missingrib:
can you

yes I can

NL

for me yes....

can you have sex without catching feelings??

fadjnr:
10 is called squirting not squinting.

thanks

WHAT YOU MUST AVOID DOING AFTER SEX

There are certain actions or things that some people do right after sexual intercourse which is not cool and so unromantic. Most often they do not realise it or see it as an issue but it is.

1. Turning away from your partner right after sex. This does not encourage bonding and it may leave your partner wondering if it's all about sex. Right after sex you need to glow with your partner.

2. Whatsapping or watching tv right after sex. Leaving your partner alone to watch telenovela or football match is not cool. It may leave your partner thinking...is about me or the phone or the tv? Was he/she in a hurry to finish with the sex so as to watch the tv?
Even if you want to watch tv, watch something you will all enjoy.

3. Sleeping right after sex. Ohh yes I know very well that sex can induce sleep but it wouldn't take anything away from you to look at your partner and say something nice to him/her before you sleep.

4. Leaving right after sex. If this happens occasionally or if the sex was meant to be a quickie then it is acceptable but not when it becomes consistent.

5. Telling your partner how bad he/she performed. Eiiii this one is serious. When you do that, it can destroy the self-esteem of your partner. Even if you didn't enjoy it please and please just make a suggestion as to what or how you want it but never condemn.
In my personal opinion one must not even wait till it comes to that point. Talk to your partner if you are not enjoying it in a particular style or way and call for how you want it. Communication is key!

6. Don't make your requests right after sex. Putting your requests before your partner right after sex may seem a smart move to most people but I don't. Some people feel that you may not have had the sex if not because of the request you had in mind. Some see you as a prostitute except that you didn't ask before the sex. Funny enough some people even make the request during the sexual intercourse and the reply to the request is always YES though some people do not even remember what they said the YES to after the sex. This is to tell you that you only coerced your partner.

7. Masturbating after sex. To some people this is normal to them especially those with insatiable desire for sex. This when done consistently before your partner can make him/her feel useless. If you must do it, do it away from your partner or discuss it with your partner and understand each other way before the sex and if possible find a way of letting your partner assist you.

8. Being in a hurry to cover yourself right after sex. This can send different messages to your partner. It could mean that you are shy of your partner or of yourself. It could mean your partner is not worthy to see your unclothedness.

9. Discussing your problems or challenges right after sex. To a lot of people this is the right time but I don't think so. You just experienced a wonderful moment...enjoy it while it last. Bringing in such issues could backfire and spoil the mood you both were in.
Because careful of the things you say or do right after sex as this can gradually cripple your relationship or marriage. Ensure that the sex you have is healthy and does not pose any health risk to yourself and your partner.


#TEAMNO2...

Chommieblaq:
Friends = yeah
Close friends =no




Best friends = HELL NO


If she still love you and want make una come back, make she just talk am na. Which one be best friend, if u come get new bae, how she go take am, knowing that your ex is your best friend.


Abeg ooooo ma hand no dey.


Probably u be Maga, n she wan friend zone u.

yes she actually told me that she need me back but I refuse because I have a girlfriend now..then she us to be best friend if we can't date

Blakjewelry:
I don't see anything wrong with it, in fact am still friends with all my ex

hahaha I don't believe that

KELVINXY:
I be like in front of my partner when she cums

buh at the back of my mind I be like , "Great work Kelvin! nice one"


I got a scratch the last time thou

KELVINXY:
I be like in front of my partner when she cums

buh at the back of my mind I be like , "Great work Kelvin! nice one"


I got a scratch the last time thou

CAN MY EX BE MY BEST FRIEND AFTER WE BREAK UP?
the girl I break up with want us to be best friends..

horror face

Road safety officer stopped me, collected bribe of N2,000 and forgot his blackberry Q10 inside my car. He has been calling and begging me to return his phone. He said he used his last cash to buy it and I also begged him then that the N2,000 was my last cash But he refused vehemently. Now, it is my turn. Readers, advice needed urgently Cos Am confused. Should I return it?

ORGASM AND REACTIONS
I asked my self several times about why i should write on this topic. I have thrown it away several times until I recently had a counselling session with a lady who wants to break up with her boyfriend because of how he behaves during sex. It was weird and she didn't understand. She said the guy's face becomes like horror.
Here are some few reactions when people reach orgasm.

1. HORROR FACE
This is common among guys. Some guys have a funny face when they reach orgasm and it's as if they are in pain and enjoying at the same time.

2. BITE BITE
Some people when they reach orgasm prefer to bite their partner before they feel okay.

3. SCRATCH and WIN PROMOTION
Some people also scratch their partner when they reach orgasm. For many people they get the scratch at the back or on the neck.

4. TEARS of JOY
This one is very romantic but can be very confusing. Some people start crying when they reach orgasm. If you know how it works then you will relax knowing youve done a good job but not when you don't know. You will start asking silly questions like...dear what did I do? I'm I too big for you? Did I make you remember something bad? Do you regret doing it with me?
It should also be known that it isn't all the tears that are for joy...Some are actually for PAIN. learn to check or ask if you are in doubt.

5. SILENT KILLER
Some people do not have any expression at all. They have the same face from start to finish. They are usually asked....are you enjoying it? Did you enjoy it?

6. VIBRATION
For some people they begin to vibrate when they reach orgasm. This is the most commonest. There are different degrees of vibration...from mild to severe. Some it occurs just at the waist, others it's at the legs and for some the whole body.

