Politics › Re: Angiama Community Residents Happy As Automobiles Arrive For The First Time by DropsMic(m): 1:24pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Smh..
Africa is proof that stupidity is the worst thing that can befall a man |
Health › Re: State Of A Pure Water Factory Triggers Concern (Photo) by DropsMic(m): 1:11pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
This is not in Nigeria tho.. As una dey copy from instablog9ja make una dey copy well. |
Politics › Re: The First 5 Female Judges In Nigeria (Photo) by DropsMic(m): 12:27pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Tha future is female |
Sports › Re: PSG Ready To Make Mbappe Highest-Paid Player Ahead Of Messi, Neymar by DropsMic(m): 12:25pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
That's cool |
Politics › Re: Be Careful Of The Fuel, You Buy In Lagos by DropsMic(m): 12:22pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
nduprincekc: God will surely save us Continue fooling yourself |
Crime › Re: Man Who Uses Fake Bank Alerts To Buy Items Arrested In Lagos Hotel by DropsMic(m): 11:14am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Na wa o |
Education › Re: Graduate Runs To Her Father's Mechanic Shop, Dresses Him in Her Graduation Gown by DropsMic(m): 11:13am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Cool |
Family › Re: Please Advice! I’m Having Multiple Issues With My Marriage by DropsMic(m): 11:10am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Lasunray01: Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.
Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.
I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.
I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.
Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.
Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.
Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.
Thank you Lol... Now is the worst time to be dumb baba. Na the only thing i go tell you. |
Romance › Re: Snake In My Girlfriend's Room! What Can She Do? by DropsMic(m): 10:27am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Weak as men |
Politics › Re: IPOB Is Finished – Asari Dokubo Mocks Nnamdi Kanu by DropsMic(m): 8:18am On Feb 08, 2022 |
This guy desperately needs a job |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Living On Extra Time - Sanusi by DropsMic(m): 7:59pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
And it's all thanks to the North |
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Business › Re: Let's Build A Professional Website For Your Business. No Advance Payment by DropsMic(op): 7:58pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Hmm |
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Why PDP, APC Are Playing Games With Zoning — Vanguard by DropsMic(m): 7:58pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Yawn |
Sports › Re: Afcon 2021: Senegal Declares Public Holiday After Historic Win by DropsMic(m): 3:22pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
They deserved it |
Business › Re: The Guy Who Blocked A Nairalander After Placing An Order (pics) by DropsMic(m): 3:22pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Education › Re: Graduates Of Sociology, Where Are You Working Now? by DropsMic(m): 2:34pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Banks, Yahoo |
Education › Re: Son Of Former Rector Of Federal Poly Offa Convicted Over Cyber Crime (Photo) by DropsMic(m): 2:21pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Normal |
Career › Re: Should I Continue With My Bank Cleaner Job Or Work In The Filling Station by DropsMic(m): 2:17pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
lol |
Sports › Re: AFCON2021: Winning With Senegal Is The Best Day Of My Life - Sadio Mane by DropsMic(m): 12:06pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
HE'S EXPECTED TO SAY THIS THO |
Celebrities › Re: Zubby Michael Spends ₦8.5 Million At A Restaurant In Lagos by DropsMic(m): 11:56am On Feb 07, 2022 |
GOOD FOR HIM |
Crime › Re: NIMC Portal Breaks Down, Banks, Telcos, Passport Issuance Suffer by DropsMic(m): 10:36am On Feb 07, 2022 |
nigeria |
Romance › Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by DropsMic(m): 9:10pm On Feb 06, 2022*. Modified: 9:25pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz: Hello everyone. Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now 
I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat 
He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "
At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.
I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?
Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do . BEFORE YOU DUMP HIS SORRY ASS, KNOW THIS. MEN WEY NO DEY CHEAT (NOT JUST NIGERIA BUT THE WORLD OVER) NO REACH 2. IF YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN THAT THE GUY IS A GOOD GUY I GO ADVICE YOU TO JUST HOLD ON TO AM... CHEATERS ARE UBIQUITOUS BUT GOOD GUYS ARE VERY SCARCE. |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His 22-Year-Old Girlfriend In Anambra by DropsMic(m): 8:45pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
h should be killed too |
Politics › Re: Desmond Elliot Celebrates His 48th Birthday (Photo) by DropsMic(m): 8:05pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Yawn |
Business › Re: POS Scammers Caught In Benin City (Picture, Video) by DropsMic(m): 7:31pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Them suppose Lynch them |
Nairaland General › Re: What’s That Thing You Can’t Turn Down No Matter How Angry You Are? by DropsMic(m): 7:07pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mouth Gig |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mali Vs France- Nigerians Come And See Ooo by DropsMic(m): 5:59pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
boyfrank: U dey mind them, if u no sabi use ur head, anoda pesin wey get sense go use am for u, simple. That's just how life works |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mali Vs France- Nigerians Come And See Ooo by DropsMic(m): 4:59pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Pikin wey no get sense no suppose vex when a foreigner Ctake advantage of am |
Crime › Re: 40 Yahoo Boys In White Garment Storm Abuja Mab Global Estate At Midnight by DropsMic(m): 2:48pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
lasisi69: can I know more on this part, ? They keep them for their poo |
Crime › Re: 40 Yahoo Boys In White Garment Storm Abuja Mab Global Estate At Midnight by DropsMic(m): 2:47pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Jerryherd:

Wearing white cloth now makes you a yahoo boy
. My thoughts exactly |
Business › Re: Let's Build A Professional Website For Your Business. No Advance Payment by DropsMic(op): 2:20pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Happy Sunday |