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So my friend has been toasting this babe since uni days. The babe is a cool christian and she hasnt really given in to him, my G is still in frnd zone. Fast4wd 2 2day, he wanted to whine d babe nd try his luck, so he told d babe he just came into town (uyo) from ph, where he is working meanwhile hes not working and he has been in uyo all this while, so he asked d babe if she would come to the stadium with him to watch nig vs cam match, thinkingthe girl would decline as usual, to his surprise she said yes but will come with a frnd. He was bewildered and told her he will get back to her.
Wait for it... He dosent have a dime, only wanted to try his luck and now he has gotten more than he bargained for.
All he wants now is a way out. What will he tell her to go off the hook, and still demand his respect from the babe. Matured response only abeg. Before you start saying how much is the ticket, its not the ticket price dats d problem he persuaded her to come going as far as telling her he got a customised niaja jersey which made her change her mind. Pls help a broda

Nbote:
It's either she's cheating on u or not but one thing is for sure, she's going to cheat on u if she isn't already

I realli don't care if she's cheating or has cheated...I would take her back, all I need is for her 2 love me just the way I do love her

DeGuyNxtDoor:
now that's another thing, I believe you're more involved in the relationship than she is right? Which is the reason you feel this worried...hmm.


You got to talk to her about it, let her see reasons why it isn't healthy for ur relationship, and show her more love these times. Seem like you're not doing much to show her that you care and love her more than she actually thinks...if you wanna rekindle the fire in ur relationship and make her forget this dude she's crushing on, you gotta give her you time and take her out for dinner or something, the beachside where you can confess and assure her of you undying love and mean it!


But while all these are going on, I'd advice you give it an open mind so as not to be too shocked if something goes wrong. Good luck bro.

for some reason, u seem 2 understand everthing...
ill try what you ve suggested. tnx, it means alot
I hope she stays

DeGuyNxtDoor:
I didn't read all that but yeah. Its normal to crush on someone else whiles in a relationship but then, its left for that person to kill that crushing spirit and focus on his present relationship.


Invest more time on yr girlfriend and you'd see she's more beautiful than that whom you have a crush on...

tnx bruh. buh it ain't me who's having a crush, its her

Gud day nairalanders.

I'm not one to share my problems online buh this one has been eating me up.
I met my girlfrnd about a yr ago, she was veri cool, nice and all lovey dovey, well things turned sour when we got admission, she had to study out of our state, while I remained in town. ever since she went to skool, its been one problem or the other.

I haven't been dere for her like I should buh truth is I ve been faithful to her. the long distance thinggy is realli messing things up. she sent me a breakup text, after I didn't call her for like 3days. I didn't reply I simply deleted the text. though she kept on calling after like 4days, wen I finally answered she said it was becos I don't call her, and she needed my attention??

well I decided to take her out this break and make up for everything. while we were chilling for our movie 2 start, she decided 2 ease herself, she left her fone so I decided to go through it, wasn't looking for anything in particular buh I stumbled upon a message she sent one guy and my babe was like telling this dude how much she loves him. I admit I had messed things up with her. Wats so annoying is d fact that these msgs were sent these months, the latest a day b4 our date.

wen I confronted her she said he was just a crush, and dat he has been the one pushing her through these low points. mind you d last time she told me she loved me was like 3mnths ago.

I still love her. all I want is to know is if having a crush on d opposite sex wen ur in a relationship is total OK, moreso telling them how much u love them.

the day u tell a nigerian girl I love u, baba u are a debtor!!!

some pple can't go 2 rounds , u b dere complaining of 4 rounds...smh

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Favparis:
Google comes to the mind

pls google 4 me nah...

often times people fotball fans esp anti-arsenal] provoke me with this cliche question, How many champions league do you(arsenal) have?
when they know the obvious andwer

so pls i ned a response that will shut down their mouths..esp chelsea fans

MISSNORA:
I always forget to

its such a shame, the things we should remember which are beneficial to us we forget. i pray the holy spirit remind ya..
happi sundae!!! cheers

Happi Sundae!!!!
every sundae most christians go to church either with their jotters or phones or tablets some self laptops what for? to take down important points ryt, so the question now is how often do you go through those points/nugets.
abi do you just take notes so that u aint the odd one out or becos u have an ipone or tablet.
share your thoughts...

