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enkay2016:
mamas rejoice with me its BFP...whoop whoop am pregnant.. CD 38

am still in shock and surprised.. all my ovulation test were all negative
thank you the miracle working God
#miraclebaby

Congratulations mama!

sunny15:
[quote author=duchessgoddess
Congratulations!!!

Thank you dear.

@ FruitfuilRay, kweenkong, lynda1, AwsomeGrace, Heebah, iamhistreasure, MummyJJ, Joyfulmama, 4realwoman, Bennyboo Faithfulnathia, Lapagegirl, kemmyk, Lizzypaul, Queen1010, Loisemm, Joined, Queenjuli, Cravingchic, Ebonynelly, Spakuls, MGeey, Fademi17, Cuppymummy, imsettled2, Cutiereborn, purelady, Redeemed, Forevergirl, dbeauty... from the bottom of my heart, I say thank you. All your expectations are coming to manifestations in Jesus name. Baby dust to each and everyone of us.

Cuppymummy:
Thanks duchessgoddess for sharing your WIDD. Please how much is the Ultimate woman? Never heard of it. I just hope it's available in p.h.

I should think so. It is on Jumia or Jiji I think.
2500 in Lagos for a pack of 30 capsules (15 days).

Oh my sisters, thank you all so very much! God that did it for me will do for each and everyone of you. After testing BFN up till 14dpo I lost hope and called my pharmacist that I was coming for m2tone, fertilaid and ovaboost. All she said was to calm down until I see AF. 16dpo, I didn't see AF, I just started wailing that cysts have finally gotten me and sisters AF for me is never ever late!! I told DH and he said when I would be popping different kind of pills like a junkie, why won't I have cyst. I got really scared. This morning, at 18dpo, DH was pressing bo.obi like farmer wey wan milk cow, I screamed and was like is this how you usually squeeze the thing? He was just confused. It was 5 am, so I got up and reluctantly tested. and BFP starred right back at me.

My story (would try and make it as short as possible) cos it would help someone;

Started ttc actively in December 2016 after my miscarriage in September 2016. The pain and guilt of it all made me want a baby like I have never wanted it. I went to my gynaecologist and he said to take Clomid to normalise my cycle cos it went haywire. I told him I was ovulating and he insisted saying Clomid is also used to regulate cycles. I took it but didn't conceive. I didn't take it in January, I took in February, didn't in March, did in April. I noticed that any cycle I don't take it, I don't ovulate (for the first time in my life) . I did follicular tracking. After April I said goodbye to Clomid. my doc recommended Letrozole but I refused. I turned to God. But being who I am, I researched for better ways to ovulate naturally. Then my pharmacist recommended Ultimate Woman multivitamin in September. From April till August, I never ovulated.

WIDD for September

1. God
2. God
3. I attended the Holy Ghost conference for those looking for the fruit of the womb at RCCG camp (GOD).
4. I took Grandex Ultimate Woman Multivitamin, Vitamin E, Folic acid, Bcomplex, and lots of water and I ovulated for the first time since April.
5. Focused on work like that was all that mattered. Went for a 2 week course, was always trying to close a deal or the other at work (cos it made me uber happy! )
That was all! if I do remember anything else, I would let you all know.
God did it, and that's all that matters.

PS : Ultimate Woman contains ONLY natural ingredients. You can google it up.

My God is a good God, yes HE is!!
Issa BFP my sisters!!! Whoop!

Tested positive today 4 days after AF is due. After several negative results!
I can't thank God enough! September was really a month to remember. It is raining BFPs here. Mamas you are next Ooh. WIDD coming up.

Ayauche:
Nothing block any tube sis. There was a time I did follicular scan, ovarian cysts was detected but was told it's nothing to worry about. Ur miracle is already here cos this cycle I tested positive I was very sure AF would come, all the signs were there but didn't see her so dear just take a deep breathe and relax. God is in control

Hmm... God bless you mama! Let me keep the hope alive.

Bomgirl:
Hi Mama! I used to have pains in my right hand side too, noticed it after I got married and actively started having sex.
The cycle I got pregnant, I had crazy back pain on my ovulation day. I thought it was stress. When I went for my first scan, I was told I had a cyst 5x4cm or so alongside my baby. I have always had correct cycles except for when I had a chemical pregnancy.
Well, I'm 23 weeks gone and I've not checked on the cyst again cos the Dr said it wasn't something to worry about. It can disappear at any time. I hope this helps.

