When you stop feeding your baby with breast milk, getting used to processed foods might be a challenge for some of them.

However, homemade puree can be introduced to babies to supply the necessary supplements and nutrients.

Banana and Apple Puree
Homemade purees are good as you can determine the content, Banana in this puree gives it the right thickness.

Ingredients for Banana and Apple Puree
2 pcs apple
1 pc banana
20 cl apple juice


How to make Banana and Apple Puree
Peel the apple and remove the core inside. Chop the peeled apples and pour into a sauce pan or a pressure pot afterward. Cook over medium heat with 5-6 spoons of water. Cook for the next 8 minutes or until it is tender enough.

Apart from water, you can also use the apple juice if you are using green apples to ensure the apple taste. For pink or red apples, water would do just fine.

Remove from the apples from the pot and pour in a blender with the ripe bananas or you can make use of a food processor. Don’t pour away the water cooked with the apples.

Blend until you get your desired texture. If the texture is still thick, you can add the water from the apples.

Feed your baby warm.
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Sex has been linked to the reduction in mens’ homocysteine levels, a harmful chemical found in the blood which can trigger life-threatening cardiac problems. See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples)Enjoying regular sex can help reduce the risk of developing heart disease – but the news isn’t so great for women.

Research found having sex several times a week can slash levels of homocysteine in men, whereas women benefit far less from regular romps.

The harmful chemical is found in the blood and can trigger potentially life-threatening cardiac problems.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For

It’s thought men getting regular sex often have better circulation and healthier blood vessels. This is crucial for preventing a build-up of homocysteine.

But scientists say women benefit much less because sexual arousal is less dependent on having a healthy blood flow, which is a key factor in keeping homocysteine under control. See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples)

Every year, around 73,000 people in Britain die from coronary heart disease. It remains the country’s biggest killer.

Doctors have suspected for years that frequent sex can reduce the risks.

One previous study found intercourse twice a week halved a man’s chances of clogged arteries.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples)

But excess levels, which can be caused by poor diet, are thought to damage blood vessels supplying the heart – raising the risk of a deadly clot forming.

A major review of scientific data in 2015 found raised homocysteine levels increased the risk of death from heart disease by 66 per cent.

And last year experts at Boston University discovered the chances of a stroke jumped by almost a third in those with high readings.

It has also been linked with Alzheimer’s disease and cancer.

Researchers from the National Defence Medical Centre in Taiwan tracked more than 2,000 men and women, aged from 20 to 59.

They analysed blood samples to measure levels of homocysteine and matched the results up with volunteers’ sexual activity.See What Regular Sex Will Do For Men And Women(A Must Read For Couples)

The results showed the lowest traces of the chemical were found in men claiming to have sex at least twice a week, while the highest readings were found in those restricted to less than once a month.

But in women there was no significant variation.

Researchers called on doctors to advise male patients at risk of heart disease to have more sex.

In a report on their findings they said: “This is the first study of its kind to evaluate the correlation between sexual frequency and homocysteine levels.

“A good quality sex life, frequent sex and libido are all related to health in the middle-aged and elderly.

“Increased sexual frequency could have a protective effect on general health and quality of life – especially in men – so doctors should support patients’ sexual activity.”


Dr Mike Knapton from the British Heart Foundation said the study produced an ‘interesting result’ but did not prove regular sex reduced homocysteine levels.

He said: “A relationship does exist between sex and heart disease risk.

“Checking your blood pressure and cholesterol, as well as keeping active and not smoking, remain the best ways to ensure a healthy future.”I have to love the people trying to look like hard men and more idiotic scientific claptrap. Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out. Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter.

I have to love the people trying to look like hard men and more idiotic scientific claptrap. Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out. Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter.

Firstly having bedroom fun does not mean anything in relation to heart diseases, smoking drinking etc cancels that kind of thing out.

Heredity disease also cancels that out, you do not have bedroom fun when you are born, so if you are born with heart disease then it does not matter.

You can also join dailyfamily forum for my question at www.forum.dailyfamily.ng

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A father of two identified as Folorunsho Olatilu resident in Akowonjo Lagos has returned a sum of N114, 000 found on a deceased co-passenger he boarded a bus with from Akure, en route Lagos, to the elder brother.

According to Olatilu in a chat with DAILYFAMILY on Thursday, the survivor of an accident that occurred on August 6, said the driver of the bus he boarded collided with an oncoming trailer that was in the wrong lane, leading to a massive somersaulting of their bus which eventually landed in the bush.

Olatilu recount.

“Anyway, all I will say is that our driver wasn’t speeding. We were on our on our lane, but there was a traffic jam on the other lane, so a trailer suddenly took one way. What our driver noticed before the accident was that the driver of the trailer was sleeping on the wheels.


“Luckily our driver tried to swerve and from then, all I was able to notice was that our bus began somersaulting. Our bus somersaulted three times. After the bus somersaulted, I noticed there were a lot of dead bodies already. I also noticed people that had fractured their hand and legs; and before I could record some videos as evidence, those seriously injured were already rushed down to the hospital.”

“So after I got home I posted the photos on Facebook, not for any other thing. I am not mocking those who lost their lives but I was only thanking God that I am alive, that I am inside the bus and no injury or internal bleeding was sustained. I posted my testimony on Facebook for people to thank God for me”.


According to DAILYFAMILY’s chat with Olatilu, he said he deepened his hand into a deceased man’s pocket to get his phone which he used to reach his relative, telling them, discreetly that the deceased was only injured in an accident and rushed to the nearest hospital.

Olatilu further said he didn’t just wait there. He further went to another corpse, a female passenger, to retrieve her phone and call her relative just as he did to the previous corpse.

“I checked inside her bag, I picked out her phone, I saw some money inside her bag as well. The last dialled on the deceased woman was ‘Tonia’. And the Tonia in asked in Yoruba, ‘aunty’ where have you gotten to? Thinking it was the deceased that called”.

In response again, Olatilu recounted the same story just as he said to the relative of the deceased man and also informed her about the money in the deceased woman’s bag, asking if he should hand the money to the driver, since there wasn’t any law enforcement agent around, not even road safety.

Olatilu reported that the relative (lady) wanted him to hold the money with him. But later when he put a call through to the same relative on Monday afternoon, the senior brother to the deceased woman picked the phone.

