₦airaland Forum

Esthered:
She's irresponsible because she left him and the children.
He'll be fine. If the new woman loves him like he assumes, let them get married asap as the COAST IS NOW CLEAR.

See,living abroad demands husband and wife cooperating together as a family..We down here don’t know the real reason behind all this but he said she’s”irresponsible” and that says a lot..Some women,once they abroad they start doing things that is not called for that’s why he chose to breakout..

This one na film oo…Use hand carry am go throwaway for dustbin..

descarado:
Why will you owe him?
That's wickedness.

You want to take matter legally while you are owing 12 months rent.
Landlords have suffered in Nigeria.

And you want to move out without paying.

Tomorrow, he will be shouting politicians this and that.

Why can’t he owe him?.You never owe person before?

If them check you well sef,you fit never chop better food since Sallah pass..

Esthered:
No where in the story was the wife said to be lazy and irresponsible.
He wanted to move on to another woman and pay child support right?
She should prove responsibility by staying back to pay child support in your opinion of responsibility.
Money is the core responsibility in raising a child based on yoir assertion, why then is the man complaining since he has money.

Read it well..Na me add lazy cause why leave abroad for Nigeria..He said she’s irresponsible..

Mariangeles:
She was "lazy", yet she was nurturing 5 kids? Okay.
Now, the man will test and know the real definition of laziness.

While the woman was out putting her life on hold, and raising his descendants, he was out there being ungrateful.

What life on hold?..He wanted a divorce and she ran away but if na woman do am now,una call am “Mother of Dragons”..Abroad no be Nigeria where you can just run out of marriage..That’s why child support is there to help her..How does running back to Nigeria not show she’s irresponsible and lazy?

If your BF wet for another girl,shey you go like am?

casualobserver:
i find this kind of talk nauseating especially coming from a man.

the role of a man is to procreate and provide. the role of a woman is to procreate and nurture. if a woman decides to have other "dreams" outside her role, it is for her to make it work without disturbing the balance in her home.

the children belong to both parents. stop this nonsense of your children. The reality is that in life the children benefit the mother more than the father. most men end up ignored later by the wife and children in life despite having children wherasmost women end up being looked after by their children so stop this emotional gaslighting of "your children".

You deserve a thick undiluted weed from the tropic of Jamaica for what you said..Why the woman go leave abroad come run down to Nigeria??..In a country where child support is mandatory!..

Esthered:
Alpha mails left the group chat.

His plan was to saddle her with the responsibility of caring for 5 children but she outsmarted him.

If he was hands on, he would have been able to manage but be overwhelmed. He was a PROVIDER as that's the sole duty in his marriage manual.

I hope it's fiction.

You can see the man was right about the laziness and irresponsible character of the woman cause why leave abroad for Nigeria?..In abroad the man must pay child support so you can see the woman is irresponsible..

Seems some of you can’t read”He didn’t leave her for Nigeria or planned not to send money”He just couldn’t bear the laziness of the woman.Now to confirm it,the woman left abroad and came to Nigeria,isn’t she lazy??..Why leave abroad and come to Nigeria!!

If you notice something odd with the countries compared to Nigeria,pls speak up..I know those Cornites will say something!😒

I done talk am say the girl boobs go enter people eye..Though it’s a good thing but if it comes with condition then na rubbish offer..

lowkeybahdguy:
Your papa dey whine.. You nor ask am whether davido papa nor be him mate? You too start to hiss and ask am why him nor make am like davido papa?

Gbamsolutely..

You too no sabi whine your papa too?..Take your phone and show am davido papa net worth make e believe..Parents should learn to stop the comparison debate..

gentlegiant95:
funny thing is most of the hookup babes are single mothers

Na “Most” you talk..

Her name sounds like Medicine for STD..I no fit talk too much.

Sirchiboy:
I have come to realise that training a female relative is a complete waste.
It is better to train or help a male relative than a female relative.
I am speaking from experience based on what I saw from first hand...

Its much better if you train a dog or goat cause you will see long term profit..

Ijaya123:
So why would you want to live above your means?

As we speak, some people are buying cars while some are building houses.

Different strokes for different folks.

So we all should eat gala and not jollof rice anymore cause eating that means you living above your means?..What a shame..

helinues:
President Tinubu has already advised Nigerians to live within their means. If you can't afford the running of a car, sell it off

Seyi Tinubu wears a wrist watch your generation can’t afford but you live by he’s fathers directive,shame on you..

Truvelisback:
It's your choice. However, it doesn't guarantee you a successful marriage. That's just the ugly truth. As for the husband, he may or may not do anything about it. A sensible husband won't judge based on what someone said about his wife.

Until then.

Truvelisback:
You don't get my point. I'm not against marrying a virgin. My point is that, if the virgin has lots of flaws in her character, the marriage would collapse. If you want a virgin, ensure that both of you are compactable for marriage in terms of character.

I will marry an ill mannered virgin as you say it..I watched a post where a guy called a woman”side H*e* and today the woman is married with 3kids,it happened years ago and what do you think will happen if the husband gets to see it??

Olumaeme:
If virginity dosent guarantee successful marriage na community project come guarantee?

No mind the Nkapi..

What is with you guys and virgins eh??..Virgin is the deal..You can go for the universal bore holes that’s your problem and not mine..The problem with most marriages today is not about virgin or not.its because most of you people don’t even know your wife before going for marriage..You date a girl for 6months and in marriage you can’t even last a year and you complaining..

Her:Why don’t you trust me?
I’ll never cheat on you.
Me:😒

bixton:
While we are saying it's not a boxer and putting up pictures to validate the claims.

Please just take a look at the lady standing by the side of the man.
What will you say if s Pastors wife dresses like that and goes to the gym and posts it online....

I'm guessing such is a good gymn outfit to wear ?

One squirrel here still condem the wife dressing saying V-shape was showing..Some people here are fossils and should be left in the museum.

Bigchris01:
Benin curse can pain for body the Ozwor part got me rolling on the floor 😂😂😂

No mind the guys wey Dey talk anyhow..He for wear kaftan go gym na..

Lord of Cho Cho Cho..The mouth too run pass khanji dam..