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doveda:
That is because this is an opnion not a reply to an extremist. I have always been objective. You need to pay more attention.


I wanted to reply you and trust me you wouldn't have been stvpefied if I did.

hahahahs online bully

doveda:
Stvpid woman. Foluke in particular must be a mo.ron. Inasmuch as I don't believe that we need Gender equality bill, Foluke must be daft to say women should have less rights. Less rights in what exactly? The mor.on might not have had a shot at formal education if it was part of the right exclusively granted to men. The mo.ron might still believe that a woman deserves to be sexuallt assaulted. The mo.ron might have been severely dealt with for having an affair while married with a married man. Foluke has absolutely no right to talk!

What we want is equal opportunity for all gender. We already have laws that cover areas where women are primarily the victims for example archaic widow practices and abuse. I don't know where in Nigeria women are paid less for working the same job with the same number of hours with their male colleagues. There is no one in Nigeria that can stop a woman from doing anything, so what exactly is their problem? . If they want something to fight, they should start with the increasing rate of sexual abuse of our children. However they are right to chastise the woman for making a mo..ronic statement

wow. Who hijacked ur monicvker. For the first time you are objective in ur analysis and followership of the feminist agenda. Wow. Am stupified

The sun rises, the sun shines, the sun sets. Days will come and go, months shall pass on to a year, and to our deaths we race on. These activities will happen in same cycle without any bother to the poverty, unhappiness, anger and dissapoinments of this life. The world never stops to ask u if u have eaten today before the sun sets, nor will it inquire if you had a nightmare before the day breaks. Nature is thus a continuum where as parts of a large puzzle we race in tandem. If live doesn't wait or consider your present , talk more on ur yesterday. Why do you bother about it.

Your yesterday's hurt could be the loss of a loved one, the loss of job , a failed marriage , a failed relationship, regrets from studying the wrong course, regrets for graduating with a bad result thus affecting ur present, pains from ur failing health, pains from loss of finances , pains from a fall in social status and worse of all pains from remembering the lost joys of ur past as opposed to what you are going through currently.

Spilt milk is forever lost, the past is forver lost with whatever joys, pains or sorrow they held. So far we focus on the past will we forever feel the lost pains, while we focus on our past failures, the present passes us by so quickly that we are unable to model some parts of our future by our current existence.

Maybe you haven't gotten a job since graduation thanks to your past, maybe you haven't remarried or even gotten married thanks to your past, maybe you currently don't feed well thanks to a misfortune in your past, maybe you can't give birth thanks to mistakes in ur past.

If nature has forgiven you by racing on to ur future, don't you think you owe it to yourself to keep pace? So far you still live, there is always hope for you to seek a new success story. A success story that will be a big story despite your past. Don't stick with a failed life story because of ur past. Its long gone now in memory , only to be remembered by busybodies and no dogooders.

Love again, study again, marry again, trust again, care again, aspire again and above all TRY AGAIN.

No big problem has every withstood multiple try agains.

Success to you all as you forget past hurts and try again. God will favour you. Cheers

Change your topic, to she is being attacked by lonely lesbians. Who could be suffering from the linda ikeji effect. Ask those fools their definition of gender equality and see if it isn't in line with male emasculation philosophy. The will come online and scream gender equality, while go to their home and cry their hearts out while on their knees to one recessive male, in hope he doesn't leave their slack ass. Women are always in a game of opposites. Iranu people

Adekorya:
Me have made up my mind, that anytime a mad man all in the name of being a soldier attempt to infringe upon my right it's gonna be a war even if my life is at stake.

I would rather die fighting for my right than to be alive and watch my right getting un-derserve treatment.

when they are through with you. You won't be able to differentiate ur right from ur left. Iranu. If you like follow mad people wey wear uniform dey drag. Na mutu sure for u

Florblu:
***********

pookie I miss you

Nusaf:
Is this the embarrassment? Ok, I will do just that cos it is a true reflection of the economic situation. But I will advise you to develop an average sense of reasoning to strike a difference between u and my dog.

why are you responding to that boy. He is clearly ignorant. To think that in these lean times that for the first time in history , a nigerian , I repeat a nigerian politician kept his word and paid. Its truly and acheivement. That jonathan did it in a time of affluence is not the same a buhari doing the same thing at a time of reduced revenue. Don't waste energy bro

Lovely and hilarious. Do post more

damseyl:
please will you just stop making me laugh out loud..

