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 Romance › What To Do When Marriage Becomes Boring by easyboss1(op): 10:39am On Oct 03, 2017 |
A marriage is said to be healthy when there is room for growth. On the other hand, when a marriage is not growing, it becomes boring. In other words, it dies gradually unless immediate actions are taken for its revival and restoration. This situation is inevitable where married couples are not making deliberate efforts to spice up and work on their relationships so as to bring the very best out of it. The fact remains that marriage involves a lot of activities. For some couples, such activities may be narrowed to a few areas of their relationship like talking about children, work, kitchen, but to mention a few. Also, some actually relate to matters that touch their hearts and emotions deeply. Severally, I have been confronted with this question: What should I do when marriage becomes boring? If you are in this situation, here are things married couples can do either together or individually to bring their relationship back to life: 1. Take stock of the present state You need to know areas in your relationship that are unhealthy and gone down. There should be a critical review of things and situations in your marriage. This should be done with all sincerity without blaming each other for the present state of things. 2. Take responsibility Playing the blame game will not resolve issues. You should be ready to take responsibility for what has gone wrong and be ready to take positive actions in the right direction for the betterment of your relationship. 3. Take positive steps Having critically reviewed the state of your relationship and making yourself ready to re-ignite the spark, you need to take positive actions in the right direction. Such actions and steps involve the following: (a) Identify the monotonous routine: Your daily routine such as meals and mealtime might have become monotonous. There is a need to pay special attention to what has impaired your excitement and boxed you to a situation of no creativity (b) Discuss observations with your spouse: Call the attention of your spouse to your observations. Please do not argue or defend yourself. Have a possible and open mind towards the discussions. Do not get angry if your spouse does not align with you, be patient. (c) Be ready to spice up things: Marriage needs to be spiced up with many activities beyond the daily routine. Introduce special delicacies and strategic outings to celebrate special dates like birthdays, wedding anniversary, etc. (d) Embrace new activities: Lookout for special places and activities that will improve bonding between you and your spouse. It may be old activities you have abandoned such as those you enjoyed while courting your spouse before getting married, etc. Learn new things of great value for the good of your relationship. (e) Work on your friendship: Revive the friendship between you and your spouse. Bring back your ‘gisting’ skills; Bring up good points of discussion; Enjoy being together; Enjoy your bedroom activities; Become a pleasant person; Forgive generously and erase hurtful memories; Be happy with your spouse and marriage. (f) Acquire new skills: Lack of relationship skills is harmful and can ruin such relationship. Every couple must develop certain skill like communication skill, relational skill, financial management skill, parenting skill, conflict management, romance skill etc, these skills will boost the relationship and help build a robust marriage and family life (g) Go for counsel: There are instances, where couples need a counsellor, who is ordained by God, who is grounded in the knowledge of marriage and who will not be biased. He or she will be able to encourage you and help put things straight in making your family beautiful, colourful, joyful and fruitful (h) Commit everything into God’s hand: God is the author of marriage. To get the best out of your relationship, He must be informed and involved. You need Him at every junction of your marriage because without Him, you can’t go far. In fact, you need God to complement your individual or joint effort. https://dailyfamily.ng/what-to-do-when-marriage-becomes-boring/ |
| Romance › 15 Things Men Only Do If They Are Being One Hundred Percent Faithful by easyboss1(op): 9:55am On Sep 29, 2017 |
here are things that faithful men have in common. These 15 things these men who know how to love and respect a woman have in common will make it clear that you are with someone who knows how to keep your promise to always be faithful. But if you are with a man who has these characteristics, the more likely you are with someone who will always be faithful to you: 1. Fulfill Your Promises Your man keeps his word in all areas of his life. You know that when he promises to do something with you or with your family, friends or work, he will do everything he can to keep up with what he has promised. 2. He is kind to his friends, but keeps a distance and treats them with respect Statistics show that at least half of the infidelities occur between the partner and one of our friends. 3. Do not hide things from you There are no secrets between you, he knows he can tell you everything. 4. Know that there are things that are dangerous for the couple and DO NOT do them He is the kind of man who can tell when a situation can be dangerous (like a business trip with a woman or a trip without you being together), tries to avoid them and does not act like it’s nothing. 5. Do not have contact with your ex-girlfriends He is not one who justifies keeping in touch with his ex-girlfriend, on the contrary, he is the one who decided to cut off all this kind of communication. 6. Being the love of your life is as important as being your best friend. Understand the difference between the two relationships and know that being friends is one of the best bases in a love relationship. 7. He imposes limits on his co-workers That you are in his life is not a secret to anyone. It makes them respect and imposes limits to make sure there will be no misunderstandings (statistics say that 60% of extramarital affairs begin with co-workers). 8. He feels that you are grateful for what he does for you. 90% of infidels say they have begun to feel more disconnected from their partners because of their lack of gratitude for what they did. So one of the most important things you can do for your man is to show him gratitude and value what he does for you. 9. Is not a narcissist Men who love themselves more than anyone or anything in the world are more likely to fall into infidelity and do so by their own ego and need to conquer more than anything else. 10. Have intimacy with you in a healthy way for both of you and the relationship He does not use pornography, he knows the importance of both feeling connected both physically and emotionally. According to statistics, 52% of couples experiencing infidelity did not feel sexually satisfied. 11. Do not depend on compliments to be happy He’s not the kind of man who needs to be constantly listening to how good, beautiful and loved he is. https://dailyfamily.ng/15-things-men-one-hundred-percent-faithful/ 1 Like |
| Romance › 5 Signs Your Spouse Will Never Abandon You by easyboss1(op): 12:58pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
Many people are wrong to choose their spouses because they do not pay attention to some of the signs that may appear during dating. People usually make two big mistakes in dating. The first is not asking about past partner relationships. Many avoid talking about the past for fear of knowing what they do not want or for fear of creating a bad climate in the current relationship. And the second mistake is to ignore the pattern of partner behaviour. Others refuse to recognize behaviors that in the future will cause discord in the relationship. They believe things will change as soon as they get married. There is no way to predict if a relationship will last, but if both are willing to make the relationship work, the odds of a divorce are much lower. We would give you 5 signs of someone who will possibly never leave your spouse: 1. He can deal with stress The person who knows how to deal with stress in the right way will know how to unite with the spouse to resolve the situation. They understand the meaning of commitment, loyalty, and teamwork. People who do not know how to deal with stress and complicated situations can blame each other and or move away. 2. He has the same interests and values It’s much easier to get along with someone who cares about the same things. Couples who have little in common get bored and are more likely to fight. The couple should also have common life goals. There are cases where the couple will rarely reach an agreement, such as a spouse who does not want children and the other who wants. 3. He has empathy The spouse who has empathy cares about the other’s feelings and would not want to see her partner sad. 4. He knows how to communicate It sounds like something simple, but lack of communication in marriage can cause great fights and even divorce. The spouse who knows how to express himself will know how to communicate his feelings in a healthy way, instead of avoiding talking and keeping hurts. It’s hard to know what’s going on in the other’s head. Many people choose to hide their feelings to avoid fights or for some other reason, but this is very harmful to the relationship. 5. He wants to be close to the spouse, physically and emotionally He likes physical contact and enjoys spending time with his wife. Physical contact is very important for the couple’s connection. Couples cannot feel alone. https://dailyfamily.ng/5-signs-your-spouse-will-never-abandon-you/ |
| Romance › 6 Little Lies That Every Wife Says To Her Husband by easyboss1(op): 10:59am On Sep 27, 2017 |
