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Sonnobax15:
it hurts bro, I totally understand that. But sometimes, it's preferable to just accept the reality and of course with time,man will definitely heal and be wiser.

If I tell you wetin my own use my eyes see recently,you no go believe say na me wey dey form strong man for Nairaland Dem use shine like that 😊

Shebi i bin tell you, you kon abuse me

Onkoolos:
Op If you follow this advice my brother you are dating yourself!!!… Person wey u won marry make uno disturb am with call or text aam. Infact some girls will not even allow you to call na dem go dey disturb you call if dem rate u. Op please move on, I hardly use 1 week with girls like this.. All this are flimsy excuse that you don’t want to be the foundation of your relationship… Any girl wey Dey act like say I Dey disturb her with call, no be me and her go continue the relationship, na disrespect of the highest order, if you don’t know

Anyguy wey never still see say that girl na dev no like himself

kingthreat:
And I need your love tonight
And I need you more than ever
And if you hold me, hold me tight
We'll be holding on forever
And we'll always be making it right.
Cos we'll never be wrong
Together we go make it till the end of the night
Your love is like a shadow on me all of the time.
I don't know what to do, I'm always in a dark
We living on a powderkeg and giving off sparks.
I really need you tnight
Forever is gonne start tonight. Forever is gonna start
Once upon a time, I was falling in love. Now I'm only falling apart
Nothing I can do, total eclipse of the heart


I sang it while I typed this. Thanks Bonni for giving the world one of the most beautiful songs.

Her forever started since

Hungrychicken:
Him dey pay him tuition fees small small😂😂😂

Yes oo

LordReed:
Bro, you are the most ironic person I have ever encountered. You always have to be the opposite of everything. LoLz.

DrTee1:
Did people not call our Lord all manners of things?

Did they not criticise him for wearing a cloth that was of one seam or so?

Even till today, isn't it true that the nation of Israel isn't Christian becaus ethey still criticise Jesus, their citizen?

If we do things because of what people would say all the time, how are we different from others? Even Benson Idahosa was criticised for wearing Agbara to preach, at a time when preachers were a lot more collared.

No reasonable person called our Lord names and nor did anyone criticize Him over His clothing.

Every reasonable person sees those clothes represent pride, vanity and a person wants glowry and praise to cgo to him. All of which do not represent God. So, it's clear that he is reping himself and that he is own god, which means that he is committing idolatry and that even he himself is an idol as you obviously have taken him to be. So, you see, both he and you are wrong, see all the sins both of you are committing and have committed

Reverseng:
Whoever created the aeroplane must have seen it fly in their mind before it became an actual reality.

When you have the money to buy a red bike that you've been obsessing over for a while, you'll likely begin to notice red bikes on the street

https://www.nairaland.com/8686171/seek-shall-find-seeker-sought

I'm not here to argue with you, but to brjng insight to your awareness. It's not even my job to make you accept those insights but yours.
Suffering is relative and it's not necessary to give snakes human legs

1) No one can see it in their minds if God did not place it there which is why it is only certain people who could see it. If not all of us would see it exactly how we see other things like woman, food, shoes etc.

2) Everyone knows what suffering is and that they don't like it, so it is not relative.

3) Everyone does in sighting but for the purposes of Truth and teaching others, every sighting whether in or or out, shall be subjected to scrutiny before it can be acceptable for consumption

CLOUDRepublic:
Last Friday, I walked past a mosque and the imam was clamouring about heaven and how important it is to go there.
Weeks ago, I was listening to a Christian sermon on the TV and they were talking about how it's important to leave sin and put heaven in sight

But when there is an event that can lead to death, the preacher runs. Infact, the preacher, talks about how they saved people from I'll health and even bring people back from the dead.

Aren't you automatically denying them a time to go to heaven? If heaven is the goal, a city with earthly gold, a place where many women will be waiting for one: food on left and right... Why do those preachers NOT want to go?


and why will such unique place be built with earthly gold? Things that can be found on earth?
How come the designs are describeable by human conception?

There should be better stones or matter than gold that can be used to build those heavens.
Imagine if there was electricity before the BC.
I bet they would say heaven was designed in electromagnetic currents

If heaven is waiting, it's most definitely NOT what humans can comprehend

What a jumbled post.

1) First, common sense would have told you that you cannot explain a thing to a person without using things the person already knows hence why imageries and metaphors exist.

2) That is why the crime of murder exist. Every person has a natural duty to prevent his fellow man from dying.

mariovito:
All fairytale sold to keep people in check

Keep in check how? Haven't the politicians already successfully done that? Is Tinubu checking Obi with heaven and hel?

Your brian laundered mind won't let you think

Reverseng:
Alright. I admit I digressed, just at a point
It's in bracket in number 2.
The rest of my points dovetail nicely.

Regarding your submission, what you believe is what you'll see

Yep! All beliefs are based on seeing. You believe a plane can fly because you SAW it fly, if not there is no way you can believe that metal will stay up in the air.

DrTee1:
Other than his darkened and well-groomed hair, what's the issue with the elderly gentleman's dressing?

