₦airaland Forum

sammirano:
So itsgift parent send kids to school to receive niwadays and not learning. Believe it or not, the school fostered the concept of gift exchange.

NaijaCr7:
Poverty mentality mixed with inferiority complex


It's a gift and am sure it would have been what the child (celebrant) wished for.. I am sure no inscription on the box reads you must Payback with similar gesture.

You go your friend party he serve you rice and chicken shey that one mean say u no go invite am come yours cos na rice Nd fish u fit afford.

sammirano:
PS4 ke. All these Nig. Schools and their low thinking. They should be more creative about activities that can foster a healthy relationship among students, not this counterproductive one.

jayjaycee0:
Truth is many of us in nigeria are bandwagonners... Fem by davido is bigger than the whole of Burna boys new album

Ab0bi:
Such people are "recluse", they are the lazy type.

Pimpmaride:
Like Ronaldo won two champion leagues with Juve abi.


doppemu

chukxie:
Some hard truths there. Although I do not believe for a second that the Chinese are a more advanced race than Africans because I've been to places in China with deplorable living conditions. Thing is people hardly get to see such places on TV. With that being said, I totally agree with the writer that Africa - especially the black ones seem lost on how to use their God given natural resources for the betterment of their countries and people. Nigeria aptly fits this abysmally shameful and confusing scenario. We have all the resources needed to make us an enviably rich country yet we are one of the poorest, disorganised, mismanaged, corrupt nations on the earth. Sometimes I can not help wondering if there is something innately wrong with black leaders, politicians and policymakers. Can't help it!

chukxie:
Some hard truths there.Although I do not believe for a second that the Chinese are a more advanced race than Africans because I've been to places in China with deplorable living conditionsThing is people hardly get to see such places on TV. With that being said, I totally agree with the writer that Africa - especially the black ones seem lost on how to use their God given natural resources for the betterment of their countries and people. Nigeria aptly fits this abysmally shameful and confusing scenario. We have all the resources needed to make us an enviably rich country yet we are one of the poorest, disorganised, mismanaged, corrupt nations on the earth. Sometimes I can not help wondering if there is something innately wrong with black leaders, politicians and policymakers. Can't help it!

Captainman:
So y do churches pray fire and death for their enemies

Coder2Client:
What's your problem about 6 to 10 age difference. You better get sense and face your marriage.

BluntTheApostle:
Love is not enough.

What is needed is self restrain or discipline.

You can love someone and still cheat on them.

There is something called compartmentalization.

You are able to compartmentalize your feelings. You love your wife, and only her alone. Whenever you meet another girl, you only want sex. You are not able to love them like you love your wife.

Men are more capable of compartmentalization than women.

Many women can develop feelings by having sex with another man. They place a lot of emphasis on sex, and they will only have sex with a man they love.

But a man can have sex with a woman without loving her. He go just wan chop and clean mouth.

If a typical married woman starts having sex out of wedlock, she may never love her husband as before

If a typical married man starts having an affair out of wedlock, he may still love his wife strongly.

No he doesn't, he only values his wife and sees her as major priority

LastProphet:
You are still learning, you will understand

yourgistpartner:
Love is never enough. self discipline is key to stop cheating


let's take the smoking scenario for example; they know smoking is bad but they still do, not because they don't love themselves but because they can't discipline themselves appropriately

xynerise:
But love is not enough to stop one from erring. As long as the cheating is not consistent

Kriss216:
There's no riches without fraud.
We're all fraudsters in the eyes of God.