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Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-8253453/Africa-s-Sahara-dangerous-place-Earth-100-million-years-ago.html

Absolute crap. This shouldn't be in the news.

What if a Nigerian had written this, we won't believe him. Some would insult the person.

But from daily mail UK, our people won't bother to ask any question

greggng:
The owner insist it must fly ...infact ...if not for the lockdown u for no see this car here

Okay sir

Tell the owner that it won't fly at that price for now.

It's not about Covid. It's about control.

Anyone you see defending them, has been trapped.

A criptic message for all

Take it to Guinness book of records

Yes, if you are a child of God, who is committed and sold out to God. Not yielding to deception of sin. If you are one who has the word of God in his heart and mouth. One who is prayerful and walks in the spirit, according to Galatians 5:16

For you and the girl, You should know from the above.

Jesus Christ is really wonderful!

Safe delivery in the midst of chaos .

Father in heaven, I thank you.

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

Most of the responses here. Particularly on the first page, will not help you. Irrespective of the number of likes they get.

Don't deceive yourself. Don't frustrate your angel of guidance.

PasD:
Well as I child of God I dont agree with you...Lolz

Really?

Then your deceiving yourself. Your claim of being a child of God notwithstanding.

Proverbs 15:27 (KJV)
He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live.

ennon92, just made a point and I expected more from a pastor.

Please go and tell the ladies under You to stop collecting gifts from men without defining the relationship and intentions while ensuring it's within scriptural boundaries.

You have some learning to do.

PasD:
SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

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Good but let ma add, this relationship or love thing is like a table tennis game. If you serve and the other don't play same, it's a waste of time.

This analogy applies to all your points.

If you think it has to be one person pushing for what both of you want, you'll be taken for granted in the future.

So pastor Jona, same point applies to bother men and women

Class Over?
Why not drop the link to enter the group

He removed the picture on the other thread.

There are many sellers like that on this forum. They'll put a price on a car that , they can't pay for such car.

Some will used alternate account to be pricing it high and saying No it can't go for that price.

There was one I sent people to help me check the car. The feedback was horrible and if see the price he put on the car.

Some sellers here are just clowns who probably succeeded in cunning one person into buying a weak ride at a high price, so they feel that's the norm.

I no they prize car pass ones as no be food. Cars weh dey Lagos market, never see who buy them finish.

Undissputed:
I made a previous post questioning what today's men bring to relationships, which I think isn't much different as compared to the women. However, some mediocre minds think it fit to say I'm SIMPing or Asslicking. What's my gain? Lol.

So, I want to use this post to share some facts showing that women are as valuable as men in relationships today. I believe every partner, both man and woman, can bring enough value to the relationship if they are right for you.

First off, let's address the issue of money in relationships.

According to a statistics from the Nigerian bureau of statistics, skilled/unskilled employment (labour force participation) for men and women in Nigeria currently stand at 71.4 and 65.1 respectively.

You can see that the difference is waivable, but if you look closely(see attached infographics), the stats shows that in the south, there are currently more "labour force participation" from women than men. The overall difference in participation is owing obviously to the massive non-inclusiveness of women in education and employment schemes in the major part of the north.

So, in the ideal case with all conditions being equal, if you even out the number of working women in the south, you'll conclude that "women hustle pass we men" in Nigeria. That nullifies the assertion that only men can bring money to the table in any given relationship.

Except you are dating a school girl who is still a dependent, the stats shows that many of the dateable Nigerian women out there have income just like you, so what is your advantage as a man? What do you bring to the table apart from money and sex?

Both of you have disposable income, both of you have working sexual organs. Now, what else do you bring to the table as the man?

I'll conclude that:

1) "making money" is no longer an advantage for men in this age and time. Women too have access to the same resources

2) Unlike before, there's no more workplace/employment monopoly for men. Women are fast gaining pace in the labour market

3) If you think every woman is after your money, then you need to reorient yourself and build your self-esteem

4) If you are dating a woman who you feel brings nothing to the table, then it's probably because you are dating at the bottom end of the pile. You probably like them naive, so shut up and enjoy your naivety in peace.

5) Just like we have deadbeat men, we also have deadbeat women as well. People can be lazy, irresponsible and entitled irrespective of their gender.

Women offer much more than sex in relationships.

I remember back in school when my dad had a horrible financial challenge. It was a very shameful experience that almost brought us to our knees. I

was really struggling to feed once a day at school and some of my siblings at home had to go for "compulsory holidays" at my uncles so they could

feed. But you see my mum, that woman stood like an iroko tree and almost single-handedly pulled us through. In fact, she paid the school fees of the three of us who were in the university at the time and made sure we were coping. She did that for almost 2 years without complaining until my dad got back to his feet. She is a woman.

