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Romance › Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Donvilo(m): 1:12pm On Jul 28, 2014

lalasticlala: a virgin today may turn out to b a dog tomorrow.

It all depends on the type of virgin u had in mind. After all, we have the wise virgins & the foolish ones

Romance › Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Donvilo(m): 7:58pm On Jul 27, 2014*

This is the number one reason why we refuse to change: IRRESPONSIBILITY.
We do not want to be the change we need in other to perfect others. We talk of changing other people & yet we refuse to change ourselves.

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Romance › Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry ? by Donvilo(m): 10:13am On Jul 26, 2014

@Topic: No, I can not & will not do that. That will be a complete waste of time, energy & resources. Reasons? Alright, I will tell you.

If I should do that, then it will only mean that;

1. I'm an outright hypocrite

2. I can not define myself & my wellbeing

3. I'm not a responsible person

4. I have no respect for myself & those around me.

5. I do not know what I want for myself & from life @ large.

O.P, It's all about honesty, u know. Like someone mentioned earlier, the real question we should be asking ourselves is, "can I continue to date someone that I hav discovered that I cannot marry"

My 2cents actually

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Fashion › Re: Beauty Mistakes That Make You Age by Donvilo(m): 8:23pm On Jul 24, 2014

Some ladies just needs to overcome the desire of 'overdoing' it grin

Family › Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Donvilo(m): 11:06am On Jul 21, 2014

I do not have problem with a woman correcting me when am wrong, especially in a respectful manner, in fact, I respect such ladies a lot wink

(talkless of those who will nag & yell at the top of their voices, just to correct me, mbanu! abughi m ewu na huh

), what I have problem is it's a woman NOT allowing me to do the same for her (especially when I have taken my precious time to explain to her in a way she will fully understand what I mean undecided

) Imagine if the woman in this scenario happens to be the one I intend to marry shocked

Now that is where am really pissed off angry

Family › Re: Is There Anything Wrong With Bein A House Husband by Donvilo(m): 11:27am On Jul 16, 2014

@Topic: The answer is No. There is nothin wrong with it. It's the same way as asking, "If there's anything wrong with a wife being the bread winner?," This could be somehow seen as aspect of "TRADING PLACES" just for the fun of it or may be for one member to relieve the other of stress or may be just for one to feel what it is like to be in the other person's shoes. undecided

You see, the big deal here is not actually about either of the party taking a role that is not exclusively meant for the each of the particular proposed individual, No; it is about a case of mutual agreement & understanding of priorities between the man & the woman. Remember OP, marriage is originally created to be a RELATIONSHIP OF TEAMWORK, with each individual given a responsibility that best suites them; which is, the man as the head (The breadwinner of course) & the woman as the heart (The home maker) so that the equation will be balanced wink

So what am I trying to insinuate here if one may ask? Well, this is it; 'It is the responsibility of the husband & wife to decide for themselves how it is best for them to run their homes, regardless of what the society may say or what any other person may think of such' Why? It's because it's their home not yours angry

It's nobody's business undecided

I mean to say.
Oh, one more thing; it also depends on your personality & the personality of the one you are married to (for the married ones) OR the kind of person you(as an umarried one) want to settle down with. Chikena

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Family › Re: Your Parents Vs. Your Dreams: Leaving The Shadow Of Your Parents by Donvilo(m): 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2014*

Derealme: I have a father which is of this type. He has been very choosy and always want to dictate how I live my life from education, career, faith, relationship in short evry facet of my life. These have make me resentful towards him evry tym I see him. He makes me look foolish and stupid as if I dont knw how to take charge of ma live. If not for the fear of God and following His commandment, probably I would done something stupid but their [b] blessings [/] matters alot.

It all started wen I finished my JSS graduatin to SSS and to choose which path to follow in my career. I wanted to go for commercial class but he was tellin me I had to go for science. With his coersion I did first term of my SS in science. Wen it was second term I decided to change, not that I cud nt cope. I had good grades, one of the best in the science class, however, dats nt wat I wanted in life. Wen he heard dat I defected to commercial class he beat the hell out of me. That wasnt painful , the most painful is dat he wanted me to study medicine to be a doctor just because one of my female cousin, agemate, choosed science class and wanted to be a doctor.

Comes to faith, though we are both Muslims but the extent to which u bliv in something differ. There are sometin u c ur fellow bliver doin which u knw is nt part of the doctrine or takin tins too extreme. It pissed u off. He ll always want u to join in it which is against wat u bliv.

There are many other issues lyk dat tym and space wont allow me to type.

