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Nigerians can fear well ..They are only good in ranting in online forums like this...Thats why the politicians do not take us serious and loot without fear or favor

If only Jonathan knew bubu will witch hunt him he wud ave made this move like jammeh....

BECAUSE BUHARI IS CLUELESS WITH SWAG

Abakiliki

prettythicksme:
I can't bros

what if you become physically challenged tomorrow(GOD FORBID) will u want a man to marry you in that condition?..if your answer is yes then never say never...

frankloloko:
I just got home from a dentist , my 2k wasted for consultation and I've been from one hospital to another . I am really depressed I've bad breath caused by excessive drinking but I've been thinking I've hiv but scared to do the test . I am not sick but people insolate me even to my own workers . I only have problem of sleeping and it's almost one year now . I want to run a test on my body but not hiv . Hiv will be the last . PleAse what kind of test can I do to ensure I am still alive apart frm hiv test

list all the symptoms u experience..

Cleversheva9:
Op.... Please put up ur contact lemme reach u... I work offshore but now, we've not travelled cos of the turnaround maintenance going on there for like 2months now and we just resumed at d office doing nothing but internet is just dere for all of us. Since I resumed dis year, I've been using my internet at d office for majorly bet9ja becos of boredom. U can't believe I put 50k which is not even up to my basic and on the 13th, I won 160k.... This thing might take over me... Please introduce me to this online business now that I'm free and I've got the internet right here abeg.... Thanks... Please put up ur contact.

bro don't allow that bet to take over you...That 160k you won is a big trap for you to continue and lose all your cash...be wise and walk away cos that bet stuff has sent people to advanced Poverty! Invest in other reasonable online Biz..

rokiatu:
I pray your union last. But love is a funny thing.

One minute you want to die for that person the next minute that same person betray your love......and the next minute you find yourself wondering "was he/she really in love with me?"


I truly believe all human relationships are conditional and only God's love is unconditional. The only thing that comes close to unconditional love on this planet is the love between child and parent. And not all some are conditional as well.........you hear some parents saying, "you are a disappointment" you did this or that am disowning you."


All I am saying Madam Idibia is don't drown in the sea of love so deep that when the storm comes you ain't able to get out alive.

words of wisdom!

Esta es mi foto

Funnicator:
I WON'T PRAY.

Were they blind when they voted for Ikpeazu and his ridiculous PDP in last elections after knowing the devils of TA Orji and kalu Orji in the same PdP?

I have no sympathy for retards. Abia can go to hell. Ebonyi has already surpassed them in good governance.

Guy are you a learner?Do they do election or selection in Nigeria?

Harinholar:
...He is right..... because it's not that common in health sector.. probably urs is not that obvious

Really....on the contrary most medical consultants I know keep hair that are neatly trimmed mostly the professors..I don't know why...maybe I shud ask their mate in another profession known as Wole Soyinka

9jakohai:
Caleb university shares that mentality too....I daresay.

yap

9jakohai:
Which is what Caleb university probably wants....neatly trimmed hair.

And then again....all those codes are to prep you for the real world....where employers, and companies have dress, and hair codes.

I used to think when I was in school that all them codes were too stressful....until I entered university, and over time realized that all them codes were preparation for tomorrow.

nope theirs is not neatly trimmed hair....They want a LOW CUT.....that's the issue

9jakohai:
You used the wrong examples...they are leaders who make the rules, and can break them.

And if I wanted to work for them, my hair better be in order...as should be my dress too.

Real life is not fair.

All those dress and hair codes...they are to prep you for the real world...where such things are in force. If you were to join the military and paramilitary forces (yes, I know university graduates who went into the Armed Forces )...and if you were to work for certain factories, and certain professions.....eg medicine....how your hair looks is very important.

bro am a medical doctor and I keep hair....wat matters is how neat and trimmed you keep it...so friend change that mentality...

9jakohai:
And other parts of the world too....

To give an example, Disneyland of the US has dress and hair codes for its employees.

At least....Caleb University isn't the only University in Nigeria. We have nearly 100 of them.

bro that hair code was instituted in the 1960s but has been stopped since 2000...we are in the modern era....so long as the hair is kept neat and trimmed..you are good to go...

But it will be wonder of the century if buhari even come second in 2019 election talk less of winning it..

That's why I always tell ladies that once a man beats you for the first time....RUN....cos that man will NEVER stop even after marriage...The earlier they believe this fact and stop living in denial the better for the society....

I can relate

buygala:
There are two possibilities here:

He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..

Or

He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted

And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps

My advice:

Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.

Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you

And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on

For your mind you have advised her....Mr man sleep if u gat nothing meaningful to say..

Big lie

Berbierklaus:
One thing I have come to realize in this life is that ONE rule does not work for ALL.

Anybody will agree with me that it is a hell of a task for a couple to be married and have kids coming in with little or no means of survival or even comfortability eg an apartment,steady allowance enough to cater for basic needs like feeding,schooling and health care.

I think this advice is flawed,because most young men at 24-26 are yet to find their feet,some are not even matured enough to cohabit with a woman,and all these factors could cause a strain in marriage which could lead to other things entirely.

The best thing to do when it comes to marriage as a man,is know what works for you and the woman you are planning to marry,because its not about getting married,its about sustaining the marriage.
I on my part will not settle down for manage manage,my kids must have what I couldn't have which is why I am hustling to compliment that lucky man that I end up with.