What about my two lovely sisters? They are doing well in their careers and have blossoming relationships. To the best of my knowledge, they are not leeches to the men they are dating/marrying. They are women.

I have a few female friends at work and in my area, and these ladies are not just courteous, they are high-flyers who earn their own money and know how to build and keep quality friendships. I've learned a lot from them in terms of career and interpersonal skills. They are women.

These women are just a small sample of the millions of women who are not just bringing the cookie to the table, but also the financial independence, the class, the confidence and the empathy to nurture their men to become the best version of themselves.

So, if you are a man complaining that women don't bring anything to the table, you are probably drawing from the wrong well or having too much of low hanging fruits. Please upgrade, be more confident in yourself, stop whining and start seeking quality women who can bring enough to the table.

No need to compare yourself with women.

A lot of men today have become too logical in their relationships that it is beginning to border on madness. "I bring this, you must bring this. I have this, you must have this." etc. Please stop comparing yourself to women and be the man for once.

Nature has designed it in such a way that a woman gives her love for financial security and protection, while the man gives his financial capability and resources for emotional and biological security from the love of a woman.

You will agree with me that it is easier to give love that to write a cheque of 1 million naira. But that is how nature has designed it, so let it be.

A woman will always prefer a man who is financially strong, physically strong and sexually competent/compatible, while a man will always prefer a woman who is beautiful, resourceful and well-behaved.

From the above you can see that the bulk of the responsibility is on we the men. If you are poor, weak or sexually incompetent as a man, you will always find it hard to keep a relationship going. No lady will want to date you and even if they do, they will likely cheat on you. That is the reality.

So, as a man you need to hustle and make money, You also need to look after your body to stay fit and healthy. But that is not all, you have to be the man for her; the pacesetter, her guide, her teacher, her instructor. It's difficult, but nature demands it of you and that is the reality.

A woman only has to show up being beautiful and well-behaved and you will see men frolicking around her. In the worst case, even when she is not any of the above, men being men will still show up and have her like that.

So, stop pointing fingers at women when you have failed to be "the man" in your relationships. Stop shaming women while still shopping at the bargain basement. Come off your high horse and have an objective look at the issues plaguing your relationships rather than making baseless conclusions.


On the issue of sex

Compared to women, we are dwarfed in the area of sexual performance. Only a few men can consistently thrust for an hour without losing it. But a woman can do 2 hours and still go about her business. After all, she is not the one expending energy in most cases.

I've heard only a few cases of women complaining about their sexual performance or trying to get drugs to improve it. But you see men, most men today cannot perform their sexual obligations without taking some drug. In fact, there are millions of men in the world today whose sexual organs are no longer functioning.

You can see from the above that with money and sex, today's men do not really have an advantage over women. So again, what do men really bring to the table? Haha. This is a dose of our own medicine.

As a man, money and sex are not enough. They are not the only factors for building successful relationships. We need to stop resting on our oars, stop comparing ourselves to women and start bringing much more to the table.

For the most part, the moral fabric of our women is only a reflection of the moral fabric of we the men. So, we always get what we give. When we start behaving ourselves, the women will have no choice but to behave as well.

There is no need to come online shaming ourselves before we realize that for one bad woman you've dated, there are millions of good ones available out there.

So, because of one bad relationship, you've concluded that you are going to start fuccking and dumping women like waste bags? That says a lot about your maturity and emotional intelligence than the quality of women you are dating.

Stop acting like a weasel. You are not a weakling. You are a man for goodness sake. Don't let one or two experiences affect your decision-making and change the course of your life forever. One heartbreak is not enough for you to start seeking revenge or recourse in the wrong places. Be strong.

There are lots of responsible, independent women out there who can make beautiful faithful partners. However, I must admit that you may have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your queen. But first, dry your tears, stop whining, invest in self-development, act like the man you are meant to be and see what you can make of your relationships.

Now, bring forth your reservations/arguments.



PS: Please don't take this too personal, I'm using these posts to brush up my argumentative writing skills. Thanks.

Is this an attack on the male folks, or what exactly are you saying here?

I don't know the thread that informed this write up, but your weak attempt in defense for females, shows you were not ready to be objective, balanced and forthright.

You attribute the irresponsibility of a female to the male. where will the change now come from.

The only thing right, is you asking men to up their game and don't pick from the low hanging fruits.

But then you didn't even encourage the ladies to up their game to fit into that acceptable strata you claim your siblings belong to. Soon they will all be low hanging, in some ways.

I agree that the bar for what responsible men should be, has reduced because of the societal decay, no desire for hard work, people now major on the minor things, the sex traps and people who know nothing, bringing children into the world and continuing the cycle.

