MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

Genea:
Am getting irritated wit all dese advice me trash,can't ppl think 4 demselves must u come and broadcast ur life issues as though u won't still go along wit ur mynd....nawa o

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You ARe not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Diddyydiva:
You led the yahoo guy on, a guy can not just propose without a hint of acceptance. So you don't come Here and give me half story okay



Your boyfriend sends you money meaning ' My lady tho I can't be with you to take you out, buy you gifts, give you all you want, I hope you will be able to do that with this little I send to you' . You are surely on his mind.



My only advice to you op is: Its best to be hurt than you hurting someone.

Not all that glitters is gold

Differentiate infatuation from love.

Edusouls:
no be ur fellow woman? Her conscience is disturbing her..leave all these stories.she is cheating on her main boyfriend in switzerland...

nairaland is full of kids, indeed. who would gulp down this poorly-articulated make-believe story if not the feeble-minded? the op too is fake. i suspect vickybee or missclassy hiding behind the moniker, the two idiots known for seeking attention with pseudo female monikers. thesonofmark, you've not been observing?

AprokoMan:


nairaland is full of kids, indeed. who would gulp down this poorly-articulated make-believe story if not the feeble-minded? the op too is fake. i suspect vickybee or missclassy hiding behind the moniker, the two idiots known for seeking attention with pseudo female monikers. theson.ofmark, you've not been observing

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

UnknownT:
You are dealing with two scammers right now, one is into yahoo scam, the other is into marriage scam. So dump the two

TheSonOfMark:


I've not been as active as I used to be. Then again, you (all the anti-impostors' crew) should also help in checkmating these nuisances.

_Daretodiffer already tracked Hadez to a male impostor. Check her post history from last night.

Genea:
i dnt like writing d correct english when writing informa5

Decker:
Guys will never learn. Stop proposing to women in public. Propose to them in private, when the two of you are alone. Then would you know if she is completely honest about accepting your proposal.
When you propose to women in public, they may say "yes" just to save you and themselves from embarrassment, not that they really want to. And then you will be putting them in a tight situation. Be wise! Please!

MosakuAW:


Just because it works for Miss A does not means it will work for Miss B. I can also tell you the best student in my faculty in the year 2003 when i graduated never had a boyfriend not to talk of relationship.

Did you read her story atall. So we should advice her to go ahead and date a Yahoo guy while parents send her to school to study. Maybe you met your husband while in school does not mean every other people will be so lucky as you. Just go back and read her story and come back to post a comment.

bolex04:
olosho were...park well joor

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.