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kushme:
Doc, tell us this gimmick!!!!

Zelensky fell for the gimmick. A pity

What about the land and security?

It's very important.... The "Respect"

Give me a break. Even I can see through this gimmick

End of an era

At this rate, he will be obese in a year

Constantly amazed at my gender.

donmik:
I get you saying no one has a permanent character.
Good!
But will you observe a toxic one in one and still prefer going on marrying such?
Inasmuch as you are not too resolute in this context, you will love to have a truly loving man as a husband than one with uncaring and polluting character.
In the same vein, I as a man would love to have the woman with such a character seen beautiful

I totally agree. My concern is the notion that this will always be the case. People change and sometimes not for the better

Oh well.

ZACHIE:
Drug use is probably responsible for this

My best guess as well

Nollywood: Fact or Fiction?

ziemcorp:
Madam, forget story. A good character is a woman's most enduring beauty. Whether she grew up in the Afghanistan or Zimbabwe, the heart of the matter is let her have a pleasing attitude. That comes from her core personality and isn't likely to change, no matter what she encounters in life.

Again I beg to differ. But let's agree to disagree. Cheers

Luak:
Good to read of your principles of medicine. My worry is how would she build a home if she leaves the hostile environment without an attempt on fixing the mess

How can she fix the mess that her good behaviour failed to fix ab initio?

JuanDeDios:
And of what benefit is he to the party? Questions only they can answer.

It's truly a mystery

Why is Wike still in PDP? Of what benefit is that party to him at this point?

Luak:
it's quite a very big problem Dr Ada. I think any such girl will need a mentor that is close and available almost 24/7. This is because she owe it as a duty to nurture her kids the way she was nurtured

And how possible is this in a real life scenario? You see, at the end of the day, that good girl will never be the same no matter how you look at it. She will remain broken and may lose her life along the way. The ones who fight back, the so-called ones with horrible characters are actually the people who end up surviving to recount the tale.

When I encounter people who behave differently, it is almost always a reflection of the environment they grew up in. Same principle is taught in medicine. A once happy child suddenly becoming quite, withdrawn and perhaps violent most definitely encountered something that changed her. Doctors are taught to hunt for that trigger.

Luak:
I commend you for going to read the passage. I also agree she was nurtured in peaceful environment. My interest is the other environment she crossed over to. An environment where I can comfortably describe Queen Vashti and the other contestants as rivals; an environment where there was attempts to kill the King soon after Esther became Queen. The envy was visible. We have a duty to nurture our kids in a peaceful home but most times, parents may not guarantee the home their daughter ends up with. This is where the qualities she imbibed during her early years will be of help

So what do you advice such girls who end up in bad homes to do?

I am confused

donmik:
Are you saying character is not the true definition of beauty?

Well, I guess you are a female talking, and most likely, you have lost it due to character failure.

I wish you all the best

Thank you. I will exhibit true character by asking you to reread what I have written for proper comprehension. I wish you all the best.

Luak:
if you take time to study the passage, you will see that King Ahasuerus palace was a very hostile environment yet Esther excelled

I took your advice and read the passage Esther 2:1-18 as recommended by the op. One thing stood out clearly, Esther did not grow up or encounter a hostile environment, rather the opposite.

1. When her parents died, her uncle Mordecai adopted and treated her as his own daughter.

2. During the pre-selection process, the servant that was placed in charge favoured her the most and gave her special food, beauty treatments and even went as far as assigning 7 personal assistants to cater to her every need. What's more, she was given the best place in the harem to reside in. She had 12 months of bliss thanks to this servant.

3. Is it any wonder the king chose her amongst others?
Besides her beauty (which was not graded so I don't know where the op got the notion that she wasn't the most beautiful), she was heavily favoured by someone who was close to the king. Being a jew had nothing to do with it.

4. When she was made the queen, "the king threw a great banquet tagged Esther’s banquet for all his nobles and officials. He proclaimed a holiday throughout the provinces and distributed gifts with royal liberality."

5. Think about it, as a contestant, she enjoyed premium treatment for 12 good months, courtesy of a SERVANT. Can you imagine her life as the QUEEN?

Would you describe any of this as hostile treatment?

The king valued and cherished her and she thrived in that environment. Please, let's all be guided for the sake of the women in our lives.

If a woman is incapable of enduring hardship, abuse and God knows what else, it is not solely indicative of a bad character.

Yes. Religion in general

I just love how all the males here are chanting character. While I totally agree, characters are modified by external factors. Noone is born with a good or bad character.

Her character which you adore now was carefully cultivated by a loving family/environment that nurtured it. It is no wonder that most girls from educated family backgrounds appear decent.

A peaceful loving woman will most likely change when thrown into a hostile environment.

Please let's consider this when singing the chorus titled 'Character'

God1000:
why? This is unlike you

I really don't care for people who are wishy-washy. He was chosen to do just one job and that is to protect the faith of old as we know it but alas, he failed. He caved in to pressure and for that lapse in judgement alone, he deserves to go.

Ok. He won't be missed

phemray:
They prefer to do the election and face the litigation after.

Makes sense since this government employed the same tactics too

ItisWell22:
Make I go buy my daggers and poisoned arrows and spears?

Maybe a gun? 🤔

This works if we all tow the same line like the Israelis who prepare their citizens for battle and S. Koreans who make it mandatory for all males to undergo military training

This is Osun? Interesting. I thought that FG suspended this exercise. Looks like I am behind on the news

It may sound outlandish but I believe that we are next.

Tertible

When will this end? This is so unnecessary and cruel

Whenever you read an article written by AI, you will always know. The writing style is always the same and sometimes it can be a major turn off because the information given is often vague, repetitive and monotonous, all of which ultimately points to the fact that the writer did very little work to arrive at the conclusions deposited.

Metrofox:
you're a stupid olodo that will not learn like a stubborn goat, all these people wey attend tutorial call am university

Besides ur penchant for insults, we think alike cos I also sent him a chatgpt link to peruse.