that loss)
Hitler's insanity halted the German advance on Moscow, allowing the Russians enough time to prepare a defence. Many German general would go on to say Moscow was the beginning of the end for the German eastern campaign.
Also Hitler's obsession with Stalingrad, a city with zero strategic value but sucked in lots of men and resources which should have been heading towards the more strategic oil fields of baku.. Hitler insanity was in full display when he ordered the 6th army not to attempt to break out of their encirclement even when the opportunity arose. Promising to supply the troops by air.
Even at the battle of the kursk Hitlers delay and constant postponement allowed the Russians to have time to a well laid out plan.
in all these Winter role was just an enabler for the Russian's
Oh it was Napoleon Bonaparte that led a powerful French invasion force in the 1800s but was stalled by the Soviet harsh winters...... History always repeat itself
Defaramade: Germany was victorious against the western European powers (except Britain) but Hitler made the same mistake that Napoleon Bonaparte made almost a century before him; invading Russia
bigrovar: Yes o.. western writers would have us believe that WW2 was about western Europe when in fact the campaign in the east made the western campaign look like a mere street brawl. The type of savage fighting and battle of attrition that took place in places like Stalingrad, Leningrad, Rzhev (Known as the meat grinder) was a complete far cry than the almost gentleman campaign in Europe. Some of German most battle hardened men fought in the east. The guys who fought at Normandy, and led the Ardenne offensive were relatively green and inexperience compared to the guys tired down in the east.