Romance › Re: If You're A Lady, Do You Like Being Called "Baby"? by Drkul(f): 9:00am On Oct 28, 2014 |
tosyne2much: I just love my gf calling me daddy.. I can empty my bank account to provide her needs Daddy  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 7:19am On Oct 26, 2014 |
Good morning fellow Pcm, Our call up letter is ........................  |
Romance › Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Drkul(f): 8:40am On Oct 19, 2014 |
kentozybee: A Letter To Single Men Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future. What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late. Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil's music, it's better you start learning God's steps. Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a 'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems 'rubber' cannot prevent. It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger. Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday. Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now. I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary. Sorry to quote all this  .... I really love all this  @poster  |
NYSC › Re: Share Your NYSC Camp First Day Experience by Drkul(f): 10:10am On Oct 17, 2014 |
I refuse to be scared  nov 4 loading |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Clems Onyeka Killed By Stray Bullet In Asaba This Afternoon by Drkul(f): 8:26pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
its a pity may his soul RIP... the way people die these days am scared it could be me or any of my love one at any point in time... Someone I know that his birthday(already organised things for his birthday) was supposed to be on sunday died on the saturday, (how?) His girlfriend visited and he wanted to see her off, but his car refused to start, so he took his friend/neighbour's car to drop her, on his way back he had an accident... Death is something that we can't prevent... Just dat we don't know when and how it will... No one knows when, so let's all draw closer to God so that when it eventually happens, we won't be taken unawares... May we never experience premature death. AMEN!!! SHALOM |
Romance › Re: The Kind Of Man To Die For by Drkul(op): 8:11pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
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Romance › The Kind Of Man To Die For by Drkul(op): 8:03pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
I saw this somewhere and decided to share it... Hope this the right place though. Your guy may not own a car. He may not earn a lot ofmoney. He may not live in a posh estate. He may not be able to shower youwith gifts all the time. He may not have a great job. But it’s enough to know you are the ONLY ONE He has at his heart. He has a vision. He is Honest. He is very hard-working. He is humble. He keeps that smileon your face. He talks to you every day. He actually listens toyou. He always replies your messages. He tolerates you whenyou're moody. His family knows you. He tells you your beautiful all the time. He sees you every chance he gets. He appreciates thetiniest things you do. He is there when you need him.He respects you. He is proud you are his…And he treats you like a queen because you are his everything and he fears to lose you. Why ask for what he cannot afford? He may not have it all now, but one day he will... He may not be living his dream now, but one day he will…He pictures making a family with you and he means it when he says that he loves you. African Ladies, appreciate that man in your lifewho strives to be all you need.... He may not be all the things you need right now but with time he will be, He will get a job, get themoney, he will buy a land and he will build a house for both of you. He won’t be renting or staying at his parent’s crib forever. He will fulfillall his promises and he will be a good dad to your children. Justkindly be patient if you seriously love him. Everythingwill be fine between both of you. Don't be pushed around by money andwhat you wanna eat now....I pray you don't eat up thefuture of your unborn children!... Onjejegbu precious
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Family › Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Drkul(f): 3:12pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Adulterous Affairs Don’t Begin with Sleeping Together; they begin with inappropriate friendships. Friendship and emotional attachments with people of the opposite sex can spell danger for your marriage. Protect your marriage by avoiding private communications and intimate conversations with people of the opposite sex. Beware of workmates who seem too concerned with your personal private life; those that tell you “let me know if you need anything.” Beware of those that give you exaggerated and suggestive compliments about the way you look. Regardless of what is happening in your marriage don’t give the Devil a foothold in your marriage by falling victim to this trap. Let your workmates know there are things you won’t tolerate. Keep a healthy physical, social and emotional distance between you and people of the opposite sex. - Isaac Kubvoruno. the problem with men and women today is they feel that if they dont have sex with the person its ok.Anything that you have to hide from your spouse :conversation, text etc. is not ok its called an emotional affair this hurts just as much as a physical affair and could eventually lead to sex in the long run. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Graduate Recruitment 2014 by Drkul(f): 5:00pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Valmesk: for all that are 2ru with their online registration and have done the first stage online test,pls how did you all went about the transcript issue because Nigerian universities find it difficult to release students' transcripts,pls ur replies. This transcript hitch has hindered me from a lot of opportunities |
