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soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

I'm not sure if the story is true aboutyou, but I'd like to know, what were your thoughts before now, about living a life that pleases God, a life that's into God alone, a life lived according to the dictates of the word of God, a life of purity, a life that flees from every appearance of evil and iniquity.

Did all these ever come to your mind?

If not, give it a strong thought now.

I know that if you spent time with God, the way you spent with the Young Man, the Almighty will not allow that shameful experience happen to you, he would prepare the best of men for you, he will glorify you, beautify you and satisfy you.

You'd have the best of sex, that you'd be proud of at the right time, you be at peace at all times, you'd feel his love and presence Everytime. There's sweet reward for faithfulness. Pure spirit and angels would protect you at all times.

These good things are what the devil doesn't want, so he tricked you, by magnifying illicit relationships, make it seem right, make the path of glory that God planned for you seem boring.

That's the devil's strategy, deceit!

If this story is true, or even for anyone who reads this, whatever you do, ensure you go back to God, in repentance and ask that he heals you and restore your glory!

He'll send an angel to comfort you and heal you.

Thanks and be blessed.

Nice one!

However ladies have been told to ask the guy, what do you want!!!?

searchng4love:
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Thanks

Dumped the idea already

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Lagos buyer...Rush am..

Can you show the engine picture. Please are you serious with selling coz I don't want to waste my time

500k..
Share and I'll take it up from there.

Can't see the upgrade

Unfortunately no one is asking how the virus came about.

They don't want you to ask. They've set the Media agenda

Abeg these kind of stories have been over flogged and it's beginning to get some how


Do marriage blessings and move on.

Anyone who claims Covid stopped them from getting married, is not serious. They just want to show off QED.

DGD1:
Don't always rely on distress sales to buy a car, with your 400k you can still get a golf 3 at 300k which you can love-vendor to taste (alloys, AC, neat interior etc).

It's sometimes better to buy a solid small car than a big car with wahala considering the funds available

You are right.. I just made this point to my bro, who changed his mind from buying envelope to big daddy.
Although I want him to buy big daddy, but I feel he could get a good 2001 model and clean it up.

I understand he feels he'd be under pressure to change the car too soon if he goes for 2001 model

Acidosis:
Those against vaccination are yet to give us a solution for global pandemics.


You guys should keep investing your energy on rumours.

1. At first, we were told China wanted to become a super power
2. About a week after, all sorts of news about 5G emerged.

3. In another week, Bill Gates started trending, and right now we are not even sure whether Bill Gates is a Chinese man or the inventor of 5G


You guys really should be comedian Man has been world's richest man for ages. So how on earth should a man of his class react to a global issue?

Like it or not, the only way Bill Gates will remain mute on this issue is if he becomes poor and wretched as some of you. Billionnaires all over the world make decisions, strong decisions.

They control basically everything, including politics. For the fact that man's got shares in billions in world's biggest pharmaceutical companies just shows he's got huge interest in public health.

For those talking about depopulation, you guys need to go back to school. There's no country or state without a population control agency. We have one in Nigeria. Population control is a very serious/important issue. Our poor way of controling our population is why majority of Nigerians are poor. Economics without population control is useless. Countries like China has taken even stringent measures such as the one-child and two-child policy.


I wonder how some of you go to school, read about Malthus theory and so on, only to graduate to become academically sound illiterates and rumour bloggers.

I won't be surprised if by tomorrow, you miserable lots begin to blame Mark Zuckerberg in the same way you accuse every billionnaire in your neighborhood of blood money and rituals.

Please help me find out how Covid 19 came about.

lebete3000:
That's because of the mentality of the country you're in.

What's the name of the nice ride you changed to by the way?

Bros forget that thing ooo. For my side of Lagos, na people whe dey drive cars when big pass them, na him police dey disturb pass. Especially for evening.

I kid you not!

demolagilbert:
and yet a savings/investment culture trumps a credit culture anyday. Someone made a post on LinkedIn about the financial armaggedon in the US and the huge job losses, painting a grim picture of how a COO could end up working at a mall post COVID. 'Anything to stay afloat, till things stabilise, cos the BILLS have to be paid'. And truly it has already begun evident by the comments on the post by high ranking officials who are now jobless submitting that they truly will take any job, even if it rubbishes all efforts that grew their careers in the last 10-15 years. Why that level of desperation? It is cos debts will have to be repaid. Student loans, car loans, mortgage payments, even phones and computers are bought mostly on credit.

