₦airaland Forum

Sonnobax15:

Let me brutal to you here Mr. Man,how can you be cheating and the same time not be smart in doing that?

Well, just like you've already said,your marriage is about to face the greatest smack down,and may likely not survive it......But no sin is too much to be forgiven, after all you didn't kill anybody......Na kpekus you chop but forgot to clean mouth

Anyways,happy divorce in advance cuz my mind is telling me your wife will definitely find out the true use of that drug and she wouldn't take it lightly with you....

Especially as he cheated on her first.

Women prefer to be the first to cheat

pentag0nal:
This is no joke at all. Imagine that you are married but still struggling for sex.

Guy, your wife has scammed you

tanigororo:
Yes sir, like una get brain pain

If so tey you get brain you for no talk

Abeg no complain. You yourself also cause pain and misery to other people. Humans are just wicked and evil.

inoki247:
Lol at least you will have access to the Pot without having to commit or spend any money on any marriage that u still need money to divorce....

Once everybody tire we all go out separate ways for free...

It is that pot you ate that made you married. For if she does not gives you the pot, even if you did marriage before the Minister of weddings, you still are not married.

Kobojunkie:
A Just court! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Everyone knows that a court is supposed to be just, hence why they go there

Kobojunkie:
It states that when a question arises in court about whether a man or woman is a spouse under Islamic or Customary law, the court will presume a valid marriage if evidence of cohabitation as husband and wife is provided, unless the contrary is proven meaning that if the man insists they are not married, then the presumption will likely be dropped.

In Nigeria, cohabitation, as someone already indicated, amounts to an extended hookup. So, women need to be aware of this as there is nothing for them to gain in the end from the relationship, except if kicking the can down the road is their thing.

The man can insist but a just court may hold him married. So, Section 166 is not nullified because he insisted.

CHAQUR:
Cohabitation: it's just like having a particular "ashawo" customer that even if with other clients, on your arrival, she cancel others for you. Enjoy it while it last. You are not married.

For you to be arriving means that you are not cohabiting.

Angelfrost:
Nope... All registered churches do not (DO NOT) offer certified marriage certificates.

Only few of them have the presence of mind to do so.

I have met a lot of married couples who have a marriage certificate issued by their churches that were outrightly rejected at embassies and other legal organizations.

Traditional marriage is highly important but without a court signed document, you are single by national law!

If you have no plans to leave the nation as a couple or contest marital issues in court, then you can choose not to bother with a registry... But, it's just common sense to actually visit a registry after you have concluded traditional marriage rites.

You are placing validity of a marriage simply because a foreigner says that they won't recognise it?

It is because Nigeria is weak else we too can tell them that we do not recognise their marriages.

Rejection by embassies does not mean that you do not have a marriage. That is just them playing God.

Pootle:
no politicians should be buried alive so they can think back and reflect on their wicked action before death take its action

I concur.

TOPCRUISE:
Yet no ban on perpetrators of electoral malpractices

You can say it again

Pootle:
how about the officials, schools, and centers involved

I say 30years each.

Then for politicians its Firing Squad

See. Dem no want make students dey go university since space no dey!

guobe:
Many got injured doing this with neck twisted. Lol

Ha! Many people oo. This things is what makes our generation know that indeed God loves children.

My neighbour slammed his head on the iron end and that was how he never did wrestling with us. Me It was until I slammed my head on the headboard that was when I stopped. The pain lasted maybe 3 or more days. Infact I think I can still feel the headache and pain even now, for just thinking about it.

One cousin bounced out of the bed and broke his hand. End of wrestling.

Men God saved us ooo

brain54:
I didn't use...

I grew up back then with one in the house but with the springs already coming apart and not in use.

Probably inspired the creation of the bouncing castle the kids now have.

You had your spring bed... they have their bouncing castle.

So maybe they didn't miss much!

Bouncing castle is always outside which you can only enjoy when mummy and daddy take you to it.

But this one is your own permanent personalised bouncing and everything castle and bed, available everyday, morning, afternoon and night. And especially after every wrestling match. whoow.

guobe:
As a kid we had spring beds that we will climb and be jumping on top happily till we finally fall lol.
If you didn't do this as a kid then you missed lol.
Most of these spring beds were owned by our grand mothers.
Growing up was quite fun.

And Wrestling. You have forgotten wrestling. Na dia we take practice how to do person Sommerslam and close line and sleeper hold...

Until our head nack the iron of bed. No more bed tough play ever again. Na dat time we Kon know say bed na for lying down

Okpetruth:
This is unafrican. A man once settled with a woman and they had four kid's. Along the line the man moved to Lagos from Port harcourt and wanted to marry and settle down with another woman. To cut the story short, on the wedding day in the church when is time to ask the public who doesn't want the wedding to hold, behold his baby mama, who instantly told the officiating minister that she is his wife. There was murmuring all over. The officiating minister invited the woman and the man inside his chamber. After ward the wedding took place. Explaining latter the officiating minister told the church that there was no marriage in the first place that what they did was not in tandem with God's word and tradition. Hear this, this is not western world where anything goes in the name of marriage. This Nigeria and Africa and we have custom, tradition and culture.

