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ayoncox:
If this is true, I really feel your pain, my advice is that you try your best to make peace with her, report the the real issue to a third party, like therapists or even necessary government bodies, although it's obvious your wife's goal is separation. If you can switch towards going into monk mode may be it will be helpful. A lot of lady get poisoned by the cultural patterns in Europe that exposes the true possibilities they have in them

Make peace ke? It's like your head traveled with Tinubu

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

You know what to do. Your wife is divorcing you. So you too, divorce her. Sorry for your loss.

dosage150:
Yea ,
But it's surprising as he left the house that day
No communication again
Not even "hi" and the number wasn't being picked ,till another person now picks

No one is even asking him for anything or hoping to get anything from him a bit , like that thought isn't even on anyone's mind

At least he could have keep in touch

Let's hope it's the economy and he is fine
That's really all that matters

This interest of yours on him, tells me that you are chic and you would have liked him to marry you.

heniford2:
They manipulator the come in create home in you and once you feel comfortable with them they strike and leave

What strike did he leave behind? He is clearly not like you.

And who here does not know that he obviously a very serious and focused person who is still trying to make something good of himself, so he is terribly engaged and is planning on coming back in a better way, that is with a car of his own filled with gifts.

Namaster:
...If you ONLY do the right thing because you expect a REWARD, then you are NOT a good person.

If you found a lost item and the owner is easily IDENTIFIABLE, it's NOT a display of exceptional virtue to return it to said owner.

Even WITHOUT any reward...

Uncle Nam, you are talking rubbish because it is the natural law that we do good because we want good to be done to us. So we are all expecting a benefit.

If it were not so, then you would never be complaining how wicked and ungrateful beechies are, after all the good you have done for them and they still went aw0ring.

Trymeee:
A pity only few Nigerians really understand and sees the light. Christian I believe will deny and fight Jesus today if he comes done and tell them tithing is not a commandment.

Why would they fight Him when obeying the Law on tithe is as hard as obeying the Law on fornication and adultery which Jesus also condemned but you people are not obeying it?

Both what you people deceivingly call old and new testament clearly prohibits adultery, fornication, stealing and all evils yet, you people do not listen.

It is the one that has to do with money that you are now complaining about.

Trymeee:
Thought thesame, I wonder why Nigerians will even kill to defend and call it a commandment from God.

Did you not admit that it is indeed in the Commandment God gave Moses?

And while you are on that please where in your supposed new testament did you see Jesus Say you should not steal or kill, or covet your neighbours house?

Trymeee:
Christianlanders, I'm not trying to stir up controversies, I will appreciate if anyone can tell me about tithing and what Jesus said about it. Please don't argue with emotions, state your facts....

If you read the new testament then you would have seen that Jesus oft Said "what do the Commandments say?"

njelrapheal:
THE TRUTH. I don't think it is relative. And I don't think it binds too

When he made that statement on Truth did you not see that the guys sanity has disappeared.

Jashub:
You're very delusional . Cherry-picking post and facts doesn't change the narrative. Women are less than men and if you don't like it , tear out Paul's letters from your bible .

Focusing on the main point of a post is not cherry picking. You are the one nit picking as you already know that you do not have any valid thing to say in opposition which is why you are repeating yourself.

And whether the bible said so or not, it is proven that you are not superior to the woman which why you all marry small small girls that you are even 7/15years older than your own age mates.

Of which the bible still begs that same small girl you married to be submissive.

Guy, you clearly have nothing to say but to make noise.

Jashub:
...so you edited my post because it didn't sit well with your delusions abi? Nice . Oya, remove all those verse in your bible that subjugate women to men ...and while you're at it tear Paul's epistles which commanded women to learn in silence and not teach in church .

I edited your post to focus on the most important thing you said. The rest are just following it.

And it is not the verses that made women lesser, it's the women themselves who did that to themselves and the end result is that they will be lesser than a man. So, the bible only worked with how they are already.

And if you indeed are superior to the woman then why is it that you all marry small small girls that you are even upto 15years older than as you run from your age mates?

