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CindyeMerAld:
lolz..

lolz ? LOLZ? Dats all u can say to prince charming ? LOLz? Am so hurt right now

CindyeMerAld:

so it is nutu you ikwa? Oya tell that lady on ur dp dat I wanna marry her sharp sharp. And I HAS money. What a lovely use of ankara or whhatever native dat is. And by the way speak my dearie, no close mouth again oh. Inugo

CindyeMerAld:

so it is no you ikwa? Oya tell that lady on ur dp dat I wanna marry her sharp sharp. And I HAS money. What a lovely use of ankara or whhatever native dat is. And by the way speak my dearie, no close mouth again oh. Inugo

franniechuks:
Thank you o

ayam looking atyew decieving dat gullible boy. Shame

stigmond:
Yeah. I trust mine 100%. But the question I should ask my self. Is, do I trust my self?

you have been brainwashed. But I like ur type, without boys like you, whose gf would we sleep with. Omo enjoy braaah

onila:
school was hard for me because I cant allow boys touch me

I had to act like a psycho so boys wldnt be attracted to me

in my family, being classy was extremely important for females

I dont want my daughter to pass thru what I did
I suffered in school socially and educationally because of having too much class

team virgin¬
onila

guess you want to harness the lesbian gene you transferred to them....the virgin l1ar. Tufiakwa

CindyeMerAld:
nairaland guys r fond of that sh*t lyk we ladies r no allowed to voice out our opinion... bunch of ego maniacs..

sexy is dat u on ur dp ? Nne di ok. Op you are a woman wrapper like me. Shame on u

halfricanadian:
lol me wey b say my fart gland no get control

disgusting

Bros have to let u know. Dat shawdy looks familiar oh........#even your boo get a boo..... A boo , a boo. #singing while keeping secrets

abouzaid:
rubbish, imagine your girlfriend you live in the same compound with bringing in a man and spend the night with him in the full view of your compound people, then you would know what pain is, even God does not forgive all sins yet i forgave and she did worse. that was a big mistake on my part.

what a public disgrace. You tried in forgiving such. With a gun to me head, I won't forgive such a woman oh

PunkyV:
The deception of the sneaky toad To be double-crossed is the most painful & the most infuriating thing ever. It makes me almost epileptic with fury (the shakes) because you feel like such a dummy. It's humiliating.

The sex is not much of an issue with me. It's his D after all. He just wont be sharing it with the world while with me. Full stop. It's disrespectful.

am guessing both could hurt you in equal measure

donbenedict:
Oh my gosh she catches me red handed cheating on her and I deny flatly to her dat I don't knw what she is talkn about? Ryt?







Lord even knws I will die dat night

hahahahaha funny u

Vikky014:
i so much hate lies eh. it is better to tell me the truth despite dt it hurts than to deceive and lie to me. y shld i think abt d sex who sex epp

funny. Truthful e no epp anyone. Though for std purposes and hiv it should be monogamous

Vikky014:
the lying and deception hurts most nt the sex

I thought dat was a male thing. Guess women feel the same about the lies too

I have to now contend that a marriage I attended last year, filled with joy and plump is finally over. Chidi never expected to be a divorcee and am sure neither did tolani. Yet all our pleas to him to forgive and forget fell on deaf ears. Not because he didn't forgive, but he could not forget.


I remember my reason for not visiting this fellow any longer, I couldn't understand the lack of boundaries his wife displays. Unto say I no wan make mistake nack my padi wife, I had to keep off and lie I am never in town. I always had this thinking that something was amiss, till the unpalatable story of him seeing sperms in her buttocks when he tried having a quick sex one day, apparently she was having an office affair and never cleaned up properly on the said day he tried to have a quickie. She later confessed and all but it appears that on the day in question she denied everything flatly. Chidi will always point to that denial and swear it was due to God's grace he didn't strangle her. He could touch another man's sperm on his wife and yet she was denying it.

I tried to make him see reasons that she was scared and its human nature to deny at such moment , and if after a year he could get past the sex part, why couldn't he just let go of the denial part. Today dat marriage has officially ended. Tolani changed during the past year of their issues, the once bubbly and flirty woman did everything to see that her marriage was salvageable. Yet her unfortunate past ruined her. To cheat could be devil's work but to lie about cheating is definitely man's work.

Its a deliberate ploy to decieve, to humiliate, to outsmart and denigrate a loved one. I understand my buddy though, even if I feel he forgave the sex but not the deception , and that he might regret that since I can confirm that she turned a new leaf.

