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HeavenlyHolines:
My sister, there r many misinterpretations about marriage, separation and divorce in the body of Christ and many of the so called Christians or even pastors will give u 1001 reasons y u can divorce on d ground of infidelity or any other reasons just to justify their own selves or flesh. But the God's words stands in Romans 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 7:3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Also from what others have quoted in ecclesiastic 5 when u make a vow to God, see that u stand by it.
Also if the brother is a born again believer and who is on his way to heaven, he can always make his marriage work by forgiving the wife. Maybe that is his own cross for not depending on the Holy Spirit or praying very well before marriage. So as Pilgrims, for no reason or any reason must u marry a brother or sister whose bride price has been paid n he or she is divorced whether it was Traditional marriage or White wedding. Shalom

That's a tight one. May God help his people. Humans are increasingly becoming complex these days and many are just enduring their marriages.

honeyB2018:
Pastor Poju, is 100% wrong. I'm not surprised he can spew this nonsense.
Lots of people, don't see and understand what Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Oyakhilome Chris is seeing and talking about. Lots of you, toeing the line of thought of Pastor Oyemade, don't know, the power of the cooperate church. If you know, you will not be in his support.
You don't know, what damage, spiritually the closure of the place of worship has done to lots of believers, lots of Christians will never be the same after this lockdown and closure Wait till the closure is lifted, then you will understand.
I stand with Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Chris. Oyakhilome.

You are right. With the battle going on, which can only be seen through the eyes of the spirit,

I'd be shocked, if your post was welcomed by many.

It's well

[quote author=CsRockefeller post=89325744]Okay I got it. Thanks

CsRockefeller:
You too have seen the hypocrisy of this generation.

Sin is now what people openly dance at the market square.

I took interest in your signature. I wish I could get your contact. We may be doing something mutually beneficial in future.

People living sexually reckless life. Tomorrow, they will tell you to forget the past.

They would attack virgins, try to intimidate them because they've lost something they wished they never lost.

A Lady cohabiting with a student?

I know God is still keeping people who will not bow to immorality.

Don't think it's a distress sale.

But wait, what does distress sale mean.

HeavenlyBang:
Valid advice. If your income is secured, now is a good time, though. Cars are really cheap right now if you know where to look.

I think they'll get even cheaper in a few months time as people get more desperate. Wait till then, you have nothing to lose. Naira has also tanked.

*** If you know where to look**

Please show me where to look

I'm searching

yvelchstores:
500k is not low budget. What is wrong with this country? Even if you have ten million naira in your account, you must not spend it just because you want to impress people that can never be satisfied.

A wise man said you don't even need wedding gown for a wedding, just wear what makes you happy with a priest or pastor that will join you both and a few family members as witnesses. At the end of the day you are still as married as the one who did wedding reception at Eko hotel.

Keep life simple.

You spoke well, it seem difficult these days. The ladies have fantasized so much about the wedding cere-party. A young man who manages to have a car will be forced into heavyweight marriage ceremony. They want to show that their daughter married a well to do man. Some families will accuse the young man of being stingy.

My friend just did his own and they task this young man till breaking point.. thy guy was just doing his best to avoid hand falling. The girl contributed, but you know how women contribute. It's not going to be 100%. the promise to contribute, is just for them to have their way.

Even church fine them, because they didn't do some things.

It's not easy jare.

800?

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Lexusgs430:
Jumia express.....

We that bought it less are lucky

700!!!!!

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

I'm not sure if the story is true aboutyou, but I'd like to know, what were your thoughts before now, about living a life that pleases God, a life that's into God alone, a life lived according to the dictates of the word of God, a life of purity, a life that flees from every appearance of evil and iniquity.

Did all these ever come to your mind?

If not, give it a strong thought now.

I know that if you spent time with God, the way you spent with the Young Man, the Almighty will not allow that shameful experience happen to you, he would prepare the best of men for you, he will glorify you, beautify you and satisfy you.