On Tuesday morning, the senior brother to the deceased identified as Mr Odusola Omoyeni forwarded his account number where Olatilu transferred the money.
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The bad state of the Lagos/Abeokuta expressway has posed more threat to lives, businesses and economy than doing them any good. In an exclusive report on the state of the road on Saturday Dailyfamily show to you, the stress families are facing on a daily basis.

One of the dividends of democracy is to enjoy some basic social amenities and infrastructural provisions and in the event where a ruling government is not meeting up to the provision of the needed infrastructural need as promised in election manifestoes or as enshrined in the Constitution, then there may be the need to ask questions.

The dilapidated state of the Lagos/Abeokuta Expressway has been of a major concern to families, workers and business owners commuting the road on a daily basis. The fact that it is a link road connecting two states in the southwestern region of the country is a good reason why it should be considered a major project. But as at the time of this report, it is in a wrecked state which now calls for an urgent intervention of the federal government.

According to the United nation’s Millennium development goals, the environment must be sustainable and aid the commuting of human goods and services hence the stressed need to ensure this road is fixed.

The bad state of this Federal government road is gradually getting worse as the days unfold. Although a look at a recent appearance before the Senate, of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the honourable Minister for Power, Works and Housing, Mr Babatunde Fashola said the Lagos, Ota- Abeokuta Expressway will be considered for dualization. But then, extending beyond the second quarter of the year, this promises seems to be a long and awaited one.

The increasing menace the road is causing and the huge economic returns been loosed to the bad state of the road has even caused concerns for traders commuters and transporters.

In this exclusive report with DailyFamily a transporter plying the Ifo area of Ogun state to Iyana Ipaja axis of Lagos state that the resulting effect of the bad road has been more of a loss to them than gain.

In his word he said.

“The bad state of the road has reduced the number of trips we go per day. Instead of going three trips per day, some of us have reduced it to two. He further stated that the bad state of the Sango Otta road caused some people to get to their final destination at 12 midnight last Friday and it shouldn’t be like that”.

Further stating how important the road is to his survival the transporter who pleaded anonymity said;

“This road is our source of livelihood, and when the road is bad, there will be an increase in transport fare”.

He also added that;

“The bad state of the road is a threat to pregnant women as the potholes affect the well-being of their pregnant state”.

In another chat with a vegetable trader who identified herself as Mrs Adegbola, she said the traffic congestion is too much. and it affects customers from getting to patronize them on time while some eventually wouldn’t show up at all due to the unbearable stress encountered on the road. She further stated that hold-up at Iyana Ilogbo and Owode side of the road is just too much up to the extent that walking becomes difficult and at times to cross to the other side of the road likewise becomes an issue”


“It affects customers from getting to patronize us on time while some eventually wouldn’t show up at all due to the unbearable stress encountered on the road. She further stated that hold-up at Iyana Ilogbo and Owode side of the road is just too much up to the extent that walking becomes difficult and at times to cross to the other side of the road likewise becomes an issue”.

Another trader, Mrs Oluwaseunfunmi stated that while the road was in its good form there were many sales but whenever rain falls, sales automatically drops.

They further called on the federal government to come to their aid as the pressure on the present state of the road is gradually killing businesses.
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Traditionally, the man, as head of the family, is expected to lead, provide for and protect his family. This has been his God-given role since creation. But with the passing of time, especially in this jet age where farming is no longer the main source of income for many families, women are gradually taking over, contributing financially in the home.

Without any doubt, most homes in Nigeria have the wives earning more, and most cases they are even the breadwinners. They are not only educated, many have risen very high in their work places and businesses, earning big incomes.

As a result, some husbands have become insecure, unnecessarily aggressive and even abusive. Also, some wives have become arrogant, irresponsible and very domineering. Many couples who did not manage this situation well have either divorced or separated.

Couples have got to learn to see the positive side of the situation. No big deal if a woman earns more than the husband. The big deal is when the man is doing nothing at all to support his family.

The wife should not be out there all day working to cater for the family and then gets back home to prepare food, clean the house, check the children’s books, etc. Meanwhile, the husband has been home all day, probably watching television and sleeping. That is injustice.

Every husband should avoid becoming a houseboy in his own house. There are too many houseboy-husbands these days. That you lost your job does not mean you should surrender and give up on life. When a man falls, he gets up, dusts himself, figures out what made him to fall, learns not to fall that way again and moves on. If one door closes, recreate yourself and move on to other doors.

Granted, the economic situation in Nigeria is very unhelpful in men’s efforts to be breadwinners, but there should be no retreat or surrender. Some husbands like the comfort zone provided by their wives too much and make no effort to be economically productive. If you are that type, you should accept any shit thrown at you.

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Celery is from the same family with parsley and fennel, the Umbelliferae family. It can grow to the height of up to 16 inches. The white celery is grown shaded from direct sunlight, thus has less chlorophyll, compared to its greener counterparts.

The ribs of celery are crunchy and are often used to make soup or salad. It has a salty taste, so celery juice is a good mix with the sweeter fruit juices. Depending on the variety, some may taste very salty.

Celery leaves have high content of vitamin A, whilst the stems are an excellent source of vitamins B1, B2, B6 and C with rich supplies of potassium, folate, calcium, magnesium, iron, phosphorus, sodium and plenty essential amino acids.

Nutrients in the fibre are released during juicing, aiding bowel movements. The natural organic sodium (salt) in celery is very safe for consumption, in fact is essential for the body. Even individuals who are salt-sensitive can safely take the sodium in celery, unlike table salt (iodised sodium) which is harmful for those with high blood pressure.

While many foods lose nutrients during cooking, most of the compounds in celery hold up well during cooking.
Read through to see some of it’s benefits,

* Restores pH balance to your blood. It’s very alkaline which is important to optimal health.

* Great for the gut because it balances stomach acid. It restores the balance of hydrochloric acid in the body which is important for gut health. As we age, hydrochloric acid in the stomach is reduced, making it more difficult for the body to absorb nutrients.

* It’s a diuretic, which makes it really good for cleansing the system and for weight loss. It also helps with de-puffing throughout the body, especially reducing under eye bags.

* Celery contains folate.
Folate, one of the B vitamins, helps your body break down, produce and use proteins. A lack of folate in your system can lead to peptic and mouth ulcers, gray hair, diarrhea and possibly anemia. A single serving of raw celery juice contains 145 micrograms of folate. This is over 36 percent of the acceptable intake for men and women, and 29 percent of the acceptable intake for pregnant and breast-feeding women.