@ Dominique,if those potentials are not feasible most women won't go for it,I for example. A lot of people have potentials but I won't eat potentials,I will eat the result.

you are awesome

Happy new yr

I have heard on numerous occasions that the Holy Spirit is needed to understand the Bible. That is to say, the Bible will only make sense to Christians and requires the Holy Spirit’s interpretation. Why? Because it contains a spiritual message, as Paul describes in 1 Corinthians 2:6-14. It is a mystery, that requires spiritual understanding.

What it does mean is that the Spirit is needed to embrace the message. A person reading the Bible can understand what it is saying but may reject the message, which is why ATHEISTS like SEUN and cult members can understand the Bible, debate it but reject the message.

It is more than just literature but the life transforming message of the gospel of Jesus Christ. >>>>>>>>The Holy spirit will illuminate our understanding of the message so that it resonates in our hearts. >>>>>>>>>>>>>He also can guide our understanding of how each piece fits together, which is tremendously important for grasping the overall message. >>>>>>>>>>>>This is why I believe it is important to approach scripture prayerfully and humbly in order to receive the message that is being communicated.

This guy was too good to retire early...

Its all a game..The main plan is to install Ikuku who is the son of the immediate former governor but unfortunately a first timer...This Ikuku and his father still run the state but GOD pass them...

adekoonlay:
Christmas Outing at Olumo Rock. (myself n Bae)

guy better marry this chic for sampling her on Nigeria's largest discussion forum cos you have indirectly chased away potential suitors we dey anticipate pre wedding pics next

NobleG1:
You asked if masturbation is a "sin", while you religious people conduct massive fornication in your churches! No group or cult is more hypocritical than religious people!

Masturbation is actually good. In fact, it is healthy! It is a great stress reducer - there's evidence that having sex or masturbating can reduce our resting heart rate for up to 12 hours. Plus, it does our sex lives the world of good to learn our sexual rhythms. We connect through masturbation to the types of action that we see in erotic or pornographic visual stimuli. This feeds our sexual fantasies, which is an enrichment of our creative process.

Its not just the men who enjoy the benefits of masturbating; it is the women too who gain a lot out of it. It is good for women's health to do so. The only thing that should be taken care of is that it should not become an obsessive disorder. If you are able to control that, then there is no harm in doing it.

In fact, many sexologists and clinicians believe that when a woman masturbates, it helps her know a lot more about her sexual behaviour and responses. During masturbation the fluid from the sexual glands help in increased circulation in these organs. Some women prefer to masturbate to ease their menstrual cramps. Over 70 per cent of women have reported to have experienced better orgasm while masturbating, rather than having sex. So, that may imply women having a better time off with themselves than with men. The health benefit is that it prevents cervical infection and urinary tract infection.

For men, apart from it being a release, it helps them get rid of their old sperm. After masturbation, the old sperm is released making way for new ones. Also, the risk of having prostate cancer is also reduced.

Apart from the medical benefits, masturbation has emotional and psychological benefits. It is a good mood elevator and an excellent stress buster. It also helps improve sexual relationship with yourself as well as your partner. It is important to not view masturbation as something immature, bad and shameful. It is something very normal which sexually active people do. It is not a bad thing and should not be viewed as a taboo. Masturbation has good effects on your body and mind. But the main catch in it is not to be doing it like a neurotic fixation. If that part is under control, just go ahead and do it.

bro point of correction old sperm does not need to leave before new ones are formed...instead they are broken down and recycled into the body with its nutrients and new ones are produced to fill up the shortage...so don't say you need to mastubate to release old sperms for new ones to come..unfortunately mastubation has adverse effects which you would not wish for urself.....

FRIENDS in need are FRIENDS indeed....


But they are rare


If you have any pls learn to APPRECIATE the Human Angel

pocohantas:
Now you're shifting goal post.
I thought you were trying to claim he has been in the industry for long?
You sounded like you know the criteria.

Judging from the longevity and records of past winners, he isn't due.

point of correction dear the award is not given based on longevity on the entertainment industry....headies hall of fame is an award for 1)EXCELLENCE. 2)OUTSTANDING IMPACT TO THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY....and you can agree with me he has been excellent and outstanding unless u personally don't like him ..yap there are so many other people who deserve this same award tonight but will probably win next time cos everyone can't be recognized all at once

pocohantas:
When did Flavour start? Don't even go there...
Wasn't it 'Nwa baby' that brought him into the spotlight

Who is he older than in the industry? 2face, NiggaRaw, Ruggedmouth, Idris, TonyTetuila, JazzmanOlofin, BabaFryo, DaddyShokey, Psquare, Dbanj, MarvellousBenjy...2shotz?

Even WandeCoal senior Flavour in the music industry. Any one could have been singing in one studio at Independence Layout, we start counting from when he became a household name.

Every award have different criteria one must meet...the question is do u know the criteria b4 u decide on who you feel should win it? Flavour is favoured

samhay:
Flavour might av started long time ago, but came into prominence less Dan 7years ago.....

He deserve the award but it's too early

Where u Av Nigga Raw, Olu maintain, Twinex (Not sure I gt d name), earthquake and d likes

Thank GOD u said he deserved the award..