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Lalas247:
abi how u see am I agree seff under 5mins they must be really cheap....
by the time u even change to reverse cow girl 30mins has gone

Lol you wee not kill me
This lady na fire
Don't spoil OP biko, he's a virgin

Lalas247:
so if they go upto 1 hour nko

You are crazy

lefulefu:
and boxing day,christmas,democracy day.children's day, ed el kabir,ed el fatir,independence day, etc.

asin eh!

MissJoy29:
Lol...you got me there. I get your drift though. But I know that if I'm writing it down, I won't say "Nigerian politicians are corrupt". And even if I SAY it out, I won't mean ALL are corrupt. Cos i dont like generalisation. Get me?

Yeah. If only men would too. The world will surely be a better place.

You got me cracking up on the road...
Well, you have to ask Ronaldo's fan's FRIEND WHEN he's not COMING cos Brass is not unfar from the reliable bank. I also spoke to the manager. She wasn't sure how long both of them will STAY. But I'm sure SHE wouldn't mind. She's a friend of them.

Nancy Drew in the making. ...

Let me just believe that fact that you don't generalize , ka'm nwere ujo kwere ,


Men put things to reality than women, and you know that, we don't pretend to be bad or good

Let's keep cracking each other with our codes

Wow!, that's nice then, maybe I'll tell Buhari when NEXT he VISITS a brass producing company, he should do well to see the bank manager, because she seems friendly and free minded But before then, he should learn a skill on how to properly contact the manager for easy access before he visits brass ' don't you think so?

highpriestess:
have you finished eating the shiity dripping smelly assh0les you are conditioned to eat?

The question hard oo

highpriestess:
you are a gay man. You only eat dripping shiit assh0les.

You haven't answered my question.
Is your virginity intact?

highpriestess:
[s][/s] You scribbled these balderdash out of frustration, have you eaten?

I want to eat virginity, do you have it?
Is your own intact?

I asked you to give me your definition of "Going on a day"

You didn't

MrBrownJay1:
again, if the "reality" of YOUR life is what society dictates you should do then no wonder Nigerians are failing miserably. are you saying that people who go against what society dictates are NOT Africans?! hell no, they are just Africans with a mind of THEIR OWN, who are not coward (to hide behind society's views) and do what they desire whether you (or society) likes it or not...i'd rather be laughed out and hated for doing what i believe in instead of being loved for the rubbish that many do (against their will) just to fit in society.

many deluded women stay married in miserable union, due to society that lokks down on divorce. is that RIGHT?!
many mothers stay with evil abusive demons (some even die at their hand), simply because society looks down on single/divorced mother? is that RIGHT?
many donkey gladly pay everytime they go out with women because thats what society dictates that a "real" man should do... while some of these women dont give a damn about these donkeys (and are only there for the free meal). is that RIGHT?

but hey, as i always say, to each their own follow-follow misery!

I'm sorry to say this, but you ended up saying nothing special with your epistle.

I've seen and read things like this countless times on social media, but the opposite still happen in reality.

What's the reality of one's life? if I may ask.

MrBrownJay1:
BWAAAAAAH! i guess English is not your 1st language, or you must have amnesia... here is below what i wrote earlier (in case you forgot?):

Do you now agree to the fact that a man can go on a first date with a woman after being married to her?

MrBrownJay1:
you dont have an opinion bro, you are talking about the opinion of society, which you follow-follow... here is a clue: the day you will use your OWN brain to judge a subject (rather than what society expect you to do/think) then thats when you will have an opinion on a subject.

I have an opinion and until it's asked, i'll never spill it.

I detest indirect cunny imposing questions, it doesn't work on me

You must go plain and simple if you are to ask me a question.

highpriestess:
ok..
I lost it to your father.

His father cannot stoop so low to have sex with a lady who's pussay has being masticated by street mechanics because of biscuit and coke.

Learn how to control yourself whenever you see threads for virginity, it's embarrassing, you keep jumping from virgin thread to another just to abuse OP.

Did he steal your virginity?

Stop telling the forum that you are not a virgin!
Stop exposing your regrets and bitterness!
Learn to ignore!
Losing a virginity isn't the end of the world.
Some men cherish and worship virgin ladies, leave it for them.

