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jenibayo:
Which chance? u want your teeth out abi no let my cockzy hear u oo!

Hey, come on girl. Chill out. am just assuming things here, doesn't really mean that I want u. I wouldn't even want to snatch one's babe(for what? ) But u need to know he already got his on someone else. just telling u so that u don't get hurt.  

jenibayo:
Cockzy is de most handsome guy in nland and i will die for him, abi u dey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx in me.

Loooooooooool Of course not! am just saying it for the sake of those who are interested. Besides, I haven't even got any hots for any Nairaland lady yet. Not until am through with them. (Unless if u will become my 1) Ok, supposing i hav got some 4 u, would u giv me the chance?

jenibayo:
I will not throw u out but u one like how mummy and daddy dey play abi wetin.

No, no be that na. Just trying to catch some fun here. But why bothering Cockzy when there are other dudes dying to make u theirs'?

ehn? So na so u want am be na? Ok, What if I refuse to leave cockzy's thread(not ur thread). What would u do wit me? Throw me out??

adolfe bad:
Riddle me this!

There's something funny bou nl thread openers
they all always seem to make a comment lyk
'pls dn't mock me or insult me if u dn't have anything to say be quiet!'
haha
why is that?

U better ask them that,

jenibayo:
Come wetin be your own for dis matter

U dey ask me?? Na me u dey ask??

Go on ahead! 'Brake' no I mean break hearts! It makes u no different from them. Then it will mean that u're the villian to be avoided for. Just b'cos u hav suffered a heart-break b/4 doesn't mean that u will break innocents hearts @ large. There's still HOPE 4 u! But anyway sha, I'ill sympathize with u.

lovemoi2:
whats with all this if he loves you he should, not all relationship have love, sometimes you are in a relationship because you just like someone
i mean some couples cant really say they are inlove but they still fucck and go on dates
that dont mean the man cant help her when she needs someone to do the dishes
what is the big deal about washing the dishes, must she be sick first or must you be inlove first to help her do some house chores

There is something that u must know, lovemoi2. Marriage is ORIGINALLY made for faithful couples who love each other truthfully(and not all these so-called relationships that u see in our world today posing as 'marriages') if a couple doesn't love each other, why go into a relationship that they know that even common washing of dishes just to help out their mate(whether illness or not), they find it hard to do. Since, they choose to live that way(i mean going into a relationship without loving their patner). Why bothering complaining about it?

@Topic. Nah, that ain't good. If the husband really loves the wife in question (even if he is experiencing any kind of prob or may be that the wifey may hav offended him sometime in the past) he should be ready to do anything even if it means washing dishes just to help her out. Well, if he doesn't, then it's a problem.

Then if the woman knows that her ex is now her friend, why would she be hiding it? doesn't that makes the whole thing to be suspicious? Shouldn't the husband be feeling insecured

MRbrownJAY:
well then these men should accept what marriage MEANS, as we all know that it doesnt mean slavery.
i understand that the fact that she hid it is wrong but a husband should have never asked for such at the first place.
he should have been mature and secure to know and understand that his wife has a past and from this past she has picture to remind her of her what happened.
what if she had graduation pictures with that guy, should she burn them too? family event/marriage photo with ex?
should they be burned too?

please enlighten me by explaining to me what "wifey suppose to give all up" means?!

accept your wife for who she is and dont try to change her into what you wish her to be.

No, i mean that 'She is suppose to give it all up' meaning she is suppose to discard anything that could pose as a threat to the survival of her marriage (could be anything like photos of her ex or any other thing) so far as it's not acceptable to the man. U may be right 'bout a man accepting his wife for who she is but what about his happiness? doesn't that still count as one?

omega25red:
Poster the easiest way out is to let her know that you are shy and really get dumb founded when you are around her. Trust me she will find that to be cute and before you know it you will know what to say around her.


By the way, how did you get her number and was she accepting your calls when you called or you were on of those guys who breath heavily on the phone and hang up

LOOOOOOOOOOL I bet some guys are naturally shy and lack a great deal of courage. These kind of dudes can be hard to deal with. @topic. U better walk up to her and tell her the truth so that u can deal with that feeling of urs or u will loose her forever.

MRbrownJAY:
and where in your "marriage manual" did you read that keeping photos from your past is a lack of either TRUST or LOVE?
the only problem in that sceario is that she didnt disclose it to her husband from the get go because this lady knew what kind of insecure man she was dealing with.
mad because of ex pics. . . . . . . . . pppppppppplease!
what about if she DID love that ex and want to keep the photo for that sake? is that a crime in your world too?

But bros u need to understand the fact that not all men would like to live with that aspect na. i mean if a man(or a woman) isn't comfortable with that, then why would the spouse go on ahead to keep those esp. even before they get married (and also if the man or the woman knows his partner's reaction) Isn't it not fair?! She is suppose to give all up. @Least, for the sake of her hubby and also for the marriage.

@jenibayo. but the bobo(Cockzy) no want u na. Why u dey disturb am? Abi na by force?!