Been around for a while and tot to share my experience...

1. Akwaibomites are very religious people they are mostly christians buh some still dey worship their gods pls dont look down n their religiousity they wont take it likely with you

2. Before you buy any meat @ a joint make sure you ask the seller what type of meat it is before you end up eating (404)dog meat or snake meat or any other make sure you ask

3. Please dont stop any girl on the road and ask her for sex, most pple think akwaibomites are sex freaks buh on the contrary they are not infact they prefer to stay virgins till they marry cos of the pride attached. So if she dashes you a slap na you sabi oh!!

4. They support the government of the day. Yes there is little room for opposition that is why there is progress in the state so join them and dont talk ill of the government..Udom is right!!!

5. Please for your own good obey the rules and regulation oh!! Their court dey walk like mad once you commit under 24hrs you are charged to court before you say jack you dey ikotekpene prison so pls be careful.

6. Akwaibomies are very industrous pple so if na thief you come do belive me they'll fish you out and pls dont make fun of their work since they are no much industries yet they are mostly self employed like tailors,hair dressers etc. They enjoy their hussle and God dey do am for them

7. Akwaibom ayaya(it is fine/clean) pls dont litter akwaibom oh!! Officers are on ground to make sure you pay for your actions

8. Please if you are loking for hussle joints random motels, prostitutes then you have come to the wrong state so bettr double back before it is to late.

9. You dont need a ride or a vrey handsome job before you are respected by babes. All you need is a modest job and be truthful the babe would love and support you. Esp if you promise her marriage buh pls dont take advantage of them

10. One thing is sure you will not get a beter meal than when in akwaibom. Good Cooks full every where the average girl cooks beter than you know and whats still their variety of dishes is still unrivaled sotey lasgidi self dey enjoy am

11. If you are in need of a serene environment then welcome to akwaibom you are in the right place a state that boast of the best of infracstruutre in the whole Nigeria

12. Investor will be raving in cash if they can invest now and tap the uderused natural resourses

13. Make sure you buy dstv or gotv if you dont want tio be left out on whats happening in nija because their entertainment sector sucks!!!

14. They are hospitable people. They welcome you and make you fell at home and before you say jack you are one of them

15. Peace loving people i never see. So pleace be calm when in akwaibom

God bless Nigeria!!
God bless Akwa-Ibom!!!

pls oh!! Im sure there are many more stuffs i forgot to put down so fell free to add yours...

experimentist:
OP explain in one sentence.. reading ain't my hobby

sumarrize your post in one sentence OTONDO!!!

So when we got to their park i saw the driver and i wondered if because of 60naira this man left his passenger well i guess he wanted to teach us a lesson
befor i could say jack i was given a hefty slap jeez i almost peed then i was given an oppoutunity to explain after i did i was told to go and withdraw the cashby this time tho my bro was sreving a job good for him he will never forgret that day and all my wristchains and neck chains were taken and my wallet. When i got back i could see that my bro has been drilleD i was told to pay the drivers his one trip money and then he said next tym just tell me you dont have money i will help you for my mind i be like for where Lagos? Anyways we were put in the van and then they threatned we were going to their station but instead they dropped us where we could easily get a bus going our direction.
since that day he's been loyal infact he knows he is not as smart or wise as he claimed to be .we couldnt even go to the centr again no strength to walk.
it was later i got to know that instead of runing like i did he stood to challlenge the driver that for common 60naira the nigga is bkabbing and while they were @ it the &35 patroll van happened to be passing before the driver motioned for their help.

