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Throughout history, the display of power took many different forms; in prehistoric days the most muscular hunter had the power, in Rome the senator with the most connections, and nowadays a combination of social status, the car you drive and the amount of money you have signify your power.

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POWER

Power is the biggest aphrodisiac. Women in particular are hugely attracted to power .

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Learn to behave like an alpha male, a real alpha male and not just some posturing chump, and you can tap into the innate attraction circuitry of a woman’s brain and become irresistible to her.

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She is wired on an instinctual level to pickup on these signals and her body will subconsciously respond with feelings of attraction.

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The good news is that you don’t need to actually have lots of money or huge muscles to covey that you are the alpha male. You just need to learn to convey through behavior the traits that signal that you are this type of male.

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Today things like being rich, socially connected or well-built create automatic attraction. But still the feeling behind both things, muscles and money, is the same: SAFETY and PROTECTION.

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The guy who is high status, confident and able to get what he wants from the world is the modern alpha male. And women are programmed to be attracted to men who display these alpha qualities, because it’s built into the right Hemisphere of the brain for their protection and the protection of their offspring.

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Things are a little different though… Today it isn’t just the most muscular guy who has the best chance for survival, though women still find this attractive. It is also the guy with the most social power and confidence who dominates in our world.

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if a girl had the option to mate with a strong, dominant, masculine guy or a weak guy with little power, of course she would choose the masculine guy. Quick jump to our reality -- today, girls still have attraction towards dominant males because it has become wired into them .

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They don’t “think” about who will provide the best offspring, they just feel something, some urge in their body towards a particular mate…the same way a girl feels urges towards a certain type of guy. We call that feeling ATTRACTION.

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He also had good genes, so if girl chose him to father her babies, her babies would have a much better chances to survive. With time, this choosing of who she is going to mate with became instinctual and wired into her unconscious selection process. Animals do the same thing.
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For some reason when we follow this advice, we get terrible results. Why?

Because In primitive times, females were attracted to strong guys with big muscles because back then a guy with big muscles was able to protect his family from intruders and hunt for food.
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The Love revolution and westernization
Society tells us that we should buy girls drinks and flowers, be polite, be “ourselves”, kiss ass and be an all around “nice guy”.
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DNA test is a revealer of can of worms hidden by the other gender.

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Dpsychologist:
Its all about investments
Texting her all the time...
Calling her all the time
Buying her things...

Showering her with constant compliments...

Putting in all this WORK while she is doing nothing only make you over invested in her and end up addicted to her.
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You become addicted to whatever you constantly invest in.
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If she doesn't invest in you. She doesn't give a shit about you.

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Dpsychologist:
Note that atimes, a woman accepts to date a guy because she doesn’t want to hurt the man. Then Behind the man’s back, she’ll do hideous things.


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Be careful with women, not everything is a greenlight.

Not all ladies who date a guy are truly attracted to them. that's why you see some guys complain that they dated a lady for 3 years but she has never spend on him or made tangible investment towards him, all she do is take and take and take.

Beware.
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When a lady says men are scarce, it means she is not seeing the type of men she wants. Those around her her males not men.

There is a difference between a man and a male.
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Being predictable is killer of attraction. Look at the romance novels that many women read. On the cover is a mysterious, powerful, unpredictable stranger who sweeps the heroine off her feet. This is what they fantasize about.
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Many hot girls already have a nice guy in their life who buys them things and “knows how to treat a lady.”

Usually this guy is not sleeping with her and even if she decides to let him, she dumps him quickly because he becomes boring and predictable.
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She is searching for somebody who is above her, somebody who is dominant, so she brushes these guys away.
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Unforrunately, when the guys approach they all try to kiss her ass and impress her with money, resources, etc...

And just by qualifying themselves or trying to buy her they subcommunicate that they are actually below her, that they need to do something to reach her level, to be worthy…

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A woman wants to find a man who is worthy of her attention. A man that is a step above her.
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Girls want to be with someone they perceive as having more power than them. This is profoundly wired into them for evolutionary reasons. Supplicating and kissing ass communicate the opposite of power.
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They establish the rules early and let it be known that they will not tolerate any bullshit. This makes her intrigued by the challenge and subcommunicates that you have many women you can choose from.
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The seducer, the badboy or the jerk succeed because they don’t kiss ass. They go a step further by creating the frame that they are the one who must be tamed and won over.
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The problem with that is that if you give yourself away easily, she won’t value it.
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He puts her on a pedestal and says, “Look how nice I am to you. Choose me and I will treat you like a queen.”
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The “nice guy” supplicates himself and puts the girl on a pedestal in the position of being the prize.
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This guy literally makes her high on emotions while making her chase him to get more of these feelings.
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Girls are also emotional creatures and they want to feel emotions. If the jerk is going to give her love, hate, pain, pleasure, adrenaline, anticipation, excitement, all at the same time, she will be in a constant state of excitement.
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