7. STRANGE NAMES or STATEMENTS
This is what some people call...speaking in tongues. Some people say things which after the sex they don't recall saying and some what they say is strange. Some mention names which has no motive but for some, further investigation will reveal that the name mentioned is the ex. Usually when the new partner does it like the ex it triggers memory and the person feels like having the sex with the ex. If this happens it means the person is not completely over the ex.

8. SUPER HUG or GRAB
During orgasm, some people give a massive hug and holds on for some few seconds or minutes before they can let go. For others, they grab whatever is within their reach but usually it's the bedsheet or the pillow.

9. PROMISES and EULOGY
Some guys after reaching orgasm begin to make all kinds of promises. Some people cannot even remember what they said after some few minutes. I was told a guy promised to buy a jet as a birthday gift and the lady told him to start with a bicycle since he is not working.
Others sing all kinds of eulogy or praise. They say all the sweet words in the world after orgasm.

10. SQUINTING
Some ladies produce a fluid from the vagina as if they are urinating when they reach orgasm. This can be embarrassing for the lady if she is having sex for the first time with the guy. Some guys who do not understand or know this think the lady urinates during sex and some break up because of that. It shouldn't be so.

NB: Just understand that people have different reactions when they reach orgasm so dont have one expectation for everybody.

Which of the categories listed above do you belong to??


For me,I belong to number 7...

If you are in a relationship and you start having the feeling that your partner may be cheating on you, is it OKAY to secretly find his/her password to the phone or laptop to investigate or monitor activities of the person?
What is your candid view on this issue?Please

Maxi112:
op! I advice u activate ya noba1 option

thinking about that already

Chanchit:


That one na small thing na. Spiritual girl no go tell you to come sleep on top bed sef.

So what are you saying?

missKiffy:
I feel you should just ignore her, some girls can be naive, a guy that doesn't take advantage of them they say he's a gay or impotent, the one that does, they claim he rapes them, just ignore her

everything is terrible

Chanchit:
Well it depends on the circumstances, if she's the spiritual type I won't try anything funny,but if I know she in btw I would just use some jokes to know if show go dey but if she lock up I would know say show no dey, but asking me to come and sleep on the bed is a kind of invitation, but I won't blame you, cos the church connection too can slow things down.
No need reporting her jare, ask for a rematch.

lol..how can you tell if she's the spiritual type?

Mjshexy:
It's obvious she wanted something because i wondered where she was going to get a train that early. NOTE: please don't insult my Nigerian girls, that lady doesn't represent all our cuties ok, meanwhile just ignore her jare the year is too earlier to start fighting sir...

thanks

rheether:
Women arent that stupid.

then you think am lying?? Some Europe girls don't hide things like that, they voice it out

bettercreature:
@OP,your story sounds like FAKE

how? Maybe you are FAKE also

It was 1:00am after cross over service in church, I called my cab man to come and pick me up from the church... This girl came to me that I should please help her to the train station so she can take a train from there to her place,I said ok and we left....


This girl is my church member also my close friend, we have known each other from nigeria.so, when we got to the train station the trains are no longer working because it's late and I can't live her there the cold weather will kill her, then I took her to my place were she can sleep and feel comfortable till daybreak before she lives...so I Asked her if she need wine,beer or soft drink, she said wine and I gave her wine, we drank together because its celebration time. After everything, she asked to take her bath and I show her the bathroom.after she was done, she decided to sleep so I took her to the bedroom, she asked were am I going to sleep I said I will sleep in the living room she said no,that we should come and sleep together on the same bed because she will not allow me to sleep in the living room why she sleep in the bedroom in my own house....don't worry yourself I will sleep in the living room beside it just for few hours, I said.

So that's how everything ends up that night oo...before she left I gave her money for transport because she's my friend and my church member from the same state also..then i took her to the bus stop and she left...


My people as am writing this now 5 of my friends just called me that this girl is broadcasting my name that am not man enough.. She said she offers herself to me and I didn't do anything...can you imagine the nonsense, I was just trying to help her as a friend .....na some Nigeria girls go ask for your help and you demand for sex she go say you bad...

Guys 3 things on my mind now
1)i want to pretend I didn't hear anything and still Bleep her

2)i want to meet her and talk sense into her or report her to my pastor

3)ignor her and never talk to again??



Please don't mind my English... Thanks

How far brother,just bring the girl to me let me test her if she have HIV... That's how tonto Dike is forcing me to have sex with her without condom but I refuse...

As we have step into this year 2016, so have you step into your greatness, 2016 shall be better than all your past years, joy, happiness, devine favour, blessings and connections shall be yours. Happy new year NL...

Eddy greet you all...

DonUjay:
I always wanted to be a Porn star But this won't be a bad idea. This might just be the way to go in 2016

you're welcome to the game

pinceprinz:
centro is another name for gigolos centre huh? Thanks for d education!

observed....

Suigeneris93:
If a girl were to open a thread like this nl guys no go gree her rest *smh

Don't take it personal

misspicy:
no mind the hypocritic boys jawe

what about your boyfriend?

dharay99:

The rate at which Mad ppl are entering Romance section is rilli alarming.

including you.... you are welcome

Decker:

Okay. I wish you success in your chosen career.

you can say what you like.....

Decker:


So, how many ladies do you have sex with per night? And do you use protection?

Do the ladies chose you or they are just offered any guy available?

What's the method of payment. Are you signed under a company or agent or you are your own agent?

1)one lady per night with protection

2)any guy available

3)my own agent