Of which your wife is only lesser than you because she consented to do so, which is why even see that the bible still begs her to be submissive.

Please, don't deceive yourself, you and I know that you are not superior to a woman or any person at all. It is their mess up or mess down that made them lesser than their mates

Jashub:
You're delusional. Why does the bible say wives submit to your husband?..

Says the man suffering from superiority complex.

Has common sense not already taught you that it is better for only one person to lead? Why do we say that there can't be 2 captains in 1 ship.

Which is further proven by the cry which you shout that anybody can rule this country w so far they rule well which of course it includes a woman. So, you are just showing that you suffer inferiority complex.

CodeTemplarr:
Did Jesus move around nakęd seeing that the first man n woman were naked before they sinned?

Or was it a case of what was to come in due time being fasttracked due to sin?

I don't understand you. The topic is on superiority of the man over the woman at beginning but here you are blaspheming The LORD by bringing Him into this and even stripping Him naked,

Jashub:
False doctrine . From the days of genesis, God had ways required accountability from men , which is why when Adam sinned, He called to him first ; not Eve. So Adam was always the head and Paul the apostle admonished men because they were mostly accountable to God first

Throw that superior complex away.

The simple explanation for this is simply because God was showing us that He has a special relationship for the Number 1.

And that is why He stated that all First Borns belong to Him.

So, it is not superiority thing but a positional thing

Of which God shows us that He could change that setting if He wants it as shown by the Curse He laid on men that Isaiah 3:12.

So, there is no superiority or headship thing, only order and organizations

If only people read before they speak.

The bible clearly said the place of happiness is in "a new heaven and earth".

Yet people like the op are still stuck on the old silly chant.

Lucifyre:
There is no heaven or hell, that's just undemonstratable superstitious nonsense. How could Yhwh who's barely 3500 years old have created a universe 13.8 billion years old. Only in mythology.

Yet you are petrified with fear when you are about to die. You are just deceiving yourself

BlackAdam65:
You're absolutely right that Israel consistently failed to keep God's covenant - from the golden calf at Sinai to the Babylonian exile. But here's what's fascinating about the restoration prophecies:

1. The Exile Pattern Was Always Conditional
While God did promise a return from Babylon (Jeremiah 29:10), it wasn't unconditional:
- The 70 years had to be completed (2 Chronicles 36:21)
- The return happened under godly leaders like Ezra and Nehemiah
- The restored community repented and rebuilt the temple

2. The "Final Restoration" Prophecies Point to Messiah
Passages like Jeremiah 31 and Ezekiel 36 describe:
- A new heart and spirit (Ezekiel 36:26)
- Universal knowledge of God (Jeremiah 31:34)
- An everlasting covenant (Jeremiah 32:40)
These were fulfilled in Christ (Hebrews 8:6-13), not in political Zionism...

...The beautiful truth is that God's promises are more glorious than we imagined:
- The true "return" is reconciliation through Christ (2 Corinthians 5:18)
- The real "restoration" is the new creation (Revelation 21:1)
- The ultimate "Israel" includes all nations in Messiah (Galatians 3:28-29)

Whilst I have never fully studied the exile pattern and some of the angles that you are looking at it from, I however know Law aka Commandments.

And God's Law/Word has told us the beginning and the end which is why He is Truly the Beginning and the End but of course people never listen and worse, God needs to open eyes for people to see it.

So, little details like these are almost inconsequential as they are wholly subsumed in the greater plan which is for man to know that He is God and that they should take His Rope of salvation if they want to Live.

And so, it does not matter the way and when the prophecy is fulfilled but the lesson that people ought to get is that they must know that indeed God is God and that He has Spoken through the Bible and that we are witnesses even today to see that indeed His Words came to pass and therefore we should Fear and listen and obey Him. And that no one can claim anymore that they do not know Him or His Ways.

That is the point of the Bible. So don't focus on irrelevancies and trivialities Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David, job, Daniel and co did not need the prophecies to be fulfilled before they believed God, so also all these enquiries into the nitty gritty of these things is a distraction.

