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DerahAlex:
I disagree with you. Sometimes the people we love can treat us so badly that it kills the love we have for them.

If I must agree with you, then i'll be forced to believe that "Love is a scam".

If LOVE can be killed, its a scam.

Artistree:
Do you help people with this kinda "pay me back " mindset?
So if there was nothing between them she should not now call her boyfriend because he helped her? Do you know how many people I've helped in this my life, should I go about expecting a relationship or whatever from them?
Humanity has really been thrown to the wind...this life!

You comments isn't that clear to me.

Can you come again please, if you don't mind.

Dillusionist:
why can't you condemn it

anything bad is bad ,don't paint it to appear whitish..

Prove that it's bad without reffering to the holy bible.

Dillusionist:
i will never be in support of that ,so long nobody tied a rope to his neck and compelled him to grant her favour..

You re saying this because the person getting help in this case is a lady.

Dillusionist:
if he actually has true love towards her ,,he shouldn't relent in his pursuit instead of creating a bitter scenario that will come hunting the both parties...

If he does that, majority of ladies including you might say he's tryna take advantage.

Dillusionist:
When you can't condemn such bad attitude that emanates from male folks..that means I am convinced that you aren't miles aways from the obvious attitude..

You have the right to believe or think whatever that pleases you about me, but I still stand by my say that for the fact I can help without asking for returns doesn't mean I should condemn those who does that.

Dillusionist:
anything the favour might be,we all know where he's channelling to..

take a chil pill and condemn this.

We don't, don't conclude

Dillusionist:
at last statement, ,yes why not..

he can only get jealous of the numerous call she receives in his very before,,
infact,his jealousy can be viewed from the perspective of having true feeling geared towards her,,,,but talking about gaining favour in return is overboard..

[s] really,,you can't help a fellow without asking for a favour in return
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omg..this is really appalling

I never said I can't help with asking for a return, i can help a guy or a lady without asking a return, but that doesn't mean I should condemn those who asks return when helping, it's their choice and decision, beside most ladies will see a helper(guy) as a maga when he doesn't ask for return.


For your first statement, if in anyway you happens to be in the guy's shoes, like feeling jealous. How long will you continue to help?

And mind, I was tryn let you know that "Sexual advances" mustn't be the first thing to come to your mind in such cases, abi na only men de ask for sex?

Dillusionist:
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because he proffered solutions to her needs that made him to start feeling too important? ?

it is not by force to help ,,nobody tied a rope to go neck so why should he program his mind on returned favour stuff..

please,,this issue is over flogged

Rant less!!


How did he feel too important? , Is it now an abomination to expect a return when doing something for someone?

Before you answer that, ask yourself if you can help a guy who makes and receives romantic calls from his girlfriend in your presence.

Dillusionist:
[s] whatever!!your friends mind has been channeled to sexual advances towards the girl..

smh.. [/s]

Stop coining issues to your own favor because you are a lady.

Any little thing, you ladies will start typing about "Sexual advances".. The lady is simply not wise.

Purebeerry:
Love dies.

My ex that I loved more than life itself, I don't love him anymore, Ido to wonder how I loved him so much at the first place .

You never loved him, you loved the moment and good times you cherished with him.

coolestofall:
Xo u meet a gal n propose 2 her on d spot, dats hw it should b abi?

You don't meet and propose on the spot, you meet her, get to know her, marry her without immoral acts.

coolestofall:
No courtship?

Stop deceiving yourself with that courtship of a thing, you know what courtship is all about these days.

mespusinglez:
I Don't understand my girlfriend o,we ve dated for over a month now, and our first sex was head ache to me...6 minutes to it and she pull me off ...i ask her why and she said nothing and she wore her dress ,this happened four times ..the fifth time was when we were about 8 minutes to it and she said she was tired i angrily went off and wore my dress ...and she was "baby am sorry that her mind dont give her... and she said i dnt cum quick...and the truth is since the 6 times we had sex i have never cum because she always cut me off. ..and she was lucky i wasnt rude or else i wont have stop...
so am thinking of breaking up with her because i cant continue with those frustration...

pls help

Sanctify your sex with prayer and watch what happens

coolestofall:
Xory bro, do they release u guys in batches 4rm yaba left. Cos everyday, its one dumb topic or the other. No disrespect intended.

That's a nice thread telling the bitter truth.

lovethchioma:
ok. Happy looking

OK, Happy Xmas

lovethchioma:
The why is exactly the news you are reading now.

To make him believe she had forgiven him, wait for the day he'll propose and make him have a taste of the pain he had put her through.
What other why are you looking for?

I'm looking for a tangible "Why" with less sentimentality.

Lame, boring, stupid excuse and statement!

He obviously made that statement to soften their mind and make them laugh.

*Modified*

Alwaysking:
Dude looks sick no doubt.

