₦airaland Forum

TonyeBarcanista:
Bros, honestly, you are crying over nothing.

Guy, na you find trouble! Even me sef de suspect say your eye de chook for the babe as you don de reason her as second mother.

BTW we have seen relative househelp "chanced" madam in their homes or get pregnant for the oga for house.

Guy, apologise to your wife, and ask her to send the girl to her people.

At bolded is not a fair comment, mind you his daughter is 9 and the househelp is 15 meaning that she is of the same generation with his daughter.
Moreover, if he can cater for the retinue of people in his house, he can afford a girlfriend or N1000 for short time in ashewo joint if he wants to descend that low.
I have a similar situation in my house, my 9 year old daughter and the 14 year old house help quarrel and argue daily like kids which I settle from time to time as normal for kids growing up especially female Children.
Invariably it means he will have a a senior daughter and younger daughter relationship with both of them, this doesnt go down well with my own wife too. Its jealosy, callous and stupidity on the part of the wife who wants to create a demarcation between how her daughter is presented and the househelp.

Since your wife has started blackmailing you, send the girl back to her parents and pay her school fees through her parents if you can afford it. Let her do all the work, dont bother replacing her except with a nanny who will come to the house to work and go back home whenever she is needed.
Your wife is a wicked woman, you have to make plan B for yourself and your kids as this is a sign that if you run into any hard time she will not pity you if the table turns

catoluy:
Watch as federal government will rush and stop this plan. Fashola stopped Nnaji from using his Geometric Power technology from supplying Abia power and electricity. Many Igbos still don't know what's going on this country. Your federal roads in SE; where governors and even individuals have written to the ministry of works and housing...allow us to fix this road for free if you don't want to do it, we will pay for it. They say no. Same with Enugu airport, allow us to fix the airport to bring it to Lagos and Abuja level, for free with our money, they say no. Then do it, they refuse.

Air Peace has asked the FG to allow them to turn Enugu Airport into a hub for the past 4 years, but whosai, the FG has frustrated that move and some Nigerians even tried to rope him into fraud accusations in US

SisterFire:
....Ebe nigeria juru Igbo ,umuigbo anyi aga aju onwe anyieee ?

Obee di anyi

Many Indians in Nigeria don't have visa

That was insensitive, but Papa Ifeanyi should forgive them.
They also dont seem to understand Post Partum Depression which their action could have caused the nursing mother who just put to bed.

LordAzubuike:
It's a viper and very venomous.

Cc okey777

In the North here, the Hausas call this viper 'Gobe Da Nisa' meaning 'Tomorrow is too Far'. It may have 'kids' around your vicinity

emmabest2000:
Arabic what ?

All terrorist will go to hell

The OP is avoiding the real name 'Islamic torture centre'

01mcfadden:
Leave the messenger, focus on the message.

Tell me what would have happened if it was Fani Kayode that brought in two bullion vans into his compound on the eve of the election.

Bullion vans belonging to CBN in a private residence, leave those online pretenders who struggle to buy data to defend Buhari and his corrupt government

Since the FG reimbursed Kogi with N10b few weeks to election, they should as well release what is due to Bayelsa

Afamed:
The Maradi border between Niger and Kastina is under key and lock. I really don't know where this man is getting his information from? I really don't know why these people love playing politics with every decision of the government. The same Niger/ Kastina Maradi border that was shown on Channels TV with heavy security patrol?

So you believe everything on APC Channels TV?

Both Deji Adeyanju, Naira and Buhari are all scam and nuisance to this Luggardian contraption.

He should remove Marley from his gutter music stage name, that name belongs to Music Bob Marley

He went same way he came

mansakhalifa:
If by the end of this season, United somehow, manage to score up to 25 goals with this whacky attacking set up, then I will personally slaughter two pythons.

Lalasticlala take note, we need to see the python pictures

Ugly and heartless people all around

RPirez:
Rubbish! Foolish Africans trying everything to be westernized.

That airline has to be a 9ja one cuz pets aren't allowed in a regular passenger cabin. You wonder why 9ja is what it is. Breaking flying rules like e no concern dem. Fools!

Na your money kill am, you can decide to buy all the tickets in the plane and fly your goats in them the airlines will accept as long as you are paying for it

It seems Oyo state is in good hands, kudos to Gov Makinde

Shewbread:
After watching the video where a whole PHD holder from UK, was also a victim, I understand why you cannot easily convert a Muslim no matter how convinced they are about your preaching.

Such torture centres is one of the strongest structures that sustain Islam. No Muslim child or adult will have a knowledge of the existence of such centres that won't think twice before deserting the religion.

