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Tnx all, you guys have helped me so much.

Please any help?

You're simply confusing love with attraction. Attraction can happen at first sight, but love develops with time.

Once you find yourself enjoying the company of another person more than your spouse, you may not have cheated, but it's very likely you're going to cheat. Cheating starts from the mind. If someone can manipulate your mind enough to make you enjoy him/her more than your spouse, it will also be easy for him/her to make you do what you wouldn't do normally.

OP, please search for Scott Hahn, and read about his journey of conversion to the Catholic Church.
http://www.google.com.ng/url?q=http://www.catholiceducation.org/en/religion-and-philosophy/apologetics/the-scott-hahn-conversion-story.html&sa=U&ved=0ahUKEwiY6K6_vPHKAhXnKJoKHSZDBLQQFggLMAA&usg=AFQjCNGoEbsJydbrZ8j_FoW-W7CoxsltPg

Mariner007:
Also,

Catholics believe that Mary is a mediator right? As per she intercedes for you? I believe this is one of your many;

THE VIRGIN MARY AS CO-REDEMPTRIX, MEDIATRIX AND ADVOCATE.

You believe she was the mother of God, right?
You believe she resurrected, as per taken up soul and body into heaven?

I just have to prove to you that Mary is and will never be an advocate or a mediator.

When she actually denied the virgin birth in Luke 2

46 And it came to pass, that after three days they found him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the doctors, both hearing them, and asking them questions.

47 And all that heard him were astonished at his understanding and answers.

48 And when they saw him, they were amazed: and his mother said unto him, Son, why hast thou thus dealt with us? behold, thy father and I have sought thee sorrowing.

Now saying that Jesus Christ was the son of Joseph. SMH!

Tell me how can your mediator or advocate deny the Word? When she clearly knew that the child she was bearing was of the Holy Spirit.

Jesus Christ put her right in her place in the next verse:

49 And he said unto them, How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father's business?


How many fathers does Jesus have now? If I go by your trinitarian belief and what your advocate says, hmm He has 3 fathers. i.e God, Holy Spirit and Joseph.

Mary was the very first advocate, because without her, Jesus would not have performed His first miracle the time He did it, the only woman to have changed God's time? Woman,don't you know my time has not yet come" yet He asked the servants to fill their jars to the brim.

Mariner007:
As I said earlier, explain your water baptism and trinity.

Cause according to the bible which you claim to have written or compiled, your doctrines are not supported. Explain why the book which you have written or compiled does not support your doctrines.

Start with the most common. Trinity and your water baptism.

To make it easy, show me one person. just one person that was baptized based on the "trinitarian" doctrine, then I'll keep quiet.

Thank you.

Jesus Himself was baptized based in trinitarian doctrine. As He was being baptized in the river Jordan, the Holy Spirit came down on His Head in the form of a dove, and the voice of the Father was heard from above "This is My Son, in whom I am well pleased".

Murtala Mohammed

Chijiokeogu@gmail.com

You're quoting the Scriptures out of context. You can only deceive the gullible.

I believe it depends on the way you carry yourself. I have not really experienced such, if not the normal experiences other guys have. So check yourself.

Bros, that's a very risky thing to do. No even try am, so as not to end up in a psychiatric home because of heart break.

MosakuAW:
You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

In short, I want to adopt this guy as my brother

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

So you really think class is all about how rich you are, there are so many rich ladies and rich men out there without class. Grow up.

ipledge10:
how do u spot rich ladies on NL?

Not really that, but most times you see ladies here right things like, "if I'm rich or from a rich family, there's a standard I'm already used to, so I can't go below that standard".

4 and 7 have been proven to be true over time, even here on NL.

Music
Massage
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Husband materials are not getting scarce at all, just that the girls are focusing on ATM materials. Husband materials are not getting scarce at all, just that the girls are focusing on ATM materials.

E plenty o, My pointed nose, sexy eyes, height, sexy voice, sense of humour , aura etc .

