These is wisdom here. What he purposefully omitted is the show of loving more than. The mumu woman would keep giving stress cos wh feels abandoned so he has to just show he does. No man can love his side chick more than his daughter. It's just not justifiable but if he shows it, the lady would give less stress
GrandBroz: I have seen people argue about this issue alot and while some guys say they can wash the underwear of their partner some other guys see it as disgusting or degrading.
A woman’s bréast that was cut off due to cancer grew back two weeks after. I don’t blame the doubts, some of these miracles in our midst are difficult to believe.” — Pastor Adeboye
Blackman5844: If I didn't create that time to find out, I will still be in the dark right now eating her lies. I will not know the kind of girl I'm dating. I'm giving her space and also cutting my share right now and I'm not giving her my money. And I believe the reason she's till with me is that she knows, she doesn't lack anything from me. And I know if I stop giving her money and caring for her she will go
Then enjoy it while it lasts. Enjoy it all and get her out of your system. If you don't when she goes you will start having heart pains from what must have been. That what must have been would eat any person alive. It's not a place you want to be in.
Blackman5844: I met this girl on a app, we vibe, our talking stage does not last up to 3 weeks before we started dating, we were in the same school, she cook different dishes for me, send me her cooked food if she's not at my place. She gave me her phone password herself, she came clean and I fell deeply in love.
Afer one month of our relationship things was going smoothly until one day she asked me to do something on her phone and I saw a video of her on her gallery, she did the video in a guy car. I asked her she said it's her memory on snap, I told her to open her snap so I can confirm, immediately she confess and told me she went out with a friend that the guy ask her to help to buy something in the market. (And I confirmed the road, it's a market road). I believed her and I moved on. And since that day I always pretend that I forgot her password. Fastward, after second month of our dating it was my birthday. She bought gift for me she spent almost 60k, (she was in her final year ) I was wowed because no girl has ever done that for me. But before my birthday I have spent more than x3 of that for her. In btw she call me a lover boy that no one has ever loved her the way I do. Fastward to the next month, it was the month we will have a break on school, she started getting strict with her phone, I told her to open her phone, she insist and she told me she doesn't want me to get jealous that she had friends she used to call baby, I wasn't Cool with that and that got me thinking and overthinking. But I'm deeply in love. After some days she would not want to have sex with me, she later told me they had a vision to her that she should not have sex for now, i asked her till when she said when she get parent home she will know. Well I believed her and move on. She went home and it was coming to the end of the month, and In our talking stage she told me her dad can't say no, because we have differences in religion and she made it clear to me that religion differences can't stop her from getting married to me. So when she went home she called me and told me that " sometimes we don't always get what we want" that in my relationship with her, her dad might not approve it and she doesn't want to stop having me around her, that she's not breaking up but she's just letting me know. I felt a pain in my heart, I was like what is this. We talked and I moved on. But I started having mixed feelings, so I got a new number and I sent her a message as a customer so she can add the number up on Whatsapp.
She came back to school early the next month and it was her birthday month. I bought her a bone straight hair ( she told me that was the first time a guy will buy her a bone straight). But I have bought her the hair few days to her birthday. She slept at my place a day before her birthday. On her birthday she went to her side and she told me she wanted to go out with her female friends, which I know them. (So that night before she left my place she straightened that bone straight I bought for her on my head. ) she left In the morning. So i opened what'sapp number she added as a customer started monitoring her status and comparing it with my main WhatsApp account she knows. I started see differences in her post. She lied, she went out with a guy... She blocked me on my main WhatsApp from seeing all the sensitive pictures she posted. ( The guy gave her flower, she snapped in the guys car, and took her on a date). Around 7:30pm I called her pretending asking her how is her outing going with her friends, shey answer it's going well, I told her to flip the camera that I wanted to see her friends she hang up. I called her back she went to the restroom to pick the call, she gaslighted me, I ended the call. Around 9pm I called her she won't pick, I called severally, she didn't pick. She later sent me a message on Whatsapp that her phone is about to die that we will talk the following day and she says goodnight. The following morning, I called her and I asked her to meet me in school. I showed her a recording of her status, she was shocked and I broke up with her immediately. I left her and I went home. On my way home she started calling severally I picked and she said " did I come to disgrace her in front of her friends" I sweared for her, and hang up and she later call me that night telling me it was a male friend she knew before we met that theres nothing btw them, that since i said I'm not going to take her out on her birthday, that the guy offered and she can't tell me, that is just normal friend date and that she slept at her place that night. The love I have for her was controlling me, I really do love her dearly, after like 5 relationships, I met her and everything changed I fell in love deeply, she's the only one that mealt my heart. After a lot of begging I took her back, but my trust getting more deteriorate, I started checking her phone in the midnight whenever she was asleep. I did my findings very well and I deduce she went out with her ex.. Immediately I started feeling she's using me to get over the hearth break she got from