And since you appreciate the main points of God's worldwide of saving yourself to wit "The true "return" is reconciliation through Christ (2 Corinthians 5:18)
- The real "restoration" is the new creation (Revelation
- The ultimate "Israel" includes all nations in Messiah" then run with it. Leave trivialities ..." run with it and leave arguments for those who do not want to live.

BlackAdam65:
Let’s be honest about what we’re looking at today: the modern State of Israel, established in 1948, is a secular nationalist project. It was driven by Zionism, a political ideology, not spiritual repentance...

See it, you mentioned "Zionism". Meanwhile Zionism means "the endorsement of the Jewish people to establish a Jewish national home in Palestine,"

Nigeria nor India and co did not ask to be recognised and to be given their land back, but they whom God had a prophecy were being orchestrated to be returned.

If you paid close attention to the bible you would see that since Isreal left Egypt they never kept to God's Agreement, so their not operating the Torah/Bible Laws is not a criteria for measurement for Isreal since the very beginning never kept to it

BlackAdam65:
But in all those cases, the Bible gives us direct prophetic confirmation God told us what was happening. Where is that level of clarity now? Where is the prophet in this modern return?

I have already pointed out that the prophecy stated that they would be thrown out and returned again.

But I am sure that you did not take note that the conclusion of that prophecy states that Isreal would return and be no more thrown out, whether they repent or not.

God did not base their final return on their repentance.

Which is what so far the 1948 return is proving

So, you are wrong.

Brenbentondiaz:
"Nigeria" is not an ethnicity. For instance, there are German nationals that are not ethnic Germans (eg Mezut Oezil, who is an ethnic Turk, but a German national), and there are ethnic Germans who are not German nationals (eg Austrians, some Swiss, some Americans etc). For instance if Yorubas in Nigeria should form a country named Yoruba Nation, Yorubas in Togo, who are ethnic Yorubas, will not be nationals of the new nation. I think that's what op is trying to explain.

Same thing still applies to the Yorubas who themselves have different ethnic groups within them. Yet we identify all of them as Yoruba. So, he is wrong because we all naturally deal and respond to the predominant fact, which whether you are an Ijebu or ilaje, such persons are still Yorubas. Same thing for persons who are called Okafor or Edem, such persons are Nigerians. Thus, any person called Yacob, Yoseph etc is an Isrealite

BlackAdam65:
You're absolutely right to press me on this - let me clarify and refine my position, because I think we're actually closer in perspective than it appears.

1. On "Foreign Blood" - My Poor Phrasing:
You correctly called out my earlier wording about "foreign blood" as problematic. The biblical concern was never about racial purity (God included Rahab the Canaanite and Ruth the Moabite in Jesus' lineage - Matthew 1:5). My real argument should have focused on:
- Covenant Continuity: Biblical Israel's identity wasn't just genetic but required maintained tribal records, Levitical priesthood, and covenant obedience (Nehemiah 7:5, Ezra 2:59-62)
- Historical Disruption: The Babylonian exile and Roman destruction of Jerusalem (AD 70) permanently broke these systems - which is why even Orthodox Jews today can't verify tribal lineage

2. The DNA Point - Better Stated:
The genetic evidence matters only because:
- Zionist claims often rely on "we are the direct descendants of Abraham" as biblical justification
- Yet science shows most Ashkenazis descend from European converts (Khazars) who adopted Judaism in the 8th century AD
- This would be like if the Benin Kingdom was reestablished today by descendants of Portuguese traders who married into the royal family centuries ago - they might have some connection, but couldn't credibly claim to be Oba Ewuare's direct heirs

3. The Nigerian Half-Caste Analogy:
You're 100% right that mixed Nigerian children are fully Nigerian! But imagine if:
- Britain declared a new "Benin Empire" in 2024
- Filled it with British-Nigerian descendants
- Claimed this fulfilled 15th century prophecies of Benin's glory
- While ignoring the actual Edo people still living there

That's closer to the modern Israel/Palestine situation.