MrBrownJay1:
you write so much nonsense, you are confusing your own self....so what you are saying is that a man and a woman can be married, yet NEVER been on a date together (and thats different than the slut who fukc on 1st date)?! ok well how is this new wife considered NOT a slut, if that man doesnt know her and/or never been on a date with her? is marriage with a stranger automatically a sign of NOT being a hoe?!?!?!?!

What's your definition of going on a date with a lady?

MrBrownJay1:
WRONG!!!!! you will log off and face your OWN SELF! thats who you have to answer to, thats the only person that matters (aka who you see in the mirror in the morning everyday)...and if you live your life according to society, instead of YOUR OWN mind, then i do indeed feel sorry for follow-follow Nigerians/Africans.

Lol

This is one of the lies people use in deceiving themselves, and I laugh whenever I see them.

I'v told you and i'll say it again, BE REAL, stop deceiving yourself to make a point, you are not more than the Society, you can't live without them, you must behave like a Roman if you go to Rome.

That's the truth, social media has given us to opportunity to spill whatever will feel like, forgetting that we'll still log out to face reality.

If you are an African, you are an African.

MrBrownJay1:
You have to open your mind and look at every possibilities ...just because "some" act in a certain way, understand that others may not, for one reason or the other....and thats ok.

The same mind you failed to open for you to accept that there are possibilities of a man marrying a woman without going on a date with her.

Practice what you preach!

MrBrownJay1:
BWAAAAAAAH! see this guy. of course you DONT have an opinion, if you had one, you would give us YOUR opinion on the subject (or the question i asked) instead of giving us the opinion of SOCIETY bla bla bla.

I have an opinion, and for you to know my opinion, you must ask for it, not asking an already twisted rhetorical question just to get the answer you seek. I don't fall for such

MrBrownJay1:
i advocate for people to be themselves...whether slut or wife material, because at the end of the day, everything will come out in the open. as much as i will never marry/date a slut, i sure as hell understand why many men fukc/date them. they are needed in society because men are slut themselves and, as they cannot control the tiger in their pants, they will gladly fukc with hoes for sport!

as i said earlier, its all down to women to know in what group they stand before meeting a man on a date.

What's the point here? if you don't mind.

MrBrownJay1:
to which MBJ said:"again, this is INDEED the 1st date, and as i can see, you wouldnt look down on the act ..…so as i say, dont be too quick to follow what "society" may dictate. time is changing....especially with social media and all them available dating apps.

MrBrownJay1:
and to which, bro Donstan18 replied:"I disagree with you. It's something to go on a date with a stranger and it's another thing to go on a date with your wife. Judging from your point of motion, won't we call the both DATE?

Do you find it difficult to comprehend a simple example? Like, how many times do you expect me to explain my reason of using "Wife" as an example

You said " This is indeed a first date" and I'm trying to let you know that there are many kinds of first dates?

Why taking time understand?

MrBrownJay1:
what are you on about bro?!?!? who/what/when/where was there any mention of a wife in the above mentionned?! can you even go an a 1st date with someone you have already married?! would you even want to compare what you do with your wife with what you do with strangers you meet on a 1st date?! abeg bro, stick to the issue with VALID/INTELLIGENT points.

@Embolden; Yes! and that's the reason prompting my "Wife" instance.

MrBrownJay1:
... and they always do, thats why i wont use SOCIETY to make up such claim (even though i know how society views this issue) and instead will use my own judgment as to why i would call a woman a slut.

Anything can be your source of claim/point?

You have no right to question mine, if society is my reason of arguing, respect that, because no matter how you pretend on social media, you'll still log out and fact the society in reality

MrBrownJay1:
well i do KNOW that some people do the things i mentionned, and shouldnt necessarily be viewed as wrong.

I didn't condemn it being wrong, I simple said it'll be preferable to give an example that will suit the both party, understand that.

MrBrownJay1:
what you wrote, again, made no sense whatsoever.... so are you saying that because i never experience something, i can debate about that same issue? whats next? only sluts can debate about sluts? only homos can have a say in tutti frutti's affair?! only HIV+ people can debate about hiv/aids issues....come on bro! there are many things that happens in this world that we hear about that didnt happen to us, and we can freely raise a discussion on the matter.

Who be this guy biko

I said ONE CAN CLAIM , don't you know the difference between "Can" and 'Will" ?

Did I conclude you aren't qualified to discuss what you are inexperienced of?