First, church is not an African tradition.

Secondly, it is God Himself Who Set Natural Law to be our Law and even He upheld The Natural Law in Exodus 21:10; which says, "where there are equal equities the first in time shall prevail".

So, the minister did not obey God's Command nor did he do just is. (Another disobedience of God's Command. Psalm 82:3)

IyaTola:
ou’re making an emotional and philosophical argument rooted in natural law, but marriage is not just a moral or social concept—it is a legal contract with defined entry points and obligations.

Have you checked the origins of "legal" comes from?

I am sure you would not want the laws which Lakurawa and ISIS makes. That is where legal comes from.

And if you knew this then you would know that legal is unlawful!

IyaTola:
If you're going to claim the legal protections of marriage, you must meet the legal requirements of marriage.

And this is exactly why I speaking for people do not know that all the injustices and unlawfulness that happens to them all happen because "legal" is creation of man and no man is Just. Therefore, you cannot get justice.

Whereas, all the just-ises that we are looking for are all in Natural Law.

Of which Natural Law is even more Powerful and Greater than legal.

And Natural Law has provided for everything and infact "legal", steals power from Natural Law when they are doing their thing which is why you people do not easily see that legal, is a Thief!

potent5:
Section 166 of the Evidence Act says it can be presumed to be marriage.

A presumption that becomes concrete and cast when the marriager and the marriagee agree that they are married

The difference between a democracy and a dictatorship is that in a democracy you vote first and take orders later; in a dictatorship you don't have to waste your time voting.

Charles Bukowski

See why your rulers are always against any protests against their bad leadership and shoot anyone who protests?

When dictatorship is a fact, revolution becomes a right.

Victor Hugo

And see, Buhari, Tinubu, Wike etc are proving Plato, Right!

I am sure like me, many of you have never ever heard this quote before.

Dictatorship naturally arises out of democracy, and the most aggravated form of tyranny and slavery out of the most extreme liberty.

Plato

Angelfrost:
What part is wrong?!!

You are not legally married regardless of where or how grand the ceremony is until you have been certified by the constitution via courts or registry.

Except we are under traditional law or Religious law, which we are not in Nigeria!

Tinubu winning the election didn't automatically make him President... He became president the moment he was sworn in by the Judiciary and given a certificate of office.

Even among Muslims, they must get a certificate from the Sharia or regular courts after performing the wedding rites.

This is you fulfilling exactly what Offpoint1: pointed out.

"Being enslaved to man made law or societal law is the worse thing to happen to one".

Marriage and it's Laws are things born out of Nature. Therefore, it is Natural Law that dictates the validity of invalidity of marriages. And not some terrorising bandits who organised themselves into becoming rulers and gods over their fellow man.

Thus, exactly how it is not man made law that says that you have a right to buy and sell, biscuits, so also, it is not man made laws who determines when and how a person should be married.

Marriage is borne out of natural social contract and not on the power of the man with the gun.

Fiscus105:
I guess the father in law, would give u marriage certificate,in which various Institutions or Govts all over the world would recognise as a legally married couples.

Court.
Embassy.
Bank.
Places of work etc.

That is why the family and father in law's blessings is important. Because it is your certificate of marriage.

Exactly how you got the blessings of your school and church and whatever who gave you the certificate which you used to get jobs and travel all over the world.

Angelfrost:
This is just common sense...!

Same way those who perform only Church wedding think they are actually married.

Without a legally binding document endorsed by a judge or authorised personnel from the government of your country, you are merely cohabiting.

Wrong.
They are legally married. However, this is where you see that the world is just like those family members who say that they would not recognise your marriage no matter what

Kobojunkie:
can you provide a reference to this law which gives you right over any child born from your sperm?

The anti-bastard Law.

Section 42 of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999 (As amended) provides for the Right to Freedom from discrimination while Subsection (2), by extension, specifically emphasizes that “no citizen of Nigeria shall be subjected to any disability or deprivation merely by reason of the circumstances of his or her birth.”

See Final Destination things

Ibkay32:
Lol, people always thinks I don’t like her, but the way she comprehends things always dey come from the back door like she dey read chapter 10 before chapter 1. If someone says 'good morning', she go hear 'leave me alone' 😂

You can say that again!
Her reasoning is always eve ill. A clear ensample of dark counsel

ebubeson:
Please those who are married should help contribute on this.

With the way the world don spoil finish how God go take bless una?

Samantha125:
What does prayer has to do with a prosperous marriage? Pastor Chris of Christ embassy church in Nigeria still got divorced despite being a prayerful man.

That should tell you that prayer alone can't save any marriage.

He said prosperity and not divorce.