* Lowers blood pressure.Studies have shown that celery seed extracts have anti-hypertensive properties. Celery

Studies have shown that celery seed extracts have anti-hypertensive properties. Celery contains a phytochemical that relaxes the tissues of the artery walls. This causes increased blood flow and may lower blood pressure.

* Prevents calcification.
Fresh celery juice is also useful in averting calcification inside our gall bladder, urinary bladder and kidneys. As it can remove waste as well as toxic materials from these organs, the stones present within these get broken down and eliminated easily.

* It lowers cholesterol.
Celery juice is an excellent natural remedy for lowering the cholesterol levels in our body. It contains a chemical compound named 3-n- butylphthalide that has positive effects on reducing the bad cholesterol (low-density lipoprotein) in our bloodstream. It also boosts the secretion of bile or steroid acids which is helpful in lowering cholesterol too. The juice extracted only from 2 stalks of celery can decrease our cholesterol levels up to 7 points.

* Over all hair care.
It has been already mentioned that celery juice comprises high amount of water and vitamin A. Both are great for our hair. Water keeps our scalp hydrated and cures dandruff, while vitamin A provides nourishment to the roots of hair strands and makes them healthy. Celery juice is also known to stimulate the growth of our hair and improve its texture. Hence, if you want lush and beautiful hair, consider daily intake of celery juice.

* Treats Insomnia.
Sleep disorder or insomnia can also be treated effectively with celery juice. The magnesium as well as essential oil content of the juice imposes a soothing effect on our nerves and. As a result, we can relax and enjoy a sound sleep.
Finally, Celery juice is great first thing in the morning, says Stern, because it gets your body started right by rehydrating and loading up with nutrients and antioxidants all at the same time. Unlike dark leafy greens, which are really trendy right now, celery juice isn’t so harsh on digestion. You can drink a lot of it without any negative side effects. You could have a celery juice every morning if you choose.

How to make your own celery juice.
Get 2 to 3 fresh stalks of celery, a juicer or a blender, and a sharp knife

Clean the celery and remove any leaves. Press the stalks through the juicer. Drink the juice fresh.

You can use a blender if you don’t have a juicer. Once you have blended the celery stalks into a puree, you can use a cheese cloth or strainer to filter out the pulp.

You can add a few ice cubes or drink it closer to room temperature. Juice is usually best consumed fresh, but you can store some for later. Cover it tightly and keep it in the refrigerator for up to two days.

Try using different herbs and spices to add zest to your drink if you want to liven it up a bit. Some people recommend drinking celery juice on its own, but you can also experiment with adding different fruits and vegetables, such as cucumber, mint, or lime.
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The press conference starts with a presentation on the screens behind the stage as Neymar enters from the back of the room to plenty of applause.

After completing his world record signing from Barcelona to PSG, he looks dapper in a suit as he takes his seat at the press conference in Paris

Neymar says: “I’m very, very happy. Thank you for those kind words Mr President and for this new challenge. I’m happy to come to PSG which is a great club and a wonderful city.

“I can’t describe what I’m feeling in my heart right now. I’m looking forward to starting practice with my team-mates, playing games and achieving my objectives.”

“To be honest, it [having Brazilian friends at PSG] wouldn’t have changed my approach. I have friends here. I arrived here because the global environment is positive.

“It wasn’t an easy decision. I had to think about what I wanted to do with my life. A lot of people wanted me to talk about what I wanted to do but it was complicated… I wasn’t 100% sure what I wanted to do. People wanted me to do the impossible and communicate but as soon as I was sure on my decision and I was 100% sure that I wanted to sign here, I started communicating.

“I’m very happy. I followed my heart and of course, I ask my heart every day and it told me to say yes to PSG.”

To Barcelona Fans, he said:
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Written by: Bisi Adewale

“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Proverbs 13:20 KJV

“Keep company with the wise and you will become wise. If you make friends with stupid people, you will be ruined.”
Proverbs 13:20 GNB

— A dangerous lover is somebody whose relationship with you will truncate your destiny, jeopardize your future and pull down the four pillars of your life.
— A dangerous lover is anybody that claims to love you with all his or her heart but your relationship with him will not profit your relationship with God your health, your marriage and your purpose.

TO AVOID DANGEROUS LOVER DO THE FOLLOWING:

1) KNOW THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE
“Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.”
Song of Solomon 8:7 KJV
— love can be romantic or authentic
— Love is not sex, sex is not love
— Love is not just a feeling

Love is an unconditional emotion from the heart mixed with kindness and compassion, which makes you be ready to serve the other party and make the sacrifice even when it is not convenient.
2) KNOW DANGEROUS LOVERS
1) Parasitic lover: Lazy, not ready to work but to live on you and suck YOUTO your bones.
2) Kill and go lover: Just interested in sex, sleep with you and dump you for another catch.
3) Bazaars lovers:
— ready to shower gifts on you.
— gives you what you need and do not need just to take you to bed, sleep with you dump you and hurt your heart deeply.
4) Wounded lover: Was just jilted by ex-lover.
— wounded and need healing,
— may not even trust opposite sex.
— want somebody besides them to prove a point and spite their ex.
— looking for opposite sex to deal with to revenge the way they where treated.
5) Nicodemus lover:
— Does not like to be seeing with you.
— Does not want you to tell your friends, parents, pastos, mentors about his relationship with you
6) Pendulum lover: Unpredictable, blows hot and cold in love. You can’t predict his or her mood, unreliable, inconsistent, undependable
— Fights you for no reason
— Keep malice and is unforgiven
— cut off the relationship several times only to beg you to start again.
7) Master lover: Commander in Chief of family forces, dictator. He or she wants to be totally in charge of your life
Suffocating lover: Possessive, jealous.
— Will not allow you to talk to anybody
— Want to know where you are at every time
— Always accusing you on unfaithfulness.

