BlueRayDick: Do you have 42 tubers of yam u are not using? maybe just a sprinkle of ẹja ọsan,variety of fruits and other accessories.....And yes I almost forgot; A BRIDE
When you have 10s of 'em here Are you joking with Me?
All the singles Identify yourself ke
I start with ishilove Hathor5 Mariangeles Ibkayee
Pls y'all identify oo I no remember and if I no spell your moniker well sorry
cutechioma1: I think the expectations of life can be hard on a marriage. Thought I married my best friend, until we actually got married and he changed. Always hooking up with his exs, finds it hard staying at home, drinks a lot. He told me on our wedding night that he never thought he will marry a girl like me( meaning he could have done better). Our marriage has never been the same since then. He claims its because he has not been stable financially and I'm always the one paying the bills. I have not complained cos I know how much he hustling. Now 8 years and I'm thinking of calling it quits. I'm always feeling sad, depressed and resentment.
I feel it's kinda hard for you sharing this But I keen on knowing how YOU have been able to manage your mental health
You the only one I'm tryna make love to, pickin' and choosin' They ain't really love you, runnin' games, usin' All your stupid exes, they gon' call again Tell 'em that a real nigga steppin' in
KoolBigk: Marriage is sweet when you marry a reasonable partner who is always there for you, come rain, come sun shine!
I have been married for over 5 years with kids & still balling, looking forward to many more years with my partner.
Life itself isn't bed of roses , but what you make out of every situations' matters a lot. Yes, we disagree & argue at times but we never allowed all that to change or define us!
I tell the young folks, it's best to fall in love with both of your head/sense & heart. Sadly, most people fall in love today with just their heart. So, When your heart is leading you south 'cos you blinded with love, your head can call you back home.
Have it in mind, love alone is not sufficient to make marriage works. There many other essential factors aside love like compatibility, truthfulness, compassionate, compromising & the likes. Above all the fear of God.
I see based on your write up, your are having this "fear of unknown" of what might happen between you two in the nearest future. I will say focus on the bright-side. Remember, Today is the tomorrow we worried about yesterday.
Thanks for sharing I will also keep in mind the last paragraph
emerged01: I no go live me and my wife Dey change for ourselves but e no Dey last. Different religion though,she is best part of me,but sometime she can be annoying. That na woman thing! Situation do change people,I don’t pray for that situation. As e Dey now me hold steering( the driver) and na she be the conductor. We Dey pray for a safe journey.
I don't wanna play no games, play no games Fuk around, give you my last name oh Know you tired of the same damn thing That's okay 'cause, baby, you You got it, girl, you got it You got it, girl, you got it
TiglathPILESER: I can imagine how shocked you are in today's world of liberal views. Where norms, values, sobriety and divine instructions to live by is thrown into the air at the sight and yearnings of fantasy and vain expeditions. They say 'do what thou wilt' isnt it?
Through the paragraph, all I saw was cloudy flares, if you go on with this mindset I am sure to hear again happen what befell you before. No bad wishing intended!
Secondly, its not my opinion, I live by divine deeds.
Gaggi: I'm happy to be a husband and a father. I've basically always had peace and joy in marriage but I was also foolish enough to want to explore outside marriage. I would have easily been burnt by getting caught, having a disease or an illegitimate child but I was lucky or blessed to find my self back before getting burnt. Now I strive to be the best husband and father out there. Curiosity made me explore and I realized there is nothing out there. Some also tried it and it destroyed them and their family.
Marriage is never the same for everyone. Some have it turbulent, some smooth and some neutral. What I believe is that marriage is mainly luck and a bit of effort. Almost a decade of blissful happiness not because I'm special but because I got lucky to get a compatible partner. Some people are good but unfortunate to be married to a person who has little or nothing in common with them.
Not much. Just eating before another video meeting begins. I hate them. I prefer to have them in person. It's weird seeing yourself while talking. It's because I am not as narcissistic as Dyt.
