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Do something that will make her say, "Here's something different."
Then Pull Back
Once she sees how interesting you are - pull back.
If she wants you, she's going to have to work for you. #WednesdayNuggets

What does this mean to you?

Be rare. Be a diamond. Be different than the others.

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Among all the other lumps of coal (other guys) you are the diamond. You stand out, above and beyond all the others.
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If wood was more difficult to find than diamonds, I guarantee people would be getting on one knee with a wooden engagement ring.

Diamonds are rare and therefore, valuable. 

It's the law of supply and demand.
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Take just a quick minute and think about something...
What makes gold so great? Or diamonds?
Why are they so expensive? Why are they so valuable?
Because it's rare!
People want things that they see as rare. #WednesdayNuggets

When you turn and walk away, it doesn't necessarily mean that you lose the girl. Sometimes turning and walking away is the only way to actually get the girl.
 
It can be the spark that ignites a powerful attraction inside of her, as she begins to realize that you are different from other guys.

Learn to walk away

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While you don't want to overuse the silent treatment, it is an effective weapon to have in your seduction arsenal.

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THE SILENT TREATMENT
Most people view silence as a weakness but it can also be a strength.

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The basic idea behind the silent treatment is that you give a woman attention (women love attention!) when she is doing something you like.

And you take that attention away when she is doing something you don't like.

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Only you can make yourself worthy of the best things in life.
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Improve on what you can (health, fitness, style) and embrace the things you cannot change (height, race, etc).

Insecurity is an ugly thing, so confront the roots of your poor self image and banish this negativity from your mind. 
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Make your dreams happen and, most importantly, realize that happiness is a choice!
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By the same token, don't let self-improvement be an excuse not to handle your biz.
 
Don't fall into this trap, cuz you will just keep procrastinating, looking for reasons not to get your game on.
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Why fake it till you make it when you can make it without faking it? Why pretend to be a great person when you can actually BE one? Work hard to excel in all areas of life - health, wealth, relationships. #WednesdayNuggets

You can't pretend to be the prize. You have to be able to look in the mirror and honestly say, "I love this guy!"
It is only when you love yourself that you will be the prize.
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To master the art of attracting women, you must not only be unpredictable but also uncontrollable.
You are not to be controlled.
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You must be willing to walk away.
The one who cares less, has the most power. Always.
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At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back.

She must believe that you care for the relationship less than her.
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Be tactful but let her know you've just heard or seen something that you dislike and it will not be tolerated. If she continues, dump her.

Its called self respect.
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If a girl ever disses you, call her on it immediately.
Don't be a wimp #WednesdayNuggets
Remember, once you are a pushover, it's game over. #WednesdayNuggets

When a woman sees you and likes what she sees(due to showing your value or preselection) – very often because you don't seem to notice her – she will find a way to meet you. She will find a way to talk to you.

She will find a way to get into your life.
A woman in today's society will pursue.
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If a woman sees you, and likes what she sees, she will imagine being in a relationship/sex/marriage soon enough.
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A person cannot pursue something unless it is retreating. You must appear to retreat.

Advance very slightly to make her attracted to you, then retreat.

Attract then retreat

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You should attract women not pursue them. #WednesdayNuggets
When she (whoever she is) finds you attractive, she will pursue you. #WednesdayNuggets

The less emotions you show, the better.

Always keep something in reserve. Always have a bit of mystery. Always be slightly unpredictable.

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With experience you'll learn how to be mysterious without being weird, and unpredictable without being unstable or flighty.
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The world is not an island.
You should like others too.
That is how you establish a network and move far in life.
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At the same time that you are happy with being alone, to a small degree you should like the company of others.

A man is supposed to know how to socialize. 
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Before you like someone you must like yourself.
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You must like your own company. It should not matter to you very much if you are alone.

You should be able to entertain yourself and be happy with your own pursuits.
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You must be happy being single first before considering relationship.

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If you are nothing, you will attract nothing.

All of those things mentioned above must come from within you. It must be your core personality.

You must BE someone/something.

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As a man you must have something going for you.
You should have at least one of the following:
* Solid hobby that challenges you physically and mentally
*Musical talent that you enjoy
*Good job
*Good course in school that reflects your true life ambition
*Charismatic personality etc
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You may be craving to eat a delicious delicacy but when you have start eating it constantly for days you start despising it.

That is how life goes.

We want what we don't have and have what we don't want.

Create an air of mystery. Being unpredictable and scarce is a form of mystery.
They are inter related

From today's thoughtful Tuesday we are able to link push pull(hard to get) with scarcity, spontaneity and unpredictability .

CAUTION:
This principle of absence/presence only applies once a certain level of power obtained through your presence has been attained.
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The need to withdraw only comes after you have established your presence;
leave too early and you do not increase YOUR respect, you are simply forgotten.
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In love and seduction, similarly, absence is only effective once you have surrounded her with your image and value.

Everything must remind your lover of your presence, so that
when you do choose to be away, the lover will always be thinking of you.
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Remember: In the beginning, make yourself not scarce but overly present. Only what is seen, appreciated, and loved will be missed in its absence.

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Another, more everyday side of this principle is the law of scarcity in the science of economics.

By withdrawing something from the market, you create instant value.

Hoard petrol and it price increases.
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Extend the law of scarcity to your own skills. Make what you are offering the world is rare and hard to find, and you instantly increase its value.
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In summary ,
Make yourself too available and the aura of power you have created around yourself will wear away. Turn the game around: Make yourself less
accessible and you increase the value of your presence.
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The moment you allow yourself to be treated like anyone else, it is too late.
To prevent this you need to starve the other person of your presence
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By creating a pattern of presence and absence. You force your target's respect by covertly threatening them
with the possibility that they will lose you.
This is another form of dread
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Once you die, everything about you will seem different.

You will be surrounded by an instant aura of respect.

People will remember their criticisms of you, their arguments with you, and will be filled with regret and
guilt.

Most individuals become more popular after their death.

People are missing a presence that will never return.
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But you do not
have to wait until you die: By completely withdrawing for a while, you create a kind of death before death.

And when you come back, it will be as if you had come back from the dead-an air of resurrection will ding to you,
and people will be relieved at your return.

That is why celebrities go on hiatus or break.

This is a potent law of power.

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At the start of an affair, you need to heighten your presence in the eyes of the
other.

If you absent yourself too early, you may be forgotten.

But once your lover's emotions are engaged, and the feeling of love has crystallized. You take off.

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Giving no reason for your absence excites even more: The other person assumes he or she is at fault.

While you are away, the lover's imagination takes flight, and a stimulated imagination cannot help but make love grow stronger.

From 48 laws of power.
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A strong presence will draw power and attention to you-you shine more brightly than
those around you. But a point is inevitably reached where too much presence creates the opposite effect — Robert Greene
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No matter how cool you are, your aura fades when your presence is too much.
You become a person like anyone else, a person whose presence is taken for granted.
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Love never dies of starvation," she wrote, "but
often of indigestion. — Ninon de Lenclos
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To master the art of attracting women, you must be both unpredictable and uncontrollable.
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To be unpredictable to a woman you have to first be unpredictable to yourself — Dpsychologist
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Everything in the world depends on absence and presence.

This is the law of availability.
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