The coexistence of years between husband and wife makes them both know each other very well, after all, they have gone through many situations together. Still, sometimes women use little lies to please their husbands and make the relationship even better.https://dailyfamily.ng/6-little-lies-that-every-wife-says-to-her-husband/ |
| Romance › 5 Approaches Some Men Take That Are Annoying by easyboss1(op): 11:41am On Sep 26, 2017 |
5 Approaches Some Men Take That Are Annoying Love is the most powerful feeling, it is related to friendship, respect and fellowship. Love has the ability to connect two people of different characteristics to all eternity, but this will only happen if both accept the differences and respect the imperfections of the other. Love is true and noble, which is why it should not be begged or forced, for love unites the spouses even in days of tribulations and hassles. Love is powerful to heal, improve, and raise a family. These are 5 approaches that some men use and that real women hate. 1. Gagging all the time Most women are mysterious and adore this, so men, do not keep bragging, it’s best to let it happen. Let women discover for themselves what is best in you. If it’s worth it, they will not let you escape. 2. Weak sings Men who use weak and outdated songs make women want to distance themselves from them. It takes wisdom when it comes to approaching a woman, sometimes the man will have more chance to praise her beauty, because woman likes to be praised, and not approached with sings like, “Cat, you are the lid of my kettle” Or “If green is like this, imagine mature.” 3. Forcing a woman to like him True women can not be forced to like a man, they have to be attracted, and only then can they be conquered. When they have no attraction, no use, they will not. Be a smart and patient man, strive to respect the woman you both crave. At first, you may not even get her love, but you can win something of great value, her friendship. It is known by many that friendships over the years can turn into great love stories. 4. Try to win over money A man who usually conquers women for money tends to pay more for what he has bought. “If a woman sells, she is probably worth less than what she paid for it.” And the same is true of man, both for what he pays and for what he sells. 5. Machismo A real woman hates being approached by macho men who do not respect them and who tries in the first encounter to impose their machismo and the fear in her. Women like to be respected, they also like to be listened to and cared for. These women do not expect a perfect man, but a true man with potential. |
| Romance › 4 Ways Ladies Can Keep Their Men by easyboss1(op): 9:51am On Sep 26, 2017 |
In recent times, some ladies have found it hard to keep a man and thus, resigned to the fate that relationships can never work out for them especially after trying severally and failing. What might be the reason for this problem? The very first step in resolving this is to look inwards; looking into a few details of your past failed relationships and finding what exactly went wrong must be done. You may be surprised that you may have a part in the relationship problems. For you to move ahead into a lasting relationship that may lead to marriage; here are some questions you need to ask yourself and practical steps to take: 1. What type of man are you attracted to? Before you agree to embark on a relationship, you need to ask yourself this question: what did you see in him that made you interested? If you are attracted to a man because he is tall, handsome, eloquent, intelligent, spiritual, generous but to mention a few, it may go a long way in determining how long you will stay with him. However, my advice is that you should look beyond the physical qualities the man possesses. you want a lasting relationship that may lead to marriage, try not to get attracted to a man because of what you can see alone. Take a close look for a while and note the inward traits that will be revealed with time. 2. What are your limits? Before you go into a relationship with a man, have you noticed anything about him that annoys you easily? Can you condone such things? Give time for friendship to develop. In the course of the friendship, you will find out some traits about him such as his temperament, the way he eats, how he relates to others but to mention a few. Time will tell definitely and would aid you in deciding whether to start a relationship with him or not. 3. How long can you wait to see changes in a man? Relationships involve two imperfect people, and this is why you also need to look inwards at yourself. Are you a dreamland lady who wants everything to be a fairytale or that type that wishes to grow in a man with potentials?. The truth is you can never find any perfect man anywhere in the world. Wake up! Men are not angels, they are humans too. So, if you want to stay in a relationship, allow your man to grow and also assist him to be the best. 4. What are those traits you see in a man that you will never let go? Every woman has something she sees in her man which she will never let go. Find that thing out first before you agree to go into a relationship. When you know these things, you will be in the best position to confidently decide on whether to proceed or not. https://dailyfamily.ng/4-ways-ladies-can-keep-their-men/ |
| Romance › 8 Things Men Hate About Women by easyboss1(op): 10:49am On Sep 25, 2017 |
There are always small details in a relationship that can put everything down. Just as women do not support some male attitudes, there are also things men hate about women that can ruin a relationship . We did a survey and today we brought a list of 8 things men hate about women. Before we start, we find it interesting to note that this does not work for 100% of men. They may be alike, but of course they are not identical, so keep in mind that these can not be taken as absolute truths. 1. When they like to discuss the relationship all the time Most men do not like to expose or talk about their feelings. Thus, they tend to shy away from women who like to discuss the relationship all the time. If you are looking for a long- lasting relationship,then work on it for it. 2. When they like to play “second mother” Mother is a mother and no one will ever occupy the same position as them. Do not want to play the second mother of your boyfriend or husband. 3. When they pursue you all the time Calling to see if everything is okay is an acceptable attitude. Calling every 10 minutes just to say a simple hello can go beyond the limits that men see as “acceptable.” 4. When they ban the spies If you have an attitude that practically all men hate in women, it is when they ban the spies and start flipping drawers, cabinets, backpacks and purses for secrets or even things that only exist in their heads. A healthy relationship needs to have confidence as a basis. If you demonstrate that you do not trust him, you will open up for him to feel the same. 5. When they do not put their hand in their pocket It seems unbelievable, but in the middle of the 21st century, there are still women looking for men who pay all their bills and bank all their luxuries. Modern men do not like that kind of attitude – and if it were otherwise, I guarantee you would not either. Splitting the bills is a way of showing your independence and letting any relationship lighter. 6. When they take advantage and treat men as slaves Fortunately, the society has been evolving – albeit in the footsteps of an ant. Just as you do not want to be the housewife, wash and iron all your clothes, cook every day, look after your children and clean the house, it’s not fair to insist that your boyfriend or husband perform all the task at home. Agree for someone to come and fix up the broken or damaged pipes in the home, or fix the shower, change the fuse, fix the bed or even change the vehicle tires. Be independent and know if you if it’s your turn to do something. Do not require him to know how to fry an egg if you do not even know how to change a light bulb. 7. When they complain about everything A person who complains about everything is boring – be it woman or man. Males tend to be less patient than females. If there is something that men hate about women, it is when they complain about everything. 8. When they compare to ex-boyfriends In the first place, if you live by bringing to the present who was part of your past, you may not be so well resolved. Secondly, if you keep saying “my ex did that,” “I always came in this restaurant with my ex” or “my ex never yelled at me like that,” then my dear you are practically asking for your relationship to end. To understand why this is an attitude that men hate in women, it is only a question of reversing roles. If he kept talking about his ex-girlfriends all the time, you would have a fit of nerves and have him “pick up a little coke on his way out.” Do not do that. https://dailyfamily.ng/8-things-men-hate-women/ |
| Romance › 5 Quickest Ways To Kill Your Relationship by easyboss1(op): 3:02pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
