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Positiveme2020:
Which field do you cover

Management sciences

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No matter what happens, Nigeria is not giving hope at all

Money is talking

Hmmm

Seem suspicious

Congrats

MisterBanny:
Good day everyone. This topic shouldn't be on this Section, but I really need it to gain traffic urgently reason I am doing this here. My apologies.

I am from a family of four. The eldest. I hail from Plateau state. I lost my Dad when I was 10yrs. After my dad's burial, I went to live with a paternal anty who maltreated me so badly that I almost committed Suicide. I was like a slave. You can think of all the dehumanizing treatments in life. I started High sch. No sponsor.

Same anty never paid my fees for once, yet I was like a slave to her and her children. Throughout my secondary school, there was NO session that I ever wrote complete exams for 1, 2 and 3rd Terms. I would write maybe 6papers and not write the remaining papers, I will miss the next term's exams totally and write a few papers the final term of the session due to not paying sch fees. I was so ridiculed & mocked by my classmates cos of the constant embarrassment. As a result of this, I became an introvert. I couldn't even ask questions in class or socialize with my mates. No friends. My fee was #800 at the time. A private sch. I was so determined to get education & prayed God to pls help me bear whatever I faced at that time.

During this period, my mum who is unlettered stayed back in the village with my siblings and had to remarry. I got really pissed and cried myself out when I heard about the marriage cos I had no prior knowledge about it. My mum up till now has NEVER given me anything like Money in my Life. Highest she ever gave me was 1k at once...

At a point some person's even asked me if I still had a Mum particularly whenever I tried to seek help from them.
I was undeterred, wrote my WAEC, had 4-Distinctions and 4-credits and a Pass in Geography, then wrote JAMB, scored 220 and got admission to the University. I had to Hussle to pay my fees throughout. I spent 8yrs in the University due to money constraints. My mum never showed much concern. At a point I said I would drop out and to my shock, she said I should do so if I wanted to. Thank God I done with my Degree.
During and after NYSC she would always call me almost everyday talking about money. Making demands on me. I was always sending to her cos no matter what, she's my mum.

At a point, I wasn't responding to her calls for months and never sent money again. She started telling people that I wasn't calling her or picking her calls or helping her. She also instigated my younger siblings against me and they started disrespecting me. Anyone of us who has money and gives to her at that particular period is who she will become friends with then starts reporting negative things about others to the person that is currently giving her money. Some things would be done and I will never be aware except an outsider tells me. I felt so bad about all these and I decided to stay aloof and estranged from my family. I don't call except once in a while. My mum has been calling for almost a month now but I haven't picked cos money will be involved in the conversation and I don't have now.
Pls advise me.

The last straw was when I got Mobilized for NYSC and had nothing to even use for transport to the camp. I consulted a cooperative that she belongs in to loan me some money, but did u know that after they accepted to give me the loan the next day, I went back and they started giving me excuses. I later heard from an impeccable memeber of the cooperative that it was my mum that asked them not to grant me the loan. Her reason was that I may not pay back and she didn't want the responsibility of repaying to fall back on her. Same woman that has never given me any dime. Mind you, she has money to buy the latest Wrappers but can't help me.

She attends almost all the burials in the village even when the deceased isn't related to her and likes to drink alcohol. I have talked to her about this but she wouldn't listen.

This is my second time commenting on this post,i see many people criticizing me based on what i said .

Please don't listen to them, they're only trying to make you have misunderstanding with your mum.

She is your mum for christ sake, they're all here talking rubbish why they're in good term with their mother's.

Instead of them to find a solution they're telling you to avoid your own mother.

When you jam an original liar,you will even swear affidavit for him

Passing through torture in your own country

This is rubbish

Is not new

Okay

That's one major problem of Nigeria.

Not knowing they're the ones taking themselves backward

Sounds like a threat

Hmmm

Congrats to him

Use your mother's tongue to communicate with them frequently.

As they grow they get use to it even if the speaks just English,but if they grow with that tongue they'll get use to it

MisterBanny:
Thanks for this piece. God bless you

You are welcome

That's the reason why you won't stop lacking

Congratulations to Hakeem Baba-Ahmed on his appointment as Special Political Adviser to Kashim Shettima.🎈

This is nice

Wow

She is your mum is that she is your mum

On a normal day if you really do have to give ,give her because many are praying to have a mother that will disturb them or make them spend.

Whatsoever you passed through,let bygone be bygone,she is your family.

Be safe

He is just doing well

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Speechless

This seem like nothing to some people

And on Sunday most of this gunman will still go church with their wife and children,even sit in front sit.

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Sometimes it will look like some parents didn't train their children well.

Parents won't kill themselves, nowadays children even after being trained,the ones that acknowledge the home training take it while some divert .

So what's my point?

My point here is whatsoever punishment that should be given to him is absolutely right, because he lacks respect

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