Adefemi404:
You talk as If you are not a Nigerian. If buhari and Supreme Court would give someone with fourth position a winner then everything is possible in Nigeria

That is the more reason why it will be impossible to impeach him. Watch and see how many of them will run to Apc

Impeach Hope on what groups? Do you think the reps can just wake up and decide to impeach a Governor? What is the reason for the impeachment? Is the reason for the impeachment backed by the constitution, because I don't see anywhere in the constitution that says a Governor can be impeached based on revenge.

So what do you expect to achieve with this long post.
La read, La......

LilMissFavvy:
Ladies...... never ever agree to a first date in a guys house, infact, if a man suggests that a first date should be in his house, dump him, or If you have the money, pull his poverty stricken self and take him out, show him you got class.

Asin seriously comments like these always show the true low mentality of many naija babes and it is really a very bad thing. So because a first date is in the house, that means that he is poor. So tell me, what can she buy outside for him that he cannot buy for her and take home. My biggest shock seeing comments from this post is that I didn't even expect to hear that only broke guys can do a first day at home.
As a matter of fact, its only a classless, hungry and very dull girl that will think because a guy gives an invitation of a first date in his house, he is broke and can't afford to take her out. I am not shocked anymore because I have really seen that its just a naija babes low mentality.

funmisticqueen2:
it is still low effort. I don't think susen bags or louboutin heels are sold in the supermarket.


Who is doing the cooking? You or your guest?

Who wants to get laid? You or your guest?

It also denotes lack of maturity and sense to invite a complete stranger to your house. Someone you don't know except online chat. Which could be a male with a female monicker.

You think because you are a man, that a girl cannot scam and steal from you. You are truly a low effort man in denial.

I dare you to invite a celebrity like beyonce ,ini edo Tonto dikeh, Bob risky or even an Instagram influencer to your house on the first date. Tell us how it goes.

This is actually the typical awkward naija mentality I am baffled about.

funmisticqueen2:
having a date in a guy's house is bad world wide.

It shows that the guy is cheap and will only put minimum effort into the relationship.

It also shows that the guy doesn't value the girl. If you were chatting and flowing with a celeb or a babe above your level, you won't take her to your house in the first date.

Any girl that accepts such is cheap.

You see the girl as a booty call.

You are most likely a rapist.

In regards to the cheap aspect I totally disagree. If you can take her to the corner shop to buy foodstuffs, drinks and snacks to chill in the house, how does that relate to being cheap. You spend 10k for outing and you spend 10k for indoor chilling, what's cheap or different about that.

Reichel99:
Hi nairalanders, I am a new member and would like to make friends, please welcome me to the Nairaland family.

You are welcome. But just be ready to meet a lot of mad people. It seems many of the people on this forum escaped from rehab so enjoy what you see. And better remove your picture before your PM gets full with massages from mad people.

You better start looking for a new house because once you send your cousin away, that woman will find a way to drive you from that house or even kill you. You and the landlords wife can never live comfortable in that house anymore. Try to move out whenever you have the chance. Sorry your cousin had to mess you up.

victorian:










There is big deal.
Some guys tend to rape if shes not in the mood of sex. She might not be feeling all that familiar with you, even with the chats online.

And we all know how ugly it gets, when rape is about to occur.

Lemme ask why the rush, in inviting her to your home on first date?

Its not about rush because there is nothing like rush in where a date could be fun. Its just that sometimes maybe the guy is not the out door kind of person and maybe not a guy that like to eat out. Taking away the mentality of sex or rape or whatever else, can you see it as fun if you both actually walk down to shops around, get some stuffs, cook together, eat together, watch movies together, play music and dance together, play ludo or what together etc and after that, he walks her down to catch a taxi and off she goes. She gets home and type a simple text "thanks for today, you really made my day".

What's the biggy

The way some people reason most especially Nigerians is becoming alarming. What is wrong for a guy and girl to have their first date in a guys house.
You guys have been chatting and flowing along very well, you guys are crazy into each other already and then you both want to go on your first date. He tells you he stays alone and would be fun if you come over so that you both can cook together and watch movies together. Just a normal indoor fun and the mentality thing is that he might want sex so going to his place on a first date is a NO NO.

From my experience with many ladies from other countries, they badly see anything wrong with the idea of a first date in a guys house and most times they even see it as more fun than going out to some outdoor places. Obviously I don't think any responsible guy will even concede the idea of sex on a first date with a girl he really wants a beautiful relationship with. But the mentality of saying it is wrong or not proper is what I really don't get.

What's the big deal?

SangoOlukosoOba:


Which sane country are you talking about?

Una Sha go just one talk

There are so many sane countries. Best believe it or not, naija is no where close to bring a sane country.