The majority of us have experienced the moment when we realize a relationship is in rapid decline. Although such a slide often ends in a breakup, it doesn’t have to. In all likelihood, there’s some behavior undermining the relationship’s foundation of love and friendship—and if you can identify it, you can save the relationship. Here are 5 of the most common relationship killers, as well as quick remedies to heal the hurt: 1. Blame and shame. Aside from all-out abusive behavior, blaming and shaming may be the fastest way to kill your connection. Both behaviors communicate contempt for your partner, displaying that you view him or her as beneath you or deserving of scorn. 5 Quickest Ways to Kill Your Relationship This point of view has toxic effects not only on the person receiving blame but on the person doing the blaming as well. Quick Remedy: Start every disagreement or conflict with the presumption that the problem is not caused by a character flaw in your partner. This will help both of you deal with the problem at hand without hurling personal insults at each other. 5 Quickest Ways to Kill Your Relationship 2. Kill the fun. This behavior, while damaging to a relationship, often sneaks up on couples unawares. A husband will wake up one day, look at his wife and think, “When was the last time we just had fun together?” Deep in the trenches of an ongoing fight, a wife will turn to her husband and say, “Can’t we ever just have fun?” Once all the joy and lightheartedness is gone from the relationship, it becomes a struggle just to stay together. Quick Remedy: Identify one thing the two of you used to enjoy doing together. You don’t necessarily have to resurrect that exact activity today (or you may not be able to), but the memory of that joy can inject hope for future fun into the relationship. 5 Quickest Ways to Kill Your Relationship 3. Use breaking up as a bargaining chip. When you threaten to break up with someone (or divorce them) during everyday conflicts, your partner will develop the impression that the relationship doesn’t matter very much to you. These threats don’t work very well for getting what you want; worse, they imply that you don’t value the relationship—an implication often far more damaging than the source of the current conflict itself. Quick Remedy: Simply put, use something other than the relationship as your leverage. Instead of threatening, “If you go to Vegas with your friends, I’ll break up with you,” try, “If you go to Vegas with your friends, I’ll be worried the whole time.” Not only is the second statement probably more honest, it opens the door for you both to addressing the deeper issue at hand. 4. Conjure the ghosts of exes. Everyone knows that talking about exes is a minefield. If you remember them with too much fondness, your current partner may become jealous or insecure. If you speak of them with too much disdain, your partner may wonder if you have anger issues. Past relationships are an intractable part of your life story, but if you constantly conjure the ghost of an ex, your current relationship will start to feel haunted. Quick Remedy: Communicate what you liked (or disliked) about an ex-behavior without mentioning the ex himself (or herself). For example, instead of saying, “My ex always cleaned up after himself,” try, “It would mean a lot to me if you cleaned up after yourself.” 5. Keep one foot out the door. This is the stealthiest relationship killer on this list. A relationship could be going well, by all accounts, but it somehow feels…off. It feels shaky. You wouldn’t be totally surprised if your partner broke up with you tomorrow; alternately, the idea of ending the relationship yourself sounds plausible. These are the symptoms of keeping one foot out the door. This relationship killer is not a bullet, like blame and shame; it’s a poison. 5 Quickest Ways to Kill Your Relationship Quick Remedy: Be more transparent in your thoughts and actions. There’s no need to commit yourself body and soul to every relationship you enter into, but relationships become painful when you never know what’s going on. Ask questions—and reveal your own honest answers. If you feel your relationship is suffering from one of these killers, give it a healthy dose of behavior change. It may recover quite nicely. https://dailyfamily.ng/5-quickest-ways-kill-relationship/ |
| Family › Top 5 Reasons Why Couples Fight After Having Children. Take Care Not To Happen T by easyboss1(op): 9:39am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Fights happen in the best marriages, and they are usually for the same reasons. And as the family grows, so do the motives for discussion! When the couple have just had children, they are still adapting to the roles of father and mother, and therefore disagreements may arise. As time goes by and children grow older, conflicts tend to decline and couple activities can begin to be resumed. So, anticipate these problems and see what are the main reasons for fights between couples with children: 1. The distribution of tasks Many men believe that it is only the woman’s obligation to take care of her children, and this creates many conflicts. Even before the baby is born, it is important for the two to talk about it and make it clear that the division of tasks is important not only for the organization of the home, but also a demonstration of love and dedication for the family. 2. Lack of sex After children are born, there is not much time left and no provision when parents are alone. Even so, it is necessary to make that extra effort so that the couple is not distant, and to understand that before being fathers and mothers the two are still a couple of boyfriends. 3. Personal life in imbalance If only one partner can go to the movies, football or have time for their personal care the other may feel at a disadvantage. It is important that the two of you have at least one hour of the week to do something you like, like a sport, go to the beauty salon etc. 4. Financial Planning The lack of financial organization undermines even any relationship. Hiding partner spending is even considered a kind of betrayal. To avoid this kind of problem, communicate and always plan expenses. There is a simple rule that a couple I know uses very effectively: Purchases over $ 20 advise the partner about the expense, whatever it is. So you will not have surprises and good spending control. 5. External interference Often family members do their utmost to help the couple with the arrival of their children. However, this interference can also lead to conflicts in the way of education and parenting. For example, the question of when to start introducing food, giving candy or not etc. A good tip is to have your own well-defined rules at home and at grandparents’ homes, for example, being more flexible. You may have noticed that the misunderstandings are inevitable. But what will make the difference in the relationship is how the couple can communicate and resolve these discussions, and this will set an example for their children. https://dailyfamily.ng/top-5-reasons-why-couples-fight-after-having-children-take-care-not-to-happen-to-you/
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| Romance › One Thing Every Husband Must Do Regularly by easyboss1(op): 11:50am On Sep 11, 2017 |
“All your males are to appear before the Lord.” Exodus 34:23 NAS GOD SAID, “Three times a year all your males are to appear before the Lord…For I will drive out nations before you…enlarge your borders, and no man shall covet your land” (vv. 23-24 NAS). Three times a year the men of Israel were to go on a spiritual retreat and seek God’s guidance. And God promised to protect their families and their possessions while they were gone, and even to “enlarge [their] borders.” So if you’re a husband who wants God to protect your family and bless your endeavours, you must take the time to submit your thoughts, actions, and decisions to His leadership. You’ll never function successfully as the head of your family until you’re under the headship of Christ. The best thing you can do in leading your home and building a great marriage is to ask the question, “What is the mind of Christ in this matter?” (See 1 Corinthians 2:16). And then follow it. Once you’ve done that, you’ll have your wife’s full attention and cooperation. Why? Because she’s no longer arguing with you and your opinions. Now you’ve brought Christ and His Word into the equation. It may take time for your wife to trust your leadership and respect your thinking, but as she sees you walk with God and practice His principles, she’ll come to trust you and feel secure. When a woman says to her husband, “I need you to hold me,” she’s not necessarily talking about physical intimacy. She’s talking about her God-given need for security. She needs a husband she can love and trust. And God can make you such a husband. PRAYER FOCUS: Father Lord please give all husbands the urgency in their spirit to seek your face on all issues affecting their lives, marriage and endeavours in Jesus name Soul Food Reading : Luke 17: 20-37, Ps 94-96. Courtesy Grace So Amazing Foundation https://dailyfamily.ng/one-thing-every-husband-must-do-regularly/
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| Food › How To Make Banana And Apple Puree For Your Baby After Breastfeeding by easyboss1(op): 8:08am On Sep 11, 2017 |
When you stop feeding your baby with breast milk, getting used to processed foods might be a challenge for some of them. However, homemade puree can be introduced to babies to supply the necessary supplements and nutrients. Banana and Apple Puree Homemade purees are good as you can determine the content, Banana in this puree gives it the right thickness. Ingredients for Banana and Apple Puree 2 pcs apple 1 pc banana 20 cl apple juice How to make Banana and Apple Puree Peel the apple and remove the core inside. Chop the peeled apples and pour into a sauce pan or a pressure pot afterward. Cook over medium heat with 5-6 spoons of water. Cook for the next 8 minutes or until it is tender enough. Apart from water, you can also use the apple juice if you are using green apples to ensure the apple taste. For pink or red apples, water would do just fine. Remove from the apples from the pot and pour in a blender with the ripe bananas or you can make use of a food processor. Don’t pour away the water cooked with the apples. Blend until you get your desired texture. If the texture is still thick, you can add the water from the apples. Feed your baby warm. https://dailyfamily.ng/how-to-make-banana-and-apple-puree-for-your-baby-after-breastfeeding/