3) MEET THE REAL LOVER AND STAY WITH HIM.
“Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.”
Isaiah 49:16 KJV
— JESUS IS THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL
— JESUS IS THE ONLY LOVER THAT CAN NOT DISAPPOINT
—- JESUS IS THE TRUE LOVE THAT CAN LEAD YOU TO GENUINE LOVER
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Omo see propose, make l pass sha

pressy09:
-By Oba Samuel
In proposing to ladies, many guys make blunders that make them lose beautiful and godly wife materials. Below are five statements guys must never make during proposal:
#1 Don’t say your breast or back side attracts me to you:
It is a dead on arrival for a guy to tell a lady that it is her big breast and back-side that attracts her to you because she will see you as a sex hunter who is seeking for a way to take her to bed and leave her for another breast.
#2 If you agree to marry me I will leave other girls:
Telling a lady you are wooing that if she gives her consent, you will jettison your relationship with other girls will only portray you as a relationship virus. Good girls hate playboys, a statement like this will make her think you are a playboy and a serial heartbreaker.
#3 I will buy you a car:
Trying to win a lady for the first time with a statement like ‘’ I will buy you a car’’ will only depict you as a proud and oppressor.
No matter how you press her, she had already formed a negative opinion concerning you.
#4 l will take you to Dubai for Shopping:
Responsible ladies are not moved by what you have but who you are. So, trying to impress a lady with a trip to Dubai will only dent your image before a decent lady. Even if you can afford it, they prefer you act like Eddy Murphy in Coming to America than blowing your trumpet to the whole world.
#5 You Had better say yes else someone better than you will get me:
Some guys make this mistake thinking they can use it to impress a lady without knowing
that it will only paint them black as the girl in question will see you as a ladies' guy, and a polygamist.
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Most students are presently in a period of a long break for from their schools and this may make some children vulnerable and at risk of dangers like rape, kidnapping, fire disasters and so many other evils as parents are busy with their work. Parents on their own are worried and anxious on how to keep their children safe. Worry no more as there are ways to keep them safe, Here are ways to achieve it:


– Take a leave from work or business: if you can afford it, plan for one of the parents to take a leave off work so as to keep a close watch on the children and to ensure their safety. It is dangerous to leave the children at home all by themselves through the whole day especially if they are still young.


– Keep children with Someone You Can Trust: if it is not possible for either of the parents to take a leave, take your children to spend the holiday with someone close that can take good care of them. Even though they are few, search hard to find.These people include your parents, family friends and so on. One thing you must do is to check on these children regularly and also ask them questions about how they are doing.


– Keep All dangerous objects away: children are inquisitive and may want to check out whatever seems to be new. Even if you are around, you may not be able to monitor every move of the children so, it is advisable to keep whatever that is dangerous away from the reach of your children.

– Get the children busy: there are a lot of new things your children can learn during the period of the long vacation. Apart from their studies, they can go and learn how to make new things like bags, toys, playing musical instruments and so on. When the children are busy, the risk of being involved in the wrong things is very low. You should also enroll them in a summer school.

– Ask questions: Most parents do not ask questions, they just assume that all is well with their children. it is important to ask your children certain questions so as to know what may be going on with them that you may not know. Ask questions like who they relate with lately and what they discuss. When you do this, it is possible you get information about whoever may be a threat to them.


– Restrict their night movements: if your children are teenagers or not, you must make sure that they stop going out at night as this is very dangerous. Kidnappers, ritualists may be going around at this period and they may fall victim.

– Make sure they don’t walk alone: it is often said that two are better than one, this also applies to your children. If you have more than one child that is matured enough to go out, never allow them to go out on their own at this period but they should move at least in twos for safety.

All parents must not forget that the safety of their children is their primary duty which they must take seriously.
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It is not a new thing to hear that singles run from attending

premarital counseling class but the thing of concern is why?

They prefer to run from it rather than learn from the strategies that have worked for people over the years.

Premarital counseling is an integral part of marriage and must not be taken for granted by any individual that wants to be successful in marriage. It is very important to attend premarital counseling class in order to build a great marriage, maintain love and keep the fire of romance burning in your marriage.

Listed below are some of the reasons some singles usually hate attending premarital class

They are Ignorant of the benefits of the class, though it is a general saying that ignorance is not an excuse and can never be an excuse when others are daily seeking to increase in knowledge. But, it is a sad thing that in this age and time, some singles still prefer to be ignorant without seeking information that can help them succeed.

Some Singles see it as a religious thing, it must be clearly known that premarital counseling is not about any religion but an avenue to learn from people that have gone ahead and are having a blissful marriage. You tend to benefit from their wealth of knowledge.

Some believe few Seminars they have attended here and there can be exchanged for premarital counseling class. They are two different things, even married people attend seminars to keep learning and building their home. So, marriage seminars and premarital counseling class are not the same.

While the above reasons are why some singles don’t attend premarital class, some also don’t attend because they feel they know it all and so don’t need to attend.

Whatever the case may be, as a single intending to be married, you will be doing yourself a lot of good by attending premarital class and in most cases it is free. So, you are not paying a dime.
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With the high rate of domestic violence world wide, it is amazing why women are still keep quiet and not speaking out when their husbands are beating or abusing them Statistics shows that domestic violence Is increasing worldwide even among the learned and educated ones.

Every minute police in the UK receive a domestic assistance call – yet only 35% of domestic violence incidents are reported to the police (Stanko, 2000 & Home Office, 2002)
The 2001/02 British Crime Survey (BCS) found that there were an estimated 635,000 incidents of domestic violence in England and Wales. 81% of the victims were women and 19% were men. Domestic violence incidents also made up nearly 22% of all violent incidents reported by participants in the BCS (Home Office, July 2002)
It is so surprising how long may women are keeping quiet before they speak out if they speak out at all.
On average, a woman is assaulted 35 times before her first call

#1THINKING THE MAN WILL CHANGE:

Some women keep their mouth shut with the hope that their husband will change.
The truth is except you speak out he may never change, Men that beat their wives may never change without outside help, so you need to speak out to the right people now.

#2 THINKING THEY CAUSE IT:

Whole lots of women are been made to believe they cause the abuse, so they have to suffer for what they cause, hence they hardly report abuse

#3 NO GOVERNMENT PROTECTION:

In Africa, Government hardly protect their women from abuse, in some cases reporting an abuse to police is just wasting your time as they will not take any step against the abuser, so these women will keep quiet since the Government is not on their side

#4 NOT KNOWING WHO TO TALK TO:

Most women do not even know who to talk to that will believe them. Their husbands are complete gentlemen in the society, telling people who they are behind the close doors is out of the calculation

#5 FEAR OF ANNOYING THE MAN THE MORE:

Some women do fear that speaking out may annoy the man the more, according to them “to keep the peace you have to keep your mouth shut”

#6 FEAR OF LOSING THEIR HOMES: Fear of losing their homes is another reason women hardly talk no matter what they encounter at home

Fear of losing their homes is another reason women hardly talk no matter what they encounter at home #7 FEAR OF MORE BEATING:

Most wives will not speak out because the husband has warned them never to speak out to anybody or risk more beating.

