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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:27am On Mar 25, 2017 |
StarBukola:can we talk on whatzapp? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:28am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Mimzyy:No na, I think people misunderstand the message. What I simply wanted to say is that she should be ready to expand her requirements as most young single guys would rather go for girls without kids than someone with. BTW some guys even narrowed theirs to girls with virginity intact. That's not to say it's impossible to meet her spec though |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:28am On Mar 25, 2017 |
teebillz:i was only 18 then. After giving birth he said if wasn't ready for marriage, and since you can't force a man to marry i had to go back to my mum. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ayindejimmy(m): 11:28am On Mar 25, 2017 |
maasoap: Different strokes. There's no love can't overcome |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chigoizie7(m): 11:31am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: 1st of all, accept urself, be proud of ur child and urself, Wetin don happen don happen. Once u start flaunting ur child and urself as a single mum, trust me, men will come into ur life and will want to stay, because they know it all b4 venturing into the relationships. It is always a problem when I try to hide it in the beginning and then come out later. B4 u go into any relationship, make sure all those secrets that can't be hidden for long are known by ur partner, with that it will enable him know what he is going into. Best of luck as u find ur rib. Giving birth outside wedlock is not associated with leprosy, it is a blessing in disguise , but that is only when we know how to handle our lives, make decisions and stand by them 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Toks2008(m): 11:32am On Mar 25, 2017 |
N1one:Good boy |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by divinelove(m): 11:32am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: A woman with a child na second hand be dt nw I had to drop one nt long ago BC @ her 30 I was shocked when she told me dt D 11yrs old girl with her mum is her child painful but dt was d end. Anyway u can still see a widower, divorcee, single father or 55 plus bachelor if u r gainfully employed. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:33am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Bigsteveg: Alright,no vex o |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Anglovel: 11:34am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Enlarge your scope of relationships to European men and within two months you will be happily married to the man of your dreams and my sister in her fifties who is a single mother to five grown children was swept off her feet by a European man four years her junior and a divorced father of a daughter!!!!!! Please don't hesitate to try dating online with European and always tell them the truth and they will appreciate you more, All the best in your search for a life partner You are dating wrong people.U need 2 open up to a range of people even those u think are not ur spec.I bet all these men you are dating are within your age grade and not ready 2 settle down.There are a lot of single dads out there and divorced men too, give everyone a chance and stop being choosy.All these babymamas out there didn't impregnant themselves,the babydaddies are responsible for that.[/quote] |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:34am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: Yours will come.. Most men believe a child complicates things in a relationship... Meaning they don't come first... Because men are like kids they never want to share that position hence u see men having issues with their kids when mothers give more attn to their kids than they do their husbands.... But the truth is your child comes first... And u shouldn't have to get any man... They can either take u both as a packaged deal or not take u at all... My advice talk about ur child from the very beginning so they know u have one before they even start making advances ... That one person who will take you for you will stay |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by egbabiekperemo1: 11:35am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chigoizie7: U started well but ended by talking rubbish. . How exactly is having a bastard child out of wedlock a blessing in disguise? Pls stop consoling the O.p for her fuu*ck ups... she fuucked up so she must bear d consequences. Qed |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:36am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Jimi23:help me ask am . |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by bewla(m): 11:36am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:I took time to look ur dp if u are really the one affected then they are not good for u if they are they will stay how I wish I HV some one like u |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by samuelson06(m): 11:37am On Mar 25, 2017 |
NOETHNICITY: It's only golddiggers that came and quit and it's better they did. True love covers all things - that's why they say love is blind. True love is an unconditional love from the heart. These guys that came and quit never had that for her. It's that simple. Cc: tonyebarcanista chiomababy22 |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by donestk(m): 11:40am On Mar 25, 2017 |
8 pages of comments from hypocrites yet no one with balls to just propose to the OP. Nansense. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Seanjay(m): 11:40am On Mar 25, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: my guy i just de gbadun you, you just de up and down of the thread no worry i de your back no shaking |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by teebillz: 11:40am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: It is well with you IJN. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Willybos(m): 11:43am On Mar 25, 2017 |
My dear, never deny ur baby in all problems ur passing 2ru. Because ur baby is all u av, any man that will love u, he will loves u wit all u av. Like me now i av a lover that has a daughter an i like the daughter morethan the way i love her...God bless us all! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Seanjay(m): 11:45am On Mar 25, 2017 |
donestk: why you no propose to her abi you no be guy ? lmao 2 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by fokeleyeyahoo: 11:46am On Mar 25, 2017 |