Aiit my bro is the rough type that dosent listen to anyone except himself. He's is own boss. So this happened in feb this year and i tot 2 share the funny but tensed experience.

my sister sent some mney for my lil bro into my a/c as he didnt have one for jamb purpose. We were to use part of the money to check his centre befor the exam date so i gave him my atm to withdraw the cash while i had my bath so that we could go together i told him the password and specifically stated that if he tried it twice he should bring back the card. When he caame back he said my card has been seized and this was few mins to 4pm the official closing time. I hurried up so that we could trek to my bank which was about 20mins walk since there was no cash @ hand. Seeing that we might not make it he motioned we should enter a bike i asked if he had money he just smilled so i suggested we entered a bus instead we joined a bus and whilst approaching our stop he asked me to pay. Jeez is he alright was what was on my mind so i told him to stop the joke buh he said he didnt have any cash on him, seeing the seriousness on his face i devised a plan to run on reaching our stop luckily for us there was no conductor only the driver who doubled as the conductor. My bro is always claiming to be a smart sharp guy tho i didnt tell him of my plan i tot he himself had a plan so on getting to the stop i came down and ran w/o looking back straight to the bank.
while n the bank i kept wondering what was keeping my brother i had just signed the withdrawal booklet when i saw a JTF officer along with my bro trying to get into the bank gosh!! Well i was relived to know he was safe but then fear gripped me and fir once it dawned on me that i had commited a crime you can only imagine what happened next, like a secne in nollywood the soldier asked where is he and my bro pointed @ me every one looked bewildered what has this young inocent boy done well i was ushered outside and taken to their patrol van...to be contd

[quote author=tpiander post=36573858][/quote]your sorried...

gabazin080:
I guess the op is just a young boy of less than 20

iddduno what my age has go to do hwver im n final year and above 20... So what

tpiander:
do you have a job that would be the reason for you and your girlfriend wasting nairalanders' time with this type of foolish thread?

you are still collecting school fees from your parents and yet opening this kind of topic like someone who is not.

im used to being silent on issues like this buh for your sake i'll pass

if you had a job u probably wont be reading a folish post let alone finding tym t comment. Im so sorri im nt a saddist and loner like you...faggolomo

pls take your job fustration somwhere dont vent it on NL you wont like the comment you read

least i frget there is a job oppening @ joblesspple.com try and drop ur CV wjsh you goodluck

After school closed i called my mum and told her i was coming home with a female friend and she joked if she was my wife and i said i hope so... unknown To me my dad was back from his trip on getting home he asked who the girl with me was and i introduced her as my course mate whose parents lived out of town so i offered to accomodate her since the holz is only 2weeks...

tho my mom understood... She cut her visit short and left the next day saying her parents had sent for her.i didnt read any meaning into it till she refused to pick my caals for two days

now shes claiming i dont value her more than a friend based on how i addresed her to my dad since her parents and sibbling know clearly that im her boyfrnd having been introduced as such by her.

the truth is i totally value her but i cannot introduce anygirl to my dad as my girlfrnd atleast not at this stage

the relationship is on a new low eversince and everyappeal is falling on deaf ears.i told her shes the first girl ive had the guts to bring home as thats hoiw far i can go to show my commitment to d relationship buh she insists i should introduce her as my girlfriend

btw im sure my dad knows shes more than a coursemate buh i cant say it with my mouth.her family is very different from mine buh she wont hear of it.

Abeg what should i do
help a nigga!!!

Since we are incoporating evertyn from the west its no surprize infact im surprised that we still have a small sense of dignity compared to our western brothers but mind you if we are t go buy histry we will surpass our western brothers soon because not only are we good learners we usually go a step futher...so my sister diont be surprised

CountDracula:
Get a job

you too get a job.if you had one then you wuldnt have had tym t read d post ...!!.get a job and live .

@op nice one bro thumbs up

crazygod:
Dude u seem to be obsessed with this chick. All your posts are about her. U need to check urself o, this aint healthy at all

just trying to see if i can qoute
btw who is munach

[quote author=Hawlahscho post=36439607]Wristbangle

Tosyne2much







my freind get a job and stop calling girls broke...jobless dude...no offence