Samakus:


Just one harmless joke and your ego is already punctured to the point of seeking retribution?

Now we know where the problem was from

Mr Samakus, be a man and stop dragging Dyt. I have been following this post, this lady has been one of d most civil persons on this post and she makes a little joke out of everything.
Just tell me what u will gain by dragging her? Why are u using her past experience which u know nothing about to judge her? Pls stop already!
Dyt, if u can read me, u are doing well. I like u!

Righteousness89:
The Simplest way to a Successful Home/Marriage is not to Marry Just by Sight or feelings.
It is not Enough !

My Advice to anyone is to seek to Hear from GOD for Direction . It saves you from a Whole lot of Stress and Struggles.

I also advice people not to seek GOD with someone in Mind..

Seek For His Choice with an open heart..

Every Man /woman has a designed Perfect better half. But Many of us are either in a Rush or filled with obsessions and infatuations, so we don't hear or see GOD'S Choice..

Secondly, No Matter The Lecture or Marriage seminar you attend before Marriage, if you Don't Follow the GOD Prescribed Principle for Marriage, it will Be Struggle and stress all the way.

What is GOD'S Prescribed Principle for a Happy Home?
Ephesians 5:22-25
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

It's a 2 way thing for both the Man and The Woman...

If you look at the World, it is this principle the devil has used to Destroy and Shatter homes.

The devil Understands the Power and Strength in 2people coming together, so he attacks it with so Many names e.g. Feminist, Equal right, etc..

devil is a very smart guy and he devices various smart means that look good to the eye. All to ensure that Marriages do not Work.

Lastly , I do not Believe in Marry, Divorce/Sepration and Marry again..

I Believe that if it is comes to a point where you come to divorce, then you should Not Remarry Except at the death of your Spouse As that is what My Bible says..

Another Exception is a case where you are not the First Wife or Husband of the Person..

May GOD ALMIGHTY Help us to be Paitent Enough to Hear his Choice for us in JESUS NAME..

Is that the only grounds for divorce in the New Testament? What did Christ say about cheating spouse? Did he say we stay put?

pippimp:


It's complicated. Hi Dyt. The most important thing you have to bear in mind is the person you eventually marry will not be the same person in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years, etc. As human beings we want experiences and those experiences change us for the good or the bad. The ability to have and keep a healthy and happy marriage is the realization that changes in the character, physique and attitude of your spouse will occur and you have to adapt to these changes. When you get a job, have a baby, go to school while working, etc will put pressure on you and definitely alter the way you behave. You and your spouse must adapt to these changes. Another problem is this mindset, especially among women that because you are married your mission is accomplished. Girl, that is when the work really begins. Remember, there was a reason he married you and you married him. It is hard but both parties have to try on a daily basis to keep the illusion going. Not trying to do so is one of the main reasons people cheat. "Oh she's getting fat". "Can you imagine, he now has a pot belly", etc. Believe it or not, my wife literally looks the same way she did the day i met her more than 20 years ago. Yes i know it's hard to believe. It's didn't just happen by magic. As i am typing this, she is downstairs doing jumping jacks, sit ups, push ups, and whatever exercises in her regimen to keep her shape and keep looking sexy for me. This after 3 kids. She will put any 20 year old to shame with the way she looks. She's 44 but you'd think she was 24 by looking at her. On my part i'm lucky. My job requires me to be extremely fit and look good so i ain't got a choice. Lastly, finances. If both your finances are screwed up then both of you are screwed. It will not matter how sexy you are or how handsome he is. This is the reason both parties have to plan and make joint decisions in matters relating to their financial future. I had to learn this the hard way early on. Marriage ain't easy but if you can master these 3 core foundations of change, finances, and physical well being you'll always be ahead of the game. Always.

Apt
Detailed

I deduce your mistake about marriage. Marriage is divine. If you are with the wrong partner it will end up in the gutter. Marriage doesn't work by your own effort, your effort might look like a burden and stress to him. Until u meet your match forget it u are just two people living together

Better thing is to marry your friend..

Ingriid:

Mr Samakus, be a man and stop dragging Dyt. I have been following this post, this lady has been d most civil person in this post.
Just tell me what u will gain in dragging her? Why are u using her past experience which u know nothing about to judge her? Pls stop already!
Dyt, if u can read me, u are doing well. I like u!

come closer let me hug you

emerged01:

That one na different thing o! Nagging pass nagging. When you partner pick on you all the time.....he never see anything you do right. Always complaining about every step you take. To go house self from work go Dey fear you.

dunno why i am laughing

Nnaabros:

In class under this COVID situation? Where's that?

Nnaabros:

In class under this COVID situation? Where's that?

Dyt.....hmmmmm
Sure u re good.... Been a while sha

I use to think to myself, that if I am a guy, I will get bored of my wife quickly after few years of marriage, faithful men are really trying. It take a high level of self control to still be attracted to your wife after years of marriage.

egbaguy2:
Dyt.....hmmmmm
Sure u re good.... Been a while sha

HEYYYYYY

where you been?
you marry bone me abi

Dyt:
I for one been married before, it didnt work not because i couldnt try but (my choice anyway)

Oh! and you think your choice matters much when it comes to this particular principle of the marital institution? We all have the ability to go with the breeze just as it blows, but many a time one has to squat to avoid been blown away. Go back to him, kill that desire and just in case your mind wanders I am not him. Shalom!

Blackmiserable:


Is that the only grounds for divorce in the New Testament? What did Christ say about cheating spouse? Did he say we stay put?

