₦airaland Forum

Samakus:
You're that good and your first marriage still failed? Wow.

FGonline:
u just want to hear lies

Life itselv is not bird of roses

noble2faith:
Agreed but not at the detriment of your students. Or what do you think?

mkoabiola:
No precise forumular for marriage.

Marry our own ogbanje and move on

bigl:
Marriage can be both easy and hard!

It all depends on who you get married to and that is a super dupa big, if not, God factor sef!

Its like a boat! If both of u paddle your sides, the boat moves forward... if not, and 1 person paddles, the boat will go round in circles ... no progress niyen o!

So, your worst fear should be "getting married to a donkey" .... and if you are careful enough, u will end up with the right person.... one just have to be objective and not reason with emotions!

noble2faith:
Teach-chatting or teaching while chatting: whatever it is, it is unethical as a teacher to be chatting while on duty. It might make you lose focus on your students, as well as making the students not lose concentration.

Zimzy:
Marriage has put me inside a prison, a prison where some have escaped because they fund the keys to escape but in my own case I intentionally threw away the keys to a place I will never find it. The bottom line is I love to be in this prison, I love to remain here forever, my experience in it has made it the best home to me because my cell mate is the best. I love being married, I love my wife and I love my home.

UjuJoan2:
You've been married before, why do you even want to go there again? If my marriage ever ends, I'm NEVER getting hitched again. I'm staying single for life!

UjuJoan2:
I still feel so restricted, even though I've been married for going on 10yrs now. . . And my husband is one of the most liberal Nigerian husbands I know . . Yet I feel caged, and sometimes find myself wishing I was single and free . . . I wonder if that will ever end!

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liberalchick:
Dyt, it wasn’t my intention to be all doom and gloom lol, that’s not reflective of all marriages and mine. I was just trying to be as honest as I can. I would definitely not trade my family for the world.

Nnaabros:
OK. No need for the attitude.

Since you didn't clarify, be informed that you can't and shouldn't be in a 'class' with 'kids' at this critical time until further directive.

Hathor5:
I love this song crazy for various reasons.

I wanna soldier! I got a soldier!
Sexy song.
Let me dance for a few minutes.

I dedicate it to my lovely brother from the food family pippimp.

Hathor5:
Makes you vain, not narcissistic. It takes more to be narcissistic. I want to believe you are not narcissistic and if you are let me be a fool because I don't want to think negatively of you.

Hathor5:
You don't seem to be narcissistic. Narcissists are actually insecure and compensating.

sisisioge:
Fockless girl!


But really...really really... Nice.

crackkhaus:
You need some tickles sis
Particularly on the ass too

sisisioge:
Layelaye...

Really, be sure you two are on the same page first biko. That friendship almost guarantees peace and keeps other variables alive. We have a way of knowing these things if we really look. Sex, love, money, looks...aren't enough. Bobo that turns you to a fountain now by just looking at you may not even be able to flick your switch in 6months time if his wahala becomes too much

Also, consider a not too expensive Aso ebi o abi ke a Zoom attendance for we committee of well wishers

crackkhaus:
Seems you're the one lacking in the humour department going by your previous triggered response.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....definitely sounds scary and fun at the same time. If he's truly your friend, it would be more fun than scary. I know two people who got married as besties....they are still going strong now even though they've had their share of struggles.

Do it baby!

Ishilove:
Beans, fried egg, moi-moi and hot dogs?

crackkhaus:
If I add any more sense to the one I'm already blessed with, I might just run mad.

cococandy:
I corrected my post. It’s 6 going on 7
I don’t where I’m rushing to.

Keeping an open mind about the sex I guess

When I was younger I thought it would be a bad marriage if the husband and wife don’t have sex everyday. Cos you’re supposed to be attracted to each other all the time bla bla bla.

But you grow and learn each other. And you realize that if you’re both happy and content, whatever route you took to get there even if it doesn’t fit the ideal romance is a good one.

Plead:

cococandy:
Married for 6 years going on 7.

I must tell you that the timeline people prescribe for certain things is often not the same for everyone. So the peak of your romance may not be when you expect it. Your difficult times may not be a the very beginning. Etc

What surprised me most is the inevitable fights you’re told that you’re supposed to be having. That may never happen depending on your temperament. So you may find yourself having dull boring disagreements that you won’t even know when it’s over. But nothing explosive that requires hot make up s*x like the romance books describe .

crackkhaus:
One would assume that being married before would have provided some kind of perspective and realistic expectations about what the next one will be like.

Or did the last one last only two months?
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Plead:
God doesn’t exist.

Plead:
This religious fanatic won’t stop displaying his stupidity all over the forum.