#8 FUNNY LOVE
I notice a trend recently, some women who are been beating for any reason are not speaking out because they claim to love their husbands and they don’t want to put him into trouble. This is very funny but true.

#9 FEAR OF LOSING THEIR CHILDREN:

Many women endure been abused because they fear losing their children if they escalate the issue and it ends in divorce. In Africa where Men takes custody of a child without the woman having right to them, women are always careful to report abuse to keep their right to their Children

Also read this: 9 Things You Need To Know If You Want To Marry An Ekiti Man
#10 FEAR OF WHAT SOCIETY WILL SAY:

I grew up in an environment where women battering is seeing as women fault, Men that beat their wives are seeing as a disciplinarian, somebody in charge of his home and hero. With this in mind, every woman been battered in this environment will never speak out. A “respected” pastor boasted to me recently how he discipline his wife and beat her up in the public “for misbehaving”. I was so shocked to see all members of his Church hailing him on women inclusive. Women in that kind of society will find it difficult to speak out. I think our value should change we should stop treating our wives like goats

#11 FEAR OF LOSING HER SOURCE OF INCOME. Lack of financial empowerment and personal source of income is one of the reasons a woman may not speak out when been abuse. It is one of the reasons a man abusing his wife may not allow her to work, so that she may not be empowered to speak out.

#12 FEAR OF WHERE TO GO IF SHE IS SENT OUT:

Lots of women in Africa are not empowered financial, hence, they can’t get a decent accommodation for themselves without the help of their husbands. Women in this kind of situation will never speak out no matter the level of violence

#13 LACK OF PROTECTION FROM THE SOCIETY:

In the environment where I grew up, wife battering is not seen as anything strange, they believe it is normal and women are always been blamed for been too stubborn and difficult, whole a Man is hail as a Champion. Women in this kind of environment hardly speak out as speaking out will not yield any result.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/domestic-violence-women-not-speaking/

If marriage must be full of love ,joy ,harmony and romance,a wife must know what her husband love and give it to him without coercion. Not knowing what a man really wants will make the marriage difficult. This piece is to expose to wives what their men really love:

1.Respect-Ranked number one among all the needs of husbands is respect! Respect is to man as what oxygen is to the body. Men wants respect especially from their wives and they can do anything to get it. He wants to be treated with respect in conversation, while serving his food, before his friends, family and before the children. You have not respect him until he feel respected. When you respect him, he will love you irrevocably and you will be able to influence him.

2. Homeliness-Every husband want their wife to be homely.They want to come back daily to meet their wives at home.Its odious to them when their wives travels or engage in a job or business that take them away from their husband and children. This is one of the major reason some men prefer their wives to be a full-time house wife. As a wife,be homely and your husband will be loving and caring.

3. Praise-‘’ As the refining pot for silver, and the furnace for gold; so is a man to his praise’’.Prov.27:21 .Men love to be hero-worshiped.His ego can only be massaged through quality praise and appreciation. You will get a soft spot in his heart if you can appreciate his gifts,talents,achievements,contributions ,gifts given to you,his look and stature.This will make him feel happy and love you the more.


4. Touching-Men enjoying touching and non-sexual touching of their wives.Whenever a man comes around his wife after a long absence,his desire is to feel his heartthrob through touch.But most times,wives normally avoid this making thinking that the man is not just looking for touch but sex. Let touching be in two ways-as your husband his touching your hair,backside,boobs;touch him too.This will increase the level of intimacy in your marriage.

5. Sex-All wives should know that men love sex and they can’t do without it. One major duty of every wife is to satisfy her husband sexually.You can’t win and keep your husband to yourself only if you hate sex.Sexual denial will expose your husband to sexual infidelity. A man with unfulfilled libido is liable to strange women’s trap.Give sex to your husband willingly and he will love you passionately.
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/5-things-every-man-wants-wives/

By Bisi Adewale

Most Men do hurt their Wives in the name of correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so rash in their approach and can be very brutal.
Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the careless ways their husbands have been talking to them over time.
Here you will be able to know the right ways to talk to your wife without hurting her:

1) LOWER YOUR VOICE: Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid, she is not a Child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting?

2) DO IT IN LOVE: Correcting should be done in love if done in any other way it turns to criticism and condemnation

3) DON’T CRITICIZE: Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it’s constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.

Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes.

Correction and criticism are never the same.

Husband A says: what manner of food is this? is this popcorn or fried Rice? how I wish I marry a more sensible wife, with better home training, who can cook better

Husband B says: Sweetheart this rice is too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health.

Husband A criticized, Husband B, corrected his wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife.

4) PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT: It will be wrong to correct when it’s not well done when you don’t praise when it’s well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds.

5) DON’T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN: Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your Children. Incessant correction of your wife before your Children will make them disrespect her.

6) DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC: Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her self-esteem.

7) AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER: Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don’t do that.
DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN: In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women. “Don’t you see what your friend is doing?”
“Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?”
“I think you should borrow a leaf from deaconess so and so”
This is very wrong, no woman love to be compared with others, stop it.

9) AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES: Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled, stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.

10) DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD: And you call yourself a woman? Virtuous women don’t behave like this, you better change before I change you.

This is very wrong, don’t do it.

11) DON’T ATTACK HER DIGNITY: You don’t behave like someone with sense, do you think at all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it. This is very wrong, you too, you are not talking like somebody that pass through a college.


12) DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE: Most husbands do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result.

13) GIVE A HELPING HAND: The best way to correct is to lead by example, step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in the front of the Television correcting what goes on in the kitchen. Wives are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support her to be a better wife and mother.
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/13-ways-correct-wife-without-hurting-feelings/

By Yomi Adewale

Recession is hitting hard on so many couples these days, some husbands and wives who are not given to anger by nature have suddenly developed attitude of being angry, resentful, touchy and reactionary over financial obligations and issues, many are working but it seems the income can’t swallow up the expenses, some have even lost their jobs in the recent times left with only their partner working and the spouse that is working is feeling the financial pressure.


