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You should be arrested for putting out this type of low quality video.

Where's the ABS?

This thing always happens to simple guys who haven't been able to balance the laws of power and the laws of attraction. Start all over again if you still want her, but this time, turn the tables first. Be intentionally unavailable.

There're two sides to fatherhood; the first being a FATHER and MENTOR, and the second being a FRIEND and COMPANION.

This time, be a father, not a friend; your friendship should have helped to avoid this, but you had a totally wrong idea of what father-son friendship should be like.

Your son, irrespective of his smartness, needs someone to put him on the right track and help him make the right choices. Be a man for once.

I need a lady with bigbums, breast size is inconsequential; she may be short, average height or tall, should reside in lagos and stay alone (Abuleegba area is preferable). Preferable age 25-35

What does he do exactly?

Love conquers all. Conquer this too.

Go ahead and marry another woman.

She's cheating on you!

What has changed?

Quiet touching, but I'll be as frank as possible.
First, divorce is out of the picture. Remember the words of Jesus in Mat 19:9 CEV: "I say that if your wife has not committed some terrible sexual sin, you must not divorce her to marry someone else. If you do, you are unfaithful." These infallible words from the lips of the Master apply, vice versa. In this case, your husband hasn't done such, as you pointed out, at least in the context of marriage.

Secondly, medical science has proven to be of tremendous help; all these options are quiet reasonable, and godly too, so, you might want to consider them carefully. Adoption is also excellent. In fact, God loves and supports that; the Bible calls Him a Father to the orphans.

Thirdly, you married your husband, not his family. And whatever they've said or done to you wrongly, can be covered by your umbrella of love. Paul gave an insight in Romans 5:5 CEV, that God has given us the Holy Spirit, who fills our hearts with his love. So, you are full of love; just let it out!

Lastly, c'mmon, put your faith to work! Don't shy away because of this seemingly minor challenge. Paul calls it "our light affliction." Another translation puts it thus: "small and temporary trouble." Hebrews 11:3 gives an insight on how God created the worlds by His words. So, together, with your husband, go ahead and create through your faith-embellished words, a brand new testes, sperms, conception and babies. You can effect that desired change through faith!