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Well said

Give her time, if u think shes worth it, cos she hasnt raised any red flag for u 2quit. Dont pressurize her.

Dont think its lst weekend, or it happened in edo. its ogun state lik some pple mentioned, the cabs r painted in sagamu transport colors. rip to d dead

What were u expecting She should be happy her husband is gettin a 2nd wife, or is she not a human being. Mtcheeew, if u lookin for help abt dis small issue, i wonder how u intend to manage two wives

As students we dont understand ooo whats is wrong will always be wrong, dont find an excuse for your immoralities. When there is a will, there is always a rightful way.

9. Dont have sex

Injustice

GEJ

If na naija, brakes go just dey fail anyhow

Wonder whats wrong here Cos ve been there b4, No matter what u do, u can never pls pple. Mayb d rooms shud like a 5star hotel.

Wonder what u intend to do with d information . Troublemakers

babyfaceafrica:
so kneeling down to propose is now a means to be submissive?...what a man will do he will do,standing up and kneeling down won't change it.my broda its not by kneeling ooo...

I neva attached kneeling to anything, i only said it shudnt be a big deal for guy to kneel to propose to a gal he feels he deserves as a wife.

baralatie:
if she love you she won't allow you go through that stress,
she will follow you without thinking to the altar!

Kneeling down is stress . Proposing is meant to be a surprise, so how will she disallow u when she doesnt know what u ve in mind.

Confront d husband n move out of the aos.

Who is deceiving who

Dont delete her number, jst still maintain ur frienship, or better still remain on a neutral level. U cant blame her tho, she jst got into another form of exposure.

kaybiel2u:
Can anyone tell me ooo is he a Yoruba man ?

Yes, desmond oluwashola elliot.. dad yoruba, mum igbo

Bride price does not determine a ladies worth.

baralatie:
in the Nigerian tradition do men kneel down to marry or it is the reverse!

I didnt mention tradition, i meant d trend has been existing for a while. M jst saying, if u love someone enuff to want to marry her, kneeling down to propose shud not even be an issue to contemplate on.

Tallesty1:
Pooish...... So our fathers and grandfathers didn't love their wife?

Do they truly love their wives, if they did, y was polygamy rampant then. Then d wives see their husbands as a small god, they see their husbands more like a father not lover. Total Submission was d key that made marriages work then not love.

Its been like that ever since, its mor like a sign of respect n loyalty. If u feel ur too big to kneel, then u dont love ur partner, if u love them that should not be a prob.

Kog45:
Go die if Madrid buy him.Hater who don't wish countrymen well.

I wish everyone well, but its d fact, matured minds dont judge with sentiments.

Sorry to say, it shows how useless u r,
@16 u r not a virgin, n u enjoy d sex, shame on u. If u wer properly brought up, that first night, u shud ve found an xcuse, pack ur things n return to ur fathers aos. I dont fuly blame u tho, jst talk to a close adult abt it

celine234:
nothing spiritual, I dont believed in that.

I was only kiddin, it is caused by hormonal imbalance, go see a specialist, or a certified pharmacist, there r certain drugs to correct this disorder.

celine234:
nothing spiritual, I dont believed in that.

was only kiddin, it is caused by hormonal imbalance, go see a specialist, or a certified pharmacist, there r certain drugs to correct this disorder.

I believe its has to do with hyperthermia or hypothermia abnormalties caused by specific hormonal imbalance in ur body. Probably due to menstruation.

debbie:
Well i get your point.
but remove the work ENCOURAGEMENT....how will the masses that elected a leader now come to encourage him to perform?
where is that justified.
please like i said.....lets leave sentiment
Did you take a good look at that road to see that it has NEVER been tarred? yet the kept on re-electing the same person?
Are we not the architect of our own problem?
Till we hold our leaders accountable,we are just wasting our time

Encourage those that r effective not d useless ones. Like u said we r d architect of most of our problems. I wonder y pple would re-elect someone when he failed in his past tenure, all because of selfish gains.

Imagine a politician who is goin for a re-run, sharing gifts n money for pple to vote for him, its crazy, i mean his past achievements should speak for him, funny enuff pple will vote him, later it backfires n they start blaming govt, forgetin they wer d cause of their misery.

We all heard, that jona spent 2trillion naira on campaign, there is always an epitome of truth in every rumour. if that money was diverted into security, boko haram would ve been history. I wonder y a politician should spend much money for campaign.

Imagine me going for the post of a class rep, n i start bribing pple to vote for me, its crazy, because m d one sacrificing my time, body n family to work for u guys. Jst like julius berger bribing n begging me to develop my estate for me, when they will be the d one spending their time n resources, its insane, this only shows this politicians have a dark motive.

I wonder how tvc committed more than ait. there is diff btw criticism n condemning. They ve rules governin them. Press r meant to criticize n not try to destroy someone else image for money.

No sentiments, our leaders may not be good enough, but very few of them r really trying.

Fashola tenure might not be good enough, but its definitely better than all past admin in terms of road development, its d fact. I live at the outskirt of lagos, n most roads there ve been tarred during this admin, likewise other roads around lagos. Even the ikorodu road, i.e ketu to ikorodu.

As the sayin goes, u cant please the world, jst do ur best. Even in developed countries, few bad roads still exist,no govt is 100% perfect, there will still be flaws and criticism.

I am not supportin anyone, m jst saying lets give kudos when we have to, n should not be a critic at all times. The lasg ve done well, at this stage ,what they need is encouragement that they can do better not criticism.

Pls move on, so she doesnt decide to become ur gf out of pity. But still maintain ur friendship with her, who knows in future d feelings might b mutual.