₦airaland Forum

jerseyboy:
Soyinka's support for Buhari in 2015 was perplexing for a man of letters. So many were blinded by hatred for Jonathan that they failed to see clearly that they were marching us back to the Egypt of our Fulani internal colonial masters.

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]First, sometimes you don't need proof to act. It's not as if when you just have a feeling that something is wrong you just jump on the next bus to wherever she schools and go visit her. It takes time and patience to note all these things.

Common, no matter how you trust someone when the person starts faulting you should be sharp enough to know.

Loool....this your second point is quite funny and very laughable. What in the seven rivers of Africa do you mean by she's in campus so I should let her enjoy campus like I did? Are you indirectly saying I should allow my girlfriend frolick and flirt with other guys because that's campus life?

Is that how you handle your own girlfriend?

You see how many of you guys make silly mistakes? Now I see why some of you are sissies. It's not like checking on her will stop her from doing what she wants to do but at the same time it's quite foolish to let her "enjoy campus life" at the detriment of our relationship. Don't you think?

And your third point, you think if I want to surprise her I will let her know that's the reason I came to see her? Common you should be more intelligent than that.

What is the meaning of "that's her territory"? I don't really get how some of you handle your relationships but please don't tag it as "mature", it's far from it.

Your girl will be cheating on you and you'll keep quiet because you want to be mature about it. LOL! [/color][/b]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And how will you define someone who is "MATURE ENOUGH" to handle a relationship?

You people just keep going round in circles without hitting the point. How does suspecting your partner and trying to catch her red handed less mature?

I would like to know how you would have handled yours in a mature way. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Why else should a surprise visit be made if I'm not suspecting something.[/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]i don't understand. So because I "TRUST" my girlfriend I should not be suspicious of her activities.

Does trusting someone mean you should play blind or deaf when there are signs that your woman is cheating on you?

I don't get it, or maybe I'm the one mixing things up. Probably someone will explain better. [/color]

isiak33:
pls can sum 1 help with the link to download game of thrones season six

yomi007k:
In other words ur asking how u wud keep her and keep ur girlfriend too....



I hope d Ifa guy above gives u a response.

emusmith:
I guess you are new here. I wouldn't exchange words with you. But answer my question: What contribution have you made on NL? Some, over the years have become friends and admirers. AS USUAL, some like my thread and some don't. What have you done? Don't whine and grine... Be the change you want to see or SHUT UP!

emusmith:
I re-mixed other people's post? What have you done? It's better to remix ans make fp than to just hutsle to be FTC in a "remixed" thread. You werent even ftc. What do you think?

emusmith:
Smithy: Stunts ladies who are 25+ shouldn't be pulling

Hmm...as I look around, I see reasons to also note from a different perspective that everything is not BLACK and WHITE, there are also GREY areas.

The number of 25+ ladies are increasing by the day and funny, some of these women don't understand the significance of etching closer towards '30'.

Like it or hate it, all guys can't be wrong at same time. There are some stunts you shouldn't pulling if you are 25+ and if you persist, history will keep repeating it self:
- Late marriages
- Unhappiness in the home.
- Divorce etc


1. Being Over- Dramatic

Drama! Drama!! Drama!!! Yes, girls are dramatic by default but if you are heading towards 30, you should reset you default settings. All of a sudden, you quit talking to a guy you've known for years or even months and you expect him to...to what? To decipher and doggedly go after you. Later tomorrow, you'll say, "I'ld have left you but you forced me". That's what guys don't understand. Mind you: guys have admirers too but they chose you. Reduce the drama.



2. Changing guys like under wears

You'll see a girl who claims is getting ready for marriage test-running different guys like a guy testing which console will work on his PS2. Yes, you did it as a 'kid' but now? Haba! You wonder why no responsible guy is coming your way, it's simply because you've friendzoned all of 'em.


3. Still upholding the Principle of "oloshos"

Do I know the principles? At least I know that they date all kinds of men, Sugar daddies and Alhajis included. You can't be cross-dating and still expect a responsible young man: Mba! His mummy's prayer negates that!

4. Pursuing guys after "free" rides, meals, dates etc

There is nothing as naughty, demeaning and cheap-looking as a 25+ girl who claims to have no feeling for a guy BUT wants free meals, rides, from same. That's irresponsible. If na so 'love' dey catch you, get a guy that will love you for free. Don't get a guy's hope up, and later you start acting innocent and weird. That's witchcraft!

5. E-robbery

A robber takes from you and doesn't sit with you. "She" runs away. I have heard some guys who have been "robbed" by some of these chicks. To them it's a game but it's an indirect way of strengthening yourself as a "single and searching" for a long time.


PS: It hurts me to see a girl deceiving herself, all in the name of "I still have more time". The truth is: the shortest 5 years in a ladies life is the 25-30 range. A word is enough for the wise.

Norajones:
See fight. Oh my God. Hahaha. What happened to gender equality? Marriage will happen when it will happen. Girls stop being used and deceived by men. And men step up Your game and be loyal. No one is your one and only. Some men get married only for the purpose of reproduction(have kids)

emusmith:
What happens to airing my opinion? Unlike you who have none, if you do, open a thread on it.

TonySpike:
So, I found a similar picture for all superman characters over the past 60-something years! Haha! Which of these actors is the best at portraying superman?

kimnicki:
am I the only one or does this lady look like taraji p Henson (cookie for those that watch empire)