What hurts the most and why exactly........ The sex ? Or the accompanying lying and deception. Even both

cutieme:
A friend narrated his experience thus:he was doing the thing jejely with the girl while all of a sudden, she decided to switch over to the cowgirl position. The young man obliged and gbam they started .Not long after,the girl lifted herself up ,came down again and my friend was like moaning in ecstacy also the girl,then when he looked closely, he discovered the dick isn't in the main channel,so he asked the girl where the hell is his dick pounding and the silly girl said the anaconda. My friend was like,gosh! how come I penetrated just like that, have you been doing it before? The girl said no,you just disvirgined it.

hahahahahahahahahahhahaha. She is a virgin for shizzle

macof:
I knew it. people who are lazy enough to say "I leave it till after I die" "i dont know, lemme die first" are worthless swines who find human life too much of a burden and are filled with so much frustration, anger and hate

just look at the insults you give in reply to an innocent comment.

its ur LovePeddler of a mother who hasn't got a functioning brain. Idiot .because na online abi. Dats y u spew such thrash to ur betters.

5minsmadness:
Hehehe Eddy Eddy!
You didn't understand the Op at all.
No empathy or sympathy for the man OR the woman!
You think the woman doesn't want a clean slate as well?
You think she wouldn't look at the man with embarrassment knowing what was done to her in his front?
You think she would be happy with the man for not protecting her? Deep down she will also nurse some anger for the man for letting it happen even though there was little he could do to prevent it.




Don't be in such a hurry to defend an accused when nobody was accusing. He didn't divorce her cos he thot she cheated. He divorced her cos he couldn't stand being with her and remembering the incident where she was raped and he couldn't do anything about it.

I get you, I understand the stigma, but has marriage become so meaningless that we can find easy ways out of it. If one marries a wife and she had an accident which disfugured her face. Nobody will blame the husband for wanting a divorce , but is it fair ? This scenario could play out in both ways and should simply be regarded as an unfortunate event. It wasn't the man's fault and wasn't the woman's fault. But for the sancity of marriage. They are supposed to get past that even though its a bitter pill to swallow.

What if the wife is still in love with him and intrested in the marriage. From her perspective, she is losing her home for an event where she was a victim. I don't see it as being fair and thus must be empathetic at her. Its a painful loss of a maarriage for an unfortunate event that could be looked past. What's the big deal in fucking aa woman by the way. She may not have even been a virgin sef. So why the fuss by her oga @ the top

okenwa:
Put your self in his shoes and stop forming like you are an actor in a film, understand the scenario that was presented and look at it with the eyes of a man going into a new married life,
This is not James Bond film or tales by moon light.

look at this one. So if the scenario was turned around. And gays raped u and ur wife divorces u simply becasue she can barely look at you. You won't castigate the female folkk for lack of understanding since you weren't gay before the rape. You telling me to look at the man's point of view when the rape wasn't the fault of the woman. The same applies to marrying aa wife and due to unfortunate events she lost a leg. A lowly man like u will divorce her and tell us to look at his point of view. What happened to for better or worse. For an unfortunate event that befell the poor woman in ur presence. Isn't it the man's duty to protect his wife ? Did he do that ? Shame menfolk have reduced in quality to your knid with ur myopic reasoning. Anyway you could be a boy sef. Abeg commot for road

He is an idiot. Your wife was raped while he powerlessly looked on at his fellow men, then he goes on to divorce her ? He is a buffon of the highest order. Will we call that cheating too? Instead of him to cry and the blatant mental, sexual and emotional abuse of his dear wife. He divorced her ?. He isn't fit to be a man. His marital vows meant nothing to him. Its a cross God tried to see if he could bear and he failed miserably. Please tell the man " HE SHOULD GO AND DIE" . Save us some oxygen

skywalker240:
i feel bad if i beat my GF,...cos she cant even contend against my left thumb finger...anyways my prayer for u is that a random girl keeps slaping u on the road up to like 5 or 6 times even when people keeps holding her...make u know wetin be dat demon when u dey talk about.

if you use the anger of her provocation beat am . Please tell me. You think she will survive it ? Dats the point. Even when other road users came , she told them she did nothing wrong, the man just beat her up for no reason. The usual vixtim card. Do you how how many of them beleieved her ? Am sure almost all. If say police or army join. They would have pounced on the man without hearing the full story. Thus wats the gain.

sinaj:
Lol funny


Sometimes I dnt feel any pity for a girl wen they get beaten up coz their bad mouth alone can drive one crazy




But the man would av just walked away from the scene instead of retaliating, walking away will prevents lots of drama.



if the lady had fainted when he hit her back, the story wud surely change against him.


Some women wahala too much sha

That's why I just find it difficult living with a girl for long as roommate.