MrBrownJay1:
you see, you are just like the gazillion of Africans who do/believe things in their live (right or wrong) without a bloody clue as to why?! here i am asking you a simple question, and you cant even have a DAMN opinion (of your own) on the said subject you are trying to discuss with us here... and instead coward behind what society expect you to act as a follow-follow sheep. if your mind is made of the opinion of society, and nothing else, then no wonder Africa will NEVER succeed.

I have an opinion, a personal opinion, an opinion which might lead women astray if they heed to it in reality and that's why i'v refused to agree to your fact.

Coming to social media to advocate for sex on a first date is nothing but poo to African humanity, because the same set of people giving ladies a go ahead order to do such on media will still condemn, bash and tag them "Cheap" in reality.

#FactTheTruth
#LoveIT

jessca048:
every one with their own preference. but I will say this virginity should not be the only factor one looks out for when choosing a life partner

Now, you are making sense, you earlier typed like you were upset

Lalas247:
It won’t be physical fight just mouth, threats and bragging is what he does best ...
But I have seen it before so not surprised ...

Anyway still going to use his song as first dance sha FIA

I just wanted to be sure before concluding.

@Embolden, hahahah I envy the lucky man

Henitan24:
I've answered that before, so I said maybe because your Moniker is very familiar to me so I mistook you for those Mario pm senders.

Alright, now i get

Henitan24:
Donstan18 your attention is needed here asap

But dear @op love is everywhere so quickly talk to legs and leave the relationship asap, you don't deserves what your sister has thrown in the dust bin if at all your sister was the one at fault but don't still go ahead with the relationship.

#1cent

Why did you say she shouldn't go ahead with the relationship?

What if they are into each other?

highpriestess:
Lol,stan you deh mad

Hahahahahah, you all are just funny


Always upset with with virgin topics


#TeamVirginity!

#TeamStandingBoobs!

#TeamStandingBallz!

#TeamVirginPreeq

Are you for us or not?

Lalas247:
He did the same when he came to London .... he doesn’t know how to act because he feels he is rich !
When wiz comes here men security on point non of this trashy stuff.. just cause davido is Nigerian doesn’t mean he is innocent he has done this several times .. especially his yeye crew

No concrete evidence like videos to prove it, so it'll be wrong for us to conclude quickly.

Henitan24:
I'm here. Your Monica is very familiar to me but guess becos you're very intellectual and so your comments everywhere with your blue signature. So do you mean ladies do send guys pm here?

Ehe?
Why did you say i'v sent you pm?

Ladies should be in a better position to answer that , not me.

jessca048:
why should I be sad.am just shocked that people like Op still carry this kind of archaic mentality. I don't hate on virgins but their mentality that the world owe them a prize for being virgins.

Some men love virgins and I don't think it's wrong for a man to praise and hype what he loves

Ojuri20:
lols... lemme sign in to my alt acc

Ayam waiting

Saff:
It’s a subconscious message, that’s why you can’t see it. Not for the naked eye, but for the mind to pick up.

Point out the insult and you are busy scribbling shit

Subconscious kor, subtraction ni

Ojuri20:
Yes in conversations and test his level of intelligence. Like the case of my man. We met on this platform. I don't naturally reply Pms, I dismissed immediately I saw one then because I just broke up with my ex and I chose never to be believed in love anymore. So one fateful I was bored so I decided go through my mails and so replied the first person that sent PMS to me after I went through his comments and topic and I found them educative, mature and intelligent which was after 4 months, we exchange
numbers and became best of friend now to something more serious.

You know me so well as well because we do chat as alot with my alt acc but want to keep it cool now. You've sent me pm thrice now

Hahahahahahahah

You just exposed yourself that you are a scam parading on Nland

I have never sent any one PM since I joined Nairaland
I have never done that, be you a lady or a guy, I don't do such

I get PMs from ladies and I do decline them

Oleeeee

Gerarahia Mehn!

Saff:
Read his last paragraph and tell me if he wasn’t subconsciously insulting non virgins. Thank you.

That's not an insult to non-virgins, only the guilty will be triggered by that.

He asked if men will love to marry a hoe,LovePeddler,olosho or a wide smelly v.jay?

How's that an insult? Don't these set of ladies exist?

Saff:
i absolutely love virginity. I think it’s a beautiful thing, and if all women could be patient enough to wait until their wedding day that would be great. But what I don’t like is certain guys belittling non virgins and calling them names. That’s exactly what he did and I don’t agree.

