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Jj222:
good luck to u all. I don't need another heartbreak.

kakabre:
Am a plus sized lady... serious guys from the east can pm for my deets

Tariiiii:
Mm

hopyroll:
There are friends everywhere dipsandy,
But the question is, are you friendly?
What type of friend are u anticipating for?
There are thousands kind of friends, depending on ur definition of friendship.
Making friends is the most easiest thing. however, making real friends can be very very difficult.
I doubt if there are real friends on social platforms like this but we are all friends.
Goodluck in ur search

Preetiex:
i was friends with 2 april ladies & it ended badly so i check out my astrology & there u go,i cant have an april lady as friend i am sure we are not compatible

Probz:
I think you're wasting more time than necessary on that troll nwa Nkwerre

ewa26:
well I heard Igbo cook much better overall, that Yoruba don't have good food

ewa26:
ok and what spices do yoruba put compared to us is it not the same tatashe, maggi, derica and curry

hinky:
Oh! k
Sorry

olaboy1:
Women use mental manipulation to get what they want and once you fall into her frame of "don't be stingy, stop acting like a broke ass nigga", then you are done.

I believe if the government creates more part time jobs where women can make a reasonable income, we may begin to see a paradigm shift from our current money for hand back for ground dating model. Take a look at Nigerian girls living abroad, I don't see them bothering anyone for money because just a part time care job or mac Donald's could see her through college, we can't say the same for Nigerian girls living in Nigeria.

Everyone is in survival mode due to the harsh economy, our men have turned into yahoo guys and ritualists to break even, our girls who don't have such mind have decided to use the men as their meal tickets, it's such a banana republic. Take this harsh economy away and Nigerian girls are the sweetest anyone would ever pray for, trust me I have dated awesome ones with no money to throw around. When a Nigerian girl truly loves you, she would go to the end of the world for you.

If you must spend on her please do it out of love and let the spending be done moderately, sensibly and with reason. You don't go buying Louis Vuitton bag for a girl that is yet to defend her thesis project. And if you are really broke and trying to put your sh$$it together, you can still date an average Nigerian girl by attracting her with other things, one of those things is your intelligence.

SPEEDEPITOME:
So I went to stay at some big brothers' place last weekend and they talked about their relationship issues. One common point in all of their stories was they spent money on their girlfriends and they still left. One of them started dating a girl when she was in 200l, saw her through school, he even got her a laptop for her final year project and after graduation, he spent over 500k on helping her move to a city and start up her business and that was the end of them. He tried with another girl, same thing happened. All of these guys have similar stories.
I wish I'm Angel Gabriel. I'd just bless you beyond your imagination come give you long life join. You've spoken well. I wish some guys can man up their game...

When I pointed out that they were probably victims of scam, one of them said ' spending on my girlfriend is normal coz she's my responsibility and that does not make me a 'mugun'.

I then came to the conclusion that these girls probably never liked them but chose to stay with them because they were their 'source of livelihood'.

My advice to the ladies, please if you will not stay with a guy, just let him go. Most guys except few like these guys will punish another random lady for your own sin.

My main advice is to the guys: when chasing a girl, stop putting money first. Try to establish friendship and not the I-can-take-care-of-your-needs attitude if not, you'll keep attracting scammers. Reason being that, you lured them with money and that's all they'll be after. These ladies will go as far as marrying you and leave when they are done with you.

Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't take care of your girlfriend but let money not be the reason ladies fall for you. Show them some other side of you. It could be your sense of humour, your level of intelligence or anything.

Every guy has that one thing that's gonna keep people attracted to them. What I'm asking is that guys should bring something other than money to the table else your partners will keep cheating on you with guys who are 'poor' coz contrary to what you think, money is not everything.

PS: I know there are no straightjacket rules as to how a relationship should be run .
My conclusion is based on personal experience, observation, talk with guys and my recent discussion with these 4 friends.

hinky:
Started

YourWife:
Not from a DRUNK, and hellnot from a PUNK!!! Waaaat? From a DRUNKPUNK Please shift lemme faint

YourWife:
Me likey... Who will get one for me?

hinky:
Ronaldo wanted to take d last penalty so he takes all d glory but bravado had his own plans ...

Bravo surprise me sha

ewa26:
what the difference

ewa26:
no you find judge ok, but pls tell me what in your opinion is the difference between Igbo and yoruba jollof rice, who sweet betta pass