The Coming of JESUS Christ has Abolished that

See Matthew 19:4-9

Whenever I see topics about marriage/relationship and realize that I don't even have a boyfriend than to talk of being in a serious relationship, it makes me feel sad but I still feel that my patience and prayers will pave way for me one day.
If you meet or end up with a good partner, there will be peace of mind and happiness within your self. it is better to be single than to be with or end up with a wrong partner.

TripleOh7:


Tommorow may be too late.

Too late for what?

To give your life to Christ

1deca:
To give your life to Christ

Cool.

TiglathPILESER:

Oh! and you think your choice matters much when it comes to this particular principle of the marital institution? We all have the ability to go with the breeze just as it blows, but many a time one has to squat to avoid been blown away. Go back to him, kill that desire and just in case your mind wanders I am not him. Shalom!

oops, i didnt know i should be subjected to being single just cos my first didnt work
wow
wow
wow

anyways, thanks, your OPINION has been dully noted daddy

Most of Nigerians don’t have ambition. It’s reflective in the economy. And the foundation is marriage. A woman/ man just wants to get married without any life plan, no vision for children. Marriage is a journey that leads to a destination. If you don’t have destination or set one out with your partner from the start, your marriage will be endured not enjoyed. You will agree with me that there are those journeys you enjoy and there are some you just can’t wait for it to end. Relationships with no clear goals don’t have any good stories. This is why it is important that one knows what one wants so one attracts another of value. Marriage is sweet. It is the sweetest institution on earth when you know where you are going and have the right partner with you. There will be distractions but just like every other endeavor, much focus is needed. Know where you are going and be with the partner going towards same

Marriage is so damn complicated

Dyt:


HEYYYYYY

where you been?
you marry bone me abi

Nah.....u did the boning though.
Good to see ur flash light again.

crackkhaus:
One would assume that being married before would have provided some kind of perspective and realistic expectations about what the next one will be like.

Or did the previous one last only two months?

hahahahaha

Dyt:


I really do wish every child has me as a teacher
Every man as a partner
Every mother as a daughter
Every brother as a sister

I am God's very own

Thanks for your kind words

. I appreciate you for your confidence and boldness. Of a truth, you must be an angel, you will not suffer in marriage and you will not regret being married for any reason, thank you.

Carchoice:
i don’t know why you people are making marriage sound like it’s a war zone. You married the wrong person no doubt. We all get to find out after marriage.

Here’s the truth of the matter, it’s either you married the wrong person or YOU ARE THE WRONG PERSON.

To a very large extent, this is true. How can people jump into marriage WITHOUT ASKING THE FOUNDER OF THE INSTITUTION what he wants you to do!

A man wakes up and boom he is getting married just because he is attracted to a big bom or boob! Trust me it would FAIL!

MEN HAVE REFUSED TO SEEK AND THEREFORE NOT FINDING.

Remember, if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do! Even the upright are prone to faulty foundations if care is not taken.

There is no much talk in this issue, God's way or no way!

God is the only MATCH MARKER, and he is perfect at it.

Sexual Sin should NEVER be the bed rock of any relationship because it's a destroyer of marriage destiny!

God is interested in marriages to work and God hates DIVORCE!

Dyt:


You are totoring me


I known there's more to being a narcissist but I just choose to be the lover of myself in my own self appreciation and not extending it to the full definition

However, you are loved right here *touches my heart**

Righteousness89:
The Simplest way to a Successful Home/Marriage is not to Marry Just by Sight or feelings.
It is not Enough !

My Advice to anyone is to seek to Hear from GOD for Direction . It saves you from a Whole lot of Stress and Struggles.

I also advice people not to seek GOD with someone in Mind..

Seek For His Choice with an open heart..

Every Man /woman has a designed Perfect better half. But Many of us are either in a Rush or filled with obsessions and infatuations, so we don't hear or see GOD'S Choice..

Secondly, No Matter The Lecture or Marriage seminar you attend before Marriage, if you Don't Follow the GOD Prescribed Principle for Marriage, it will Be Struggle and stress all the way.

What is GOD'S Prescribed Principle for a Happy Home?
Ephesians 5:22-25
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

It's a 2 way thing for both the Man and The Woman...

If you look at the World, it is this principle the devil has used to Destroy and Shatter homes.

The devil Understands the Power and Strength in 2people coming together, so he attacks it with so Many names e.g. Feminist, Equal right, etc..

devil is a very smart guy and he devices various smart means that look good to the eye. All to ensure that Marriages do not Work.

Lastly , I do not Believe in Marry, Divorce/Sepration and Marry again..

I Believe that if it is comes to a point where you come to divorce, then you should Not Remarry Except at the death of your Spouse As that is what My Bible says..

Another Exception is a case where you are not the First Wife or Husband of the Person..

May GOD ALMIGHTY Help us to be Paitent Enough to Hear his Choice for us in JESUS NAME..

God bless you so much!

The world has successfully redefined marriage and love..

God will help us.

Dyt:


come closer let me hug you

Oh girlie!
Just tell me how close..... like

Dyt:


and how come you didnt see it was a mere expression?

some of y'all think too much

it will be ok to say you should have an average evening

It's OK. I have no axe to grind. Just felt I should harmlessly troll for fun. Do enjoy your evening

.

Ingriid:

Mr Samakus, be a man and stop dragging Dyt. I have been following this post, this lady has been one of d most civil persons on this post and she makes a little joke out of everything.
Just tell me what u will gain by dragging her? Why are u using her past experience which u know nothing about to judge her? Pls stop already!
Dyt, if u can read me, u are doing well. I like u!

Alright. I have rediscovered my manly balls

Sleep well

egbaguy2:

Nah.....u did the boning though.
Good to see ur flash light again.

Na
lai lai

hit me up but i know you dont have my number no more