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| Romance › See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(a Must Read For Couples) by easyboss1(op): 7:05am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Sex has been linked to the reduction in mens’ homocysteine levels, a harmful chemical found in the blood which can trigger life-threatening cardiac problems. See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples)Enjoying regular sex can help reduce the risk of developing heart disease – but the news isn’t so great for women. Research found having sex several times a week can slash levels of homocysteine in men, whereas women benefit far less from regular romps. The harmful chemical is found in the blood and can trigger potentially life-threatening cardiac problems.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For It’s thought men getting regular sex often have better circulation and healthier blood vessels. This is crucial for preventing a build-up of homocysteine. But scientists say women benefit much less because sexual arousal is less dependent on having a healthy blood flow, which is a key factor in keeping homocysteine under control. See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples) Every year, around 73,000 people in Britain die from coronary heart disease. It remains the country’s biggest killer. Doctors have suspected for years that frequent sex can reduce the risks. One previous study found intercourse twice a week halved a man’s chances of clogged arteries.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples) But excess levels, which can be caused by poor diet, are thought to damage blood vessels supplying the heart – raising the risk of a deadly clot forming. A major review of scientific data in 2015 found raised homocysteine levels increased the risk of death from heart disease by 66 per cent. And last year experts at Boston University discovered the chances of a stroke jumped by almost a third in those with high readings. It has also been linked with Alzheimer’s disease and cancer. Researchers from the National Defence Medical Centre in Taiwan tracked more than 2,000 men and women, aged from 20 to 59. They analysed blood samples to measure levels of homocysteine and matched the results up with volunteers’ sexual activity.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples) The results showed the lowest traces of the chemical were found in men claiming to have sex at least twice a week, while the highest readings were found in those restricted to less than once a month. But in women there was no significant variation. Researchers called on doctors to advise male patients at risk of heart disease to have more sex. In a report on their findings they said: “This is the first study of its kind to evaluate the correlation between sexual frequency and homocysteine levels. “A good quality sex life, frequent sex and libido are all related to health in the middle-aged and elderly. “Increased sexual frequency could have a protective effect on general health and quality of life – especially in men – so doctors should support patients’ sexual activity.” Dr Mike Knapton from the British Heart Foundation said the study produced an ‘interesting result’ but did not prove regular sex reduced homocysteine levels. He said: “A relationship does exist between sex and heart disease risk. “Checking your blood pressure and cholesterol, as well as keeping active and not smoking, remain the best ways to ensure a healthy future.”I have to love the people trying to look like hard men and more idiotic scientific claptrap. Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out. Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter. I have to love the people trying to look like hard men and more idiotic scientific claptrap. Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out. Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter. Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out. Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter. You can also join dailyfamily forum for my question at www.forum.dailyfamily.ng https://dailyfamily.ng/see-regular-sex-will-men-womena-must-read-couple/ 1 Share
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| Travel › Good Samaritan: Man Involved In Accident, Returns N114,000 Found On Deceased Pas by easyboss1(op): 4:22pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
A father of two identified as Folorunsho Olatilu resident in Akowonjo Lagos has returned a sum of N114, 000 found on a deceased co-passenger he boarded a bus with from Akure, en route Lagos, to the elder brother. According to Olatilu in a chat with DAILYFAMILY on Thursday, the survivor of an accident that occurred on August 6, said the driver of the bus he boarded collided with an oncoming trailer that was in the wrong lane, leading to a massive somersaulting of their bus which eventually landed in the bush. Olatilu recount. “Anyway, all I will say is that our driver wasn’t speeding. We were on our on our lane, but there was a traffic jam on the other lane, so a trailer suddenly took one way. What our driver noticed before the accident was that the driver of the trailer was sleeping on the wheels. “Luckily our driver tried to swerve and from then, all I was able to notice was that our bus began somersaulting. Our bus somersaulted three times. After the bus somersaulted, I noticed there were a lot of dead bodies already. I also noticed people that had fractured their hand and legs; and before I could record some videos as evidence, those seriously injured were already rushed down to the hospital.” “So after I got home I posted the photos on Facebook, not for any other thing. I am not mocking those who lost their lives but I was only thanking God that I am alive, that I am inside the bus and no injury or internal bleeding was sustained. I posted my testimony on Facebook for people to thank God for me”. According to DAILYFAMILY’s chat with Olatilu, he said he deepened his hand into a deceased man’s pocket to get his phone which he used to reach his relative, telling them, discreetly that the deceased was only injured in an accident and rushed to the nearest hospital. Olatilu further said he didn’t just wait there. He further went to another corpse, a female passenger, to retrieve her phone and call her relative just as he did to the previous corpse. “I checked inside her bag, I picked out her phone, I saw some money inside her bag as well. The last dialled on the deceased woman was ‘Tonia’. And the Tonia in asked in Yoruba, ‘aunty’ where have you gotten to? Thinking it was the deceased that called”. In response again, Olatilu recounted the same story just as he said to the relative of the deceased man and also informed her about the money in the deceased woman’s bag, asking if he should hand the money to the driver, since there wasn’t any law enforcement agent around, not even road safety. Olatilu reported that the relative (lady) wanted him to hold the money with him. But later when he put a call through to the same relative on Monday afternoon, the senior brother to the deceased woman picked the phone. On Tuesday morning, the senior brother to the deceased identified as Mr Odusola Omoyeni forwarded his account number where Olatilu transferred the money. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/good-samaritan-man-involved-accident-returns-n114000-found-deceased-passenger/
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| Travel › Lagos/abeokuta Expressway: The Bad The Worse, The Ugly by easyboss1(op): 2:44pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
The bad state of the Lagos/Abeokuta expressway has posed more threat to lives, businesses and economy than doing them any good. In an exclusive report on the state of the road on Saturday Dailyfamily show to you, the stress families are facing on a daily basis. One of the dividends of democracy is to enjoy some basic social amenities and infrastructural provisions and in the event where a ruling government is not meeting up to the provision of the needed infrastructural need as promised in election manifestoes or as enshrined in the Constitution, then there may be the need to ask questions. The dilapidated state of the Lagos/Abeokuta Expressway has been of a major concern to families, workers and business owners commuting the road on a daily basis. The fact that it is a link road connecting two states in the southwestern region of the country is a good reason why it should be considered a major project. But as at the time of this report, it is in a wrecked state which now calls for an urgent intervention of the federal government. According to the United nation’s Millennium development goals, the environment must be sustainable and aid the commuting of human goods and services hence the stressed need to ensure this road is fixed. The bad state of this Federal government road is gradually getting worse as the days unfold. Although a look at a recent appearance before the Senate, of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the honourable Minister for Power, Works and Housing, Mr Babatunde Fashola said the Lagos, Ota- Abeokuta Expressway will be considered for dualization. But then, extending beyond the second quarter of the year, this promises seems to be a long and awaited one. The increasing menace the road is causing and the huge economic returns been loosed to the bad state of the road has even caused concerns for traders commuters and transporters. In this exclusive report with DailyFamily a transporter plying the Ifo area of Ogun state to Iyana Ipaja axis of Lagos state that the resulting effect of the bad road has been more of a loss to them than gain. In his word he said. “The bad state of the road has reduced the number of trips we go per day. Instead of going three trips per day, some of us have reduced it to two. He further stated that the bad state of the Sango Otta road caused some people to get to their final destination at 12 midnight last Friday and it shouldn’t be like that”. Further stating how important the road is to his survival the transporter who pleaded anonymity said; “This road is our source of livelihood, and when the road is bad, there will be an increase in transport fare”. He also added that; “The bad state of the road is a threat to pregnant women as the potholes affect the well-being of their pregnant state”. In another chat with a vegetable trader who identified herself as Mrs Adegbola, she said the traffic congestion is too much. and it affects customers from getting to patronize them on time while some eventually wouldn’t show up at all due to the unbearable stress encountered on the road. She further stated that hold-up at Iyana Ilogbo and Owode side of the road is just too much up to the extent that walking becomes difficult and at times to cross to the other side of the road likewise becomes an issue” “It affects customers from getting to patronize us on time while some eventually wouldn’t show up at all due to the unbearable stress encountered on the road. She further stated that hold-up at Iyana Ilogbo and Owode side of the road is just too much up to the extent that walking becomes difficult and at times to cross to the other side of the road likewise becomes an issue”. Another trader, Mrs Oluwaseunfunmi stated that while the road was in its good form there were many sales but whenever rain falls, sales automatically drops. They further called on the federal government to come to their aid as the pressure on the present state of the road is gradually killing businesses. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/lagosabeokuta-expressway-the-bad-the-worse-the-ugly/