Oh dear, thanks. Very helpful indeed. Now I know with or without cyst, I will conceive. Congratulations on your pregnancy. Wish you abundance of health the rest of your pregnancy .

Sisters Ooh, I am so distraught! Kai!! AF is about to rear her ugly head. I was so sure I was next to testify after Ayauche's BIG announcement. Lol.
For the past 3 cycles, I've had this sharp pain on my right ovary especially close to AF and when I am pooping (sorry TMI). Not so painful, but is there. I googled about it and found that it might be cysts. I want to know, is it possible for one to have a clockwork cycle (ie, menstruate regularly) and have cysts? I had a miscarriage in September last year, and was my first miscarriage ever and bled for 4 weeks plus before I was given antibiotics to stop bleeding , could it have blocked my tubes or something? Sorry for the long post mamas, I just want to know my options before I fall for another doctor's crap. I would go do hsg but lemme prepare my mind first. lol.
Inspite of all these, I won't give up. Baby dust to all.

Ayauche:
Good Evening my sisters.
The good Lord in his infinite mercies has broken protocols for my sake. Our Almighty God has done it for me.
I AM PREGNANT.
pweetymii, 4realwoman, legendsmother, loisemm, my mamas too many to mention come and rejoice with ur sister

Congratulations ma'am!

@ Redeemed, you see this ttc matter ehn, I have developed thick skin for what anyone will tell me. if my own DH could tell me that I don't want it enough, then who is the person that will tell me anything that will pain me? My reply to him was all the one night stands and rapes that resulted in pregnancy, did they want it enough? He sha apologized and retracted his statement but word Don fall e Don fall. I will not stop to dress to kill, make up, look beautiful for myself, dance, smile at every Tom dick and Harry. I can't comman goand kill myself away on top ttc. God has told me He will do it, so why worry and be miserable?

fruitfulnathia:
good morning my e-sisters please help me shook mouth for these matter. my af was suppose to come on the 26th or 27th had all the physical signs buh nothing rather wat came out was lots of discharge ( i get that towards af). nw yesterday i started having watery light blood discharge that dry up quickly and looks like brown sweat stains on my pants n d flow is irregular no cramp just pinch like feelings at both the sides of my abdomen and smwhere close to my navel. am confused dont know if its infection never had this experience before. sorry for the long post.
note: if it were my normal period am supposed to b having heavy flow by now. buh this one no pad and its not soaking. thanks

Congratulations ma'am!!! Those were my exact same symptoms for my first baby.!! Woo-hoo! Go and test sharp sharp!! God has done it for you my sister. BFPs just rolling one by one. Oh Jesus, this is permanent for each and everyone of us here. Amen!

revelation2013:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am experiencing secondary infertility issues. I already has a child but have been TTC for the second for a while. I have heard of local specialists who massages and reset the uterus while also treating infertility. I once had an accident that affected my pelvic so I am guessing it affected something because I feel pain during intercourse.

I have done a couple of tests and have been going true some medical procedure but I have read testimonies of these traditional massagers or midwives who massages and treat people successfully.

Can anyone recommend one for me. One that you or a friend has made use of. They are mostly Ijaw people I guess.

I am in Lagos.

Read like 6-7 pages back. It was discussed extensively. Kinda.

Bennyboo:
Good day mamas I saw this on a Facebook page I joined and I think I should share it, who knows it might work for some of us (different system with different results) some people used it and it worked for them ,there is no crime trying and hopefully its going to b a positive result

Two ripe banana
One Tin milk
One spoon of bicarbonate
Two raw eggs(fresh ones)
U blend everything to gathered and drink a day after your period
Once a month after your period
Early in the Morning before you eat

Baby dust to everyone
God bless us all

Good morning Bennyboo. Please is it one teaspoon or one tablespoon of bicarbonate?

Mumagain:
I took 50mg 1×2 daily, but hv reduce it to 50mg for now.

OK. thanks.

Mumagain:
Pls try to bear with the side effect nd sorry b6 cannot subcide the effects, I only took b6 to help me with ewcm, progesterone, nd good luteal phase during the 2 ww after O, tk care dear

Congrats on your BFP! HH9months to you. Please what dosage of vitamin b6 did you take? 50mg or...?