I take pride in that my car is mine 100%, and everything I own is mine 100%. I resigned at the height of the recession in 2015/2016, still did my MBA and got married. no shaking. Didnt take up another job till mid-2017. Took up another, and got transferred after 3 mths halfway across Nigeria, and three mths after the transfer I resigned again. Heaven did not fall. Till Jan 2019 when I took this current one. While, not everyone will be wildly crazily optimistic like me with my penchant for dumping jobs that don't make me fulfilled, I could have never had as much CONTROL over my life and life decisions, if I was neck deep in all manner of loans. Like the average American I would swiftly descend into a state of despair, willing to take anything. I believe strongly that we should be in CHARGE of our finances, and by extension lives.

A borrower is a SLAVE to the lender. To me, it is bondage. If it isn't for business I will never/pray to not ever have a reason to use debt to get personal tins done, so help me GOD.

Amen!!!

You are a wise man

Adakintroy2:
Na today we know Nigerians live above there means. Girl guys alike. The two set sometime Na the same. snake weh bite one use tale flogg the other.


My guy Emma go carry me for Moto. If chick DE him go just start to hype me that yr.

Emma: Omo when you sell your pile land nobody hear o..". Only you blow everything.

Me: guy you no DE around Na what to do?. Even the guy sef price pass anything. Got to sell am throwe.

Ema: but he still reach 5m. Na?

Me: 3.5m Na reach me Na I know. After plus minus.


You go think say he no DE enter?. He DE work like magic.tthe goal na make the girl DE hear millions...

Okay na... She go ask you make you help am with house rent money.

annisy:
In this part of the world car � is not a luxury but a necessity,! And moreover life is too short go for what ever gives you joy and make you happy!!! If owning your dream car with 100% of your worth makes you happy, then go for it

Humm.. just for happiness? Naaah!

Wisdom is better than happiness

Prov 15:21
Stupid people are happy with their foolishness, but the wise will do what is right.

Sagay212:
Some of these people don't know how important a car is until they have one. Imagine you having to be struggling for bus in this Corona period all because you are forming saving and smart. At the end of the day, corona will kill you and someone else will chop your money. Aside from corona, you stand the risk of one chance if you don't have a car, you'll be scared not to get robbed late in the night when trekking home from your bus stop because no okada or napep.

The same people forming smart and saving will be the ones complaining that car owners are wicked for driving alone and not helping people standing at bus stops under hot sun or heavy rain. Shebi you dey form smart wan save money and invest, no wahala suffer your suffer and let me enjoy my AC in my car.

There is absolutely nothing wrong if you take a loan to buy a car and pay back monthly convinently. Things should be done one step at a time. Get that car, then you can get the land or do whatever business you want to do. Do not subject yourself to unnecessary hardship. Some people will tell you to build a house before buying a car as if you can use 1.5 or 2m to buy house and build a reasonable house.

Corona? So you won't come out of the car? The late COS didn't have cars ?

So people with cars don't get robbed?

I'm a bit surprised

dangoteinlaw:
Gone are the days car was just a necessity, it is very very important now infact it's importance is almost rivalring owning a house now. If u live in an environment where they see all car owners as living above their means then thats your fault.

Please explain further.

seanwilliam:
I believe a car should not take more than 30% of your net worth..e get why.. but assuming it is for business, then it can take up to 50% self..


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Note; before u buy one car, Make sure you get the money for two.. e get why

� Please what is this net worth. Is it savings?

9; Don't be intimidated, pressured or blackmailed by any car seller. If he doesn't agree to your terms, dump his or her sorry assss fast!. There are more cars to be sold than buyers and better ones come up everyday.

Exponental:
What has corona got to do with car? Abba Kyari and other people infected don't have cars? Market well if you have a good product to sell jare.

Upon all the Corona threat strategy, the car still dey.

There sellers are not ready for the Truth.

How many cheques have been cleared in the whole of Nigerian all these while.

Abeg I no want talk

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-8253453/Africa-s-Sahara-dangerous-place-Earth-100-million-years-ago.html

Absolute crap. This shouldn't be in the news.

What if a Nigerian had written this, we won't believe him. Some would insult the person.

But from daily mail UK, our people won't bother to ask any question

greggng:
The owner insist it must fly ...infact ...if not for the lockdown u for no see this car here

Okay sir

Tell the owner that it won't fly at that price for now.

It's not about Covid. It's about control.

Anyone you see defending them, has been trapped.