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| Family › Should A Woman Be The Breadwinner Of The Family? by easyboss1(op): 1:00pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
Traditionally, the man, as head of the family, is expected to lead, provide for and protect his family. This has been his God-given role since creation. But with the passing of time, especially in this jet age where farming is no longer the main source of income for many families, women are gradually taking over, contributing financially in the home. Without any doubt, most homes in Nigeria have the wives earning more, and most cases they are even the breadwinners. They are not only educated, many have risen very high in their work places and businesses, earning big incomes. As a result, some husbands have become insecure, unnecessarily aggressive and even abusive. Also, some wives have become arrogant, irresponsible and very domineering. Many couples who did not manage this situation well have either divorced or separated. Couples have got to learn to see the positive side of the situation. No big deal if a woman earns more than the husband. The big deal is when the man is doing nothing at all to support his family. The wife should not be out there all day working to cater for the family and then gets back home to prepare food, clean the house, check the children’s books, etc. Meanwhile, the husband has been home all day, probably watching television and sleeping. That is injustice. Every husband should avoid becoming a houseboy in his own house. There are too many houseboy-husbands these days. That you lost your job does not mean you should surrender and give up on life. When a man falls, he gets up, dusts himself, figures out what made him to fall, learns not to fall that way again and moves on. If one door closes, recreate yourself and move on to other doors. Granted, the economic situation in Nigeria is very unhelpful in men’s efforts to be breadwinners, but there should be no retreat or surrender. Some husbands like the comfort zone provided by their wives too much and make no effort to be economically productive. If you are that type, you should accept any shit thrown at you. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/woman-breadwinner-family/?utm_source=ReviveOldPost&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=ReviveOldPost 1 Like
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| Food › Benefits Of Drinking Celery Juice by easyboss1(op): 9:40am On Aug 10, 2017 |
Celery is from the same family with parsley and fennel, the Umbelliferae family. It can grow to the height of up to 16 inches. The white celery is grown shaded from direct sunlight, thus has less chlorophyll, compared to its greener counterparts. The ribs of celery are crunchy and are often used to make soup or salad. It has a salty taste, so celery juice is a good mix with the sweeter fruit juices. Depending on the variety, some may taste very salty. Celery leaves have high content of vitamin A, whilst the stems are an excellent source of vitamins B1, B2, B6 and C with rich supplies of potassium, folate, calcium, magnesium, iron, phosphorus, sodium and plenty essential amino acids. Nutrients in the fibre are released during juicing, aiding bowel movements. The natural organic sodium (salt) in celery is very safe for consumption, in fact is essential for the body. Even individuals who are salt-sensitive can safely take the sodium in celery, unlike table salt (iodised sodium) which is harmful for those with high blood pressure. While many foods lose nutrients during cooking, most of the compounds in celery hold up well during cooking. Read through to see some of it’s benefits, * Restores pH balance to your blood. It’s very alkaline which is important to optimal health. * Great for the gut because it balances stomach acid. It restores the balance of hydrochloric acid in the body which is important for gut health. As we age, hydrochloric acid in the stomach is reduced, making it more difficult for the body to absorb nutrients. * It’s a diuretic, which makes it really good for cleansing the system and for weight loss. It also helps with de-puffing throughout the body, especially reducing under eye bags. * Celery contains folate. Folate, one of the B vitamins, helps your body break down, produce and use proteins. A lack of folate in your system can lead to peptic and mouth ulcers, gray hair, diarrhea and possibly anemia. A single serving of raw celery juice contains 145 micrograms of folate. This is over 36 percent of the acceptable intake for men and women, and 29 percent of the acceptable intake for pregnant and breast-feeding women. * Lowers blood pressure.Studies have shown that celery seed extracts have anti-hypertensive properties. Celery Studies have shown that celery seed extracts have anti-hypertensive properties. Celery contains a phytochemical that relaxes the tissues of the artery walls. This causes increased blood flow and may lower blood pressure. * Prevents calcification. Fresh celery juice is also useful in averting calcification inside our gall bladder, urinary bladder and kidneys. As it can remove waste as well as toxic materials from these organs, the stones present within these get broken down and eliminated easily. * It lowers cholesterol. Celery juice is an excellent natural remedy for lowering the cholesterol levels in our body. It contains a chemical compound named 3-n- butylphthalide that has positive effects on reducing the bad cholesterol (low-density lipoprotein) in our bloodstream. It also boosts the secretion of bile or steroid acids which is helpful in lowering cholesterol too. The juice extracted only from 2 stalks of celery can decrease our cholesterol levels up to 7 points. * Over all hair care. It has been already mentioned that celery juice comprises high amount of water and vitamin A. Both are great for our hair. Water keeps our scalp hydrated and cures dandruff, while vitamin A provides nourishment to the roots of hair strands and makes them healthy. Celery juice is also known to stimulate the growth of our hair and improve its texture. Hence, if you want lush and beautiful hair, consider daily intake of celery juice. * Treats Insomnia. Sleep disorder or insomnia can also be treated effectively with celery juice. The magnesium as well as essential oil content of the juice imposes a soothing effect on our nerves and. As a result, we can relax and enjoy a sound sleep. Finally, Celery juice is great first thing in the morning, says Stern, because it gets your body started right by rehydrating and loading up with nutrients and antioxidants all at the same time. Unlike dark leafy greens, which are really trendy right now, celery juice isn’t so harsh on digestion. You can drink a lot of it without any negative side effects. You could have a celery juice every morning if you choose. How to make your own celery juice. Get 2 to 3 fresh stalks of celery, a juicer or a blender, and a sharp knife Clean the celery and remove any leaves. Press the stalks through the juicer. Drink the juice fresh. You can use a blender if you don’t have a juicer. Once you have blended the celery stalks into a puree, you can use a cheese cloth or strainer to filter out the pulp. You can add a few ice cubes or drink it closer to room temperature. Juice is usually best consumed fresh, but you can store some for later. Cover it tightly and keep it in the refrigerator for up to two days. Try using different herbs and spices to add zest to your drink if you want to liven it up a bit. Some people recommend drinking celery juice on its own, but you can also experiment with adding different fruits and vegetables, such as cucumber, mint, or lime. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/benefits-drinking-celery-juice/ 3 Likes
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| Sports › You Can’t Make Everyone Happy – Neymar Tells Barca Fans by easyboss1(op): 7:07pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
The press conference starts with a presentation on the screens behind the stage as Neymar enters from the back of the room to plenty of applause. After completing his world record signing from Barcelona to PSG, he looks dapper in a suit as he takes his seat at the press conference in Paris Neymar says: “I’m very, very happy. Thank you for those kind words Mr President and for this new challenge. I’m happy to come to PSG which is a great club and a wonderful city. “I can’t describe what I’m feeling in my heart right now. I’m looking forward to starting practice with my team-mates, playing games and achieving my objectives.” “To be honest, it [having Brazilian friends at PSG] wouldn’t have changed my approach. I have friends here. I arrived here because the global environment is positive. “It wasn’t an easy decision. I had to think about what I wanted to do with my life. A lot of people wanted me to talk about what I wanted to do but it was complicated… I wasn’t 100% sure what I wanted to do. People wanted me to do the impossible and communicate but as soon as I was sure on my decision and I was 100% sure that I wanted to sign here, I started communicating. “I’m very happy. I followed my heart and of course, I ask my heart every day and it told me to say yes to PSG.” To Barcelona Fans, he said: http://www.dailyfamily.ng/you-cant-make-everyone-happy-neymar-tells-barca-fans/