Maobichek: . I appreciate you for your confidence and boldness. Of a truth, you must be an angel, you will not suffer in marriage and you will not regret being married for any reason, thank you.
TiglathPILESER: Oh! and you think your choice matters much when it comes to this particular principle of the marital institution? We all have the ability to go with the breeze just as it blows, but many a time one has to squat to avoid been blown away. Go back to him, kill that desire and just in case your mind wanders I am not him. Shalom!
oops, i didnt know i should be subjected to being single just cos my first didnt work wow wow wow
anyways, thanks, your OPINION has been dully noted daddy
emerged01: That one na different thing o! Nagging pass nagging. When you partner pick on you all the time.....he never see anything you do right. Always complaining about every step you take. To go house self from work go Dey fear you.
Ingriid: Mr Samakus, be a man and stop dragging Dyt. I have been following this post, this lady has been d most civil person in this post. Just tell me what u will gain in dragging her? Why are u using her past experience which u know nothing about to judge her? Pls stop already! Dyt, if u can read me, u are doing well. I like u!
pippimp: It's complicated. Hi Dyt. The most important thing you have to bear in mind is the person you eventually marry will not be the same person in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years, etc. As human beings we want experiences and those experiences change us for the good or the bad. The ability to have and keep a healthy and happy marriage is the realization that changes in the character, physique and attitude of your spouse will occur and you have to adapt to these changes. When you get a job, have a baby, go to school while working, etc will put pressure on you and definitely alter the way you behave. You and your spouse must adapt to these changes. Another problem is this mindset, especially among women that because you are married your mission is accomplished. Girl, that is when the work really begins. Remember, there was a reason he married you and you married him. It is hard but both parties have to try on a daily basis to keep the illusion going. Not trying to do so is one of the main reasons people cheat. "Oh she's getting fat". "Can you imagine, he now has a pot belly", etc. Believe it or not, my wife literally looks the same way she did the day i met her more than 20 years ago. Yes i know it's hard to believe. It's didn't just happen by magic. As i am typing this, she is downstairs doing jumping jacks, sit ups, push ups, and whatever exercises in her regimen to keep her shape and keep looking sexy for me. This after 3 kids. She will put any 20 year old to shame with the way she looks. She's 44 but you'd think she was 24 by looking at her. On my part i'm lucky. My job requires me to be extremely fit and look good so i ain't got a choice. Lastly, finances. If both your finances are screwed up then both of you are screwed. It will not matter how sexy you are or how handsome he is. This is the reason both parties have to plan and make joint decisions in matters relating to their financial future. I had to learn this the hard way early on. Marriage ain't easy but if you can master these 3 core foundations of change, finances, and physical well being you'll always be ahead of the game. Always.
bethyz: Marriage is sweet when you marry someone you love. Not just on your side you guys just have a relationship friendship that keeps the thing going. You see him every morning and still attracted to him or her. You see him outside just coming from a far distance and within you you are proud this is my husband/wife
Marriage has its challenges but dont take things too seriously. Loosen up. Open your heart to love. Play tease each other . Be each others companion. Marry who you love. If you love chubby lady or man go for them. If you love fair guys go for them if you like them short good. Dont marry someone with others preference. Marry what you will look at for the rest of your life and still be happy you made the right decision. Even when they wrong you . You still want to stick around and make it work. You dont suddenly wake up and you feel irritated with there presence. When love is one sided its bad. That is what causes breakup. One person is fed up the other is trying to make it work at the end they work out. But if love is mutual . You just work it out together.
I dont no what eles keep marriage but 4 years counting still inlove with my spouse.
emerged01: My marriage will be 8years by December, though some of us find it easy while some of us regretted their decision. What I have found out about marriage is that if it works for you it works but if it doesn’t work don’t force it except you can withstand the heat. Not all marriage works because that some men and women that you can’t just live with no mater how you try. Even bible confirmed ; proverb 21 vs 9 —-Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife. It can be a husband too.
i always believed people nag because they want something
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