A criptic message for all

Take it to Guinness book of records

Yes, if you are a child of God, who is committed and sold out to God. Not yielding to deception of sin. If you are one who has the word of God in his heart and mouth. One who is prayerful and walks in the spirit, according to Galatians 5:16

For you and the girl, You should know from the above.

Jesus Christ is really wonderful!

Safe delivery in the midst of chaos .

Father in heaven, I thank you.

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

Most of the responses here. Particularly on the first page, will not help you. Irrespective of the number of likes they get.

Don't deceive yourself. Don't frustrate your angel of guidance.

PasD:
Well as I child of God I dont agree with you...Lolz

Really?

Then your deceiving yourself. Your claim of being a child of God notwithstanding.

Proverbs 15:27 (KJV)
He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live.

ennon92, just made a point and I expected more from a pastor.

Please go and tell the ladies under You to stop collecting gifts from men without defining the relationship and intentions while ensuring it's within scriptural boundaries.

You have some learning to do.

PasD:
SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

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Good but let ma add, this relationship or love thing is like a table tennis game. If you serve and the other don't play same, it's a waste of time.

This analogy applies to all your points.

If you think it has to be one person pushing for what both of you want, you'll be taken for granted in the future.

So pastor Jona, same point applies to bother men and women

Class Over?
Why not drop the link to enter the group

He removed the picture on the other thread.

There are many sellers like that on this forum. They'll put a price on a car that , they can't pay for such car.

Some will used alternate account to be pricing it high and saying No it can't go for that price.

There was one I sent people to help me check the car. The feedback was horrible and if see the price he put on the car.

Some sellers here are just clowns who probably succeeded in cunning one person into buying a weak ride at a high price, so they feel that's the norm.

I no they prize car pass ones as no be food. Cars weh dey Lagos market, never see who buy them finish.

Undissputed:
I made a previous post questioning what today's men bring to relationships, which I think isn't much different as compared to the women. However, some mediocre minds think it fit to say I'm SIMPing or Asslicking. What's my gain? Lol.

So, I want to use this post to share some facts showing that women are as valuable as men in relationships today. I believe every partner, both man and woman, can bring enough value to the relationship if they are right for you.

First off, let's address the issue of money in relationships.

According to a statistics from the Nigerian bureau of statistics, skilled/unskilled employment (labour force participation) for men and women in Nigeria currently stand at 71.4 and 65.1 respectively.

You can see that the difference is waivable, but if you look closely(see attached infographics), the stats shows that in the south, there are currently more "labour force participation" from women than men. The overall difference in participation is owing obviously to the massive non-inclusiveness of women in education and employment schemes in the major part of the north.

So, in the ideal case with all conditions being equal, if you even out the number of working women in the south, you'll conclude that "women hustle pass we men" in Nigeria. That nullifies the assertion that only men can bring money to the table in any given relationship.

Except you are dating a school girl who is still a dependent, the stats shows that many of the dateable Nigerian women out there have income just like you, so what is your advantage as a man? What do you bring to the table apart from money and sex?

Both of you have disposable income, both of you have working sexual organs. Now, what else do you bring to the table as the man?

I'll conclude that:

1) "making money" is no longer an advantage for men in this age and time. Women too have access to the same resources

2) Unlike before, there's no more workplace/employment monopoly for men. Women are fast gaining pace in the labour market

3) If you think every woman is after your money, then you need to reorient yourself and build your self-esteem

4) If you are dating a woman who you feel brings nothing to the table, then it's probably because you are dating at the bottom end of the pile. You probably like them naive, so shut up and enjoy your naivety in peace.

5) Just like we have deadbeat men, we also have deadbeat women as well. People can be lazy, irresponsible and entitled irrespective of their gender.

Women offer much more than sex in relationships.

I remember back in school when my dad had a horrible financial challenge. It was a very shameful experience that almost brought us to our knees. I

was really struggling to feed once a day at school and some of my siblings at home had to go for "compulsory holidays" at my uncles so they could

feed. But you see my mum, that woman stood like an iroko tree and almost single-handedly pulled us through. In fact, she paid the school fees of the three of us who were in the university at the time and made sure we were coping. She did that for almost 2 years without complaining until my dad got back to his feet. She is a woman.

What about my two lovely sisters? They are doing well in their careers and have blossoming relationships. To the best of my knowledge, they are not leeches to the men they are dating/marrying. They are women.

I have a few female friends at work and in my area, and these ladies are not just courteous, they are high-flyers who earn their own money and know how to build and keep quality friendships. I've learned a lot from them in terms of career and interpersonal skills. They are women.