her ex, (because she told me in taking stage how she cried almost 3 months when she broke up with her ex, and I asked her then and she said she's over it , that she moved on already ) I didn't confront her immediately I was playing along, so I went deep in my findings and I find out she has been talking to her ex before she went home for holiday and her ex was the one who she followed to the market. And towards the period she was at home they stated calling themselves on video call. (So I deduce the reason why she told me "we don't always get what we want something times" that her dad might not allow us to get married) So after some days I confronted her and she confess that it was her ex she went out with. And she told me that the guy is traveling out of the country and he wanted to go on a last date with her that nothing happened btw them. Fastward, I was still checking her phone in the midnight time to time. Her ex traveled, and she deleted his number from her phone. I was shocked when I saw that I didn't know the reason why she did that. For like 2 weeks she they won't talk, whenever they talk it's just hi how are you doing. So I confronted her and I told her everything she has been doing, she told me she made that mistake of going out with her ex that I should forgive her, that she doesn't know what she was doing, that the guy really messed up with her. So I wanted to know if she slept at her ex place on her birthday night, so I lied to her that I cheated on her with my ex, and she confess that she slept at her ex place and they had sex twice, and that he forced the guy to use condom (lol). And she begged that she made a terrible mistake that she thinks they will get back together. Because it's barely two months we started dating that she doesn't know if I'm serious with her. And that she's not a cheater that she's in a state of dilemma then. I asked her to block her ex she did immediately. The ex messaged her with another number after 3 days she blocked him, her ex told her to have a good life that he sees that he blocked him, she said she deleted the message with the number with no reply. My whole findings and everything took up to 4 months now we are 7 months together. I broke up with her last week she started begging and crying that I should give her a second chance and she promised I will not regret it that she really do love me. I told her the level of the trust I have for her has reduced. she asked me what can she do to amend things and she wants to prove herself.
Questions 1. If it was you can you forgive her and give her a second chance? If not, please give reasons. 2. And if you have ever given your gf a second chance, does it work out ? .
Thanks In advance for your honest response.
Na wah for people. I mean with the way the exchange rate is right now, I find it impossible to believe that some people have time and expense to spare for an unfaithful partner. That lady is just using you to spare time. Once what she wants comes, she will litter you. Am sure you know that. So for the time she is wth you cut your share but don't give your heart. Be nice, friendly and generous to her as much as you want for the time she stays with you. Use condom so she don't give you disease. Never give your heart.
Gistmedia10: A distraught man has taken to social media to share his shocking story of heartbreak, claiming his fiancée of several years has left him just weeks before their wedding to be with a foreigner. The wedding was reportedly set to take place on June 29th.
The man expressed his devastation and disbelief at the sudden turn of fate. "Our wedding was set on June 29th, and she just left me for a white man," he said in a heart-wrenching post.
The sudden and shocking betrayal has sparked a mix of emotions on social media, with many sympathizing with the jilted groom's pain.
The white man was probably in the picture the whole rime
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EmperorCaesar: Celebration! It means they dont eat that that often, hence the urge to make videos and show other people that we are eating this today as it isnt something we eat everyday
I really dont understand why people take videos of foods eaten at fancy restaurants and for who? Guess thats a proof they dont eat such quite often cause if they do, theyd have tired out of taking this kinda pic everyday as its already a norm for the
Nothing wrong in celebrating enjoyment. Only thing wrong with it is people that will watch the video and complain
gidgiddy: The Prime Minister Of Britain recently announced that Elections will be held in July. The two major political parties, the Labour Party, and the Conservative Party, are going to battle it out to know who will be in government in July
But what astonishes me is what I learnt about the British Elections themselves. The elections can be held on any day of the week, infact, the coming elections will be held July 4th, a Thursday. There will be no Army or Police at polling booths, not even party agents. Voters cards will be sent directly to people's addresses. If your voters card does not arrive, you can still vote with other forms of identification such as driving licence or passport. You can vote on your way to work, while doing school runs, while on your break, or even on your way back from work. If you are not available to vote on polling day, you can apply to vote in advance through 'postal vote'. Voting is simple, no indelible ink, just cross an 'X' on the box of the Party you wish to vote for with a marker.
British elections are so free and fair that the election tribunals rarely sit as nobody has any petitions. The last time they sat was 2015, and only one petition in the entire country
Nigeria still has a long way to go
You probably don't know how British elections happens that's why you are writing this long epistle
madridguy: Mr man go and take 2nd wife. If your wife is a medical practitioner or military personnel, you don't need any soothsayer to tell you before you get another wife.
How come medical practitioner. Are they also wareword?
essentialone: There is and you have done it before
There is nothing like that. You expend your energy and fluid. She lies there with her leg open, her ass raised to receive you. Can assure you she enjoyed it way more than you did. But who looses, you. You loose, energy, time, fluid, protein and money. There is nothing like bleeping mercilessly!