4. What Really Matters:
God never cared about DNA tests - He cared about faithful hearts (Jeremiah 9:25-26). That's why:
- Jesus said God could raise Abraham's children "from stones" (Matthew 3:9)
- Paul said true Jews are those "inwardly" (Romans 2:28-29)
- The Jerusalem Council (Acts 15) proved God's people are defined by faith in Christ, not ancestry

My core argument was never about "purity" - it's that political Zionism misuses Scripture. The real fulfillment of Israel's promises is in Jesus (Galatians 3:16), not any earthly state.

I truly appreciate this conversation - you've helped me express this more carefully. What do you think of this refined perspective?

Truly, we are seeing the same thing howei because of your preset biases and prejudices, you refuse to absorb the sure obvious facts and so you have to move posts on the argument and try to start raising on the small irrelevant facts and exceptions in an attempt to rebut the main point and goal of my counter.

Thereby committing the fallacy of exception/secundum quid.

And that is why you are wrong even though we are both seeing the same thing. As I said from the beginning, your error comes from a bad disconnection in your thinking.

And therefore you do not fully see that God's Ways and Fulfilment is always both physical and spiritual. Which is why like you, most people have not figured out that heaven and earth means physical and spiritual, which is why both were born together in Genesis and both die together in Revelations.

So, yes you appreciate the spiritual side of things but you made the error of raising it over and above the physical side.

Meanwhile, it is Written "as it is in heaven/whatsoever ye shall bind on earth"

BlackAdam65:
Third, the Palestinians - especially the Christian Palestinians - are actually the ones with continuous ties to the land...

Ehen! I suspected. Your real plan was to make a case for the Palestinian occupation which you know no Christian is interested in having. And that is because it is not important to us because if God chooses to wipe out and replace any nation, nothing can stop it.

But to set the record straight you forget that they only got to be there because God threw them out and they are the ones who got to benefit from that time.

But if God has purposed that He Who He threw out shall return to his place, nothing and no one can stop it.

And that is why it is written when God has opened a door, no one can shut it.

If God had not purposed it, Isreal would not be in this mess.

BlackAdam65:
The heart of what I'm saying is this: names and political states don't define a people's true heritage. Just like the Benin Kingdom didn't stop existing when colonial powers redrew maps, the biblical Israelites didn't disappear when Rome renamed Judea as Palestine. But here's the crucial difference - the people who call themselves Israelis today are largely not the same people as those ancient Israelites in terms of bloodline, culture or religion...

First, names can be reused but that doesn't create continuity....

Second, when we look at who actually makes up Israel today, the majority are Ashkenazi Jews whose DNA shows European ancestry...

And that is why I pointed out to you that the same people who you call "ancient Isrealites", they too changed in bloodlines, culture and religion. You did see them practice Baalism, Molechism, wearing earrings and bracelets like the Babylonians etc.

It is still the same natural human interaction that goes on even today where the Bini man is married to a Jew and now practicing Torahism.

It is still the same human interaction and interrelation. And nothing in this world would make you see a mixed black man named Efosa Oshiomhole in Amsterdam and then you would say that he is not a Bini man.

Every fact whether name, bloodline and history are all working together here. So doing the argument of the small ("names can be reused but that doesn't create continuity" is vain. We all know this and neither did I plead only their name. I raised other facts in addition to the name. And it is as clear as no one would say that the Chinese Nollywood actor called Babatunde is a Nigerian.

But if he marries a Nigerian and births his kids here, definitely his Chinese looking kids will be Nigerians and now the normal Nigerian identity and DNA have changed. But the history carries the story. So, you have no point here.

BlackAdam65:
I understand why you see it that way, but let's carefully examine what the Bible actually says about Israel's exile and return. There are several key points we need to consider:

1. The Exile Was Conditional
God did promise to scatter Israel for disobedience (Deuteronomy 28:64), but He also promised to bring a remnant back after 70 years (Jeremiah 29:10) - which historically happened under Cyrus in 538 BC (Ezra 1:1-3). This was the return the prophets spoke of.

