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The less you “care” about the outcome the better you will do. #ThoughfulTuesday |
Let go of your outcome dependency, let go of your attachment to “winning”. #ThoughfulTuesday |
No girl is destined for you or your soul mate that is a myth and the genesis of oneitis. #ThoughfulTuesday |
Yesterday covers a great deal of fi xing your Inner Game . You need to navigate the dating scene without any neediness or expectation. Even if you are lonely, there are tons of girls out there and no particular set is important. #ThoughfulTuesday |
Gone are the days when if you are a baby mama its a taboo. Society have accepted them so they feel entitled like single women. |
Magnusson:I have sent it to you already |
When you TRULY begin to live in your frame, people will automatically follow you because the powerful reality that you exude is irresistibly attractive. This reality can only come from developing strong Inner Game. #MasculineMonday see you tomorrow |
So the fi rst step toward developing confi dence, belief and attitude is to start respecting yourself! #MasculineMonday |
With women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her. #MasculineMonday |
Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power. How you choose to use it is up to you. Positive examples are, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. A negative example would be Hitler. #MasculineMonday |
Now, let’s get back to charismatic people. The more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear. #MasculineMonday |
Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature. #MasculineMonday |
LIFE SCENERIOS There was a man who has this cute little dog. The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still, months later, he comes near the sofa with his cute little look. He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a reaction. He will even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner. What the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not giving his owner shit, he’s just making sure he is still congruent. #MasculineMonday |
People will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with your frame. That is why I say that “shit tests” are not problematic. As long as you are congruent with your frame, shit tests are not a big issue. In fact, they will reinforce that you are the real deal when you pass them. Women will challenge you all the time when you are seducing them. That’s just normal behavior. #MasculineMonday |
I want you to do the same in your own life. Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect you. #MasculineMonday |
In a school there are strict rules. Break them and you’ll get punished, and trust me, most times those who erred won’t want to make the same mistake again . #MasculineMonday |
It is funny to see how, when women don’t get what they want, they call me stubborn or problematic but always stick around. They may not like your rules, but they will respect you if you stick to them. #MasculineMonday |
I make options for myself, so that you are not my only choice and I can go out with someone else if I choose. For now, even if you don’t have other options, make it look like you do. Behave like you do. #MasculineMonday |
For example, if my girlfriend does what i do not like, I tell her she can do it only 3 times: the first time, the last time and never again! My rules are strict. People will enjoy the time they spend with me. In return I will do everything I can for their happiness. I will teach them and have fun with them but there are some rules you must follow, otherwise you won’t see me ever again. #MasculineMonday |
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If people treat you like shit and you let them get away with it, they will do it again and again. Other people see this and learn to disrespect you also. #MasculineMonday |
Tell them you disapprove and make it crystal clear that they cannot behave like that if they want to be in your company. Make them know they did something that you do not respect or tolerate. #MasculineMonday |
Next, what you must accomplish is to develop a set of unwavering rules in your life that define what people can and cannot do around you or to you. You must punish any negative behavior that impedes upon your integrity. #MasculineMonday |
You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are core lessons for living successfully on this planet. Let’s take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well. If you don’t respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else? If you treat yourself like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the world that shit is exactly what you are. #MasculineMonday |
Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it. #MasculineMonday |
If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that people are sucked into their reality. #MasculineMonday |
An observation I’ve made is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe something that is intangible, so they say this person has “charisma”, or “this guy is a charismatic personality”. #MasculineMonday |
Learning how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and respect you is essential to leading a successful life. #MasculineMonday |
People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goals. #MasculineMonday |
When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they’re the prize, which is exactly what attracts women. #MasculineMonday |
If you have a strong, assertive and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That’s how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs and attitude. #MasculineMonday |
INNER GAME Inner Game is rooted in your confidence, beliefs and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. #MasculineMonday |
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