Education › Re: 10 Types Of Lecturers You Meet In The University by Drkul(f): 8:58am On Oct 08, 2014 |
The lecturere who claim he has always been the best student right from nursery school Lecturers who claims that the course is very simple, but while lecturing they will go and check their manuscript if they are makin mistake or goin along!... Those who keeps on reminding you of how they suffered during their own days... They attended lectures under mango tress, slept in classrooms so they could sit in front the next day The readers/copy n past lecturer, they come to class to read another authors textbook and copy exactly what is in that text for you guyz on the board. The cell phone smasher lecturer, they smash any phone that rings against the wall when lecture is still on. |
Car Talk › Re: Have You Taught A Spouse To Drive? by Drkul(f): 5:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
elvis07: Its not an easy task incase anyone is planning on teaching his wife, at a point my wife had to abandone d car for me @ d middle of d road nd even said she was never gonna enter d car again but we still managed to pull through nd today she is a gud driver I think your wife commented in the first page  |
Education › Re: 10 Types Of Students You Will Meet In Hostels by Drkul(f): 9:22am On Oct 07, 2014 |
The Film freaks... They download all the recent movies, any film you call either they have it or they have watched it |
Romance › Re: Share The Crazy Things You Did While In Love by Drkul(f): 5:43pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
1. He was tavelling and didn't have anywhere to stay, had to lie to my parents that he is my coursemate and was stranded so he spent the night with us 2. Talked and chatted all night that I missed my morning prayer 3. Cried whenever my messages where ignored |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Experience Love At First Sight? by Drkul(f): 4:49pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Well mine was love at first phonecall (don't know if there is anything like that though) didn't last though, guess I should call it infatuation  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Any Funny Or Interesting Experience In Today's Service? Come In And Share by Drkul(f): 5:03pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Where them sis like me wey they enter toilet time for offering cos them no sabi dance. Na so I wan enter toilet today during offering But them lock all toilets today, come see me see dance  I never knew I could dance o  |
Romance › Re: Does Love After Marriage Really Works? by Drkul(f): 2:41pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
nedu213: I wish my ex can see this quote below: Awwww, nedu boo I have seen it |
Travel › Re: Amazing Pics: The Best 1st Class Airline Seats In The World Revealed by Drkul(f): 11:49am On Sep 18, 2014*. Modified: 2:07pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
:oCHai... Diaris God o |
Family › Re: Are You Being Too Good? Setting Healthy Boundaries by Drkul(f): 8:12pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
They tagged me mother christmas in secondary school, cos my provisions were food for all  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 7:17pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Taiye4Christ: Alright, I‘m Taiye. Are you really a doctor? am a biochemist for now, still have an eye for d medical line though |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Have You Been Dreaming Of Marrying Your Birthday Mate? Pls Come In by Drkul(f): 7:14pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
@Harlos. Right here |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Have You Been Dreaming Of Marrying Your Birthday Mate? Pls Come In by Drkul(f): 5:06pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
June 19 |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 11:18am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Taiye4Christ: Yes o... I don‘t think we are acquainted yet. What‘s your name? Chioma |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 8:28pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
 Helo fellow C14, 60 days to go |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 8:20pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Taiye4Christ: Hi, doc. sup taiye feeling d house?  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 6:09pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
sodiqyinka: all dem private uni... Ekabo o Na God do am bro... Ekaso o  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 4:45pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Akerry: welcome to d house@metabolytic chioma... I'm also a BCH graduate frm KSU thanks @glycolytic akerry  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 4:41pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
AjGentle: Yu aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ welcum swt yu are definitely goin 2 love it here Ave Fun Awwwww, thanks hun |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by Drkul(f): 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: 99 Secrets Ladies Have To Know About Guys by Drkul(f): 8:52pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
No 3 so true  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Anambrarian Let's Meet! by Drkul(f): 9:23am On Aug 13, 2014 |
[quote author=graceunlimited]Ekwusigo- Ozubulu ana akpu  [/quote Welcome Nwannem |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Anambrarian Let's Meet! by Drkul(f): 9:20am On Aug 13, 2014 |
Am from Ozubulu in Ekwusigo local govt. Nice to meet u all |
Educational Services › Re: ***scholarships For United States Study*** by Drkul(f): 5:20pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Hi... Thanks a lot. Am in interested. M.sc in biochemistry related courses |