These women are just a small sample of the millions of women who are not just bringing the cookie to the table, but also the financial independence, the class, the confidence and the empathy to nurture their men to become the best version of themselves.

So, if you are a man complaining that women don't bring anything to the table, you are probably drawing from the wrong well or having too much of low hanging fruits. Please upgrade, be more confident in yourself, stop whining and start seeking quality women who can bring enough to the table.

No need to compare yourself with women.

A lot of men today have become too logical in their relationships that it is beginning to border on madness. "I bring this, you must bring this. I have this, you must have this." etc. Please stop comparing yourself to women and be the man for once.

Nature has designed it in such a way that a woman gives her love for financial security and protection, while the man gives his financial capability and resources for emotional and biological security from the love of a woman.

You will agree with me that it is easier to give love that to write a cheque of 1 million naira. But that is how nature has designed it, so let it be.

A woman will always prefer a man who is financially strong, physically strong and sexually competent/compatible, while a man will always prefer a woman who is beautiful, resourceful and well-behaved.

From the above you can see that the bulk of the responsibility is on we the men. If you are poor, weak or sexually incompetent as a man, you will always find it hard to keep a relationship going. No lady will want to date you and even if they do, they will likely cheat on you. That is the reality.

So, as a man you need to hustle and make money, You also need to look after your body to stay fit and healthy. But that is not all, you have to be the man for her; the pacesetter, her guide, her teacher, her instructor. It's difficult, but nature demands it of you and that is the reality.

A woman only has to show up being beautiful and well-behaved and you will see men frolicking around her. In the worst case, even when she is not any of the above, men being men will still show up and have her like that.

So, stop pointing fingers at women when you have failed to be "the man" in your relationships. Stop shaming women while still shopping at the bargain basement. Come off your high horse and have an objective look at the issues plaguing your relationships rather than making baseless conclusions.


On the issue of sex

Compared to women, we are dwarfed in the area of sexual performance. Only a few men can consistently thrust for an hour without losing it. But a woman can do 2 hours and still go about her business. After all, she is not the one expending energy in most cases.

I've heard only a few cases of women complaining about their sexual performance or trying to get drugs to improve it. But you see men, most men today cannot perform their sexual obligations without taking some drug. In fact, there are millions of men in the world today whose sexual organs are no longer functioning.

You can see from the above that with money and sex, today's men do not really have an advantage over women. So again, what do men really bring to the table? Haha. This is a dose of our own medicine.

As a man, money and sex are not enough. They are not the only factors for building successful relationships. We need to stop resting on our oars, stop comparing ourselves to women and start bringing much more to the table.

For the most part, the moral fabric of our women is only a reflection of the moral fabric of we the men. So, we always get what we give. When we start behaving ourselves, the women will have no choice but to behave as well.

There is no need to come online shaming ourselves before we realize that for one bad woman you've dated, there are millions of good ones available out there.

So, because of one bad relationship, you've concluded that you are going to start fuccking and dumping women like waste bags? That says a lot about your maturity and emotional intelligence than the quality of women you are dating.

Stop acting like a weasel. You are not a weakling. You are a man for goodness sake. Don't let one or two experiences affect your decision-making and change the course of your life forever. One heartbreak is not enough for you to start seeking revenge or recourse in the wrong places. Be strong.

There are lots of responsible, independent women out there who can make beautiful faithful partners. However, I must admit that you may have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your queen. But first, dry your tears, stop whining, invest in self-development, act like the man you are meant to be and see what you can make of your relationships.

Now, bring forth your reservations/arguments.



PS: Please don't take this too personal, I'm using these posts to brush up my argumentative writing skills. Thanks.

Is this an attack on the male folks, or what exactly are you saying here?

I don't know the thread that informed this write up, but your weak attempt in defense for females, shows you were not ready to be objective, balanced and forthright.

You attribute the irresponsibility of a female to the male. where will the change now come from.

The only thing right, is you asking men to up their game and don't pick from the low hanging fruits.

But then you didn't even encourage the ladies to up their game to fit into that acceptable strata you claim your siblings belong to. Soon they will all be low hanging, in some ways.

I agree that the bar for what responsible men should be, has reduced because of the societal decay, no desire for hard work, people now major on the minor things, the sex traps and people who know nothing, bringing children into the world and continuing the cycle.

However, it will be most unfortunate if we build and accept a social construct, in which crass stupidity by the females will be excused and blame put on the male folks.

The good guys may soon find it difficult finding the good ladies you talked about and even vers vasa because it will become weird to be good and have strong principles.

Please, hope you get my point