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glitest: Although, i find that to be down right disrespectful and ridiculous, but what will I be doing back at the guy's house on the first date?.

papindinho: Dygeasy: one of the dynamic guys on nairaland.

plainol: hope she is not another bedmate for d big boyz.

Idowuogbo: Wetin b interesting? No b u dey teach all this ayounges how to penetrate for sexuality sec?

jossi994: MoneySoldier-I respect him a lot. The shyte the nigghur's gone through can't be comprehended by most of us. Tualle sir.
Lynpetra-would definitely love to meet her one day. Very interesting character.
Yuzedo-High chief engineer daddy sweetus atutupoyoyo oluwabanana iceland 1. The main reason i joined Nairaland. This guy is terrific. If there's one person who knows how to make me laugh no matter my mood,it's him. Haven't been seeing him lately here. No homo,but i love this bro a lot.
Madcow & Ooh Mpa-Two sides of a coin. These men ehn.. Make i close mouth.
Martha-pissed with her.. She inspired me start my diary then ran away when things were rough.. She shoulda known that no matter what,her protegês were still behind her.
Dygeasy-The Mentor to my Mentor.
Victoriousvic-My lil brother.. Also inspired me to start my diary. His gingering also made me resurrect it after the attack. Thumbs up bro.
Babymama-Funny and a bit controversial tho' but me still admires her.
Sexkillz- JERK! Heaven knows i rejoiced when his moderator 'Job' was taken away.
NadiaSA-Nice character.. I love her fanatic devotion to Southgeria.. Proudly ZuluIgbo!
Andyblaze,SpaceGoat,Mr Cork-The 3 'Wise' Men.
Nnaetochukwu-My 1st impression about her:busybody/notice me. Pretty hard to shake off.. Lemme see if i'm wrong 'bout her in the long run..
Claireshan-Some say she's cool.. Yet to see the 'coolness'
Texanomaly-A thousand thanks.. Your thread about readers helped me understand some issues.
And Oga Seun-Annoyed me due to his perceived insensitivity to our plight before the attack. For our sakes i hope he's improved tho'
Thats all-For now.

delishpot: Lol, you don finish me o. Nor vex say I use my matbematics spoil your eyes. i just dey try to learn pidgin but I don dey pro small small sha.
Lol. I mean say, na peopke wey eicked like this naim gods sabi to give long life. Whereras good people dey die quick. I come say well sha, if say him good noe, dey treat his employee well, na dem go still go backyard plan to kill him, believing say as him dey help dem e mean say him get plenry money for waredrobe for him house.
No worry I go try to write well.
Abeg, who dey near that OP sef? Make una help me konck am for head. No be knock o, konck, that type wey ee dey rub spit for knockle, turn hand round and round then land am for the unfortunate person head. Yes that type naim make una help me give OP. Him don too soak garri, since 3 days na garri him dey soak now the thing don make am dey dream dreams of being Oga for one company wey spirit uncle open. Make una help me konck am wake up biko.

Choicy: Funny you! Am new in my area.

iamord: its because majority of them are too religious and affected by crows mentality.. “I don't want to go.. Oya stay! I don't want to stay ”syndrome

iamord: lol infact there is no two ways about it

iamord: I said the same thing.. But rather than cheat.. If they can't agree and the heat is getting too much they have to divorce

lrguru: OP, there's nothin wrong if he goes to his sisters place in calabar and stays for a month, cos my female cousins do come over to my place and stay longer during the semester break and I see nothin wrong there. They just love coming over cos of the lively environment n how nicely I treat them. Ur BF might just love travellin to Calabar, n the only place he likes stayin is his sisters house. And BTW u said he only stayed there close to a month, n it was courtesy of the ASUU strike. If my GF is like u, thinkin I have somethin to do with my sister, I would have booted her out of my life for conceiving such thoughts. U really need help, n pls grow up

xynerise: She will discover oyel soon

iamord: u did not give any advice to him but just jump into conclusions.. If the two don't settle on her to make themselves comfortable in the house. How can they leave together.m then tomorow he cheats they will give her brainwash part 2 that he is in darkness and needs to come into the light.m the lady won't see anything wrong in what she is doing but increase pressure.. Be careful of brainwash. My fello Nlairalanders.. Am not saying she should put thick make up but look fine.. I have some that pass my area.. I won't mention the chuurch.m u will see a woman with phd..with smelly hair.. That kill.. Wear sandals like they in 1980 don't even use mosturizer to cleanse the skin.m their skin will be dry and un attractive.. Tomorow you will be fasting for husband.. The only person that can marry such is someone that thinks likewise. ..guard your family from brainwash.m this thing is like an epidemic

xynerise: I am telling you. She wants to take her pound of flesh

xynerise: Her comment was full of hate. She just had a flashback

delishpot: These are thr type of people that live long. If say na one nice biss now, wey dey help employee in any way he can now Him gateman and most helped employee for don plan to kill am throw for soak away believing say him get over money for waredrobe wey dem fit steal. Inshort if say him kind sef, dem for dey steal fron him.
See, na this OP type dem for dey send cultist go kill for early morning when him dey prepare to go boot camp wey him call office. But no, all him employees dey cower. I believe sef say him no dey pay well and regualrly.
OP enjoy o, at this rate, you no go see january 2015. If ya type become president, Idi amin go be toy for him side.

Sweetlemon: Just look at how dem xynerise, Dygeasy, and co are giving advice like say dem know pass. See how they are condemning the op for saying he wants to cheat on her as if they'd handle things any better should their own wives suddenly develop some brainwashed sense of spirituality. Can't you sympathize with the op? I can only imagine how hard this is for him right now. I can see how hard this guy is trying not to cheat, he's being upfront honest with himself instead of living miserably in denial or just subjecting himself to the cruel fate of being married to someone who doesn't entice him anymore. So the op should start enduring his marriage now as if he's in kirikiri prison ba?

Awon oloshi advisers oshi! mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

let me tell you something most of you even married folks do not know. Sex is probably the most powerful force in marriage. Couples who enjoy good sex have much higher chances of wanting themselves for much longer and much lower chances of cheating on each other. And talking about sex, physical appearance has a lot to do with it. The op married his wife while she was still fashionable. And for those self righteous people accusing him of not loving her inside, I have news for you, That was part of her personality! It was part of the things that made her who she was. So don't give me crap about him loving only her physical beauty. FYI, I define beauty as an inner sense of peace and confidence that manifests on the outside. What you see about something attracts you to that thing before you can even want to know anything about it.

So now that op's wife no longer attracts him, what should? So when op and his wife want to make love they should start singing/quoting songs of Solomon ni? Oh puleeeez!

I hate it when people are not realistic. That is why most of our problems remain hanging for too long cos we are in denial.

OP. You need to pray. Pray hard for God to reveal the truth about fashion to her. Pray hard for God to let her see that she's hurting her marriage and that's the plain truth. Pray for God to reveal to her that she is actually sinning when she causes her husband to sin.



You see why I keep advising ladies about this?: Getting married is one thing. Preserving your marriage is a different journey entirely. Do not confuse the two of them. NEVER you ever think that all is well just because of that thing on your finger or because of some piece of paper. Ok nau.

Cheers!

dhammyg: GO AND CHECK ALL MY POSTS.MOST OF THE TIMES I WRITE IN CAPITAL LETTERS