As far as Nigeria is involved none of the jobs make any sense. Go to a sane country where there is steady light, there is no cultism, Fulani herdsmen, kidnappers and highway robbers. That is when you will live a sane life. Teller work is unnecessary stressful 8-6 job. Custom na so so bribe you go dey collect up and down. Bank fit wake up sack you anytime them feel like. Smugglers fit kill customs anytime them vex.

So my brother, the two jobs no worth person 35 years of service for naija. Try reason am.

Ustec:
Does chewing a cockroach kills?

Cockroaches cause leprosy. So your question should be, does leprosy kill?
Answer: www.google.com

That looks like lalasticlala. It is a very friendly snake and is very good for pepper soup

Kevsmart88:
I wouldn't join the bandwagon that would come out here and criticize all single mums. Some are beautiful in and out, motivated and can make good partners..your case is one out of many,it just didn't work out for reasons best known to you, so give her the money and let the lady be...Enough of this single mum this ,single mum that...

You are right. Honestly I can't remember the last time a have been with any girl that is not a single mum. As a matter of fact I am so addicted to single mums. They are just too wonderful. But I know there are the yeye ones sha although I hardly meet those yeye ones.

Slayer10:


I already engaged her. We were suppose to get married

We just had argument now, still injured my lips with knife. Currently bleeding now she has stormed out of the house

Na wa oooo. She the kind of woman you wanted to marry. Better let go now now before its too late. You never marry her she dey carry knife for you. If you marry her na cutlass she go use butcher you.

Ariza:
Give her her 60k and let her go. You owe her nothing but that. She should have told you about the child earlier and not 2 months into the relationship.

I can bet the op lied about the 2months before knowing she had a child. He just wants it to look like he didn't know on time but that na story for the gods. He knew from the start but was blinded by lust. Probably as he starting chopping her the thing no come too sweet again. Maybe na after two months of chopping the girl him realize say e no go work then carry pikin as the issue to take move ahead.

From your story I can bet it is not just the child that has suddenly made you loose interest in the girl. As a matured guy I know the sex life isn't as beautiful as the face na why you wan jakpa.

Anyways count your lucky stars that she only asked for her 60k to move out and didn't decide to poison you or burn down the house. Better borrow the money sharply and get her packing before she change her mind if not na till death una go path.

You knew she had a child but you still wanted to chop abi and now the pikin no come dey make you happy after you don chop e don tire you.

Single in terms of being in a relationship, well its been ages.
But have lots of female friends with good benefit, yeah that's the bomb.

Just live your life how it pleases you. You only got one life to live. One mans meat is another mans poison.

Life is your choice, good or bad.

AroOkigbo:
La click

La shit for body

Igbinedion University Okada will admit you any time of the year as long as you got the cash ready to pay full school fees.

What kind of nonsense is this. Your gateman? Some of you women are just terrible. The best way you could think of helping your hubby with a child na from gateman? Chaiii if you were my sister I will be the one to chase you out of his house before he even does that.

Now tell me, what do you expect him to do when he gets to know the father of the baby na una gateman? Are you expecting him to forgive you, say everything will be fine and help you train his Gateman's child? You self think am. What would you have done if it were your beloved brother this happened to?

Buhari has ended the regime of billionaire businessmen that their businesses are not known for anything but spending free government money based on the connection they had. That name Harry Akande rings a bell in those days.

NwanyiOkpa:



She said she was forced. So, don't be too harsh on her.

Except that, my apology. But that is actually rape as well. Rape in the ass... That's so bad

But the stupidity of this generation is really alarming. A girl follows a guy to bed, takes off her pants, sees his dick, decides to allow him penetrate her asshole because she wants to continue claiming virgin. This act alone is already worse than that of a proustite because no reason decent responsible guy will have sex with a lady he truly loves through her asshole. You better avoid such friend before they lure you to give one yeye guy your asshole too.

MariaAngeles:

It's OK
I'll just find more about it on the internet .
What's it called exactly?

This is what she said...
its just banting meal,2 eggs bacon in a ring of onions and pepper and fried left overs of union and green pepper

MariaAngeles:

Looks nice
I love seeing new cuisines
Tell me more about it

Lol trust me I don't know how its made. A Botswana lady just prepared for me and I am someone that love to taste anything that goes into the stomach without harm. Very delicious sha. Make too much brain lol

Dinning on some nice Botswana yum yum Colo.

YoungBlackRico:
You are insane, take that from me.

As you are sane, why quoting someone that is insane. Doest that not make you more stupid. Probably you are related to the op became you both have similar trait of stupidity. Its more like a family thing. Idiat