Where the couples are both working, there are still complaints of hike in prices of many family necessities and other financial pressures here and there.


Here below are ways through which couples could navigate through recession unhurt and still be comfortable



(1) Transparency

There should be a candid discussion between husband and wife at this time to put on the table their regular income, this will become open to both parties, it would help their demands on family income and curtail them on many unnecessary expenses. If the family will progress, It is not advisable to keep mum about each other’s income.



(2) Planning and budgeting

Couples must plan and budget their income every month, there should be an allocation for each category of family expense based on past experience and consideration of certain factors, this will shape the family and put every member of the family into the right perspective. Couples need not be accountants before they could draw up simple projection model to run with and must be accountable yo each other.


(3) Working smartly

To be engaged in certain work is not enough, but one must work smart. Both husbands and wife must be gainfully and smartly engaged in legitimate works that can bring money for the family. No room for laziness and complacency, none of the party involved in marriage should have excuse for not working, in recent times, I have seen adults in marriage complaining of work hazard, insults from superior, stress etc as reasons for not working, there must be maturity, discipline and wisdom to overcome whatever challenge comes with your profession.



(4) Cost reduction

This is not the period to buy anything from anybody anyhow, you must learn shopping principles, which market pays better, where to buy quality things at good prices, you need a list of items to buy when shopping, learning bargaining and quality testing principles. From all angles, reduce your cost, whether recurrent or capital cost, ensure you are top of the game.


(5) Cut down wastage

Avoid wasting resources, throwing an unnecessary party, gathering and feeding people who are not hungry, learn to monitor whatever you are cooking to avoiding wasting your gas and food from getting burnt, teach every member of your household to learn this principle. Your dispenser should be monitored, your freezer and the quantity of food your cook.


(6) Bulk purchase system

This act of buying things in bulk as against piecemeal purchase, when you adopt this principle, you save some fund in the process, your budget will highlight the quality and quantity of things needed at home, so from the projection model you could confirm the size of items needed within a month so you could buy such items in bulk, stock your house and freezer, you need to avoid environmental purchase.



(7) Multiple streams of income from legitimate sources

Honestly, we need to look beyond fixed monthly salary if every couple wants to live comfortably and be able to accomplish some goals like completing house project and the likes of it. There are a number of businesses that either husband or wife could do legitimately to increase family income.


( Differentiate want, need and luxury

There is a need for couples to train themselves in focusing necessities that family need rather than being engrossed in their want and luxury. Couples may desire and wish to have certain things based on their feelings and circumstances may be to impress or oppress certain people, this is tagged want while Luxury is accumulation of material things leading to sumptuous living or enjoyment of comforts and pleasures beyond those things necessary for a reasonable standard of well-being



(9) Moderation: Couples should embrace moderation in their spending so that they can have some left over for savings and investment, in achieving this, the following should be considered:

– Taste: Couples should checkmate their taste for high materials things and pleasure beyond their income and level, for now, they need to defer gratification when they are not due for it



– Expenses: Couples should be mindful of their daily, weekly and monthly expenses, never incur expense because everybody is buying it at your office



– Living below your means: The total cost should be far way below income, never form the habit of eating up all your income both the one meant for now and the future

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– Avoid debt: Buying on credit will affect your future plans and budget, more so you tend to pay more for time value of money, think well before such steps



– Faithfulness: When you receive your income, your faithfulness will preserve the achievement from that income, being faithful in the payment of your tithe to God, being faithful to your spouse by not humanising or engaging in night crawling, not spending on frivolities that have no return on investment, be wise.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-ways-couples-can-survive-recession/

Pastor Mrs. Folu Adenike Adeboye, mother-in-Israel of the Redeemed Christian Church of God is a woman of God with Excellence. As she celebrates her 69th birthday today, here are 69 things to know about her.

1. She was born on July 13, 1948.

2. Her Father is Pa. Jacob Adelaja Adeyokunu.

3. Her mother is Mrs. Morounfola Adeyokunu.

4. She is from Ilesha, Osun state Nigeria.

5. Her Father was a teacher and catchiest.

6. Her mother was a cloth trader

7. She is a Princess from the lineage of Owa Obokun Oji in Ijeshaland.

8. She is the eldest of the ten children of her Father.

9. She attended Methodist Girls Primary and Secondary school Ilesha.

10. She graduated in 1966 from United Missionaries College, Ibadan.

11. She owns Associate Diploma in Education from the University of Lagos.

12. She has Diploma in Religious Studies

13. She has a Certificate in Directorate of Schools Studies from the University of Saint John and Mark, Plymouth, United Kingdom.

14. She married through divine direction by her Cousin’s friend

15. Her cousin Olusegun Adeyokunu was a classmate with her husband at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka.