I'm surprised the police is doing as if they're just knowing. It's not a secret. There are thousands of such centres all over the north and parts of middle belt

And to think homosexuality and all forms of sexual abuse happen there. Disgusting!

Islam survives on Taqqiya and instilling brutal fear on those who intend to leave the religion.
Fatwa could be declared by a Mallam in a local mosque with many willing hands to murder the victim for apostasy.
You see them celebrating conversion of Christians to Islam with no one bordering them but the other way around can result to death sentence.
Las Las Islam na scam

donbachi:
To be rehabilitated and assimilated into the society.

And recruited into the Army as repentant terrorists

Papa Ifeanyi is angry, those ladies no try, it was an expensive joke

[quote author=fergie001 post=83401534][/quote]Thank you

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think the federal government should reintroduce firing squad for armed robbers and yahoo boys to be televised nationwide so as to serve as a deterrence to other would be criminals

MURIC Nairaland Rep. We are waiting for your boss to release a statement on this robbery incident. I wonder why the MODS take your MURIC posts to FP, its like Seun is a member of the MURIC Group against INNOVATION. I am looking for a picture of that their bus again

Typical Igbo mama, they dont seem to understand why their beautiful daughter has not brought a serious man home, they dont care about your celebrity status

Listening to her mum saying it in Igbo is deep and resonates within her soul, every Igbo speaker can relate

sigidi5:
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Make una pity this MANNALESS SUYA Seller now

mumexcellency:
sorry bro. Am sure your wife is not yet 40, so doesnt really understand what the lessons of life and marriage are.
please be very very patient. To be a good husband requires a lot of patience. Report her to her family. she is depressed and very violent therefore she needs quick help. Dont think divorce, kids will suffer. you can find temporary happiness by engaging in things that will make you happy outside your home.while you repair your marriage. No condition is permanent. This too shall pass.

She is not Depressed, people who are depressed will rather do bodily harm to themselves or their own offspring than other peoples children, its psychopaths that are violent and dont feel remorseful when they break a childs head leading to several stitches.

If depressed people commit violence by chance they will go into hiding, wont go to the shop and interact with every customer and even close late by 10pm against 7pm as instructed by her husband like this woman, people will be scared on the depressed behalf, so that the shame of their action doesn't move them to the point of taking sniper, but this woman has no shame and you say she is depressed 'taaaah comot for here.

DeeMain:
She is a broken person that may also be depressed.

Depression is one of the symptoms she exhibits. Depression is not an 'all-join' condition.

The solution will start when the roots of what broke her is found.

Wrong! As has been stated here by others, Depression leads to withdrawal syndrome and not attack. Psychopathy leads to attack and not Depression.
Depression will not lead a woman to harm others children while cherishing her own
When a woman suffers Post Patum depression, the tendency is for her to do harm to her own offspring and not other peoples children

Pearl05:
Close down the shop, drive her to her parents house and leave her there. Send someone over with her personal belongings.

Change your locks .

Let her be there for at least six months, her senses will format to factory settings.

I did the same thing, called her family that I was sending her back. They called her and I gave them my condition for continuing with the marriage and the consequences of violating the terms of the agreement, now she control her emotions better.
I even went to court to start divorce proceedings but stopped midway.
I was like a sissy in the marriage for long until I woke up one day and decided to take full control of my house.

Her family were shocked by my sudden change, she attacked me and I gave her serious 'controlled' beating, by controlled beating I mean she pushed me to the wall but physically I was very angry and vibrating but in my heart I was loving her but had to show her my strength as a man and to let her understand how it felt inflicting harm on our maids.
Never beat a woman, but if it's the last option only do it when you are not reacting in anger but pretending to be angry.
She tried to blackmail me into apologizing but I never did, for sometime now she has been abiding by the tenets of the agreement and I try to encourage her, watch her mood changes and how to keep it in check, it has not been easy but it's better now.

Report her to Social welfare department for child abuse, it would humble her and make her think twice before hitting and injury on the maids and relations, if not she would someday extend it to the children, tell her parents you are planning to return their daughter and escalate the matter.
Don't allow her to keep blackmailing you to submission with silence in the home.
I have been in your position.

Can you imagine yourself attributing her violence and child abuse to depression, oga respect your old age.

You enabled the child abuse and husband abuse by tolerating her nonsense ab initio, I just hope she doesn't inflict harm on you and your children soon

Make it an official matter for your good and all around you, they will assign marriage counselors to you and your wicked wife, maybe she would change

Even the US has taken note of the gentleman agreement regarding power rotation, the northern politicians should not play with fire as their I'd palpable anger in the land

You guys in the South keep deceiving yourselves, customs is only effective in the South, no custom seizes Alhaji goods over here. Same way you hardly see police checking points

Even Maina attempted to escape from his cage at EFCC