2. The 1948 Migration Doesn't Match Biblical Prophecy
The modern state of Israel:
- Was established by secular Zionists, not godly repentance
- Lacks the required elements of biblical Israel (tribes, temple, Davidic king)
- Includes many with no ancestral ties to the land (European converts)

3. New Testament Fulfillment
Jesus and the apostles reinterpreted these prophecies spiritually:
- The true "return" is repentance to God through Christ (Luke 1:16-17)
- God's people are now defined by faith, not ethnicity (Romans 2:28-29)
- The promises find fulfillment in the Church (Galatians 3:29)

4. Continuous Presence in the Land
Many faithful Jews never left Judea (Luke 2:36-37 shows Anna the prophetess serving in the temple). Their descendants (Palestinian Christians) maintained the lineage.

The 1948 event may look like fulfillment superficially, but without:
- Tribal records (Numbers 1:18)
- Levitical priesthood (Ezekiel 44:15)
- Covenant faithfulness (Deuteronomy 28)

...it cannot be the prophetic restoration Scripture describes. The book of Hebrews shows these earthly shadows were fulfilled in Christ's eternal kingdom (Hebrews 8-10).

You did not read the Bible well to see that God said "anytime they mess up", one of the punishments they would always get is to be thrown out of their land.

And so, but they shall return again. And history says that they have been thrown out about 4 times. So you see the Cyrus return was not the only one.

And because you were not shown the process of how they returned the first and other times therefore seeing this return and all the human activities that occasioned it, you do not appreciate that it is no joke when people say "God use you take do this or that". And clearly even the used, does not know he is being used. And like you, he thought he was doing his own will, which of course he was, just that God also used that will in an elaborate scheme which no man can orchestrate.

Or did you not see how He brought them out of Egypt? Did you not see everybody doing their thing and the only people who knew that God was moving were the people God told, that is Moses, Aaron, Miriam. Did you not see that naturally even his people (the elders and Isrealites) did not believe him?

You obviously do not know and understand that God's Moves are right within every human activity eg. See all the world ending happenings going on, even after the bible fore Said so, yet people cannot see that they are moving and playing into the very spot God had fore marked for them, exactly how we see in the movies eg the movie "Wanted" where the hunted gets killed on the spot marked X and he sees it too late and the time of his death after all his natural and unnatural responses.

Fenrir:
Thanks 😊 for clearing up in my head though
Appreciated 👍

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Fenrir:
Nope 04/07/1985
White and from Norway
I just live here, this country is beautiful chaos to me

And a carnival to you, is a fun fair to me mate

So it the equivalent of winning a half dead goldfish to us

Clearly, a different world to you.
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DatIgalaDude:
I would just buy the big ballon.
It was expensive o.
But I always wanted to be the guy with the big ballon.

I think that big balloon was ₦2 so it seemed glorious getting it with 1kobo

Fenrir:
Am I missing something fundamental about Nigeria?

Since im a completely different race and only got citizenship recently Why are you complaining about balloons? Are your dads just too cheap and not care that they cant just buy you a pack of balloons?

Im not being abusive, im asking for an explanation thats all, is it like fun fairs for us and spending a fortune in allowance just to win a half dead goldfish or something?

Clearly you are a 2000 baby so you can not know the joy of winning a balloon at the bazaar or at the end of year party or at a carnival.

Ah! It is only 1kobo this game chop me everytime and bucket game of winning 1 kobo

But PAC man, Terminator, Jet Fighter on top Family Com, Nes and Super Nes, na dem chop all my money ₦5 -₦20. Ah, but I enjoy am. At least before I finish 2 -3 hours must pass compared to the nonsense seconds this game take chop my 1kobo.

Magnetic010:
All of you are deceiving yourselves....There is no heaven or he'll anywhere....When you die your journey ends and you make way for others to continue....What matters is how the living will remember if they remember you.

Yet when people are dying they are greatly afraid and we see them accepting the prayers of people. You are the one deceiving yourself