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pickabeau1:
Hehehe

If u are looking for a man who will shoulder your kaya...so that u can spend your own money on clothes...

all the best

Hehehehe
Thanchu
At least I am not coming to you ehn


And even if I do
You will love me so much that you will give me everything before I ask
Ms charmer
Pickabeau1
Muchechecheche

pickabeau1:
No

A man will take care of you..that is granted

But looking for a man so you will not spend your own money smacks of gold digging

Why should a man take a baby mama who has other kids and shoulder all their liabilities alone when he can choose from a single

That's the point

A working baby mama who wants to settle down must also pull her weight especially around her kids

Hehehehehe
What do you call gold digging?

If you can't take care of her as well as shoulder her responsibilities then you not meant to be

In every healthy relationship both parties are supposed be involved, if my man has money and I have too what's wrong if he spends all his money on our kids even if they are not his, if he has kids too before I met him, I will so do same, mother them like mine and live for them

ideatoprince18:
........U are just perfect dts if u are true about ur description

I nag

GodblessNig247:
hmmm. So u are perfect. Nawa o I never see Ur kind before o

Did you read upside down
My kind/type will be perfect for my kids
No one is perfect, we only complete ourselves
Don't let me use hammer on you

Chizoba36:
@dyt
you are so right about the FEAR! It is real. I think there are times that perhaps it's hard to trust your own judgement and so you shy away from committing again!.....

The fear is choosing someone that won't be a good fit for child / children . I think because of this fear most single parents remain single. Most choose to live for the children

Well
You only know when you faced with same thing
I don't judge people
We all have rights to be happy
Just do all that makes you happy pretty
Live and love
Sometimes this loneliness comes and you wanna feel that heart beat for a man
Sometimes you wanna share your day routine
Sometimes in a cold night you just wanna cuddle
Even some married folks don't have it all
No one should be in marriage simply cos I wanna be a Mrs or wear the wedding ring and drive good cars
Marriage is companion, friendship, loyalty, trust, best of friends, marriage should be enjoyed in every way and not endured
And yes there are happy couples
I mean really happy couples, no faking, they have their days and still love gets stronger.

Don't worry pretty
That very one that will love you endlessly is just watching
Soon he will make that move and for once, you will feel this is it

TheOne

pickabeau1:
But I met a single mom with a very good job recently.. guess what she said

W asked about settling down as she is not short of suitors..

If a man cannot take care of my bills,.. what good is he?

Well
Is she supposed go into the relationship without that?
She has responsibilities
Of what use is it actually when he can't love me and fens for me?



One truth about most single mums is fear of getting married again
Most not all
Trust me there are suitors right and left that don't even mind but its really tough on some even when they feel the mushy feelings and very comfortable

Yes I know of this young vibrant hardworking single mum with a very cool job and earning, with men I mean well to do men that all she does need do is accept one and she's married again
But truth is, does she really want it?
Yes she says sometimes she does, she wants the home, the man, her heart is pure, she's got it all but there's this FEAR somewhere she can't trace.
Well shiit happens

Its beyond what we see and feel
Good luck to all the pretty single mums out there and make the right choice

Cutehector:
in other words, u won't allow her to maRry someone like u

I will with all of me

Ok
That's if there's another me
I am special, yes everyone is special but I only hope there's a duplicate me out there, somewhere somehow sometimes
Cos when we love, we deeply do
And when we say NO, we seriously mean it even when we tend to forget and forgive
That's not so good cos most times we are taken for granted even if not all the time.

I have a heart of gold
Don't compliment me
I know
Hehehehehehehe


But seriously my kind that loves will just be perfect but if not, then a better me
Who knows there are still people that don't nag when they want something or jealous

Awwwwwww
Eyah

Abajosax007:
Ambode will not take NOTED of anything.

You are mean
I have tears in my eyes
My boss ran out to check on me

Na wa
I have seen that of accountant
That of nurse


Oya make una put for marketer/customer care

mutter:
I breastfed my kids at my convenience and nor that of others. Of you don't like what you see remove your eyes.

Super woman
Be truthful to yourself how long you can take this
The worse that can happen to a struggling woman trying to keep her home is a lazy and crazy husband.
Phew

I VOTE AGARAWU23
CC:NLJEGA

Be creative

This your hmmmm
You sure one mgbekele babe is not eyeing you?
If those babes catch you ehn and knowing fully well you not matured in the game
Hmmmmmm
I no no ooo

My own be say be creative
Try as many styles and many rounds
You don't have to watch porn or read HEARTs vol 45

You no gree 500k?

Mistake?

Clears throat
Well
Please stick to those two wonderful kids biko
Give them the best, when you have enough money, you can have 10kids if you want.

And oil company that's not well paying, that I haven't seen.

We have all had our plans but one thing or the other disrupts it, don't bite yourself over that.

Go out
Get a job or find something doing and stop thinking about having another child NOW

Wait till you become one

Yawns
Back to bed

McDonalds2014:
So how did u get rid of it?(Nagging)

You think one can get rid of it?
I will if he gives me all the attention sha

Reminds me of when I was a nag

Seriously I have so nagged that he threw his phone with anger
Nagged that he was almost choking
Nagged so much that dude said you want to kill me before my time


See I am not proud of it
But each time I realise its not my fault

And then the silent treatment


In all sha a woman nags when she wants something

yurme:
swtz u cn vote 4 12peepx pls m0dify nd add jarizod

Done

RapLawd:
https://www.nairaland.com/2395706/mr-nairaland-contest-2015-elimination/4


But please don't forget to add me as your votes is been casted!!!

Thanks

Done

I VOTE

TOLZEAL
Jarizod
RapLawd


CC: NLJEGA

Where's the voting thread oo

My guy TOLZEAL IS THE MAIN DEAL OOO

AKMoney1:
Dyt come here please

Skinny?
Like cane?
Na
Please gimme slim tall and ofcus bald