I bliv in dis wise sayin 'Your destiny is in ur hand'. But I think I ll fully take charge of my life wen am no more unda his roof.

U're not alone broda, I too have this same problem. The worst of all here is that not only is my father against such notion as well but also almost my entire relatives as well! No one seems to realise the fact that we are living in a fast-changing world! Things seems to be taking a different shape every minute of the day, a world where if u don't choose for ur self how u're going to survive it's SEEMLY mysterious system, it will eventually end up adding u as part of it's likable horrendous HIVE-LIKE MENTALITY!! :-o I hav decided to take charge of my life the moment am through with the phase of my university eductaion. I know it is quite late for one to wake up @ that stage but I still have not giving up on my own self. I will advise each & every one of us to discover their true calling so long as u're still breathing. It's never too late. Our parents has the responsibility to guide & protect us on the path of our destiny in life but never to choose our purpose. The possibility of finding ur one true happiness lies solely in your hands! This is because this course has been designed for u & u alone right from the onset. Not for ur parernts, siblings, relatives, friends & other dignitaries.
Be wise, my friends.

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Fashion › Re: Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria 2014 - Photos by Donvilo(m): 12:34am On Jul 10, 2014

One thing that I have come to realise is that "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", one man's food could actually turn out to be a poison to another! @ the post: All of them are gorgeous but the ones that got my attention the most are (starting with the first) 1. Miss Kastina. 2. Miss Anambra. 3. Miss Gombe. wink

Those ladies are something to behold wink

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Food › Re: Weird Food Combinations.. by Donvilo(m): 4:50pm On Jul 07, 2014

"Bread & Indomie" I thought it was a cool combination when I started eating it until........ shocked

Sports › Re: France Vs Germany - World Cup Q.final (0 - 1) On 4th July 2014 by Donvilo(m): 7:55pm On Jul 04, 2014

Sleep easy, my friend grin

Food › Re: Is It Hygienic To Eat Suya? by Donvilo(m): 5:59pm On Oct 28, 2013

I think the real question here is; "From which animal meat was the suya delicacy made from? undecided

Romance › Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Donvilo(m): 10:03am On Sep 27, 2013

@Topic. What the poster has just revealed is very true & real! The problem there is that this world is so corrupted with evil influence that only few people that are strong-willed (especially the ones that are aware of the truth) have choosen not to follow with the system of this age. This all has to do with the MIND, that is where the root of all these problems comes from. But it's never too late for that, there's still hope for those who think they aren't worth it anymore. U can still turn around and be of a help to others. You don't have to give in to such pressure anymore. This has NOTHING to do with religion as many might think, it's has SOMETHING to do with our personal lives. Don't be decieved. If you need more evidence for me to ascertain my claims, read the book of deuteronomy 30: 11 - 20

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Romance › Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Donvilo(m): 9:02am On Sep 27, 2013

olivvvia: Now wat if it wasn't taken away 4rm u @tender age by force

Eeeiyaaa..I feel ur pain...cheer up, ok? It's not ur fault. Just trust in the mighty works of God through Jesus & He will restore it back to u. You don't have to blame yourself. You were very young then.

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Car Talk › Re: Woman Survives Her Car Being Crushed By A Container by Donvilo(m): 4:06pm On Sep 25, 2013

I guess it's not yet her time.............

Christianity Etc › Re: Share The Experience Of Your Salvation Here. by Donvilo(m): 1:26pm On Sep 15, 2013*

Mine ocurred in & around June 2011, I was invited by a friend to a christian fellowship made up of mostly both the undergrad & the grad students, (Actually, that was the same year I got admission into the tertiary institution) which I really found quite astonishing. I was then beclouded by the feeling of hopelessness, purposelessness & disbelief following a recent broken relationship with my family members & my age-long sort of "dersire" to find out more about life. At the gathering, I met the wife of a brother-in-christ in the fellowship who was actually a friend of that friend of mine who invited me to the meeting (No wonder she knows so much about my predicament). The one question that she asks that baffels me was this, "Have u met the Holyspirit, do u truly have him on the inside of u? How is ur personal relationship with Him? I was like, puzzelled for a moment, "What? Wait a munite, I thought the holyspirit dwells only on above, how is it that such power can be on the inside of me? They looked at my bewildered face, then on themselves & smiled saying, "It's alright, all u need to do is to let go of all the things that has hindered me from living above my expectations & believe/trust in the name of Jesus, the man that has made it possible so far. Having earlier on lost faith entirely on everything, including my loved ones & my own self, (cos' I don't know what to believe anymore) I did as I was told. After that, the next thing she did for me was to lay hands on my head & pray for me to receive the spirit of God. Immediately after that, I cried out loud as I got to realise how sinful I have been & the fact that someone higher than myself has sought to reside inside a wretched soul like me. This revelation really shattered me to the extent that I became like a refreshed, humble person again! Since then, life has never been the same ever since Jesus got to take over my entire life. I never doubted the true meaning of life. I still struggle to keep him alive within me even to this day especially in this evil world. It's not really an easy task. I really thank God for giving me that second chance. It's really worth it.