If our Lord had dressed like this wouldn't people had called Him yahoo boy and vain?

"Let your moderation be known unto all men"

Clearly, he is representing the lord of pride and vanity

LordReed:
So you used to be Catholic and here you are claiming all former Catholics become atheist. LoLz wonders will never end.

Every reasonable person knows the angle i spoke from for we all know that there are catholics who are still catholics and shall remain Catholics even if the pope/priests put goat on the alter. Whilst there are Catholics who left to redeem, chosen and other churches. But my focus was on atheists and it was very noticeable that many of you are all former Catholics hence my statement.

LordReed:
This not just my opinion. Even Israeli archaeologists are of the opinion that the dynastic name is pretty weak evidence.

Isreal must always support every anti God cause, if God was not in control they would have changed name to hide everything and deny everything.

Now you are seeing that the woman have a weaved a system against every men. While men are open and bonafide women have a conspiracy of silence and the set answers they give men. If only you could bug the places where women are, you would hear their minds and I guarantee that you would be shocked

Meteng:
Now you no go control yourself. When he knack you one now shift leave you, you go begin cry how dem use and dump you

She know say na im type dey hook as hin fresh and clean dat na why she don target am for destruction. Women no dey use eye see clean boy leave am. Even the leaving him na set up for the guy to come meet them but wen dem don see future see say d guy go dey alright like dat, dat na wen one of dem like dis one go come dey do Potiphar wife on top am. Meanwhile people like you wey don spoil finish wey be knackson she no dey ever dey do like dis for

waywardpikin:
You get it!

O you saw it too?

Reverseng:
Popular people can be a beacon of misinformation
https://www.nairaland.com/8385011/popular-people-could-beacon-misinformation#134779914

When one climb that height, one is likely begin to be scared of those who are below, still climbing. So the one at the top likely self sabotage themselves, due to fear of being the subject of envy from those below, hence making them lonely.

There are categories of people, ego-wise:

1) Those who can give love but are scared to do so because of the fear of not being appreciated enough for the love they give.
They have a strong sense of transactional love
They're also scared of being the center of envy from their poor friends, so they try to downplay their achievements (They'll but a nice car and tell you that the shock absorber/brake pad is faulty )
Most rich people are here

2) Those who can receive love but fear that by doing so will make them weak and vulnerable to be hurt, again . Most old and poor people are here, especially those who have experienced heartbreak or betrayal.
They make themselves invulnerable to love so the result is that they're unlovable. How can you love what or who you don't know?

(Also why I argue that the ways of God can be known by man, and why I reject the "the ways of God cannot be known). It's man's destiny to know the ways of God, especially what they can use to grow)
If you don't know God, by limiting yourself to the edited Bible, how can you even love him?
Most Christian are scared of him, hence the "God-fearing tag they use and not "God-loving" tag

3) The Vain: Those who haven't grown to recognize what love is. Their sense of judgement is also flawed.
Both the rich and poor share this cake

I've written about this here: https://www.nairaland.com/8703930/ego-phases-ego-simplified

This is off point plus, reality does not really support those views and I know you are not rich so you are speaking from speculation if not you would have known that places like lekki 1 & 2 developed because the rich did not like that more people joined them in VGC and V/I's Maroko.

So, the rich don't like company as you deprive them of the joy of looking down at others and making them feel poor.

LordReed:
The name of the Dynasty is a very weak evidence even if we accept that it is evidence. People choose names for various reasons. Do you think Pope Johm Paul II was given the name John Paul when he was born.

You are not the judge and remember i was a Catholic so i know Jay Pee wasn't the name his parents gave him. But it doesn't matter, it is not out of place for people to change names but the material fact is that they are always identified.

You have just paid for your lesson fee
https://www.nairaland.com/8705010/money-youre-giving-woman-school

sacajawea:
12, 13 years of age?

nd Why the question mark Topics heading?

You don't know that women know us men too perfectly well. That's why CIA started employing women into intelligence section.

But it is nice to see that men have started studying them back and are now beginning to see who women are.

Authoreety:
I swear, this op no be be guy...

Mhen don't behave like ds na?

Before hin go be guy hin go first be boy na.

Aleem26:
@Sonnobax15 come and see ooo 😂😂
OP How you deh feel when u deh type this sh*ts

Pity the boy small na hin need to put hin hand for socket before hin know say electricity dey shock person

laivwire:
I guess you're ready to cater for him or deem it preferable to live a worse life

That is why I give to the poor i see and that is why I agree with God that this world should 🔥. Humans are evi...

Starboytwo:
Hmm, you know we men are wired differently...

Even right now, i have one babe we recently met 2 months ago.. She nice, cool and everything, Big Ass, but no single boobs. Her younger apprentice has a bigger boobs than she is i like her normally, but thats where it ends. without them boobs, no spark.