@ fainted or even worse off died. that would be another ronke shonde. Its wise to talk away no matter how weak dat would make one look. By the way e no suppose be for womaan body man go dey show bravery or strength. Its not easy to be with women, even babes admit that. Thus respect the men who stay and don't abuse. They are trying

skarlett:
its too early to quarrel, meet me later in the day and you'll explain what 'illogical' means, iranu

ogbeni whether today or tommorw, its the same. Ever wonder why women are ascribed a fish brain ? Its their inabilty to have logical reasoning. And I will use you as an example to prove it. Please continue

Would have posted this since, but I was in prison. Thanks to a hyperaactive mod. Anyway we keep reading unpalatable news of spousal abuse, and it appears the men have brought ttheir agbero lifestyle to the homefront. Well I wanna describe a situation I met at asaba two days ago while on a journey.

As I drove into the fuel station and queued, I observed a man and a woman seriously cussing themselves, they were passengers in the same bus which stopped to buy fuel. Anyway I looked away, only to hear a loud thud, a slap has landed and the man was on the floor. This woman slapped him, we was still trying to get up and retaliate, when I ran out with some other men and held him. Some of the market women selling chin chin and banana rushed to hold the woman. She broke away from their grasp and landed him another slap even while we were holding him. I screamed at the woman, urging her to control herself. While still struggling with this man to prevent an attack by him. After five to ten minutes he calmed down abit. The market women were able to coerce the rampaging bull of a woman back into the vehicle.

The man wanted to enter the vehicle so it could move, when the same woman slapped him again, calliing him a weakling and a nobody. Dat was when the market women in anger warned us all not to interfer anymore. My people what happened next deserves tv viewing at a WWE match. The man dragged her down and beat her to stupor, she was trying to run away while begging for help, yet we didn't come to her aid, it was other roadusers who just entered the fuel station and whom never knew our earlier efforts that saved her from his clutches.

She ran to one side, crying with a bloodied face, cussing the man, telling him he isn't fit to be a man, only weak men beat women, blah blah. The market women and the fuel attendants kept mocking her , telling her she got what she bargained. But in my heart I felt very bad. I hate to see a woman crying and she was really badly beaten up. Even though she deserved the smack down, yet she can't see the hypocrisy in her behaviour. She was so scared of entering the bus again knowing the man had already entered. It took pleas from the driver to assure her safety before she entered. She appeared powerless and as usual took on the victim role to the newly arrived motorists to the fuel station.

The real shocker in this story is that, they were both husband and wife. We learnt that after their bus zoomed off.


Thus I now blamed the man, I have realised that majority of these women are possesed and can't help themselves sometimes. And as a man the only way is to tolerate their excesses and understand the many demons they fight daily to be women. How else would you explain that, a woman who ordinarily will think twice before slapping a fellow woman, will have the guts to slap a man who is physically stronger than her, and yet she will believe he won't retaliate because he is a true man by her myopic definitions. Women are illogical and thus must be tolerated and not physically abused when they misbehave. You can beat them up , but you really should not. There is no gain in such display of bravado. This is why a major trait any man must posess to be mature enough, is the ability to tolerate women. Because to these people , even if she slaps u and u retaliate, she will play the victim, even if she cheats on you and you wallop her, she will post pictures on nairaland of her injuries with an attached statement that you "thought" she cheated. they are illogical beings and thus cannot comprrhend many things in life.

#say no to female abuse

macof:
why wait for death? don't you have a perfectly functioning brain to analyse things and pick out fallacies?

look at this dimwitted hoodrat. Look at the level of reasoning ur perfectlyy worrking brain tells you. Oya tell the world ur opinion and watch me thraash you so hard, you will deactivate today. Am wwaiting for ur half baked idiiotic thoughts on the issue. Bloody asswipe

bejeria101:
This same character is the one insulting my friend and bringing my friends daughter who is barely 2yrs into what she knws nothing about,dis guy is just a kid.

because you are anonymous and its online. You will get away with jerking off on me. I see u have a gay fixation on my monicker. Now little boy go do something meaniful with urslef cos I have nothing to offer you or ur friend. Have given you the attention you need am sure you orgasmed. Now beat it kiddo

smileysmiley:
makes me wonder who the real fool is... the op or his so-called "bitch".... you enjoyed the sex and she enjoyed it to but you were the one who had to part away with your hard earned money... this"bitch" will still end up in a man's house ooo, a rich one sef maybe... continue wasting money that should be used in raising a family cause at the end you will still need to marry a "bitch" to give you children or you want to end up childless abi? na u sabi... if you like say you will have a child outside wedlock, you will still need to give her your hard earned money to raise your child... At the end of the day, the so-called "bitch" is the winner... continue dey mumu yourself

the only reasonable response to him. Though its hypocritcal to deny his experience as an everyday happening. Yet the generalization is illadviced