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Pets › Re: Some Unusual Nigerian Pets by Donvilo(m): 11:20pm On Jun 08, 2013

Sanboy25: I would never have one of these beasts as a pet.
For them to devour me while I'm asleep...

Bu hua hua aaaah!

TV/Movies › Re: Tv Adverts You Dont Like Seeing by Donvilo(m): 4:26pm On Dec 28, 2011

Aha ha ha ha haaa grin

Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by Donvilo(m): 10:48pm On Dec 15, 2011

Let all praise & thanksgiving be unto You, O Ancient Of Days! You shall reign forever!

Christianity Etc › Re: The Catholic Church And Its Claims As The Bible Author? by Donvilo(m): 10:30pm On Dec 11, 2011

The reason why there exist the strange nature arising in Catholic church is because The Bible (in the book of revelations 13,14) has let us know dat the Devil will use the then political world power (Roman Empire) to corrupt the church from the inside. Rather, fulfilling the "End Times" prophecies from the Almighty God Jehovah, through his faithful servant Apostle John. That is why the world today are being misled by the deceptive nature of the Evil one

Christianity Etc › Re: How Does One Know When God Has Said No? by Donvilo(m): 10:56am On Dec 08, 2011

Joagbaje:
His words are "yeah and amen" concerning our desires so long as they line up with hs will.

2 Corinthians 1:20
20 For all the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us.

1 John 5:14
14 And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:

Some Christians may experience hindrances because of sin or unbelief. God has given but they have not Ben able to RECIEVE . There are deeds which hinders us from receiving .such as hatred ,malice and inability to walk in love.

This two Epistles are enough to strenghten my faith in Him for the rest of my day. Thanks for this, Joagbaje wink

Phones › Re: 10 Reasons People Are Unhappy With Their Mobile Phone by Donvilo(m): 12:33pm On Dec 06, 2011

Hilarious! cheesy

TV/Movies › Re: NL Movie-Club: Summer 2011 Stakeout by Donvilo(m): 11:55pm On May 15, 2011

Thor rocks!!!

Romance › Re: Women: Do You Find Good Looking Men With Ear Rings More Attractive? by Donvilo(m): 6:42pm On Mar 24, 2011

Honestly, i don't believe in first impressions cos' it tends to deceive a lot. What de guy/lady wears isn't his/her real attitude.

Romance › Re: Ok People: Lets Be Honest! What Do You Really Want? by Donvilo(m): 6:30pm On Mar 24, 2011

Sorry, i can't answer dat. It's too personal.

Romance › Re: Wetin Women Dey Contribute 4 Relationship Sef? by Donvilo(m): 4:05pm On Mar 10, 2011

The answer to the question of this thread is, "The GOOD women among us contribute an outstanding relationship, whether marriage or any other relationship (Just as Lord Reed quotes,) While the BAD ones angry

are nothing but parasites! Still, it's nothing to be bragged about. That's just the plain TRUTH!

Romance › Re: When A Man Loves A Woman . . . by Donvilo(m): 11:56am On Mar 06, 2011

He will do every thing in his power to protect her

Romance › Re: Men Get This In Your Skulls ~~~~~~~ All Women Are not Gold Diggers. by Donvilo(m): 2:18pm On Feb 26, 2011

I support the thread. The same thing goes the other way round: "All Men are not c.u.n.t fcukers".

Romance › Re: Do Nigerian Men Prefer Girls And Women They Can Take Advantage Of? by Donvilo(m): 1:54pm On Feb 26, 2011

Goldieluks:
such men are users and they can never find happiness,all they do is go about using vulnerable women.
such men are the most miserable and pathetic losers,you find amongst the few good men.

Exactly there! U really spoke my mind. 100%!

Romance › Re: Do Nigerian Men Prefer Girls And Women They Can Take Advantage Of? by Donvilo(m): 1:49pm On Feb 26, 2011

Goldieluks:
such men are users and they can never find happiness,all they do is go about using vulnerable women.
such men are the most miserable and pathetic losers,you find amongst the few good men.

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