₦airaland Forum

omoredia:
So una own culture doesn't apply to elders if he is a white man.

Na white man culture I dey follow

omoredia:
Lookman should remember culture. If elder kneel down for u ur own don spoil be that

How many people you sabi wey their own don spoil as elder kneel for them?

Also, na same culture we and oyinbo Dey use?

highchief1:
baba I no get ur power,riding to eat is different from riding for fun.did they tell u he is doing okada?

Whether to eat or fun, both are still riding.

Finally, a motorbike is only slightly riskier than okada

highchief1:
stupid death.which one be biker?why do u play with what can kill u

Are okada riders not bikers too?
So they should stop riding okada too?

Cityqueengirl:
You should be bothered about your English. Communication is key

Nothing is wrong with his English.
You should be bothered about your manners!

Amotolongbo:
😂😂
How will they know that the girls aren’t wearing pants?
Will they be opening their skirts, gown, wrapper or trousers?

Leave that for we the Pant and Bra Taskforce

AfroBeatDiary:
Na scam but we dey earn.

https://cheersway.icu/#/pages/Register/registerv1?code=84177043

Fcwilly:
Yes, it's a scam, but am cashing out every, thanks to cheersway, me and wife cashing out every day.

Queuedee22:
This is what my friend also said that by October or November last year they will use our money for Christmas But he later joined in December by Jan 5 or so he will be a month old member of cheersway

Don’t worry by march I will come and remind you about cheersway.


Happy new year 🫡🫡🫡

How far now?
Cheersway people 😂😂😂

maureensylvia:
But how come this nwa akpuda dey demand for sex like this? Some of we ladies dey chop nonsense

He has money and popularity.

He can use popularity to bring them to limelight, he can use money to improve their lives.

FreeStuffsNG:
Work hard to secure admission on merit to study highly competitive professional courses and finish top of your set in only top rated prestigious 1st generation Nigerian universities i.e UNILAG, UI, OAU, ABU & ABU. Even before you graduate, opportunities will be rushing you

All those glorified secondary schools like that one where a TikTok female student beat up her lecturer for interrupting her TikTok session will injure you for life and amount to sheer waste of time. No serious organization will hire you! Don't go to those schools!

Glorified secondary schools are still better.
Some universities are just tutorial centres e.g Alex Ekwueme Federal University, Ndufu- Alike, Ikwo in Ebonyi state

Dogalmighty17:
As much as 85% of course taught in Nigerian universities currently, are obsolete. Nigerian graduates have very little skills that prepare them for the real world. I recently met a corper in her early 30s who had no email and could not send one. Someone had given her heads up of an employment opportunity in UBA and she was to forward some information to a mail the bank provided. She came up blank. She is still unemployed.

You raised salient points that are noteworthy. However, you don’t need this fable to present your thoughts.

Nobody above 30 can be a corp member as the age limit is pegged at 30. Anyone older will not serve but receive a letter of exemption.
Additionally, an email address is an integral part of the NYSC registration process. If such person could surmount the challenge of utilising an email during registration, an email should not be a problem for such person in later endeavours.

Tl;Dr
Dey lie small small

The other day, I saw his side chicks beating him in the UK. His wife must have felt disrespected.

Marriage just get as e be!

Rufex07:
You are carrid 💯

As how?
Na kegite?😂

Jozilinn:
na woman turn motor so God please help us do you love your woman really? Can you enter pussy wey no wet? How you go enjoy when your babe no dey touch you instead of moan na cry haba now, even some times car engine dey knock because of over drive... If the car no rest he go dey malfunction now!

The analogy explains concept of authority, not object.

I never supported forcing sexx. What I am saying is a wife shouldn’t turn down her husband unnecessarily.

ppogba:
If actually it belongs to you, you will not call it PALOUR.

It is a console inside a palour/sitting room. Can you rest now?

budaatum:
So, having authority over your children does not make them slaves who must obey you, but you think your wife must obey you like a slave must because a book says you are the man with authority?

I don't think you are married yet to be honest, and if you are you are now finding that reality differs from what you read in your Bible, and I'd say your introduction to reality is the beginning of your growth.

May Christ continue to open your eyes so you may see.

Why are you linking obedience only to slavery? So everyone that obeys is a slave?

Your thought process is flawed!

budaatum:
You wait till she feels like it, especially if you want to enjoy it and care about her.

And while you are at it, you ask yourself if you've done or not done something to make her feel like it instead of thinking you are entitled. She's your wife after all, and her feelings ought to matter to you more than some book, just as yours should matter to her if you are worth it.

If it takes her 1 year to feel like it, I should wait too? Very unrealistic if you ask me. Even just for a month, no man deserves to be constantly denied sex for no reason.

What the fückk are you saying? If I don’t feel entitled to my wife’s body, is it your body I should feel entitled to?

Dtruthspeaker:
A human being is not a car, which is why even for your children, you have no right to abuse and use them anyhow as you can to your car. Is it now a full grown adult you now want to do as you like, because you married her?