16. She is married to the General Overseer of The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye.

17. She got married at the age of 19.

18. She got married at the court on September 8, 1967.

19. She got married at the church on December 17, 1967.

20. She was a Chorister

21. She was ordained a Pastor in the year 1996

22. She has four children (three sons and a daughter)

23. She is a Grandmother

24. She is a counselor

25. She is a mentor

26. She is a strict disciplinarian

27. She is a missionary

28. She is an intercessor

29. She is a Teacher of the Word of God

30. She established a lot of Christian schools

31. She started the Christ the Redeemers Schools movement

32. She is a tireless Evangelist

33. She has passion for Excellence

34. She is the Director, Directorate of Children Education RCCG

35. She is the President of the Women Fellowship in the Redeemed Christian Church of God.

36. She is known all over the world

37. She is a writer of Christian Literatures

38. She is the first supporter of her husband’s Ministry

39. She hosts all delegates from Overseas during National and International programs at the Redemption camp.

40. She has a passion for the care of the Less privileged.

41. She is a lover of the youth.

42. She takes care of the Pastors in RCCG by preparing their meals at Programs.

43. She is in Charge of how people are fed during the Annual National Convention of RCCG.

44. She travels around the world with her husband.

45. She is always dressed beautifully and elegantly.

46. She is always dressed in the same color with her husband.

47. She followed the steps of her predecessor, the wife of the Founder of RCCG.

48. She is moderate in all she does. she is not worldly.

49. She is an incurable giver.

50. She has improved the wellbeing of women and children all over the world.

51. She is a disciple of Jesus Christ.

52. She has spread the gospel in Africa through African Missions.

53. She led a team to visit Koma hills.

54. She through the help of God has been able to make graduates out of the people of Koma hills.

55. She is totally focused on the call of God for her life.

56. She is the leader of all Pastors wives in RCCG.

57. She supports Pastor’s children in all their programs.

58. She is reserved- she does not want to be known.

59. She takes care of the widows.

60. She has faced many difficulties as the wife of the General Overseer.

61. She cooks her husband’s meal personally.

62. She is the closest friend of her husband as he fondly says.

63. She stood by her husband when they had nothing.

64. She emptied her account when the Founder of RCCG told the church to do so.

65. She loves to wear hats at most of the programs of RCCG.

66. She calls her husband “Daddy”.

67. She doesn’t use jewelry.

68. She forgives easily.

69. She is fondly called Mummy G.O.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/69-things-know-pastor-mrs-folu-adeboye-clocks-69/

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Jaykindude:
Two people coming together in a relationship is very interesting has it involves your strength and weaknesses coming together. While lovers mostly enjoy their strengths and points of attraction, they neglect the differences often.

These differences must however not be neglected so as to enjoy a blissful marriage. Here are ways to work on the differences between you and your partner before marriage.

* Know your differences
The first thing to do before working on the differences between you and your partner is to identify those differences. What are those things you don’t get along with in your partner? Know them one by one.

* Identify the differences you can work on
There are some weaknesses in your partner that you can’t work on or adjust no matter how you try. For example, if the person is a stammerer, you can’t change it. However, there are some habits you can work on like way of eating or certain reactions.

* Appreciate strengths
Before you approach the differences in your partner, first take a look at his or her strengths which are those things you really appreciate about that person. Don’t identify them alone but tell the person how much you love them in that particular area.

* Discuss the differences
Take out sometime, sit with your partner and discuss the attributes, character, habits that you wish him or her could improve on. Note however that you should not condemn the person but express yourself in love. Show the person you will love them to work on those aspects.

* Help your partner to adjust
After you have discussed the differences if they are what you can adjust, help the person to do so. For example, if your partner doesn’t know how to spend rightly, always check whenever you are together if he or she is spending too much and give a signal or ask about his or her savings.

In a relationship, it is important for partners to help each other become the best. When the differences are taken care of, there will be more understanding in the relationship and marital success is achievable.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/work-differences-marriage/

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Segzee1:
MEET THE 14-YEAR-OLD BOY WHO STARTED SYRIA WAR, WHAT IPOB AND AREWA YOUTH SHOULD LEARN FROM HIM

You must have been hearing about Syria war, the war started in 2011 is has led to the death of about a Million people, brought Syria to its knee, allows Islamic state to take over part of the Country even made Ragga a city in Syria its Defacto headquarters.

 In 2011, what became known as the Arab Spring revolts toppled Tunisian President Zine El Abidine Ben Ali and Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak.

That March, peaceful protests erupted in Syria as well, after 15 boys were detained and tortured for having written graffiti in support of the Arab Spring. One of the boys, 13-year-old Hamza al-Khateeb, was killed after having been brutally tortured

   The Syrian government, led by President Bashar al-Assad responded to the protests by killing hundreds of demonstrators and imprisoning much more.

     In July 2011, defectors from the military announced the formation of the Free Syrian Army, a rebel group aiming to overthrow the government, and Syria began to slide into civil war. 

    More than 6 years after the first bullet was shot, the boom of guns continues, Bombs are been thrown, fighter jets are busy around the Country Iran and Russia are making brisk business, selling weapons to Syria Government, death becomes cheap, peace becomes elusive.

    Dailyfamily.ng investigation about Syria war shows this devastating effect, as at the time of this report:

4.9 Million people are living in hard to reach areas far from civilization

About 1 Million dead

More 1 Million wounded

700,000 trapped in besieged areas

6,3 million internally displaced

2,4 Million Children who are refugee

306,000 Children born as refugee

200,00 Children in besieged areas

Millions of refuge across the countries of the world

The Syrian civil war is the deadliest conflict the 21st century has witnessed so far.

Thousands of Bombs dropped over Syria.

   Could you believe that this war that has destroyed many lives, scattered  Families and destroyed normal live in Syria in the last Ten years was started by a 14-Year-old boy called
Mouawiya Syasneh, it was his  anti-Assad graffiti that lit the spark that led to the war that has affected the once beautiful Nation, that was once a Tourist destination to a stand still and a theatre of testing every new weapon by super powers

    Mouawiya Syasneh was just 14 when he sprayed anti-government slogans on his school wall in Deraa, Syria. It was February 2011, and he could never have imagined that such a minor act would spark a full-blown civil war.

   Like other Syrians Mouawiya had suffered seriously because of the war, his home city has been ravaged by street fighting, shelling and barrel bombing. His family destroyed, The war has left scars that may never heal.

  He is now a young man, he has to stop schooling, he is fighting on the frontline for the Free Syrian Army, a rebel group leading the war against President Bashar al-Asad.

     Mouawiya admits that had he known what the consequences of his actions would be, he would never have taunted the country's president, or say or the hate speeches that encouraged youth to flock the street in protest, leading to riots, civil disobedience and later turned into a full-blown war that nobody seems to be winning.

   His life has been transformed by that adolescent prank. He has lost friends and relatives, including his father. And Syria has been changed forever, may be beyond repair.

   IPOB boys led by Nnamdi Kanu who are calling other Nigerians animals, Nigeria as Zoo, and Arewa youth who are issuing a threat and quit notice to Igbo can borrow a leave from this boy and the Syria war as a whole.

    Let stop all hate speeches on the street and all social media, let live together in harmony, we've been together for a long time to forget our history too soon.  Animals don't die in war, it's the Human lives that are wasted.

   One wise man said, in "peace time, Children bury their Parents, in war time, Parent bury their Children"  to me that is for somebody that has the privilege to be buried, in many wars the dead remain unburied as everybody tries to protect their lives. Progress does stop, economy and family life do grind to a halt.