Hannaspirit:
I didn't av any side effects from clomid. Maybe because I used alongside letrozole share. I only stopped cos of fear of fibroid but far from being dry, over wet is doing me.
Maybe u should try inositol and vitex along with the bitterleaf therapy.
Avoidance of carbs and increased intake of vegetables and nuts will help too

Alright. Thanks so much, I would check out both inositol and vitex. Did you conceive with Clomid? If no, after you stopped Clomid did you ovulate on your own?

Ayauche:
Your own experience with Clomid is even good sef. When I used Clomid, shishi ovulation I didn't see,my vjay just turned desert, I even did follicometry scan which confirmed I was not ovulating. I stopped it and was advised to start taking excess water and by the grace of God. Aunty ovulation reappeared. So according to Omojudy I won't even take it in my dream.

Lol! @vjay just turned desert. True true Clomid can so dry you up. So only water can do this magic? what am I then making myself sick for when water full everywhere without side effects? I am planning on detoxing with the bitterleaf therapy too to get this Clomid off my system.

rvpbae:
I don't know much about this sha but I used clomid just once as prescribed by my doc but he insisted that I shouldn't use it again to avoid hyper-ovarian stimulation. And from my research, it is not advisable to take clomid for more than 4-5 cycles. Maybe you should just pause and let your body heal.

It will end in praise.

Ah, thank you dear. Good thing I didn't buy anymore pack. Even the letrozole sef, I am not using again.

Omojudy:
My clomid experience no good. Una dey try. I dey carry belle without effort normally. Who send me go take clomid last month I no know. Pain plus Beeding for 10 days plus changed ovulation day according to my charting. So I kpekus almost all month. Month end bfn, no period. I no go take that thing for my dream self again.

My dear sister, I taya for the thing walahi. I don't want to take again. My ovulation is messed up any cycle I don't take it. as if my body now depends solely on Clomid to ovulate. I want to stop before my ovaries turn junky Biko. Do you know if you are ovulating on your own this cycle? Other Mama's that have used Clomid and stopped please throw more light. thank you.

sorry for double post.

duchessgoddess:
CLOMID WORSENED MY CYCLE!!

Good morning beautiful mamas. I Don weak for this ttc mata no be small. My cycle used to be like clockwork (28days). After I had my first baby, my cycle scattered! 35 days today, 45 days tomorrow, 50 days the next. I was told it would normalise, but for where? My doc prescribed Clomid which normalized my cycle and made me produce multiple eggs, but belle no show. I have taken Clomid for four cycles intermittently. Any cycle I don't take Clomid, I have very immature follicles at ovulation. I have told him Clomid didn't work for me and he prescribed letrozole and that if it doesn't work, then I should get ready for IVF. I nearly piss for body. Please mamas help me oooohhh. who has experienced this before? I don't want to take Clomid again. Would I start ovulating normally with time when the Clomid clears from my system or should I go ahead and take the letrozole? Why do I take to clear the Clomid off my body? And for how long do would it take to ovulate normally? AF just reared her ugly head. I Don taya. sorry for the long post Biko.

Good morning mamas, please I need answers as madam AF is here already. Lemme know whether to sit this one out or get letrozole. Thanks. Please please please answer me na before I start crying here oh.

duchessgoddess:
CLOMID WORSENED MY CYCLE!!

Good morning beautiful mamas. I Don weak for this ttc mata no be small. My cycle used to be like clockwork (28days). After I had my first baby, my cycle scattered! 35 days today, 45 days tomorrow, 50 days the next. I was told it would normalise, but for where? My doc prescribed Clomid which normalized my cycle and made me produce multiple eggs, but belle no show. I have taken Clomid for four cycles intermittently. Any cycle I don't take Clomid, I have very immature follicles at ovulation. I have told him Clomid didn't work for me and he prescribed letrozole and that if it doesn't work, then I should get ready for IVF. I nearly piss for body. Please mamas help me oooohhh. who has experienced this before? I don't want to take Clomid again. Would I start ovulating normally with time when the Clomid clears from my system or should I go ahead and take the letrozole? Why do I take to clear the Clomid off my body? And for how long do would it take to ovulate normally? AF just reared her ugly head. I Don taya. sorry for the long post Biko.

Good morning mamas, please I need answers as madam AF is here already. Lemme know whether to sit this one out or get letrozole. Thanks. Please please please answer me na before I start crying here oh.