MRbrownJAY:
@r231
are you saying that you destroyed every single photos of your exes? FB album etc?

well i guess you and your wife are insecure and do not trust each other. why would you think that having a photo of an ex is disrespectful?! the photo was taken before you guys met and so far as i know, you dont meet that person again.
thats what picture are for, to remember the past UNLESS you expect her to look at you as the Summum Bonum of her world.

like the previous poster said, she has feeling for her ex BUT they are friendly feelings about people that made her who she is today and not feeling like she wants to see him, let alone jump in bed with him

the insecurity might derive from you thinking about all the good time that they had when they were together or if he was better in the bedroom acrobatics department than you. either way, you cant control what people think about in their lives. . . . . .  . or is it disrespectful to remember the good time she had in her past too?!
should she only have positive memories of YOU?
come on now!

Excuse me, MRbrownJAY. What exactly are u saying?! We're talkin about marriage here, pal! it's suppossed to be based on LOVE & TRUST and not a thing of the past!!

MRbrownJAY:
@r231
are you saying that you destroyed every single photos of your exes? FB album etc?

well i guess you and your wife are insecure and do not trust each other. why would you think that having a photo of an ex is disrespectful?! the photo was taken before you guys met and so far as i know, you dont meet that person again.
thats what picture are for, to remember the past UNLESS you expect her to look at you as the Summum Bonum of her world.

like the previous poster said, she has feeling for her ex BUT they are friendly feelings about people that made her who she is today and not feeling like she wants to see him, let alone jump in bed with him

the insecurity might derive from you thinking about all the good time that they had when they were together or if he was better in the bedroom acrobatics department than you. either way, you cant control what people think about in their lives. . . . . .  . or is it disrespectful to remember the good time she had in her past too?!
should she only have positive memories of YOU?
come on now!

Excuse me, MRbrownJAY. What exactly are u saying?! We're talkin about marriage here, pal! it's suppossed to be based on LOVE & TRUST and not a thing of the past!!

*****just passing*****

kehnie:
val day was a memorable day for me.i was at home expecting my guy all day long he didnt show up till evening,by dat time i was already angry ,thought he had taken anoder woman out,anyway he pleaded and explain to me,then took me to d ozone cinema,we got home around 11pm,was relaxing on d coach wen he started kissing me,unknown to me,he had a ring in his mouthand he was kissing me wit the ring,i was sooooooooooooooo shocked,anyway to cut the long story short,dat was hw he propose to me sha.

Mehn! That was a way too romatic for my liking although it was a bit risky sha but by the way, Congrats!!

@Poster. And what would u want to do with it??

skfa1:
Pls guyz dont let me share it, it is quite frustrating      

Eeeiyaah!! Pls do share it na, at least, it will help u out with ease so that u wouldn't worry urself to death. Esp. when sum1 is ready to help u out. Even I myself never get the vibes. So c'mon, on let it flow, @topic. Mine was kinda bored. (maybe due to the fact that i hav no gf or that my loved ones are faraway to spend with) but @least, i wasn't left out.

***What the Hell?*** I can't believe what i am reading here!

Better find a way to solve that prob in ur relationship otherwise u hav only two options: To quit the relationship or to continue to carry the cross. That's the truth. Period!

jenibayo:
Come mr.man why are u angry, did i say anytin wrong.

Yes! Alright, I mean No. But, What u just said made me so uncomfortable! "I cry for moni" Do you really mean that?!

jenibayo:
Guys do cry for me but i cry for moni.

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[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=390595.msg5423469#msg5423469 date=1264981279]I wish I'd worn jeans instead of a skirt.[/quote]U should hav thought about that in the first place.

Rooneyboy:
I just have 2 nairaland babes that i loff so dearly and they r 'The Amaka and Iyanda' but The Amaka is doing real iyanga for me, As for the one i would probably strangle if i c her would be Tope2000!

Are u gonna kill her?!

In everything that happens, whether good or bad, there's always a reason, bro. So, do not say that there isn't any cos' if u do so, then it will make everyother thing that u do seem worthless. I think what u should do as a concerned partner is to find out from her what her problem really is. In that way, u can decipher from where the problem comes from and solve it from there. It's up to YOU to make the right choice. Her opinion really matters. Good luck, man.

Most ladies do admire dudes with courage. Cos' it gives them the feeling that u hav got what it takes to be a man. So buddy, u shouldn't be angry 'bout what happened rather u should be grateful for the fact that she did u a favour(although, in a way that u may never understand sha) by bringing out the not-so-good in u. So stop sitting down there whining, get of over ur butt and prove to her that u ain't what she takes you to be. Consider this as a challenge and get it done.

[quote author=Dammy_ray link=topic=383400.msg5340347#msg5340347 date=1263823584]Nah wa for u oo,

so u don't want girls u want to date know where u specifically from

Are u shy to tell it?, cause i don't fink theirs any problem with that[/quote]Nna abeg make u help me tell am.

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