However, it will be most unfortunate if we build and accept a social construct, in which crass stupidity by the females will be excused and blame put on the male folks.

The good guys may soon find it difficult finding the good ladies you talked about and even vers vasa because it will become weird to be good and have strong principles.

Please, hope you get my point

What I see, is a truly concerned president, who really wants to stop this pandemic.

Trump, is one who just won't stand by without seeking a solution or finding a way to make things work.

I've worked with people like him and we make tremendous progress.

Politics aside, you'd like to have a Trump in your team if you're result oriented.


After Trump, American would have a painful opposite of him as POTUS, just as in Nigeria.

I'm sure of that.

Corrinthians:
No one deserves to be shabbily treated for stealing FOOD. Worst I feel they deserve is simply collect whatever it is they've taken and, if you can, give them a little of it, or simply hand them over to the police.

Their face should t even appear online. Only hunger, I believe, pushes one to steal food, and I dont subscribe to treating one in such inhumane manner for attempting to rid themselves of their hunger by stealing a few stuffs. If the economy was good enough, I believe they wouldn't.

But stealing money or other valuables is a complete no no for me.

Posts like this is so provoking

Can you people stop justifying crime.

What's kind of person are you?

Making excuse for everything wrong.

Do you steal to feed? Anyone who is hungry should just go and steal?

You are one of those who justify stealing bags of food items from a moving truck

12inchess:
For the fact that doctors are using it doesn't mean it's proven to work. I guess you do not have a scientific mind. For the fact that one senator somewherr used one drug and then she started getting better doesn't mean it's the medication that made her better. In fact I know of a specific story in which someone used the chloroquine and the person still passed on. My point is that the efficacy of chloroquine could be entirely coincidental. You will need to consider a lot of factors and carry out a proper study because people get better even without using any medications. Some have the virus in their body and don't even show any symptoms at all. Any sensible scientific study that is testing a drug will have a control. I'm not saying chloroquine doesn't work. It possibly does. I'm saying there is no concrete evidence that backs it up. Science relies almost purely on evidence.

Ps: I always supported that everyone should use masks regardless of what anyone said because it's just common sense.

What are you saying? Please stop this it's evil.

You want to dismiss it's efficacy, but it's being used and positive result is achieved.

What do you mean by concrete evidence?

There is a pandemic, You say it's novel, you say there's no cure, you claim people are dying, a possible respite is available, it's tried and it appears to work, you go against it's use without providing an alternative! Haba!!!!

In a pandemic ooo!!!!, You claim people are dying, you are always pushing over the Media, that nothing works against the virus, any effort people make to stay alive is dismissed immediately. Except for a non existent vaccine.

Those are the stance of witchcraft! blood thirsty people, and it's satanic. QED

pitamah901:
Am 20 and not had sex before, am an introvert and getting a girlfriend is not in my plan cause of the the responsibilities involved and have to focus on succeeding before getting a fiancee no time for gf things. But this sex urge is getting too too much and masturbating is not solving it at all,it used to before until this very strong urge that I can't control anymore took over.

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

You May be from a Christian home but

Are you filled with the holy spirit?

What's your personal relationship with God

Do you love God and want to live for him alone or you want to carry worldly pleasures of sin along.

Do you have a conviction that you have to and can live righteous?

How much of the word of God do you have on your mouth and heart.

Have you sufficiently loaded yourself with scriptures that when you speak, the word of God flows naturally from your mouth?

How is your prayer life. Are you fervent? Or is prayer a stress?

How is your communion with God? Do you feel the presence of God around you that you are sometimes lost in worship?

Such intimacy that you don't want it to end?

How is your revelational Life. Does God reveal things to you?

Do you see yourself speaking to circumstances and they obey you?

Consider what I just stated above and there's no way you Will be trapped in the cage and chains of lust. No way!!!

Unless you're not interested, you can keep deceiving yourself.

Thanks

Virus is real, people are treating themselves

12inchess:
A fellow ignorant person like you will read what you wrote now and think it is making sense not knowing all you wrote there is utter rubbish. I will dispute your nonsense
1) Naming a virus after a location has been found out to be discriminatory especially against people of that place. That is why WHO has stopped doing that. Also, the fact that the Covid19 was first discovered in Nigeria doesn't mean it originated there.
2) There is no proven study that hydroxyl chloroquine works. To test a medication or therapy, you must have good control with checks and balances. Covid19 has about 3 % to 10% mortality rate. It's also more serious in older people and people with exisiting health conditions. It could be a coincidence that it works in one group against the other if the control is not well established for example if one group has way more older people or people with existing conditions.
3)Blaming WHO is dumb. WHO had always taken it seriously. Their major gafe has been not encouraging widespread use of masks irresprective of if you're showing symptoms or not. 20% are asymptomatic. But are you telling me that with all the experts and intelligence U.S has they need to rely on WHO to warn them of what was coming?? So if China say wanted to destroy U.S with a biological virus, is this how easy it would be? I do not believe they didn't know what was coming but they put economy over people and the politicians didn't listen to the experts. Even many hotspot areas in the U.S dont have masks and hand sanitizers in adequate supply so people can protect themselves and also curtail the spread.4) How is it that Nigeria a developing country is able to curtail the spread to under 1000 while U.S is just blowing up and blowing up?