I havve told you sha. always remember sometthing annoying next time u takke a photo. Thus frown your face very well. Its not a crime. Once a smile shows. And gap teeth mistakenly show.

Ye shall see my pm.

damseyl:
hehehe...lol

hmmmmmm. Lucky fine girl. Please ignore any attempts I make to chyke you. Its devil working. If you see my pm. Delete it. And for future purposes stop smiling in future pics lest you lead us into temptation

damseyl:
hehehe...lol

hmmmmmm. Lucky fine girl. Please ignore any attempts I make to chyke you. Its devil working.

firstking01:
You again

hahahahahahahahhaha. How u doing bro

TheFirstLady:
what bigger problem of 9j men do you presume i Am Ok with? a man who does not keep his word will definitely lie and never be loyal - Who wants that?

the ego thing.

Anyway loyalty is everything. If you don't have that . One has nothing. So I get u

lemolise:
Haha. I stayed with my nana for years and the food was always great. She always cooked with habaneros, jalapenos and few grape tomatoes. Cooking with lotta pepper will cement her place. I can't stand this tomato sauce some of our ladies cook nowadays

really? You love pepper. I can't stand it.

My stomach will run for a month

damseyl:

this is out of context of discussion. But YOU ARE GAP TOOTHED ?

Jesus

Before I cheat on my woman , I better never view ur profile again.


Such a sucker I am

Oliviaarims:
Doing right by her doesn't necessarily have to do with standards.

guess am truly lost. Didn't get that at all.

My understanding of the by her is skewed towards, pleasing her.

That to me appears abit looped. I might be wrong in my understanding of what u mean though

AirSultan:
The sight of onions in my food too discourages me. I prefer it blended with the food without me knowing. Good write-up

can you imagine. Am not the only one, yet that man says we might need medical attention because one doesn't eat or loike seeing onions.

I can only eat it grounded too. Just let me not see it

TheFirstLady:
the lying part and the six pack... i don't get you

you said u love a man who keeps his words and I just assume u like six packs.

You say you are traditional and by my analysis you are a good nigerian woman , good enough for nigerian men.

The only issue you might have with us is the not keeping to our words

So I ask, can't you excuse that since the bigger problem of naija men , you seem ok with it

HateU2:
So bcox of dat, u too jumped in2 conclusion that we are lez

U shld be more mature than that. It's a social media nigga, some peeps choose to be stupid on social medias becox it's a faceless forum.


And u even ended up mentioning our monikers in the thread. If you want to type smtin, u can easily do that without tarnishing any body's image.


What's my biz with u nd ur gf
Remove our monikers now!

hmmmmmmmmmmm. Ok ma

HateU2:
Op, I don't lyk bashing peeps really but u dont have to call me a lez simply bcox of my opionon. If u check my siggy nd Dp, u will knw dat I love d!ck. I'm not a lez, u gerrit

dearie I didn't call you personally a lesbian. The other people in ur thread on fp came to that conclusion. I only made refrence to their aspertions.

I don't have an issue with les by the way, but didn't refrence that derogativelly.

Nevertheless ndo, kpele, sorry, no vex

TheFirstLady:
the Traditional part i understand... i very much Am African and understand our value and traditions... the ego part is not a special reserve of Nigerian men - a man is a man...

if you are this flexible. Then a nigerian man is ur optimal partner. Where have you been lookiong for them at.

The two major issues with a nigerian man is his great innate desire to not be emasculated. He likes asserting his manhood. Foriegn women hate that. But our lovely nigerian women can tolerate us and even allow our bragadacio.

If you could take that, and understand it. In my thougjts a lying tongue appears forgivable. Don't u think so?