Won't you accept to look sick like him both facially and financially?

Jodha:
Dude is totally foolish... How was he expecting her to accept his proposal after everything he did....


Does he think every woman is desperate for a husband.... Or eager to marry any Tom Seek and Harry...

Mtssheew...I for spit for him face....

Why sound so bitter?

Are you in anyway experienced on such case?

I personally detest cheats.


But, I still refuse to believe this fake pooooo reasons for turning him down, an intelligent and strong lady that hates cheaters will opt out of that relationship once she discovered, but this one continued, why?

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adebayo3449:
Learn to make pufpuf,chain chain etc

Since u are still in skul, go to all those sellers and tell them u will be supplying them.
Discuss with many of them and see
Yours is just to supply, u aint selling ur self

You might still need capital for that.

You snapped to show NL?
You neva d hungry

SirMichael1:
You mean clit stimulation??



Dildos come in different shapes and sizes to fit even the largest of vaginas. Therefore, should a guy with 6' meets with a lady of ___ , who derives pleasure at the end of the day?? Can we safely say that sex has gone on?

For the guy- Yes!

But for the lady- I doubt

Phonefanatic:
If clit orgasm isn't met those type won't be satisfied.

Will any woman be satisfied without clit orgasm being met?

Ifakiland:
Girls wanna be treated as queens...forgetting that kings don't usually have one queen...there will always be another "olori"....

Girls, you typed.


A Woman will want you to treat her like a woman, your woman and your lover, not a Queen

Can't even remember when I heard a lady talk of being treated like a queen, abi u too de like nollywood

SirMichael1:
Moreover, when you get addicted to self servicing, the real thing doesn't give pleasure like the dildos and so many a times, the fault is the lady's.

Right!

This is the major problem of most ladies, their sense of erotic pleasure and sexual system have habitized that of dildos and self servicing that they can hardly reach orgasm even when you give all sorts of skills and oral when having sex.

MrBrownJay1:
bro thanks, all the best wishes to you and your family too

can you imagine what this man wrote....kai! our sistas are suffering.

Mission completed

inscreAF:
I went through your posts to see how serious you are...I don't think you need 5k, you need orientation and you need to be serious about your life. All you care about is sex and yahoo nothing of substance from all your posts.

Going through his posts to screenshot and post herein isn't a sign of maturity and seriousness, neither is it an act of substance.

We should do well to play intelligently while trying to scold or correct fellows without violating their privacy.



Bless up bro

Omachi006:
I will start this piece assuming that my words can be retracted, as I am a firm believer in the FACT that experience and environment change people. We might try to deny it but the truth is that we conform when we find ourselves alienated from our immediate society.

Now that that disclaimer is out, let me proceed by informing you, from a homely lady’s standpoint and you may choose to challenge it, what kinds of ladies guys avoid like ebola.

[s] #1. The Homely Girl.
Surprised? Well, I was too. Personally I was confronted with the many facts that met me as a homely “new wife”. With my very modest and conservative upbringing, I’ve had to adjust to the many habits of a more exposed and experience partner. Nay, I’ve evolved. Some positives abide, however. The activities of “the other room” have blossomed.
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#2. The Office Raccoon.
Forgive my description, but many-a-wives detest this menacing office flirt, with talons for nails and red rose lipstick that bare semblance of her last kill. Charming is her way but score is always her game. She is always sure to find the shortest distance between men; A straight unabashed line.

#3. The Career Woman.
Here, I stand to be corrected. For a woman must learn to hold her own when men fear her magnificence. But power, they say, is addictive and blinds you to the empathy that comes with love. #GirlPower by the way!

[s] #4. The Ex.
There was a reason why you left her in the first place. Not much to that.
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#5. The Nag.
Like a leaking roof she will drive you mad, slowly ebb away your zest for life and ware your spirit. Some men are driven to succeed to satiate her needs, placate her with the fine things of life, but no sooner do they find solace in the bosoms of another. I know this one story where he even found fulfillment… in another man.

Wouldn’t you like to hear that story? But oh, look! My 300 words are up.

Your No.1 explanations wasn't that clear enough, I don't mind being enlightened in that.



Your no.4, There's no possible offense that can't be forgiven in a relationship, what do I mean?
If it's possible to make up with your ex, brace up and do that.

1.Stop being idle.
2.Do well to engage yourself with works.
3.When less busy, look for friends to be with.
3.Lessen your social media visits, if possible get a small phone.
4. Look for female friends, if possible "Lover"
5.Challenge yourself on it.
6.Desist from some websites to avoid erotic views.
7.Avoid erotic movies for now.
8.Avoid being alone!
9.Avoid being alone!
10.Pray for the grace and zeal to start the mission of "Operation, masturbation must stop"



My advice, thou!

Godzlove8:

U d laugh?