Can you name the experts in number-3

Also are you amongst those dismissing the use of chloroquine, even when it's currently being used?

A lot of doctors in the front line have admitted using it, both in Europe and the US. A democratic State legislature testified how she was saved after being administered the drugs. It's on YouTube.

Those who are being discharged, what are they giving them.

Do you just want people to do nothing? They should just wait, get complications and die?

Is all these about Trump? because you're making it seem so. It's becoming suspicious.

Why do you want to dismiss so called conspiracy theories. But want to give credence to those who don't want you to do anything, until the person dies so they can form stupid statistics.

Those who say, there's no human to human transmission

Those who say don't administer chloroquine, even when it works. Rather we should wait for a vaccine while people die. It's evil and suspicious

Those who say don't put on face mask, it's not necessary. Now people are now enforcing the use of face mask.

You think those who don't want to align with them are foolish?

You need to calm down and interrogate yourself.

Are you being manipulated?

Think do not be an agent without knowing.

Problem is, after going through all these stress,

You discover the lady adds no value to your Life.

Nothing whatsoever. Only debit alerts, for the Randy ones, it's sex.

It's just that you now claim to have a woman in your life, just to align with stupid social construct.

Anyway, we are reading, keep posting.

I reject that in Jesus mighty name!

This Corona virus, agenda will fail.

We are not saying to there's no virus, but the satanic agenda behind it shall fail.

We must fellowship

Antox:
My suggestion; the lockdown should be relaxed and compulsory use of mask should be enforced before hunger virus kill person

How do you make use of mask compulsory.

This is primitive attention seeking.

Sowore should go and seat down.

If them lock am up now, some people will be opening threads up and down

Whatever your plans are, make sure you get closer to God.

Any plan that will have anything to do with iniquity, is a trap of the enemy. The pandemic itself is an evil plot. Don't be ignorant of the devices of the enemy because that's what they want.

Be wise!

Watch your spending this time.

He who has ear.....

IamPlato:
The Thing About Many Girls Is That they Never Listen To A Warning Call, they Prefer To F*ck As Many Dicks As Possible and Have A Bitter Life then They Begin To Remember The Warnings And Say "If I Had Know"


Aunty Na Ogun Go Punish You i Swear... Did You Not Know Before? Did We Not Warn You?


They Then Give Birth to Children Of Israel And The Fathers Of The Children refuse To Marry Her

Then she Goes Out Looking Emotional and Seeking For Innocent Nice Guys Who Have Worked hard To Make Money And Are Not Red Pilled so She Can Marry Him And Submit pussy that 32 inches tv Can Enter Without Struggle.


That Nonsense Must Stop, no Baby Mama Deserves A Single Guy, go And Marry Your Baby Papa or Look For A Guy Whose prick Has Been Bent By Pussy and Is Also A Single father And Marry.


No Single Guy without A Child Should Marry A Babymama.


If You Don Give Any Girl Belle please Go And Marry Your Problem and Dont Leave Dirty For Innocent Guys To Pack.


Kingplato said So!

You taking it personal.

frankputer:
hmmm,
no new case in Lagos. i smell lies.
trying to protecting Lagos image, it's better we know what ahead of us than to do seek and hide.
NewYork did not hide anything.
today there curve is flattening and they are thinking of reopening of economy.

please tell us the real situation.

The real situation is , no new case. Period!

Those who are in pains whenever, Reno speak,

Are also always quick to insult GEJ, up till now.

Praise GEJ and watch them come out of their holes

If people are recovering and people don't know the treatment yet, then this whole thing is a high level evil racket.

Of what use is the daily statistics sef. Tells people the treatment and open up the country so people can live their lives.

For more than a decade, this comparison never ends.

Will it ever end?

I doubt

Kind of overpriced.do you really want to sell it? Or you want to try if someone will pay 750 for it.

Better reduced the price.

SensualMan1:
Nice one.

One more thing, car ain't complete with leather seats, formica.

Sha na small small.

You mean, he should buy those seat covers and replace those plastic bodies?