Where and how did he belittle non-virgins?

He said his mind with no insult.

Saff:
All they think about is sex, morning till night. Grow up!

jessca048:
mtcheew

Ladyhippolyta88:
You should also ask female virgins if they can marry molosho's or used men as well.Your threads are stupid and irritating.And don't try to accuse me of what you know nothing about I only gave an advise and suggestion.

Jessca048, even you , why sad?


Hahahahahahhahah I can't stop laughing.

If you want to provoke or trigger the non-virgins on Nland, just create a virginity thread, they'll just rush out like a hot sperm with bitterness

OP, I support you, virginity is the pride of any woman, once you don't have it, you are pride less

Ojuri20:
I understand that but you still have a valid points anyways. I won't as well that is why I stated it in my comments that when one is sure that she is dealing with a mature mind not those guys on tiny trousers

Can a lady know a matured guy before sleeping with him?

Mutemenot:
. Giving money to he who's already rich .

I understand your pain.

Ojuri20:
OK good but let's leave how Africa view it now. So to you as an individual, is it good or bad?

To me, it's not bad, but I won't because of my personal view come to social media to advocate what is contrary to our societal views in reality, I won't.

Ojuri20:
I understand your point so well but it sounds as if the 'Africa' you're referring to is not African I.e not the people. As an individual person in a relationship, how you see your partner matter most in any relationship not how other people sees she or he. If you've sex with your partner in the first like I and my fiance did, will you go and broadcast it on a national TV in order to know how Africans think about it. if she happens to be slut you'll discover that by yourself. I quite sure majority of Africans don't really give a Bleep of how people thinks about them unlike before. So it's high time we stop being more concern about how or what people really feel or think about us and start living pur lives as it comes.

I'm glad you understood my point.

It will take me nothing to support the motion of a lady sleeping with a man on their first date,but what will it profit me to come to Nland and support what I won't support in reality? For likes? Hell NO

You case stated it clear that you used upto 10 months to introduced familiarity between you and your said man before going on a date with him, it's different from meeting a lady today, going on a date with her today and sleeping with her today, like Wtf?

Our problem is this, we'll come to social media to attempts all sort of societal abolishing, critics and condemnation, but will still log out to face and embrace the same society in reality.
Then what's the use?

No matter how people try to counter my point, I'll still stand with the fact that a woman who sleeps with men on their first date is a SLUT, quote me anywhere, she's not a slut because she's truly a slut, but because of how the society made gender sexual encounters look.

Only those who tell themselves the truth will concur to this.

MrBrownJay1:
so what you are saying is that, if i chat with a babe online for a few months, she automatically became my "wife"?! what are you talikg about?!
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That wasn't the reason why I typed about "Wife". I did that so as to explain to you that DATES are different, because you claimed a date is a date.

MrBrownJay1:
whether in Africa or space, my point still stand

Your points should stand for you, not in my opinion

MrBrownJay1:
just because you never experience these things shouldnt be a reason to assume wrongly or dismiss them, is it?!

Not really, that's why we should give instance of what we both know about in order to clarify each other without cheating.

One can claim to have an experience of what didn't happen.

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!
you claim that society looks down on women who have sex on the 1st, and i simply asked you if you think you were better than these slut IF/WHEN you do exactly the same thing as they do? it is a simple question to make us understand how YOU view this issue (rather than hide behing the view of society on this issue).

Oh fvck!!
These questions wouldn't have arisen if you clearly understood my first comment.

Go back and read again, this time, gradually.

I said the lady won't be considered a slut because she's one, but because of how African society views issues like this.

If i'm to answer that i'm not better than the said lady on social media, will it still change the fact the society will condemn her in reality?

Ojuri20:
MrBrow.jay1 and donstan1.8 both of you should use a scenario that happened BTW I and my boyfriend as a case on the first page of the topic. Want to know your view about it especially donstan18. thanks

Your case is different, thou we'v discussed about it.

Ojuri20:
I met my man after ten months of dating online and we had it immediately we set eyes of each other. It sounds crazy but still the best sex I've ever had in my life and our love life is waxing stronger but I think it personally depends on the individual involves, don't do if there is no bond yet... Love you baby (knows himself)

You both used ten months to get familiar and closer, it's different from meeting a stranger.

Thou they are both dates