₦airaland Forum

Ginaz:
Ya I do, everything in life is about choices. If you wanna marry you gat to make choices same with a smoker offering cigarette to someone that doesn't smoke. He has to make a choice if he wants to be a smoker or not.

Same with virginity. I am not saying being a virgin Is bad but you goading it over someone that is not, is wrong. A little girl in my hood has started sleeping around she is not yet 15. Her parent would beat her and drive her out of the house for days.

She didn't just decide to sleep around, lack of parental care and guidance was responsible. What she needs now is love and care not beatings!

What I am saying is, a lot of bad situations can messed up the mind. Hardships, hunger, starvation, lack of love and abuses are reasons some people made a choice of losing their purity. You can't judge them you don't know the pains.

I used to judged them but when I saw how people were suffering and how parents don't give a Bleep about their kids, all they do is born and born without a single sense of responsibility can you honestly blame them?


If the o.p was in one of those crucial and critical situations would she be saying these? Let's be holy unto the lord only cos everyone has their own hell.

Virginity is a choice. Na God go help, cos girls are doing silly things just for hunger not to kill them. Even boys too, going into yahoo some for greed some cos of hunger.

The street is messed up, what everyone needs is love not being judged. Na condition make crayfish bend like my friend would say .

Ginaz:
Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

This is quite strange and it shows the mentality of a average Nigerian about it by the comments I read. Virginity automatically makes you a gold!

I laugh. O.p work on your self esteem. You don't need validation for being a virgin, it is your choice. Kindly respect that someone could lost her virginity by being raped. And about those friends you saying that try to make one join them at the same level, I would say it is only someone that doesn't have self worth or self respects that would bow to peer pressure.

Jochabed:
Thank u

Ayoemrys:
Excellent, Yes 20~22hrs , I Hail Fashola

TheHistorian:
How many pregnancy(ies) did she abort??

FortifiedCity:
They cry because they love you and can't stand you being with someone else

Thatnawtichick:
She's aging

biacan:
He is happily married the girl should have known that

gozzlin:
Be deluding yourself nigga. If you knew the amount and nature of stuff that a typical pussy produces, you'll never bring your mouth close to it. It harbours different assortment of bacteria, so tiny you can't see them with your nakked eyes. It's an outlet for urine, it releases blood on a monthly basis and some pussies produce pus.

And for the sake of clarification, I never advocated masturbation in my earlier post. I only said sex is dirtier in response to the guy who termed masturbation as disgusting. Between rubbing your dick with just your hands and slamming it into a crevice where all sorts of unknown things come out, with both of you prolly exchanging saliva in the process, which one is dirtier and more disgusting?

Abeg sex is dirtier, albeit more satisfying.

wolextayo:
Some people will come here and say vanity upon vanity.

Automotive1:
The federal government of Nigerian need to reposition its economy in order to attract investors like BYD electric.

What do you think?

Cc Lalasticlala ,Mynd44

gozzlin:


Masturbation is more disgusting than sex abi? _Fuck you! What can be more disgusting than slamming your dick into a moist crevice where all sorts of dirty effluents drip from? Abeg sex is dirtier.