. when would you real eyes that women are your enemies? You just open your mouth and spill your secrets while they keep silent or speak lies in deceit

If you had a discerning spirit you would know that this thread is meant to remind men of sex for they know that their blood account is dropping low with everyday men see that women are 👹👺

Afrah04:
not boasting but I am, I am been told, and I overheard his friend making same comments on me day hw visited. Dude is just weird, a bit odd, more y I like him

You like him because you want to destroy him and this is why God hat...e
S you people and sends lots of evs to your way. Continue

Both men and women don't qualify to be married. But for women, na dem no qualify at all. So, nna, don't marry make una no go prison

OssanaQuest:
If you had asked for advice before moving out, I'd ask you to consider if you now earn enough to pay your own rent, feed yourself and pay your education fees and other expenses.

If you can, then no point going back.

But going back now will be like eating your own vomit.

Just focus on building your skill well and have excellent customer service in your tailoring so that you can get regular jobs and be recommended to others.

Be conscious of the fact that you will run out of favour with the person housing you now if you become a LIABILITY.

So you need to put your finances in order and get your own place or sit down and negotiate the terms of your stay in your friend's place.

If you choose not to go back, send a polite text explaining the reason for your action then block her line so that you can focus on your life.

Don't think her begging you to come bag means you are indispensable.

Be wise

If she did not beg him would her house be available for him to return? No.

So, its a case of he is already in the worst place he shouldn't be because of her and every worser thing that happens to him is on top of her. So, its better he keeps moving forward until God helps him or he dies outside. The aunt won't stop being evil to him and she would still throw him out and and this time she will make sure that he has one fault which she would use to tell God that "yes oo i was bad but look at what he did, its not good either". And then God will not punish her. Meanwhile, he is in the same worse he is in right now and maybe at that there won't be any help for him.

Op. I suggest you continue ajuwaya

Nowayback10:
There are things i cant endure oh , which is suffering and smiling. I go don beat her to stupor after that slap then pack my things and leave. Never let anyone intimidate you that right there will always be your turning point.

Dat na why she no for take you in at all. She no say you go 🔪 am

OssanaQuest:
If you had asked for advice before moving out, I'd ask you to consider if you now earn enough to pay your own rent, feed yourself and pay your education fees and other expenses.

If you can, then no point going back.

But going back now will be like eating your own vomit.

Just focus on building your skill well and have excellent customer service in your tailoring so that you can get regular jobs and be recommended to others.

Be conscious of the fact that you will run out of favour with the person housing you now if you become a LIABILITY.

So you need to put your finances in order and get your own place or sit down and negotiate the terms of your stay in your friend's place.

If you choose not to go back, send a polite text explaining the reason for your action then block her line so that you can focus on your life.

Don't think her begging you to come bag means you are indispensable.

Be wise

She's only begging him because she knows God is coming to punish her. So she is begging him so that when he returns it would stop God. From the way the op sounds it looks like he did the perfect worsest leaving on her, so she knows she is in trouble. In fact her troubles have begun

laivwire:
You don't know your place at all.. Someone housed you, enrolled you in school, feeds you but you're mad because she's doesn't respect you? You're even claiming you would slap her in return..you left the house so your parent would be blaming her for chasing you from home.

Call your mum and tell her you left on your own. Then go and face that struggling life you desire on your own and see if you won't come running back after 2 months.

What rubbish are you saying? Who can live with a toxic person? This are the reasons why this kind of people are murdered

AntiTerrorist:
Mixed Signals from My Stingy and Double Standard Landlord

I’ve only seen the young man at the back of the compound once, fetching water directly from the well. Since then I’ve been wondering how they get water for their house.

Just recently, I was about to open the well to fetch water when he also brought out his buckets. But instead of coming to the well, he went straight to the tap. Then he asked me, "Don’t you like fetching water from the tap?" I was surprised. So he’s been using the tap all this while?

Here’s what I later found out. The same key that opens the well also opens the storex. So he’s been fetching water from the tap whenever I’m not around or without me knowing.

That got me thinking:
- How did he know the well key also opens the storex?
- Could the landlord have told him but not me?
- And if so, why? I don’t use any major electronic appliances, and my family spends most of the time outside the state.

When we moved in April, he asked me to pay 1k for security and 5k for light. That’s 6k in total, and I paid. He said after the first payment, subsequent ones wouldn’t be up to 6k.

In May he asked for money again but didn’t state an amount. I ended up sending 4k. In June I sent 4k as well.

By the end of June, the month wasn’t even over before he asked for light and security money again. I sent 5k on the 30th because light was stable that month. The next day he acknowledged it, thanked me, and prayed for me. Since then he’s been unusually nice, and he’s been leaving the storex open all day.

Yesterday morning he told me not to fetch from the well again, that I should use the tap because it’s now open.

Now I’m wondering what changed. Was it the extra 1k I added? If yes, why couldn’t he just tell me from the start how much he expects monthly? Is 1k really that big a deal that I can’t afford?

At this point I’m even thinking, if I pay more, maybe he’ll let us use the washing machine too.

Honestly, I don’t understand what’s going on.

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See how you people get evicted, why do you want to pay more when you have already paid what he wished you paid?