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| Romance › How To Avoid A Dangerous Lover by easyboss1(op): 6:37am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Written by: Bisi Adewale “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.” Proverbs 13:20 KJV “Keep company with the wise and you will become wise. If you make friends with stupid people, you will be ruined.” Proverbs 13:20 GNB — A dangerous lover is somebody whose relationship with you will truncate your destiny, jeopardize your future and pull down the four pillars of your life. — A dangerous lover is anybody that claims to love you with all his or her heart but your relationship with him will not profit your relationship with God your health, your marriage and your purpose. TO AVOID DANGEROUS LOVER DO THE FOLLOWING: 1) KNOW THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” Song of Solomon 8:7 KJV — love can be romantic or authentic — Love is not sex, sex is not love — Love is not just a feeling Love is an unconditional emotion from the heart mixed with kindness and compassion, which makes you be ready to serve the other party and make the sacrifice even when it is not convenient. 2) KNOW DANGEROUS LOVERS 1) Parasitic lover: Lazy, not ready to work but to live on you and suck YOUTO your bones. 2) Kill and go lover: Just interested in sex, sleep with you and dump you for another catch. 3) Bazaars lovers: — ready to shower gifts on you. — gives you what you need and do not need just to take you to bed, sleep with you dump you and hurt your heart deeply. 4) Wounded lover: Was just jilted by ex-lover. — wounded and need healing, — may not even trust opposite sex. — want somebody besides them to prove a point and spite their ex. — looking for opposite sex to deal with to revenge the way they where treated. 5) Nicodemus lover: — Does not like to be seeing with you. — Does not want you to tell your friends, parents, pastos, mentors about his relationship with you 6) Pendulum lover: Unpredictable, blows hot and cold in love. You can’t predict his or her mood, unreliable, inconsistent, undependable — Fights you for no reason — Keep malice and is unforgiven — cut off the relationship several times only to beg you to start again. 7) Master lover: Commander in Chief of family forces, dictator. He or she wants to be totally in charge of your life  Suffocating lover: Possessive, jealous.— Will not allow you to talk to anybody — Want to know where you are at every time — Always accusing you on unfaithfulness. 3) MEET THE REAL LOVER AND STAY WITH HIM. “Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.” Isaiah 49:16 KJV — JESUS IS THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL — JESUS IS THE ONLY LOVER THAT CAN NOT DISAPPOINT —- JESUS IS THE TRUE LOVE THAT CAN LEAD YOU TO GENUINE LOVER http://www.dailyfamily.ng/how-to-avoid-a-dangerous-lover/
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| Romance › Re: 5 Things You Must Never Say When Proposing To A Lady by easyboss1(m): 10:20am On Jul 26, 2017 |
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| Education › How To Keep Your Children Safe During This Holiday by easyboss1(op): 10:17am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Most students are presently in a period of a long break for from their schools and this may make some children vulnerable and at risk of dangers like rape, kidnapping, fire disasters and so many other evils as parents are busy with their work. Parents on their own are worried and anxious on how to keep their children safe. Worry no more as there are ways to keep them safe, Here are ways to achieve it: – Take a leave from work or business: if you can afford it, plan for one of the parents to take a leave off work so as to keep a close watch on the children and to ensure their safety. It is dangerous to leave the children at home all by themselves through the whole day especially if they are still young. – Keep children with Someone You Can Trust: if it is not possible for either of the parents to take a leave, take your children to spend the holiday with someone close that can take good care of them. Even though they are few, search hard to find.These people include your parents, family friends and so on. One thing you must do is to check on these children regularly and also ask them questions about how they are doing. – Keep All dangerous objects away: children are inquisitive and may want to check out whatever seems to be new. Even if you are around, you may not be able to monitor every move of the children so, it is advisable to keep whatever that is dangerous away from the reach of your children. – Get the children busy: there are a lot of new things your children can learn during the period of the long vacation. Apart from their studies, they can go and learn how to make new things like bags, toys, playing musical instruments and so on. When the children are busy, the risk of being involved in the wrong things is very low. You should also enroll them in a summer school. – Ask questions: Most parents do not ask questions, they just assume that all is well with their children. it is important to ask your children certain questions so as to know what may be going on with them that you may not know. Ask questions like who they relate with lately and what they discuss. When you do this, it is possible you get information about whoever may be a threat to them. – Restrict their night movements: if your children are teenagers or not, you must make sure that they stop going out at night as this is very dangerous. Kidnappers, ritualists may be going around at this period and they may fall victim. – Make sure they don’t walk alone: it is often said that two are better than one, this also applies to your children. If you have more than one child that is matured enough to go out, never allow them to go out on their own at this period but they should move at least in twos for safety. All parents must not forget that the safety of their children is their primary duty which they must take seriously. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/keep-children-safe-holiday/
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| Romance › Why Singles Run From Premarital Counseling by easyboss1(op): 7:50am On Jul 25, 2017 |
It is not a new thing to hear that singles run from attending premarital counseling class but the thing of concern is why? They prefer to run from it rather than learn from the strategies that have worked for people over the years. Premarital counseling is an integral part of marriage and must not be taken for granted by any individual that wants to be successful in marriage. It is very important to attend premarital counseling class in order to build a great marriage, maintain love and keep the fire of romance burning in your marriage. Listed below are some of the reasons some singles usually hate attending premarital class They are Ignorant of the benefits of the class, though it is a general saying that ignorance is not an excuse and can never be an excuse when others are daily seeking to increase in knowledge. But, it is a sad thing that in this age and time, some singles still prefer to be ignorant without seeking information that can help them succeed. Some Singles see it as a religious thing, it must be clearly known that premarital counseling is not about any religion but an avenue to learn from people that have gone ahead and are having a blissful marriage. You tend to benefit from their wealth of knowledge. Some believe few Seminars they have attended here and there can be exchanged for premarital counseling class. They are two different things, even married people attend seminars to keep learning and building their home. So, marriage seminars and premarital counseling class are not the same. While the above reasons are why some singles don’t attend premarital class, some also don’t attend because they feel they know it all and so don’t need to attend. Whatever the case may be, as a single intending to be married, you will be doing yourself a lot of good by attending premarital class and in most cases it is free. So, you are not paying a dime. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/why-singles-run-from-premarital-counseling/
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| Romance › Domestic Violence: Why Women Are Not Speaking Out by easyboss1(op): 12:57pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