motherfucker:GBAM! Truly she has not found her missing rib. My sister had 2kids when she was in secondary school.It was our mum that took care of these children and as FAITH would have it she got married to a young first timer man. she bore him 3 kids. The five children live with him and i must confess they have really made it together. Madam,pls keep your hope alive, your time is on the way. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by witzsoul(m): 11:46am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:simple point I will like to add on this issue is this, much as I don't know Ur circumstance and age importantly, but wish ever way my dear, Ur case is not hopeless. But I must keep u on notice that young men are not the type to deal sensible in all forms of social level of issues, which goes to say that most men who can best relate with Ur particular case are in there matured age and whose principle permits they to think out of traditional way of thought. Trust God for your expectations, keep cheerful and know that your happiness don't depend on someone else... If u wish u can whatsapp me... 08065573612. Mail, rexeolo5@hotmail.com |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by SycophanticGoat: 11:48am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: A friend of mine will be getting married this April, to his girl who's also a single mum. Before she even accepted his advances, the first thing she told him was, I have a son, can you handle such a situation? He agreed and its going to eventually lead to marriage. Any man who rejects you because of your child is not serious and probably wants to have a taste of you. Its mainly women I know they've got serious issues with children not theirs (they never say it at first but then maltreat the child once they are in their husband's house) but men can deal with children not theirs quite easily. So if a man uses your child as excuse to break up with you, then all he ever wanted from you was just the sex. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by degamemaster(m): 11:48am On Mar 25, 2017 |
samuelson06:This is the most useless and wicked comment on this post. Don't settle for a half baked man... your choice of man is not limited... any man that does not love the child... bla bla bla. Now tell yourself the truth, can you settle for a baby mama after seeing numerous single girls and knowing fully well that the challenges that comes with such situations especially when the child grows are enormous. Most guys avoids such situation not because they don't love the child and mother but because of future occurences and don't forget that we're africans and in africa where marriages are respected and expected by and of the both families to make inputs. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 25, 2017 |
That is a shalow reasoning of us Africans, why can't she find love again, just because she had a daughter then. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by buffalowings: 11:58am On Mar 25, 2017 |
WORLDPEACE: good advice but I had to laugh bro attract both rich and broke guys haha |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
bizie: we all must have a divergent view on issues and I'm entitled to my opinion, we all cannot be (O yes) members we need to disagree in order to agree and no need to attack who disagrees with you we all read it here the rising spate of baby mama's for share greediness and to be associated with celebrities such ladies will eventually found themselves in this situation when the father of her child finally settles down with a fresher babe it will be myopic for you think we all must not see things in different angles . |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by bola4dprec(m): 12:05pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:Don't hide the truth babe is better to tell true and die, everybody have his or her pass. Yoruba usually say that Omo kise arun if you don't mind I have children too and single dad |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:...........you did the right thing Chioma.....btw, Sorry for making you so popular today, being the first person to comment on your post, your profile pix with just 10 likes since january is now almost 60 likes in 2hours o! Mr Right on the way sis!! Just be careful to select now!! All the very best once more!! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by israelmao(m): 12:07pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: I believe true love bears all things if these guys that have come your way were truely in love with you as you claimed they were and Godsent I strongly believe they wouldn't have left one after the other the way they did.Having lovechild doesn't make you an outcast or a social misfit.I strongly warn you not to ever deny that child because of your desperation for marriage or re-marriage always be your true self.I don't know how old you're now but I want you to know there are many women out there who are older than you without marriage or even married for years without child, I'm not talking disparagingly of them but just for the sake of citing an instance.So be yourself and don't engage in self-pity or lose your self-esteem on account of desperation for marriage or re-marriage as the case may be.Your own man will come just exercise some patience.In case you feel we should talk some more here is my phone no :08054128730.Cheers! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by George22016(m): 12:08pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
NgoziOkoli: you too shut up.who are u?who is this monkey.her choices are hard simple.tell her the truth now get out of here.old stewpid woman |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chigoizie7(m): 12:11pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
egbabiekperemo1: All man to his or her own opinions. She made a mistake , a costly mistake @ that. And for that, we must stone her? Every encounter in life is either a lesson or a blessing, whichever it is, it is not a waste. She already made the mistake , all we need to do is encourage her to move with her life. I choose nice words and consolations because some people can't handle some issues, I try to encourage her to see it as a blessing so that she don't take her anger on the innocent child. And next time, if u can't make ur points in a civilized manner, avoid my mentions 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by illusionsbyafo(m): 12:14pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: Dont ever deny your child....I have dated a lady for close to two years who had a child whom i loved and always cared for...the mother always messes up but i always stick around because the girl is alwas adorable until some time when i couldnt keep up to the mother's excesses ... |
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