₦airaland Forum

femi4:
The couple have no issue. One is ready to bend for the other


This is 2025, the families should expect such - inter-tribal and inter-religion marriages are no longer rocket science. In situation like this, they are expected to pull out of any event their spirit don't agree with

Not with the ease of murders going on. Every caring family will be concerned. And so these are not the days to gamble with the lives of loved ones

vybzkartel:
U think she wanted sex?

Yes she does.

But the question men never ask is for what? Especially as she already has it and can have it just by wearing wrapper.

So, the question is why does she need to coitus with you?

TheBreastSucker:
Maybe she just needs someone to suck her boobies

If you knew women you would know that they already had it sucked but to you sex is the best thing in life

Diamond098454:
We haven't heard from the woman so, we can't conclude she give herself away yet

We have heard oo.

If she did not give herself away, uncle would have said "so I pushed and cajoled her into coming to my place".

I have always said that that statement "weaker vessel" is a Lie and a deceit meant to make men more fullysh.

Women are as strong as men it is just like comparing Benz with BMW or Honda with Toyota or Audi with Volkswagen.

Kingogbotor:
Relationships nowadays and personal finance go in consonance..sometimes I wonder how someone that cannot give himself 3 square meal is going into a relationship....

Cooperation of girl bring sugar and boy bring garri is also dating.

Or girl bring yam and boy bring oil is also dating

Carndidlaydid:
Broke boys everywhere.... Look at em defending their poor state of mind

You wey won collect money from broke boy dat mean say you be the chairlady of poorverty association.

See olosh dey complain say guy man won dry her market

WantsandMore:
There's a scientific study observed in "Common sense of sex." Written by a British behavioral psychologist citing the works of freud, carl jung et al, that too frequent contact with your wife could lead to separation and perhaps the most effective ways to live a longer and fulfilling marriage is to have some sorts of systemic distance, like seperate bed rooms etc.in my observation of Nigeria's pre-colonial history, our fore fathers adopted this type of living, it was even more common amongst the men with multiple wives and slaves etc. so I wonder how the living in thesame bed room as your wife crept into modern lifestyle probably something we adopted from colonialism and in comparison our fore fathers lived far more longer with their wives compared to the spate of divorce, hence, I wonder if it's enough evidence to support the assertion of seperate bedrooms 🤔

As dem no give us plot of land for free, everybody go manage their self contain

femi4:
Both families are selfish and bias religiously

You guys should just do your thing and ignore the noise. If they fail to attend any of the events, nobody will die and life continues

If both of you continue to listen to your families, you ll either not get married or preparing for future problems in your marriage

I don't think this is bias. It's more of knee jerk as both families were not expecting such a scenario.

And you know couples cannot exist without their families, so cutting off is not possible, unless of course they want the consequences of cutting off

hakeem77:
Don't do any damn church wedding. It's a way of your inlaws having upper hand and control over your affairs. If your fiancee loves you and want to marry you, you are ready for a traditional wedding. If it is that she wants control and the upper hand that women get from court wedding, bunk her.

You are the provider and yet she is the authority?

With all the authority he already has una no fit give the woman small road? Ehn!

Anyway, na the woman choose to carry this cross.

Ewooo! See super calculus wey you give linguistics graduate.

Abeg una must cancel the paper oo. Ahan, who won answer dis paper?

Diamond098454:
11 years older is perfect

When am ready to have a bf that is gonna be the perfect age gap to look after

Why did you delete my post na? Is it because it has over exposed you?

You know this year confession is heavy, as some of us now know that it means you did kerewa with your father, uncle, neighbours husband and husbands.

That is why you people can never say who disvirgined you

So, you are used to eating old people.

Badt gurl

Diamond098454:
There he goes again

Why calling wike the FCT minister?

Seriously, when one throw his or herself at you , you shouldn't fall despite how beautiful and sweet it looks be it a man or a woman

If indeed you are saying the right thing, are you not supposed to throw pant water on the woman first for throwing and giving herself away William McDowell style ?

"I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me
I give myself away"

But, no, you do not, even after telling you 3 times. (See how Wike and unfair you women are?)

Then, the next after the cheating, you go and fight the woman.

It is now I understand why husbands beat their wifes when they go fighting side chick. I now I see, it is because madam was silent before the cheating and now she has no right to complain about it

Op ma ya sef. You don already bend Nigeria eagle give Tunis.

And see as Tunis eagle si down like king, while Nigeria eagle stand bow head like boy boy wey dey tel king say food don ready.

Diamond098454:
You guys in this forum blame girls for everything

Even as that

Not all the food is meant to be eating

But see it, you are blaming the guys and putting the pressure on them not to eat but you never blamed the food, the whole Mrs Food, who was even the first to cause the eating, by supplying herself to uncle chop chop, to be eaten.

Is this not Wike...nes?

Olachase:
I am 20 years older than you can we start from there

I want to be turning you like Egusi soup way don sawa

😁😁😁

And after that na she go turn you like custard wey don cast.😁😁😁😁

Merry100:
What about the poor women who made a life covenant with you men, only for you to sleep with the domestic staff they hire? Which is worse?

Is that not what I said already that you poor women always hook to your rich man? And did you not know that he was the kind of person who chooks up and down before you covenanted yourself to him? Plus, where you not aware that the housegirl too had the same plan you used? Do you people ever tell your husbands that?
Of which some of you even bring/send your own sister to sleep with him so that he would live under you perpetually guilty so that you people would have the upper hand and can now permanently control him. Like this guy

https://www.nairaland.com/5246864/wifes-sister-crash-marriage-please#79364069

You people are wike.. and much more dangerous than a spitting cobra

Diamond098454:
Leave that Lady alone and stop what ever soft spot you have for her

She's married

Stop turning tables.