Bull sh*t, an auto accident that killed 105 soldiers? Not even a survivor? Please try another lie.

For the people calling these protesters jobless, you're simply justifying their protest, because these number of people being jobless is enough reason for protest.

modele2:
I find it very baffling the way people have reacted to this brain washing. The chief cause of the followership is simple HUNGER, POVERTY and JOBLESSNESS, because i something has to mask the obvious. I could be wrong; I once asked a member of IPOB the following questions, he had no answer, he just kept saying ' we would see, you people should watch' , that was over 5 months ago. Here are the questions, open to whoever has answers

1. Are the other niger delta states a party to this, or is it by force?
2. Have you realised that the igbos are the most travelled and enterprenual, they have businesses all over Nigeria, have they tot of how this move would affect the numerous hardworking igbos not based in the South East?
3. In which of the SEast states have they seen growth of any kind, hiniting at the kind of growth they would experience when independent. With respect to resource sharing, has that little one yeilded fruit of any kind? Aba is a case study, that place is pure poo. Have our past govenors been people from the North or West, abi are they still our Igbo people? Whats on their score card.
4. Have Igbos been ever known to be united?Even between igbo tribes and clans there is still seggregation, squables , fight, what is the assurance that if there is a Biafra teh nkanu man would not fight for supremacy against the Ogbia man or the Ikwere man..My people this can never solve the problem. An Enugu man thinks an Anambra man is always cheating him....we have different scenarios of discention even among the tribes.
5. From experience when you speak igbo in a market to an igbo trader, they would still cheat you, no nwanne for anything, is this the same with the other tribes?

Nigerians should not be decieved by an insultive fellow seeking for cheap popularity, hiding out in UK, with a foreign wife and British passport fermenting trouble. There is no law in any land where the offence he has committed is not treason or punishable by law. Why have we turned to the jews that are crying out for Barrabas.

I dont know about others, but the scars of the civil war are still fresh. I lost dear family in that war and i wish my dear people would look for an alternative to their hunger and fustration. Biafra would not solve this problem. Lets see what is happening in Syria, Central african republic, Sudan....I wish us peace above all else.

Are all these things not happening in Nigeria presently?

Invaluable information, wish I knew this 3 yrs before now.

Every one here claims to have a great job and all that while statistics says most Nigerians are jobless, is it that these people here are not Nigerians or that they are "Lie" Mohammed's relations?

Please what do you really mean when you say a guy is broke? Because being broke might mean one thing to you and mean another to someone else.

ireneony:
i'm not here to advertise, am only here to voice what's on my mind..
the most painful thing is they usually come as a very good friend

That's it, being "very good" to a girl is the beginning of getting friend-zoned.

eleko1:
If U truly love dis girl,u both need to sit down nd have heart to heart talk.If she fail to change her wayward lifestyle of 'GBANJO NI TEMI,kick her outa.

you must be one helluva patient guy

The one wey de vex me pass be say, them the celebrate birthday each time a new guy approaches them.

The one wey de vex me pass be say, them the celebrate birthday each time a new guy approaches them.

Aminat508:
Most women really don't care whether you have money or not. That may seem shocking, but it's true.


What women do care about is HOW YOU MAKE US FEEL.

You need to be able to give us an EXPERIENCE. You can do this with money - but sometimes it works even better to do it without money . not only sex matter abegi

there is more to the equation than cash YES

Show us love, care, nd be contented.

Mae West once said, "A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him." A man with "fire" gives women good experiences that they remember. And those experiences do NOT have to cost a lot of money

Doesn't work with Nigerian women. you have to understand that what the guys are saying here is not just some theory but what they've experienced in real life.

Etetejake:
If u want to know what women really want go and read ANIMAL FARM BY GEORGE ORWELL. I won't be surprised to see some women being treated as inferior by other women when they finally overthrow us.

It's already happening.

Nice one, I rarely ask women out also