We should ignore it like the six packs

lemolise:
Eddy, they'll soon come for you A friend once told me "It's all just a fumble in the dark while hoping not to bump into something & get badly hurt" Honesty and loyalty are the most important to me.

some people enjoy using me to practise their attack skills. Let them come. At least when they kill me they will rest.

Actually in a general perspective of our current experiences . It appears to be a fumble in the dark. But deep down we really have prefrences and definitions.

Loyalty is the greatest trait a woman can offer. If you find that and yet she cooks with a lot of pepper. I tell such man to shove his complain down that place sun don't shine and drink water. Cos he got a terrible cooking diamond

TheFirstLady:
i pretty much am open minded... i currently am seeing a foreign guy... its been Great so far without the attendant drama of dating a 9j guy...this is my second time Dating a foreigner...i wish i could get that one 9j guy that fits the bill...do i have to lower my Standards because i must date or eventually marry a 9j guy? look around you, imagine what it is like to be a 9ja woman... abegi, wherever one Finds love bo

hahaahhahah. Anyway it isn't easy but exceptions abound. We have a lot of ego down here and still pretty much traditional. If such isn't ur turn on. There are lots of evolved naija guys. Especially those who are exposed. Infact have noticed some on this forum.

Upbringing affects idealogy. But as two faces of children of same parents aren't the same. Thus plenty men here could fit ur bill. Once I see one on the street who does. I will tell him to chyke you at once.

What is ur project topic. And in what field. State it here and If in my area of expertise. Will help u for free while you do the work. Instead of paying for someones job at another univeristy

Oliviaarims:
My definition of a gentleman is one who knows to respect a woman and does right by her. He doesn't toy with her emotions to suit his selfish desires.

could it be possible for a man to be right by her staandards all the time? I think that's humanly difficult. Though the toying with emotions for selfish desires is plain criminal

TheFirstLady:
lmao...indeed There is a living GOD! societal Standards don't trump my personal Standards and choices...i guess.. theres more i look out for and Trust me, a large percentage of 9j men fall below par...maybe its just societal Standards and how they view Nigerian women

ha don't tell me you are part of the team foreign men crew?

TheFirstLady:
hahahaha...i do pyscho-analysis to some extent... you can read a person to a large extent behind the facade ...sometimes checkout Body Language, Things left unsaid,things said-read between the lines...touch on the Person's vibe-try to Touch the person's spirit... voila! There you have it... Throw in keeping his words, you just know already

ha and truly there was no mention of six packs. Who says there isn't a living God.

Note to all those pregnant men who may or may not be taller than either aki or pawpaw. We have a lady here that would consider you so far you don't have a lying tongue.

# just kidding. But good choices u gat. It will work for u dear

TheFirstLady:
true that... that is the yardstick for measuring Who is a real man or Flash in the pan... i immediately loose interest if a man falls below this standard

its veryy difficult for a pretender to keep up with all his words, anyway since u will be crossing out a lot u meet, you should meet a whole lot so by the time you cross out 90percent as frauds. You could have a 10percent to apply another yardstick to. Eg does he have six packs

TheFirstLady:
First Things first...a man that keep his word! that connotes discipline... that will be a man i can respect

if one uses keeping words to filter men, you will know a good man amongst the rest in the shortest possible time. E no easy to keep words, that's why I preach, if you can keep to to it , then shut the hell up

wordbank:
It's either you're self contradictory or your subconscious is unaware of itself.

Secondly go for medical treatment and stop blaming onions for shining your eyes or pepper for not gingering your appendage for poor sexual performance

oh that is a notice board to nairalanders not my bae, ha if I don't forgive bae who will . and I can't stand onion in my food. If I see a strand on my plate am done eating. Its not wierd and am sure u have somethhing u don't aand can't eat despite its usefullness to ur appendages

damseyl:
What defines a real gentleman; Wisdom
And a perfect lady? Knowledge

I understand the wisdom part. But how can knowledge maake a perfect woman

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Oh on second thought It now makes sense. Hmmmmmmmmmmm