With the high rate of domestic violence world wide, it is amazing why women are still keep quiet and not speaking out when their husbands are beating or abusing them Statistics shows that domestic violence Is increasing worldwide even among the learned and educated ones. Every minute police in the UK receive a domestic assistance call – yet only 35% of domestic violence incidents are reported to the police (Stanko, 2000 & Home Office, 2002) The 2001/02 British Crime Survey (BCS) found that there were an estimated 635,000 incidents of domestic violence in England and Wales. 81% of the victims were women and 19% were men. Domestic violence incidents also made up nearly 22% of all violent incidents reported by participants in the BCS (Home Office, July 2002) It is so surprising how long may women are keeping quiet before they speak out if they speak out at all. On average, a woman is assaulted 35 times before her first call #1THINKING THE MAN WILL CHANGE: Some women keep their mouth shut with the hope that their husband will change. The truth is except you speak out he may never change, Men that beat their wives may never change without outside help, so you need to speak out to the right people now. #2 THINKING THEY CAUSE IT: Whole lots of women are been made to believe they cause the abuse, so they have to suffer for what they cause, hence they hardly report abuse #3 NO GOVERNMENT PROTECTION: In Africa, Government hardly protect their women from abuse, in some cases reporting an abuse to police is just wasting your time as they will not take any step against the abuser, so these women will keep quiet since the Government is not on their side #4 NOT KNOWING WHO TO TALK TO: Most women do not even know who to talk to that will believe them. Their husbands are complete gentlemen in the society, telling people who they are behind the close doors is out of the calculation #5 FEAR OF ANNOYING THE MAN THE MORE: Some women do fear that speaking out may annoy the man the more, according to them “to keep the peace you have to keep your mouth shut” #6 FEAR OF LOSING THEIR HOMES: Fear of losing their homes is another reason women hardly talk no matter what they encounter at home Fear of losing their homes is another reason women hardly talk no matter what they encounter at home #7 FEAR OF MORE BEATING: Most wives will not speak out because the husband has warned them never to speak out to anybody or risk more beating. #8 FUNNY LOVE I notice a trend recently, some women who are been beating for any reason are not speaking out because they claim to love their husbands and they don’t want to put him into trouble. This is very funny but true. #9 FEAR OF LOSING THEIR CHILDREN: Many women endure been abused because they fear losing their children if they escalate the issue and it ends in divorce. In Africa where Men takes custody of a child without the woman having right to them, women are always careful to report abuse to keep their right to their Children Also read this: 9 Things You Need To Know If You Want To Marry An Ekiti Man #10 FEAR OF WHAT SOCIETY WILL SAY: I grew up in an environment where women battering is seeing as women fault, Men that beat their wives are seeing as a disciplinarian, somebody in charge of his home and hero. With this in mind, every woman been battered in this environment will never speak out. A “respected” pastor boasted to me recently how he discipline his wife and beat her up in the public “for misbehaving”. I was so shocked to see all members of his Church hailing him on women inclusive. Women in that kind of society will find it difficult to speak out. I think our value should change we should stop treating our wives like goats #11 FEAR OF LOSING HER SOURCE OF INCOME. Lack of financial empowerment and personal source of income is one of the reasons a woman may not speak out when been abuse. It is one of the reasons a man abusing his wife may not allow her to work, so that she may not be empowered to speak out. #12 FEAR OF WHERE TO GO IF SHE IS SENT OUT: Lots of women in Africa are not empowered financial, hence, they can’t get a decent accommodation for themselves without the help of their husbands. Women in this kind of situation will never speak out no matter the level of violence #13 LACK OF PROTECTION FROM THE SOCIETY: In the environment where I grew up, wife battering is not seen as anything strange, they believe it is normal and women are always been blamed for been too stubborn and difficult, whole a Man is hail as a Champion. Women in this kind of environment hardly speak out as speaking out will not yield any result. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/domestic-violence-women-not-speaking/
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| Romance › 5 Things Every Man Wants From Their Wives by easyboss1(op): 8:07am On Jul 18, 2017*. Modified: 8:38am On Jul 18, 2017 |
If marriage must be full of love ,joy ,harmony and romance,a wife must know what her husband love and give it to him without coercion. Not knowing what a man really wants will make the marriage difficult. This piece is to expose to wives what their men really love: 1.Respect-Ranked number one among all the needs of husbands is respect! Respect is to man as what oxygen is to the body. Men wants respect especially from their wives and they can do anything to get it. He wants to be treated with respect in conversation, while serving his food, before his friends, family and before the children. You have not respect him until he feel respected. When you respect him, he will love you irrevocably and you will be able to influence him. 2. Homeliness-Every husband want their wife to be homely.They want to come back daily to meet their wives at home.Its odious to them when their wives travels or engage in a job or business that take them away from their husband and children. This is one of the major reason some men prefer their wives to be a full-time house wife. As a wife,be homely and your husband will be loving and caring. 3. Praise-‘’ As the refining pot for silver, and the furnace for gold; so is a man to his praise’’.Prov.27:21 .Men love to be hero-worshiped.His ego can only be massaged through quality praise and appreciation. You will get a soft spot in his heart if you can appreciate his gifts,talents,achievements,contributions ,gifts given to you,his look and stature.This will make him feel happy and love you the more. 4. Touching-Men enjoying touching and non-sexual touching of their wives.Whenever a man comes around his wife after a long absence,his desire is to feel his heartthrob through touch.But most times,wives normally avoid this making thinking that the man is not just looking for touch but sex. Let touching be in two ways-as your husband his touching your hair,backside,boobs;touch him too.This will increase the level of intimacy in your marriage. 5. Sex-All wives should know that men love sex and they can’t do without it. One major duty of every wife is to satisfy her husband sexually.You can’t win and keep your husband to yourself only if you hate sex.Sexual denial will expose your husband to sexual infidelity. A man with unfulfilled libido is liable to strange women’s trap.Give sex to your husband willingly and he will love you passionately. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/5-things-every-man-wants-wives/
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| Romance › 13 Ways To Correct Your Wife Without Hurting Her Feelings by easyboss1(op): 11:43am On Jul 17, 2017 |
By Bisi Adewale Most Men do hurt their Wives in the name of correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so rash in their approach and can be very brutal. Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the careless ways their husbands have been talking to them over time. Here you will be able to know the right ways to talk to your wife without hurting her: 1) LOWER YOUR VOICE: Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid, she is not a Child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting? 2) DO IT IN LOVE: Correcting should be done in love if done in any other way it turns to criticism and condemnation 3) DON’T CRITICIZE: Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it’s constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes. Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes. Correction and criticism are never the same. Husband A says: what manner of food is this? is this popcorn or fried Rice? how I wish I marry a more sensible wife, with better home training, who can cook better Husband B says: Sweetheart this rice is too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health. Husband A criticized, Husband B, corrected his wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife. 4) PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT: It will be wrong to correct when it’s not well done when you don’t praise when it’s well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds. 5) DON’T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN: Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your Children. Incessant correction of your wife before your Children will make them disrespect her. 6) DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC: Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her self-esteem. 7) AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER: Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don’t do that. DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN: In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women. “Don’t you see what your friend is doing?”“Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?” “I think you should borrow a leaf from deaconess so and so” This is very wrong, no woman love to be compared with others, stop it. 9) AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES: Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled, stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on. 10) DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD: And you call yourself a woman? Virtuous women don’t behave like this, you better change before I change you. This is very wrong, don’t do it. 11) DON’T ATTACK HER DIGNITY: You don’t behave like someone with sense, do you think at all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it. This is very wrong, you too, you are not talking like somebody that pass through a college. 12) DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE: Most husbands do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result. 13) GIVE A HELPING HAND: The best way to correct is to lead by example, step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in the front of the Television correcting what goes on in the kitchen. Wives are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support her to be a better wife and mother. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/13-ways-correct-wife-without-hurting-feelings/