Attracted to who or what? Am too old for that my child. Please look at face before writing outside point. Nothing wrong with seeing more pictures. If it's really a man, which it's not. The transformation is outstanding.
essentialone: I had a friend who did it. I will keep out the name of the lady and the State where it happened. But this is not fairytale. All the 'Elders' were arranged. None were real. The guy bleeped the girl mercilessly even when she was pregnant. Until her tummy came out very well, then he told her the truth that he did it just because she was forming hard to get, and relocated. If you doubt me, it happened in Rivers State. Enough said.
That's what you get when you marry all these slay queens. It's just like looking for wife and going to jam Tonto dike. No be evil sprit you go find? Someone like Churchill can't handle that person na just like this guy can't handle this one he married. Only person that could handle this woman is probably the a mad person of the same shameless breed as that of the last guy Tonto married that dealt with her.
NairaOcean: In the viral video, a Nigerian soldier has captured the internet's attention with a humorous yet poignant video addressing infidelity. The video, featuring the soldiers in their uniforms, shares across various platforms.
In the clip, the soldier poses a rhetorical question that has struck a chord with many viewers: "If woman can cheat on soldiers with bombs and guns...who be you wey dey carry laptop and pen?"
jesusjnr2020: Why Do Armed Robbers, Cultists, Witches, Demons, Fear Some Christians But Not All?
I remember when a church leader narrated his ordeal with armed robbers, after he traveled from Port-harcourt all the way to Benin city to attend a church program at the headquarters of Church of God Mission, and was also sent in the process to deliver some gifts to Benson Idahosa (late church founder when he was still alive) by members of the church in Rivers state.
He said the robbers stole everything he had, including the bag containing his own clothes, but left every single item they saw that was addressed to Benson Idahosa.
He was shocked that the armed robbers were not afraid to rob him of everything he had, except anything that belong to Benson Idahosa.
Just the name of Benson Idahosa inscribed on the gifts alone seemed to strike fear into the hearts of the armed robbers that they dare not tamper with them, even though they were merely gift items sent by his church members (of another state) which he may never have heard of or even had any idea of their gifts by then.
Although the poor man himself may have heard several mind-blowing stories about Benson Idahosa prior to that, however this particular one was now drawn from his own bitter experience, as he didn't have any other clothes to wear for the program he traveled all the way for except that on his body, but for Benson Idahosa who helped him with some, after he had delivered the said gifts and also narrated his ordeal to him.
While with Benson Idahosa, and yet recovering from the shock of his ordeal, he must have wondered what it was about the man before him, that distinguished him before armed robbers, to the extent they were so afraid of touching the man's things but not his, despite also being a Christian himself.
Interesting15: In a previous post (https://www.nairaland.com/8096971/getting-correct-lady-say-yes) where I, amongst other things, drew a portrait of who a correct lady is, I emphasized the fact that marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a member of the opposite gender not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that they have the configuration to play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.
Now, as a lady, if you want to enjoy the full dividends of marriage with peace of mind, you have to go the bible way (God's way) and not as dictated by imperfect societal standards and opinions. This means you have to be patient with God to bless you with a man who has the configurations to help you fulfill destiny and must not agree to marry a random guy just because of physical considerations (money, height, complexion, etc).
I want you to remember this, like Eve, if God will lead you to a correct guy who can help you navigate your journeys in destiny, you must also be a correct lady who can be an adequate helper to him too. To attract a correct man, you must be a correct lady too. And to have such a configuration, you must be genuinely saved, submitted to the Holy Spirit, and have started running with destiny.
I explained all these in full detail in my books "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal" and "Getting A Correct Guy To Propose Marriage To You".
In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct guy is a male God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your husband. He is not only saved (submitted to the Lordship of Jesus and the government of the Holy Spirit), but is already running with destiny even as a single guy. A guy who is useful and beneficial to God his Creator will translate into a quality husband for you.
DMerciful: This is a lame argument you people refused to recover from because you wanna push Igbo hate.
Firstly, he stayed in power for 5months and unify the civil service 45 days before he was assassinated. If Nigeria did not want that policy, who enforced it after he was killed? Why did the new government not repeal the decree?
Secondly, when Ironsi was killed, it was still 4 regions renamed as 4 states. Why did Gowon divide the 4 states to 12 states making it impossible to reverse?
Yep you are right. But looking at it from another perspective. IBB was within the sphere of authority for ages, why it was easy for him to take power. Then he retired most of his seniors and mates to make sure no one senior enough to remove him. But he knew what we didn't know. He knew Ironsi well enough, why did they kill him? These questions need answers by those that were there. The atmosphere of the time, the ideology no one has ever portrayed it well in any books so far. They shouldn't let those information die with them.
Yep, IBB many others were there the whole time. They should tell of the truth of what transpired, what caused the war. The truth not all those BS they used to sell books. We need the truth for historic reasons.
Celebrities › Re: Serial Babyfather Isaac Fayose Advises Davido To Love Sophia More Than Imade by drnoel: 12:50pm On Jul 09, 2024