You'd have the best of sex, that you'd be proud of at the right time, you be at peace at all times, you'd feel his love and presence Everytime. There's sweet reward for faithfulness. Pure spirit and angels would protect you at all times.

These good things are what the devil doesn't want, so he tricked you, by magnifying illicit relationships, make it seem right, make the path of glory that God planned for you seem boring.

That's the devil's strategy, deceit!

If this story is true, or even for anyone who reads this, whatever you do, ensure you go back to God, in repentance and ask that he heals you and restore your glory!

He'll send an angel to comfort you and heal you.

Thanks and be blessed.

Nice one!

However ladies have been told to ask the guy, what do you want!!!?

searchng4love:
https://www.nairaland.com/5819869/registered-toyota-avensis-350k

Check out the original owner of the sales here

Thanks

Dumped the idea already

larrixauto2017:
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Automatic gear.
Perfect interior..
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Lagos buyer...Rush am..

Can you show the engine picture. Please are you serious with selling coz I don't want to waste my time

500k..
Share and I'll take it up from there.

Can't see the upgrade

Unfortunately no one is asking how the virus came about.

They don't want you to ask. They've set the Media agenda

Abeg these kind of stories have been over flogged and it's beginning to get some how


Do marriage blessings and move on.

Anyone who claims Covid stopped them from getting married, is not serious. They just want to show off QED.

DGD1:
Don't always rely on distress sales to buy a car, with your 400k you can still get a golf 3 at 300k which you can love-vendor to taste (alloys, AC, neat interior etc).

It's sometimes better to buy a solid small car than a big car with wahala considering the funds available

You are right.. I just made this point to my bro, who changed his mind from buying envelope to big daddy.
Although I want him to buy big daddy, but I feel he could get a good 2001 model and clean it up.

I understand he feels he'd be under pressure to change the car too soon if he goes for 2001 model

Acidosis:
Those against vaccination are yet to give us a solution for global pandemics.


You guys should keep investing your energy on rumours.

1. At first, we were told China wanted to become a super power
2. About a week after, all sorts of news about 5G emerged.

3. In another week, Bill Gates started trending, and right now we are not even sure whether Bill Gates is a Chinese man or the inventor of 5G


You guys really should be comedian Man has been world's richest man for ages. So how on earth should a man of his class react to a global issue?

Like it or not, the only way Bill Gates will remain mute on this issue is if he becomes poor and wretched as some of you. Billionnaires all over the world make decisions, strong decisions.

They control basically everything, including politics. For the fact that man's got shares in billions in world's biggest pharmaceutical companies just shows he's got huge interest in public health.

For those talking about depopulation, you guys need to go back to school. There's no country or state without a population control agency. We have one in Nigeria. Population control is a very serious/important issue. Our poor way of controling our population is why majority of Nigerians are poor. Economics without population control is useless. Countries like China has taken even stringent measures such as the one-child and two-child policy.


I wonder how some of you go to school, read about Malthus theory and so on, only to graduate to become academically sound illiterates and rumour bloggers.

I won't be surprised if by tomorrow, you miserable lots begin to blame Mark Zuckerberg in the same way you accuse every billionnaire in your neighborhood of blood money and rituals.

Please help me find out how Covid 19 came about.

lebete3000:
That's because of the mentality of the country you're in.

What's the name of the nice ride you changed to by the way?

Bros forget that thing ooo. For my side of Lagos, na people whe dey drive cars when big pass them, na him police dey disturb pass. Especially for evening.

I kid you not!

demolagilbert:
and yet a savings/investment culture trumps a credit culture anyday. Someone made a post on LinkedIn about the financial armaggedon in the US and the huge job losses, painting a grim picture of how a COO could end up working at a mall post COVID. 'Anything to stay afloat, till things stabilise, cos the BILLS have to be paid'. And truly it has already begun evident by the comments on the post by high ranking officials who are now jobless submitting that they truly will take any job, even if it rubbishes all efforts that grew their careers in the last 10-15 years. Why that level of desperation? It is cos debts will have to be repaid. Student loans, car loans, mortgage payments, even phones and computers are bought mostly on credit.