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| Business › 9 Ways Couples Can Survive Recession by easyboss1(op): 9:32am On Jul 13, 2017 |
By Yomi Adewale Recession is hitting hard on so many couples these days, some husbands and wives who are not given to anger by nature have suddenly developed attitude of being angry, resentful, touchy and reactionary over financial obligations and issues, many are working but it seems the income can’t swallow up the expenses, some have even lost their jobs in the recent times left with only their partner working and the spouse that is working is feeling the financial pressure. Where the couples are both working, there are still complaints of hike in prices of many family necessities and other financial pressures here and there. Here below are ways through which couples could navigate through recession unhurt and still be comfortable (1) Transparency There should be a candid discussion between husband and wife at this time to put on the table their regular income, this will become open to both parties, it would help their demands on family income and curtail them on many unnecessary expenses. If the family will progress, It is not advisable to keep mum about each other’s income. (2) Planning and budgeting Couples must plan and budget their income every month, there should be an allocation for each category of family expense based on past experience and consideration of certain factors, this will shape the family and put every member of the family into the right perspective. Couples need not be accountants before they could draw up simple projection model to run with and must be accountable yo each other. (3) Working smartly To be engaged in certain work is not enough, but one must work smart. Both husbands and wife must be gainfully and smartly engaged in legitimate works that can bring money for the family. No room for laziness and complacency, none of the party involved in marriage should have excuse for not working, in recent times, I have seen adults in marriage complaining of work hazard, insults from superior, stress etc as reasons for not working, there must be maturity, discipline and wisdom to overcome whatever challenge comes with your profession. (4) Cost reduction This is not the period to buy anything from anybody anyhow, you must learn shopping principles, which market pays better, where to buy quality things at good prices, you need a list of items to buy when shopping, learning bargaining and quality testing principles. From all angles, reduce your cost, whether recurrent or capital cost, ensure you are top of the game. (5) Cut down wastage Avoid wasting resources, throwing an unnecessary party, gathering and feeding people who are not hungry, learn to monitor whatever you are cooking to avoiding wasting your gas and food from getting burnt, teach every member of your household to learn this principle. Your dispenser should be monitored, your freezer and the quantity of food your cook. (6) Bulk purchase system This act of buying things in bulk as against piecemeal purchase, when you adopt this principle, you save some fund in the process, your budget will highlight the quality and quantity of things needed at home, so from the projection model you could confirm the size of items needed within a month so you could buy such items in bulk, stock your house and freezer, you need to avoid environmental purchase. (7) Multiple streams of income from legitimate sources Honestly, we need to look beyond fixed monthly salary if every couple wants to live comfortably and be able to accomplish some goals like completing house project and the likes of it. There are a number of businesses that either husband or wife could do legitimately to increase family income. ( Differentiate want, need and luxuryThere is a need for couples to train themselves in focusing necessities that family need rather than being engrossed in their want and luxury. Couples may desire and wish to have certain things based on their feelings and circumstances may be to impress or oppress certain people, this is tagged want while Luxury is accumulation of material things leading to sumptuous living or enjoyment of comforts and pleasures beyond those things necessary for a reasonable standard of well-being (9) Moderation: Couples should embrace moderation in their spending so that they can have some left over for savings and investment, in achieving this, the following should be considered: – Taste: Couples should checkmate their taste for high materials things and pleasure beyond their income and level, for now, they need to defer gratification when they are not due for it – Expenses: Couples should be mindful of their daily, weekly and monthly expenses, never incur expense because everybody is buying it at your office – Living below your means: The total cost should be far way below income, never form the habit of eating up all your income both the one meant for now and the future Also read this: Tragedy hits family as final year student stabbed to death – Avoid debt: Buying on credit will affect your future plans and budget, more so you tend to pay more for time value of money, think well before such steps – Faithfulness: When you receive your income, your faithfulness will preserve the achievement from that income, being faithful in the payment of your tithe to God, being faithful to your spouse by not humanising or engaging in night crawling, not spending on frivolities that have no return on investment, be wise. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-ways-couples-can-survive-recession/
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| Celebrities › 69 Things To Know About Pastor (mrs.) Folu Adeboye As She Clocks 69 by easyboss1(op): 9:26am On Jul 13, 2017 |
Pastor Mrs. Folu Adenike Adeboye, mother-in-Israel of the Redeemed Christian Church of God is a woman of God with Excellence. As she celebrates her 69th birthday today, here are 69 things to know about her. 1. She was born on July 13, 1948. 2. Her Father is Pa. Jacob Adelaja Adeyokunu. 3. Her mother is Mrs. Morounfola Adeyokunu. 4. She is from Ilesha, Osun state Nigeria. 5. Her Father was a teacher and catchiest. 6. Her mother was a cloth trader 7. She is a Princess from the lineage of Owa Obokun Oji in Ijeshaland. 8. She is the eldest of the ten children of her Father. 9. She attended Methodist Girls Primary and Secondary school Ilesha. 10. She graduated in 1966 from United Missionaries College, Ibadan. 11. She owns Associate Diploma in Education from the University of Lagos. 12. She has Diploma in Religious Studies 13. She has a Certificate in Directorate of Schools Studies from the University of Saint John and Mark, Plymouth, United Kingdom. 14. She married through divine direction by her Cousin’s friend 15. Her cousin Olusegun Adeyokunu was a classmate with her husband at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. 16. She is married to the General Overseer of The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye. 17. She got married at the age of 19. 18. She got married at the court on September 8, 1967. 19. She got married at the church on December 17, 1967. 20. She was a Chorister 21. She was ordained a Pastor in the year 1996 22. She has four children (three sons and a daughter) 23. She is a Grandmother 24. She is a counselor 25. She is a mentor 26. She is a strict disciplinarian 27. She is a missionary 28. She is an intercessor 29. She is a Teacher of the Word of God 30. She established a lot of Christian schools 31. She started the Christ the Redeemers Schools movement 32. She is a tireless Evangelist 33. She has passion for Excellence 34. She is the Director, Directorate of Children Education RCCG 35. She is the President of the Women Fellowship in the Redeemed Christian Church of God. 36. She is known all over the world 37. She is a writer of Christian Literatures 38. She is the first supporter of her husband’s Ministry 39. She hosts all delegates from Overseas during National and International programs at the Redemption camp. 40. She has a passion for the care of the Less privileged. 41. She is a lover of the youth. 42. She takes care of the Pastors in RCCG by preparing their meals at Programs. 43. She is in Charge of how people are fed during the Annual National Convention of RCCG. 44. She travels around the world with her husband. 45. She is always dressed beautifully and elegantly. 46. She is always dressed in the same color with her husband. 47. She followed the steps of her predecessor, the wife of the Founder of RCCG. 48. She is moderate in all she does. she is not worldly. 49. She is an incurable giver. 50. She has improved the wellbeing of women and children all over the world. 51. She is a disciple of Jesus Christ. 52. She has spread the gospel in Africa through African Missions. 53. She led a team to visit Koma hills. 54. She through the help of God has been able to make graduates out of the people of Koma hills. 55. She is totally focused on the call of God for her life. 56. She is the leader of all Pastors wives in RCCG. 57. She supports Pastor’s children in all their programs. 58. She is reserved- she does not want to be known. 59. She takes care of the widows. 60. She has faced many difficulties as the wife of the General Overseer. 61. She cooks her husband’s meal personally. 62. She is the closest friend of her husband as he fondly says. 63. She stood by her husband when they had nothing. 64. She emptied her account when the Founder of RCCG told the church to do so. 65. She loves to wear hats at most of the programs of RCCG. 66. She calls her husband “Daddy”. 67. She doesn’t use jewelry. 68. She forgives easily. 69. She is fondly called Mummy G.O. http://www.dailyfamily.ng/69-things-know-pastor-mrs-folu-adeboye-clocks-69/ 1 Like
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Vacancies! Vacancies!! Vacancies!!! by easyboss1(op): 11:06am On Jul 11, 2017 |
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