CLOMID WORSENED MY CYCLE!!

Good morning beautiful mamas. I Don weak for this ttc mata no be small. My cycle used to be like clockwork (28days). After I had my first baby, my cycle scattered! 35 days today, 45 days tomorrow, 50 days the next. I was told it would normalise, but for where? My doc prescribed Clomid which normalized my cycle and made me produce multiple eggs, but belle no show. I have taken Clomid for four cycles intermittently. Any cycle I don't take Clomid, I have very immature follicles at ovulation. I have told him Clomid didn't work for me and he prescribed letrozole and that if it doesn't work, then I should get ready for IVF. I nearly piss for body. Please mamas help me oooohhh. who has experienced this before? I don't want to take Clomid again. Would I start ovulating normally with time when the Clomid clears from my system or should I go ahead and take the letrozole? Why do I take to clear the Clomid off my body? And for how long do would it take to ovulate normally? AF just reared her ugly head. I Don taya. sorry for the long post Biko.

Nnystc:
Dear blaize777
I'm not happy reading your recent posts (bolded below+the other where you said your tears have run out)!
So perhaps you need some hard truths (I realise we are Nigerians anyway, na strong word na im dey enter us pass soft words)
Are you a FTM? Yes? Then I think I understand where you're coming from ). But then...
True story:
When I had my first child, i had chicken pox in week 39, had to be induced in week 42. Then he was distressed in the womb, passed meconium inside my womb, apgar score of 3 or so. On coming out he was diagnosed with some nonsense congenital ish, and given 3 months to live. As a FTM I was inconsolable, rolling on the floor crying, asking myself who have I offended, who hates me this much? Why must mine be different?
Long story short, because I would not let go and let God, I ended up with a partial stroke. That's what my depression got me o. So I became a casualty.

Q- Was I able to help my kid then?
A- Even an onuku knows the answer to that...

I was barred from breastfeeding, even from holding the child. I added to the problem on ground.

But after all this my eye opened (spiritually tho, physically I was a mess... I looked like a freak sideshow!)

What did I do after that, I had to painstakingly cast my mind back to how good God had been to me in the past... All the strong things He had brought me through...
You know when bible said "And David encouraged himself in the Lord " that was me right there.
You know what I did? I would pick the child up, look sternly at baby and start speaking...
-I carried you in my womb, this womb (slapping my stomach! ) for 9 months
-Those 9 months were not for nothing oh.
-I am your mother! You must listen to me and heed my voice
-You shall not die, must not die, you're not permitted to die!
- You will live.
-Rise up and respond to treatment
Can't remember all the things I told this child biko. Pickin jus' dey look me....

Oohhh Nnystc, this your post just had to bring me out of hiding sha! God bless you sis.
Blaize777, get on your feet and begin to command things that are not as though they were! God did not bring you this far to let you fall. Mbanu!

lollyberry:
To the Glory of almighty, had my son today at oakbend medical centre and was delivered by Dr F, the pregnancy journey has been so rough but I give glory to almighty who made alll things possible. wishing all expectant mum safe delivery. also many thanks to all the nairaland mum who made this forum what it is today, without you guys and loads of informations you gave, I don't think I would be here. may God bless you all.


And I can't wait to leave this country o becos of this dollar wahala.

Congrats lollyberry.

Tobermom:
I dunno exactly. I had a 5year gap, but i think anything from that 18months is ok. I stand to be corrected

ok. Thanks dear.

Congratulations @ Tobermom. God bless your LO. Pls Tobermom, financefitness, olokings
and all the mums that have done vbac, pls oh how many months after cs was accepted by your obgyn for you to get pregnant again? Are they all on the strict policy of 18months after cs? Are there other hospitals that do it for less? Thanks for answering oh biko. I need to know my fate concerning this vbac thingy to help plan properly and early.

lollyberry:
@duchessgodess

Congratulations on the birth of your little Angel, it is the will of God.
Don't worry the second missionary journey will be a success, may God continue to bless you and ur little one

Sending my love and kisses to my cutie

Amen. Thanks dear.

Thanks so much @ firsttymum and uptown17

LI:
Congrats Duchess. God bless you and all yours

Amen. Thanks dear.

Phema:
Congratulations duchessgoddess!! Thank God for life and good health. Kisses to your LO.

Thanks so much dear.