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lilmaxfidel:

op have you fallen out of love before?
i mean a 3storey building fall o  

nope, i stepped out

vizkiz:
6. The dude goes broke

Believe me, no chick stays with you once you go broke

then she fell in love with the money nt d guy

Unibenstudent:
Is love standing on table,that it has to fall off! Anyway nice 1

lolz

Zeemoor:
Omo mummy means mummy's boy
~
When you're excessively attached to your mum at the age when you're expected to be independent, you're a mummy's boy
When you cannot maintain a healthy relationship with your partner without running to your mum, you're a mummy's boy
When your life is controlled by your mum and you have no mind of your own, you're a mummy's boy

yea that's just it

1. They weren’t in love in the first place
It’s not really possible to fall out of love if you
never WERE in love, right? The reason why they
do, nevertheless, is becos they confuse being
in love with something else.
This often happens wen people look for a
relationship just to substitute a need; for instance a need not to be lonely, or when they are in need of something just to gain from the partner


2. A seemingly “compatibility” became
“incompatibility”
As you may well know, at the beginning of a
relationship we see the world, (and our new
partner), through rose-colored glasses.
Everything is wonderful. We have so much fun,
and we are such a match… haven’t even had a
single fight… yet.

Suddenly there is friction. Suddenly there are
differences. Suddenly there are terrible fights.
Where has the compatibility gone?
The answer to that is that it often was never
there to begin with.
Both of you have given
your best to be the ideal
version of yourselves,
even if that meant
becoming someone
else.
We are so desperately trying to please the new
partner. We want them to be a perfect match at
all cost.
So we are not who we really are.
This is where we can do better in the next
relationship – to always stay ourselves!
And if the new partner doesn’t like who we are?
Then toss them. He or she wasn’t a fit anyway.
You don’t want an artificial relationship that
explodes after the expiration date. You want the
real thing, with a real you, as part of it.

3. There’s too much boredom and routine
If you don’t water your plant every day it will die.
As simple as that.
As will your love and relationship if you don’t
maintain it on a regular basis.
Love in a romantic relationship is not an abstract
thing that exists and stands by itself. It has to be
fostered, and taken care of on a daily basis.

A thriving relationship is work. And only work
will make it grow.
This can be done by daily love rituals, weekly
communications sessions, (instead of watching
TV), creating “memory-beacons”, regular live
affection, and sharing mutual interests and
hobbies.
Love… you have to take care of it before it will
take care of you.

4. The relationship didn’t go in the desired
direction for both

This is not quite similar to being incompatible,
this is what people call “growing apart”.
When you started the relationship, you had
more or less the same goals, shared world-
views and expectations on how to grow the
relationship, and thoughts about how to make
the next logical step together.
While this may have been mutually honest,
priorities can change.
Maybe at the beginning, you both agreed to get
married in the near future, with kids and the
whole package. And maybe it sounded great at
that time, but then for one of you the priority
changed to, for example, getting that promotion
at work.
Or one partner got a new job with new
colleagues, new challenges and goals, while the
other one wasn’t able to adapt to the new
situation.
Things like this will create problems and friction
in the relationship.
Unfortunate as it is – this is no ones fault – but it
can cause people to fall out of love.

5. The love became toxic

The rose-colored glasses came off not so long
ago, and all of a sudden behaviors come to light
that were unexpected and very unpleasant.
For example, people can become obsessed by
the relationship and act needy, demanding and
clingy.
Or they become control freaks - they use
“emotional blackmail”, and very often become
verbally aggressive, (sometimes even physically).
The relationship is suddenly ran by just one
person, as opposed to thriving from an equal
contribution of both partners.
All in all, they create a toxic environment that
chokes out the life of love. Until it stops
breathing.

chibwike:
No naija song?...even one

Addicted to Success is a Naija song

Whats the point of restoring it back? ...when, if guys are in relationship with them 'still gon' ask for sex

acenazt:
Weak sucker I'll give you 7days to think up your greatest bar
Compare it to my soap it won't still wash poo!!

if i cud re-arranged dah alphabet's, i'd put U between F & CK !

kristina1:
Love portion ke?

lolz, thats bn desperate

1. Dot Willis - Addicted to Success ; http://9jabeats.com/Dot_Willis/music.php
2. Chris brown ft usher, RICKross - New flame
3. Lil wayne - Believe me
4. Lil wayne - No motive
5. Rick Ross - Rich is gangstar

007Bruce:
you're phucking dumb, my brother/ you & wackness are for one another/ i plan to seperate ya with thunder/ but what God has put together... Let no man put asunder/

ma flow xo queasy/ the symptoms is wat im spitting
u xo wack nigga/ur mouth canneva earn u a living . Turnt!

AgapeCharis:
When person go open dx kind thread for my head sef??

hahaha *falls off chair*

Because they want to be

Don't fall in love ...cos wen u fall, then u v bruises, scrapes, broken parts etc... Buh grow in love

Anything the mind drops ...
Next tym they complain, tell them to change their attitude!

007Bruce:
this dummy is wack/ you're nothing but ''wack''/ mehn!, this dotwill is wack!!!

hello pant! What do u want? Wanna get ur head off ya neck? Is dhat a bar?

Life is xo simple,,, i will find another girl with moral virtue to date

kristina1:
Many girls are confident without makeup.

few

ShahzadNonso:
your own na stolen rib? Who stole it na?

i neva no o, i dey pray mk d girl signify

Thats not a good thing to prefer. Girls that says such, r out of their sense

Thats not a good thing to prefer. Girls that says such, r out of their senses

alexdellafonte:
I prefer a petite girl. They are always on point.

u mean a gal of a very small stature?

Jennydoris:
Na this one dey pain me pass... . I hate it when I call someone and the person won't return the call except if you call back. Even some girls are guilty of it.

yea, it sucks

kristina1:
U berra go and sleep.

and i did ...Gudmawnii

donroxy:
washere baba !! Isapa is the deal !!!

na xo o

kristina1:
Smh

*winks*

iceberylin:
Skinny girls rock...



U'll need juju for me to fall for a Fat girl

the juju sef no fit work

Tymax:
Not slim not fat. Just average. I definitely don't have any business with broomstick. I don't want storex tank too.

very funny