     We call on the Federal Government to address the issue raised by agitators, let sit down and talk about our future and the future of our Children, we must not turn this Country to another Syria.


http://www.dailyfamily.ng/meet-14-year-old-boy-started-syria-war-ipob-arewa-youth-learn/

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Ladies:

pressy09:
-By Oba Samuel

Since the arrest of the alleged notorious billionaire kidnapper -Chukwudumeje Onuamadike George, popularly known as Evans, his case has shown us different sides of life and the aspect that really touches me is that of his wife who claimed not to know that her husband is into kidnapping. This is the springboard to this write-up so as to open the eyes of women to what to watch out for so as to detect if your husband is a kidnapper.



1. HE HAS TOO MANY PHONES: It's a normal thing to have two phones in Nigeria due to the bad network but seeing a man with four phones and above, this calls for concern. It takes a man who is involved in a dubious business to be using many phones at the same time.

2. HIS PHONES ARE ALWAYS SWITCH OFF: Another sign that will help you detect if your husband is a kidnapper is when you notice that he has some phone he often switched off whenever he is at home just like Evans normally do. This should signal to you that he is using those phones to call the family of the victims whenever he wants to negotiate a ransom with them after which he switches the phone off to make it difficult for law enforcement agents to track him. EVANS: 9 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A KIDNAPPER



3. HE HAS TOO MAN SIM CARDS: If the man in your life is not a sim card seller nor an agent of a device provider, then you should be bothered about what he is doing with many SIM cards of different service providers. Like Evans, he may be using different SIM for family, wife, accomplices, Victims family, bank and others. Don't be fooled, it takes a kidnapper to have a such number of phones.

4. HE HARDLY RECEIVE CALLS IN YOUR PRESENCE: When your husband doesn't make calls nor receive calls in your presence, then you need to be suspicious what kind of business he is into

5. HE IS ALWAYS ON PHONE WITH STRANGE PEOPLE: Through his phone conversations, you will be able to deduce the kind of deal he is into. If he is always on phone with strangers talking about money or using coded language, that should give you a prompting that he may be a kingpin.

6. HE USES MANY SATELLITE PHONES: Satellite phones are very expensive and they are made for security operatives and government officials like presidents, governors, service chiefs and ambassadors. Seeing your husband using satellite phone like Thuraya may be a pointer that he is a kidnapping headmaster.

7. HE HAS TOO MUCH CASH AT HOME WHICH HE NEVER DEPOSITS IN BANK: When a man turns his house to a bank where he keeps a huge sum of money running into millions in local and foreign currency, you need nobody to tell you that it either your husband is into kidnapping or armed robbery.


8. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR A LIVING: Like Evans when your husband is so secretive about his means of livelihood, don't just enjoy the boom with, u will soon face the doom of public disgrace with him.

9. HE NEVER ALLOWS YOU TO KNOW HIS OFFICE, SHOP OR WORKSHOP: Having a husband whose office, shop and workshop you do not know and anytime you make a move, he keeps giving you excuses, then you should know that you have housed a kidnapping, drug baron or armed robbery syndicate.
Wives, get to know what your husband does for a living and the location of his office or business.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/evans-9-ways-know-married-kidnapper/

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Is it right for a lady to pay for her own Bride Price?

Is it right for a lady to pay for her own Bride Price?

Is it right for a lady to pay for her own Bride Price?

pressy09:
-Bisi Adewale
It’s always a good idea to be totally open to your wife.Let her know your plans, movements, visions and thinking. This will help her to connect well with you and get along with you as your wife and Mother of the house. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife
Despite the facts that you should be totally open to your wife, there are 11 secrets that you should never reveal to your Wife.Let me open your eyes to them here:

1) BAD THINGS YOUR MOTHER SAID ABOUT HER:

Maybe before you married her or after your wedding, your Parents might have told you some things they don’t like about your wife for one reason or the other.11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His ife
You have to be careful the way you talk to her about what they said. You may correct her without telling her who said what or say it in such a way that she will not get hurt by their words.
If you say it the way they said it, you may create eternal enmity between them.11 Secrets Man Should Never
2) BAD THINGS YOUR FAMILY SAID ABOUT HER:

Like your Parents, your siblings, Uncles, Aunties etc might have said some negative things about your wife in the past, handle this with care, lest you create a battle that may outlive you between them. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife

3) YOUR TERRIFYING DREAMS:


It is very easy for a woman to wake her husband up to tell him about her nightmares and terrible dreams. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife

It’s not bad for a woman to say this to her husband, but it is not always good for a man to share terrible dreams with his wife that may not allow her to sleep.

You can tell her to pray or pray together concerning the dreams but avoid giving her the graphic details, lest you scare her. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife
4) HOW YOUR FRIENDS REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER:

You friends might say unkind words about her.If you relay it the way they presented it ; your house may become a no-go area for such friend.
5) YOUR DIRTY FEELINGS ABOUT HER:

Avoid speaking out your negative thought about her when you fight If you utter all that is in your mind in time of conflict , you will hurt your wife greatly and destroy your home
6) GIRLS THAT ARE EYEING YOU:

Once in a while, you may notice some ladies who are really after you and see you as their source of “crush” despite the fact that you are married. You don’t just go ahead to tell your wife about this, for a lady to show interest in you may not necessarily means she is after you.So, be careful. If you tell your wife about it, she may not handle It rightly and can begin to suspect you and fight the innocent lady.

7) HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIS MUM:

Her Mum may not be behaving very well by your standard, but that is how she’s been behaving and raised the damsel that you married. So, it will be bad to tell your Wife that her Mother or Father are not well behaved.
HOW WHAT PEOPLE SAID REALLY HURTS YOU:

Some people will say something that will hurt you greatly. Please, avoid saying how it hurts shedding tears in the process. If you end up forgiven the person your wife may never forgive somebody that makes her husband cries.
9) HOW WHAT PEOPLE DID GREATLY HURTS YOU:

Just like the case above, people will do something that hurts you, but must avoid sensationalizing it to your wife. Please, always downplay your hurt so as to make it easy for your wife to forgive people.
10) NAMES OF GIRLS YOU HAD SLEPT WITH:

It will be totally wrong to show her the list of those you slept with before you met your wife. She doesn’t need that information, they are your Ex, please move on
11) PAST SEXUAL ENJOYMENT:

Likewise, you need not tell her what you enjoy in other ladies to motivate her to perform better in the bedroom, that will be very wrong.
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/15-facts-need-know-tonto-dikeh-clocks-32/

Nice write up, God blessed your but l do love this one that you wrote also
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