I take pride in that my car is mine 100%, and everything I own is mine 100%. I resigned at the height of the recession in 2015/2016, still did my MBA and got married. no shaking. Didnt take up another job till mid-2017. Took up another, and got transferred after 3 mths halfway across Nigeria, and three mths after the transfer I resigned again. Heaven did not fall. Till Jan 2019 when I took this current one. While, not everyone will be wildly crazily optimistic like me with my penchant for dumping jobs that don't make me fulfilled, I could have never had as much CONTROL over my life and life decisions, if I was neck deep in all manner of loans. Like the average American I would swiftly descend into a state of despair, willing to take anything. I believe strongly that we should be in CHARGE of our finances, and by extension lives.

A borrower is a SLAVE to the lender. To me, it is bondage. If it isn't for business I will never/pray to not ever have a reason to use debt to get personal tins done, so help me GOD.

Amen!!!

You are a wise man

Adakintroy2:
Na today we know Nigerians live above there means. Girl guys alike. The two set sometime Na the same. snake weh bite one use tale flogg the other.


My guy Emma go carry me for Moto. If chick DE him go just start to hype me that yr.

Emma: Omo when you sell your pile land nobody hear o..". Only you blow everything.

Me: guy you no DE around Na what to do?. Even the guy sef price pass anything. Got to sell am throwe.

Ema: but he still reach 5m. Na?

Me: 3.5m Na reach me Na I know. After plus minus.


You go think say he no DE enter?. He DE work like magic.tthe goal na make the girl DE hear millions...

Okay na... She go ask you make you help am with house rent money.

annisy:
In this part of the world car � is not a luxury but a necessity,! And moreover life is too short go for what ever gives you joy and make you happy!!! If owning your dream car with 100% of your worth makes you happy, then go for it

Humm.. just for happiness? Naaah!

Wisdom is better than happiness

Prov 15:21
Stupid people are happy with their foolishness, but the wise will do what is right.

Sagay212:
Some of these people don't know how important a car is until they have one. Imagine you having to be struggling for bus in this Corona period all because you are forming saving and smart. At the end of the day, corona will kill you and someone else will chop your money. Aside from corona, you stand the risk of one chance if you don't have a car, you'll be scared not to get robbed late in the night when trekking home from your bus stop because no okada or napep.

The same people forming smart and saving will be the ones complaining that car owners are wicked for driving alone and not helping people standing at bus stops under hot sun or heavy rain. Shebi you dey form smart wan save money and invest, no wahala suffer your suffer and let me enjoy my AC in my car.

There is absolutely nothing wrong if you take a loan to buy a car and pay back monthly convinently. Things should be done one step at a time. Get that car, then you can get the land or do whatever business you want to do. Do not subject yourself to unnecessary hardship. Some people will tell you to build a house before buying a car as if you can use 1.5 or 2m to buy house and build a reasonable house.

Corona? So you won't come out of the car? The late COS didn't have cars ?

So people with cars don't get robbed?

I'm a bit surprised

dangoteinlaw:
Gone are the days car was just a necessity, it is very very important now infact it's importance is almost rivalring owning a house now. If u live in an environment where they see all car owners as living above their means then thats your fault.

Please explain further.

seanwilliam:
I believe a car should not take more than 30% of your net worth..e get why.. but assuming it is for business, then it can take up to 50% self..


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Note; before u buy one car, Make sure you get the money for two.. e get why

� Please what is this net worth. Is it savings?

9; Don't be intimidated, pressured or blackmailed by any car seller. If he doesn't agree to your terms, dump his or her sorry assss fast!. There are more cars to be sold than buyers and better ones come up everyday.

Exponental:
What has corona got to do with car? Abba Kyari and other people infected don't have cars? Market well if you have a good product to sell jare.

Upon all the Corona threat strategy, the car still dey.

There sellers are not ready for the Truth.

How many cheques have been cleared in the whole of Nigerian all these while.

Abeg I no want talk