It is the married woman who came to his house.

So it is the married woman that you are supposed to shout "olosh..... Stay in your house"

We4all:
You gave a hungry man a plate of food to share among hungry people when he hasn't had his fill.

Next time, don't tempt broke people with money. Poverty stricken people don't reason like normal people.

And you wonder why Dangote would rather employ Indians.

And then they wonder why they are poor permanently

Merry100:
Why do you cry about things like this? You can't have your cake and eat it. Both genders are victims of circumstance.

Men claim to be polygamous by nature, while women tend to be moneygamous by nature.

This appears to be True but it is not really true. Yes circumstances dictate reactions however, whilst men are channeling themselves to directly face and respond to life's obstacles, you women's plan is to find a man you would hook and use him to slingshot you to the man better than him. And when he does not, you dump him.

And then the poor man who thought he had gotten love will then do his own wickedness to another girl

Meanwhile, all these began with you women.

And that is why men are now saying that it is better to be alone and as they have seen, their lives are better and ok. No troubles anywhere.

So, it is you women who are the problem. You people have to find a way to solve all your life's problems without having to hook a man. And this is what badoo and co has solved for you people

jaephoenix:
This is Dtruthspeaker. You're not getting anywhere arguing logically or factually with him

Yet you are never able to point out any illogical argument I make or deny any fact I present as he has already seen even in this thread

So, this is you embarrassing yourself with cheap blackmail.

QuinQ:
How was he given a choice if outcomes were already predetermined? Infact not only him, nobody else was given a choice because everything affects everything else. Example, all it'd take was for his father to use his free will to decide not to sleep with his mother that day, and he wouldn't even be born!

Did he not have a choice of either sitting back to managing the kingdom he inherited from his father or choosing to expand his domain to other lands?
He chose to conquer and trespass other people's lands.
So, he had choices.

And you see you said the word of freewill , "to decide" and Alexander did his own "to decide"

Merry100:
This simply means all men can get a woman so what is the complain for.

No, they don't get a woman rather It is you women who got them. Which of course is away from the point that women nearly never marry a man when he is poor. But if he is rich, like Regina Daniels, you all will marry him as the last wife until you are not the last wife anymore.

Merry100:
Why do so many of you love playing the victim and blaming women for everything? Women don't hate men, and women aren't your problems; your imagination and unnecessary jealousy are simply eating away at some of you.

Your denial and cover up is vain. Little by little more men will start seeing that you people are very very bad things and that you hate them

Merry100:
But your data isn't adding up at all. Check the statistics: the number of married men in Nigeria is far greater than the number of men who have nothing and still have nothing. Who married them 'rabbits'?

That is because to a poorer girl, the poor man is rich. I remember when I was in the university I was always shocked when I hear that a poor young carpenter working near my place or the poor young electrician was already married. All of us who did not know him wondered who married him until we saw his wife and then we understood.

QuinQ:
So how do you reconcile this with free will? It was foretold hundreds of years in advance how these people would behave and what would happen

There is nothing to reconcile as free will means freedom to make your choices. And was Alexander given a choice? Yes. Therefore, he has exercised his freewill

jaephoenix:
Which illnesses are due to sin,sir

You know them. Aids, syphilis, gono, staph, cervical cancer, barrenness, poverty, always sick syndrome, etc.

Virgins don't have these things.

All these are things we have seen and we all say in our houses, so what is the big deal after all you people don't mind having them?

See your brother is complaining after he has just finished sinning

https://www.nairaland.com/8588040/burning-sensation-around-penis-scrotum#137917248

gsegun43:
This guy! Where exactly did I respond aggressively about death? Go back to the beginning of the thread and read it again — slowly and carefully this time. This is exactly why I don’t like replying to you. You constantly go off point, then quickly declare yourself the winner while avoiding the actual argument. Please park one side.

Your anger and aggression is already permanently stamped up here. Plus, it makes no sense you repeating what I have already explained. And , no where here did I declare myself winner.

It's apparent that my beating you has greatly traumatized you. Sorry, that is what it means to be wrong

gsegun43:
Lol, I think many of us have moved past that level — death. It’s the least of my concerns. Death is simply the end of one’s existence, nothing more. We will all die someday, and we’re not going anywhere after that.
What matters to me is living well now: making life better for myself, my loved ones, and leaving the world better than I met it. That’s it. No eternity, no fear of hellfire, no hope of an afterlife reward. I left that level long ago.

Your earlier aggressive response about death betrays you but I will not pursue it but respect your right not to be reminded of death and your fear especially as this is not what the thread is really about.

And on living well, I say forget it. For it is only when God comes that living well will begin. It is as sure as fuel will never be 87 naira for a litre.

gsegun43:
Attack your argument? Na

I'm I to attack my own argument? Or you just want say something to cover your embarrassment? Let me just let it go

gsegun43:
You dey mind that guy? I don't think he is normal

If I was not normal, he would have picked it. It is you who being hate full of Truth, who hates me because I am not afraid of saying the most painful Truth.

So, this is you unreasonably and unfairly interpreting a novel opinion by committing the fallacy of ad hominem because you know you cannot successfully attack my arguments.

Unlike me, I even know you are a God hater, but I did not attack you but only addressed your post.