Man, you have no rights there.

If your wife refuses to open up to you and you can not bear it any longer it means therefore that she is no longer your wife but a stranger. And if you forcefully penetrated her, you are guilty of sexual assault and rape.

Still the same way you are guilty when you do that to a girl in your area, whom you are not married to.

So technically, there would be nothing like marital rape as marriage and sex go together.

But once a spouse refuses sex, it means your marriage is over. And all sex without consent here is rape.

Devil'swife, I mean devil'sbride, Nnamdi papa, una no go see this one talk now o. Atheists pretending to be righteous.

The focus of that Car analogy is not on “car” but “authority”.

The main message is a woman should not refuse her husband for no reason. A man is not meant to force it. If she doesn’t refuse her husband, there won’t be the issue of forcing to start with.

As for you saying a marriage is over if she refuses sex, the only acceptable reason to end a marriage according to the bible is infidelity.

budaatum:
But you don't have authority over your wife since you didn't buy a slave!

In fact, slavery, though sort of condoned by the book you quote from, has been abolished! Or would you like to bring it back with a Bible quotation?

A man has authority over his wife because a man is the head of his home.
A head without authority is nothing but a tail!

Parents have authority over their children, does that mean the children are slaves?

budaatum:
I am saying you can't use your lame interpretation of an ancient text to imprison me in the 21st century.

Sex with you is not a bill I must pay! And if I wife denies you sex, you should wonder what it us you do so wrong that makes me not want you instead of trying to rape me by presenting some book written in the dark ages by misogynist fools who thanked their god they were not gentiles, first, nor women, second (meaning they'd rather be gentiles than women) that says I must!

1. I see you don’t believe and follow the bible.

2. You didn’t answer my question.

The woman turns him down for no other reason than “I don’t feel like it”. What should the man do?

Sharpsharp00123:
that's 150k, I plan to do it by ending

150k for where

Baronthecelebri:
If she refuse to give you sex divorce her

The bible condemns divorce outside of an infidelity case.

Gmajor:
You didn't see where it said that it's a concession not a command?

What should a man do when his wife constantly denies him sex? She has no underlying medical conditions, he has spiced up the marriage and made himself look more attractive to her but yet, she wouldn’t budge.
What should he do?

ItisWell22:
Hope madam is safe? 😢

I brought it here so people can share their views about it.
You can share your views let us learn.

budaatum:
I should read some text that you want to use to justify raping me after I say no, and you think my brain will be washed by it and you can keep raping me,?

Dude, this is 2025. Evolve please!

Are you saying the bible is no more valid in 2025?

Do you always feel like paying bills always or at all? No, but you gotta pay it regardless!

What should a man do when his wife constantly denies him sex? She has no underlying medical conditions, he has spiced up the marriage and made himself look more attractive to her but yet, she wouldn’t budge.
What should he do?

Dtruthspeaker:
Bible does not protect evil.

That passage only says a woman should not do that evil of withholding and depriving a husband sex.

But neither does it say that a man should do the evil of raping his wife.

The bible does not advice one evil deserves another.

So do the bible does not justify evil and no husband has a right to rape his wife exactly.

If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

1Corinthians 7

My palour is like this but I no get 5m for account.

Deepspirituals:
You

Your destiny is Ruined , Laying your Chest on the Chest of another Man's wife Chest .

You are Finished Spiritually .

What if I avoid our chests touching?
I can do doggy and others styles that will not make our chests to touch.

larivers:
people don't know how CBN operates, they just upset becase these women are not in their gangs - this is simply propaganda
so break down - when you earn 500K in CBN you will get minumum of 2M in benefits and allowances monthly o - there's no way in heaven they are earning more than CBN directors, not even close to deputy governors. NEVER !!

I know a few people that resigned from Chevron/Total because they got an offer from CBN so yes that how lucarative it is to work in CBN, why do you think nobody resigns from CBN

Yes, they may have been hired without due process - but everyone knows when a C-Level exec moves, he/sh moves with his team - it's just that simple

How do you think a fresh graduate can enter CBN?
Please tell me the truth.

InvertedHammer:
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bixton:
It's best you trust in God through Christ Jesus. He is the best hope any man can get.


As long as you're doing something that gives your some form of wages, you can start by having some little kept as savings like those people who do akawo....

You can have a dedicated account where you put in such monies be it daily, weekly or monthly as often as your earninga come and you can grow your savings. You can even have a target per month to be achieved or per year.


I don't know which State you're resident or where you most likely would want to get lands. If you do your inquiries well and properly you can get a good land for as low as #500,000 depending on the location of the land. There are lands in areas thata still considered bush or forest or farmlands. You can do a projection like that on about 10 years, that the government might have done some form of infrastructure development that would open up the place and thereby giving the land an added value and you can also start building something for yourself or for rental.


Just do some inquiries without anyone figuring what your real intentions are so you don't get duped by thieves.

The main issue is that “thing that will give me some form of wages”