₦airaland Forum

sirthisthickkal:
I know one day we would definitely see a thread that says" I want to commit suicide, should I do it or not ?please advice !" Some people cannot make decisions by themselves again without posting it on nairaland.I don't when nairaland has turn to a decision making forum..rubbish!

So, you believed those lies and cooked up garbage?

Brooke60:
So, wife will just fall down from heaven abi?

No boyfriend and girlfriend? No courtship?


Deeper life self dey do bf and gf

Courtship indeed!

Factfinder1:
I have a feeling nairaland front page would be filled with plenty stupid and irrelevant news today

It has been getting filled by garbages for the past 11 months.

dacblogger:
I see no reason y anybody should complain on their behalf, afterall its nt ur thing they are using...they should legalise it for them.

For them, or for you?

Could this be early morning ere_____?

Dum Spiro Spero!


When there's life...There's hope.

newyorks:
dnt u comprehend parables?he meant a house girl that is leaving with him grandma

Another goat lover spotted!

What kind of section is this?

Jokers everywhere!

cashcity:
Since coming to lagos, it has been difficult to find good lady. It seems 95% of women are into prostitution. In lagos prostitution can be grouped into different categories :
1. Lady can be in her family house but can keep upto 5 to 10 boyfriends
2. Lady can rent an apartment and be a call girl or runs. girls.
3. I can forget the ones dat are found in hotels dat deals with short times and Co, the real ashawo.
All these are categories of prostitution found in lagos but when you call any of them prostitution they can pick a serious fight with you.
What is the world turning into. Good women are ther too but it extremely difficult to pick one good apple out of 95 bad ones.
Are we really in the era of WHORES?

No continue the hustling wee carry you go lagos, de dia de calculate the number of olosho wee de lagos.

When will things like "Society and brokeness" start bothering me?, when I should be striving for other things.

HARDLABOR:
Impotents have a restricted area in womens body
They will never believe something like this

Ana asueri nnor!!!

HARDLABOR:
Impotents have a restricted area in womens body
They will never believe something like this

Ana asueri nnor!!!

Any fake story can be cooked up just to treat boredom.

Ride on.

CowHard:
SKULL

You mean Them ?

victorakpabome:
Single women are scared of getting pregnant for some of the following reasons:
1. Fear of their mate actually accepting the pregnancy 2. Fear of their parents rebuttal 3. Fear of complications that could arise from abortion 4. Fear of the stigma associated with being pregnant out of wedlock 5. Fear of the complications that arise from pregnancy 6. Fear of losing their shape from the pregnancy etc etc etc
Brother the list many

Ma nigga
I don't get your number 1 reason.

victorakpabome:
Then he becomes known as a DEADBEAT dad

DEADBEAT dad
Burst my head!!!

victorakpabome:
She does. Once a paternity test is carried out when the baby is born. And the result shows him as the rightful father. Then she has a case with him for baby upkeep

You and kingofchess just de burst my head with these yarns.

-Abortion will be done when the lady decides.
-The baby will be kept if the lady decides.

If all these claims have been happening in Nigeria, why then are women(single) scared of getting pregnant.

kingofchess:
she did not say a word....i just have 2 leave the house 2 cool off.

She's way matured.

She messed up by telling you lies, and you fvcked up by not being unable to manage your anger.

Just meet her up for proper discussion.

victorakpabome:
She does. Once a paternity test is carried out when the baby is born. And the result shows him as the rightful father. Then she has a case with him for baby upkeep

You and kingofchess just de burst my head with these yarns.

-Abortion will be done when the lady decides.
-The baby will be kept if the lady decides.

If all these claims have been happening in Nigeria, why then are women(single) scared of getting pregnant.

victorakpabome:
DONSTAN18 - YES. If the man wants to have a say in this he should have done the necessary engagements to make the union legal.

Why do you think we have such a huge rise in the BABYMAMA syndrome nowadays? Its because of thought processes like this.

So, I ask. What happens when the lady decides to keep the baby when the man doesn't , and as a result of that, the man refuses to accept the baby when given birth.

Will she by any legal law, case a file against the man...... No try indulge DNA point here mk I no punch u.


Concerning the baby mama issue, most of those women don't have any other choice than to keep if for celebrities.

kingofchess:
donstan18...if she terminated the pregnancy without my consent. Do i have a case with her by law?

Maybe, NO!

What if she keeps the baby for you to financially take care of when given birth, and you refuses.

Will she have a case against you by law?

victorakpabome:
What's your definition of a spouse? . These guys are just boyfriend and girlfriend (straffmates). No legal conotation whatsoever

Spouse wrong use of word.

So, your point is this, Any woman(single) is in the right position to decide on what happens to a baby belonging to her and boyfriend.

victorakpabome:
Bro, please see the link below:

http://family.findlaw.com/reproductive-rights/abortion-rights-faqs.html

My boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, but I want to keep the baby. Does he have any say in the matter?

Legally, men do not have a right to determine whether a woman may or may not seek an abortion. While men have equal human rights as women, they do not have legal rights to abortion because they are not "similarly situated" as women. Moreover, the Supreme Court believes it would be too burdensome for women to have to ask "permission" from their partners, which arguably may even lead to psychological or physical abuse on the part of the husband.

The findlaw link headline said Abortion laws have always been a source of controversy in the United States.

How legal is it in Nigeria for a woman to decide what happens to a baby without the man's contribution and opinion?

I'm asking?

victorakpabome:
Dude, her body, her decision. It's the 21st century afterall

Yes!, Her body.
Yes!, Her decision.

But, it's THEIR baby, don't you get it?


And how do you mean "21st Century", so in 21 century, spouses don't discuss what happens to their baby when a woman is pregnant?

*Modified*

Op bamzkid

What exactly are you asking for, if you don't mind.

victorakpabome:
Guy don't chase her anymore. She will come back when she gets sober. Let her decide what she wants to do with the pregnancy. If she wants to keep it, be a man and carry your cross. Take care of the pregnancy and the baby.

If she decides to terminate it, so be it .

Like seriously?

He should allow her decide what happens to the pregnancy without discussing with him?

kingofchess OP, How remorseful was she, when she noticed your anger?

pocohantas:
Behht did the pusee taste 33yrs?

U de mad, I swear!

She's married, She's yet to divorce.

Stay off a married woman, don't allow yourself to be the reason for their broken home when you re not suppose to be.

Stay clear!!!!
Her husbands beats her up, what do you think that her husband will be capable of doing to you.


Use your head, stop digging our grave.


She's till married until proven single with a divorce attempt.

Be careful

ERORR404:
Jesus mam.. I never said I did. the topic says "how do you" I think that should tell you that I haven't done it yet

You well so?

Who u de answer ma?

Small girl wee u go keep for hux feed, abi u de mind NL formings?